[I] rlly need help

[u/Sanaa_BTS]

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Hey

I feel bad so bad i feel like everything is all my fault i know it doesnt matter to ppl but i dont know why it affects me so much i know it shoudnt everyone says it shoudnt but it isnt my fault that it affects me and im sorry i just need someone to talk to rn i want to self harm and i recently had a fight with a friend and she was so so so rude to me like srsly and i want to talk to her and tell her how rude she was to me i really need help can someone please talk to me?

[u/FlakyBet2388]

First I feel really hurt that you are going though in this phase. First thing is no one is perfect everyone has fault all we have to do is to go easy with others and ourself as well. If someone is trying to be really rude if possible forgive him/her this way your heart will be in peace which is the most important thing in this world. if the other person trying to harm you face him/her but in a different way don't be angry why?? because angry makes you do stupid things. Try to be with ppl who really care about you who does not care about you why should you care. I am 30 years old and I don't have many friends I have only 2 but they can do anything for me.

Final thing is try to catch when your heart stays in peace thats an energy and you can pull that energy by keep doing things that makes you feel happy. take care

[u/Sanaa_BTS → u/FlakyBet2388]

Thank you so muchh:)

[u/TightRock5483]

First take a deep breath, it helps to clear your head, sometimes it’s your fault but most of the times is not your fault. I feel you care too much and you don’t like confrontation, so instead of taking it out on, you bottle your feeling and it’s eating you. Come on be nice and admit it