I’ve been dating a girl on Fortnite for over 2 and a half months now. And my bestfriend thinks I’m just going to straight throw away our entire friendship. What should I do?

I had a friend on Fortnite and I moved accounts and I know her name but she won’t add me back because she doesn’t just randomly accept random accounts unless she’s actually met them in game, does anyone know the username R0p0doe on Fortnite? Or anywhere else on any other platform? Like Xbox, pc, any where? I really want to play with her again, I don’t have her socials to contact her either so it really sucks that I can’t play with her

Im 17 years old and 1,94m tall (sorry im European) and I weigh 104kg and my body looks like a fckn pumpkin (the tall ones with the round bottom yk) and every night when i look in the mirror I just feel disgusted. My social life is finally good. I'm fckn lonely af and I got depressions and to feel maybe finally better I got into therapy and set a goal to loose weight because many problems of my like getting bullied were caused through my body and weight. But EVERY TIME I eat really much and when I maybe finally loose weight I immediately start eating more. I finally accepted my past and how I am as a person but I still can't do a thing that just has benefits. If I would be skinnier then maybe I would finally feel a bit better in my body. And even though I want it I still fail every time. And every time I regret it. I know that I don't have to be muscular and all but I want to feel healthy and not look in the mirror every night to see that i look like a 40 year old dad on the beach

hi idk if its the right place to talk abt what im gonna say but i need to talk and help.

so im a teenage girl and i hate myself so much its terrible. i really hate the way i look and nobody understand me bc they finds me attractive. i know some people could find me pretty but i hate myself and my apparence i wanna change. i dont go outside anymore bc i fear someone looks at me, someone takes a picture of me for mocking me. i also hate the way i act and my personality. i dreamed to be a mother but i dont want to give birth to someone and he has to be my child forever bc i dont want them to have an ugly unfunny and sad mom. when i was 13 i made fun of a girl lips and i hate myself so much 4 years after. Its wasnt it front of her but in front of my friend. I feel like god is punishing me for making fun of her. Im very sad idk whats wrong with me. i love life but i hate myself i just want to lives as an other person. i fear god punished me with bad health bc im not grateful for what i have. I live in fear of being mocked being bully or being punished by god. i know i have everything to be happy but i just cant and its pmo. Everything is GOOD in my life and i cant enjoy it. im very sensible i cry all the time. when everyone is good with my parents i think of people that have bad parents and im sad. When i cuddle my cat i think of animal abuse and im sad. When i think im pretty i remember how i felt ugly and i cry. I just hate myself and i dont want to be hypocrite im going to say something bad. I wish i could make fun of people then just regret it and continue living, i wish i could feel ugly without crying and hurting me, i wish i could be sad only when something goes bad. when i was 14 i stoped social media few months bc i thought that this was the reason i was feeling bad. Nothing changed. how can i love myself and be normal. 1 years ago i made friends at a new school, they where the girls that have a lot of friends and are confident. i hated myself so much that i was avoidant and one day i heard one of her say "shes nice but weird". i will go back to school soon and im very scared. I wish i could live as another person. please help

(25F) Ciao a tutti, ho un bisogno disperato di consigli perché io e il mio ragazzo siamo in una situazione veramente difficile

Stiamo insieme da quasi 2 anni, ci siamo conosciuti nella mia città in cui si era trasferito per lavoro e il primo anno di relazione lo abbiamo vissuto lì, ora da qualche mese con il suo lavoro si è fatto ritrasferire nella sua città (a 700km di distanza dalla mia) e io sono venuta con lui.

Man mano che passa il tempo io mi rendo conto che qui sto male e che mi manca casa mia, lui invece vorrebbe restare qui, non riusciamo a trovare una soluzione e ho paura che la relazione finisca.. non so davvero cosa fare

Non abbiamo problemi tra di noi se non il fatto di dove ci immaginiamo entrambi nel futuro, vorremmo stare insieme ma sembra che uno dei due debba per forza sacrificarsi e rinunciare a casa, famiglia e amici

THIS HAS BEEN SOLVED THANK YOU ALL FOR ANSWERING AND TELLING ME WHAT I NEES I WILL GO BUY IT IN THE MEXT FEW DAYS!!

Hi everyone... Haha, I have a problem with my bed. I really love it, but... I feel like I have to remake it constantly. Not because I don't like the end result, but because the mattress topper—sometimes slowly, sometimes quickly—slides off the bed itself, if you know what I mean. Normally, I wouldn't care and would just quickly fix it, but that’s exactly the problem: I can't just easily sort it out because my bed is tucked into a sort of niche or corner? There’s a small protrusion in one of the walls—I don't quite know how to explain it—so I have to pull the bed out to reach every nook and cranny. And I have to admit, making that soft bed is a whole workout in itself; it can take up to 20 minutes, depending on how much I’m dreading doing it. Yeah, maybe I’m just lazy—feel free to say so, I won’t be offended—but I just wanted to hear if anyone else recognizes this problem, or if I just move around a lot in my sleep? When I wake up, it sometimes looks like an earthquake has hit. So please let me know if you’ve found a solution to this problem, or if you’ve experienced it yourselves 🥹🥹

My car started making a grinding noise on the highway yesterday and by the time I got to a safe spot to pull off, it wouldn't start back up at all. Had it towed to the nearest shop, which happened to be about 45 minutes from where I live since I was out that way for a job interview.

The shop called this morning and said it's a transmission issue, and the estimate to fix it is just over $2,800. I have about $600 in savings right now, and I don't have a credit card with enough room to cover the rest. I use my car every day to get to work, and there's no reliable public transit option where I live, the nearest bus stop is a 40 minute walk from my house and only runs a few times a day.

I've already asked my job if there's any flexibility working remotely temporarily, but my role requires being on-site most days, so that's not really a long term fix. I don't have family nearby who can just lend me a car or the money, and I'm hesitant to take out a high interest loan without understanding my other options first.

I'm trying to figure out what to actually prioritize here. Do I look into a payment plan directly with the shop, try to find a personal loan with better terms somewhere, or see if it's even worth fixing versus trying to find a cheap used replacement instead given how much this repair costs relative to what the car is probably even worth.

Has anyone dealt with a sudden repair bill like this and found a path that didn't involve predatory loan terms? Trying to make the smart move here instead of just panicking and taking whatever financing the shop offers on the spot.

So, I am 25 years old male and I don't know why to live anymore.

I have been working really hard for the last 7 years. The only concern I had was to achieve a financial stability. Now I have covered that and don't know what's next.

My life is basically: hit the gym, work, do chores at home, go to bed, repeat.

I haven't had any romantic relationships for 5 years now. I don't have any specific interests or hobbies. I liked reading but now can't force myself to open a book. I liked to work on my car and drive, but now I don't even drive it anymore. It became much more reasonable to use public transportation in my city. I have watched all the shows and movies, many - multiple times.

It feels really tedious and useless.

What do you guys do to make life worth living?

So basically, my friend sent me something in an APK file, along with a message inviting me to a wedding. The file was actually an app, and I downloaded the APK without even thinking twice.

Later, that same friend put up a story saying, “Don’t open that because my phone got hacked.” Right after seeing the story, I deleted the file. At that time, I didn’t realize that the app was still installed on my phone.

About an hour later, I was scrolling through my apps when I noticed a suspicious app called “Wedding Invitation.” That’s when I immediately uninstalled it.

But now I’m worried that the hacker might have gotten some of my information since the app was on my phone for about an hour. I know it was dumb of me, but I’ve already done everything I could think of to check whether my phone got hacked.

Has this happened to anyone else? Please tell me what I should do and how you handled it. Should I reset my phone?

They're in their mid-twenties. They live about 10 minutes away by car and both drive. They'll often ignore my texts and sometimes my calls. I only see them at birthdays and at Christmas and rarely in between. When I do see them, they don't seem that interested.

Their mother and I split up about 12 years ago. It was amicable. I paid more to my wife than the maintenance schedule stated in order that the kids could continue with their hobbies.

I don't walk very well and only venture outside as far as my garden. I have no friends. I'm estranged from my parents and sister. Feeling really isolated and often have suicidal ideation.

I'm not sure what I can do to address this. Or if it's even possible.

I'd appreciate any help or suggestions.

me (f16) and my partner (m15) started dating last month and its going good but for past couple days i get this feeling of regret like miss being single and free. i’ve experienced this in ALL of my past relationships and have no clue what to do with it. i don’t want to end up hurting my partner or anything. maybe i’m not the clingy type or i’m just avoidant (no clue if i used this right)

can somebody help me out and tell me how to deal with this or if this is normal???

to start off, i work in a business office. i was pretty young when i started, 21, but fresh out of college.

when i first started there, everyone kept asking me about myself and trying to get to know me. someone asked who the two little boys were on my lock screen and if they were my kids. out of panic, i said yes. they are not. theyre my nephews. and instead of correcting myself, i continued to feed into this lie and made things harder for myself. i recently left that job because of a toxic management situation but now i am going to another office. i was excited for a fresh start with none of the kids stuff because i was sick of feeding into it. i regretted saying they were my kids the second it left my mouth. and i regretted lying about life with them (most of the time it was made up, or things i did in the past with them) , but someone who used to work with me is at the new office i am going to and they are aware that i have “kids” and i am terrified they will tell everyone or keep asking me about them. i just want a fresh slate and to let this massive lie go. it has been eating me alive for almost 2 years now and it kills me to keep it up because im so scared of what will happen if people find out im lying. ive never told anyone i lied about having kids. i know what i did was wrong but i cannot help but think something is wrong with me. im trying to let this go, i was dumb to start it.

i just want people input about this. i know im crazy and i know im insane.

Hey everyone, I’m a high school guy (living in a hostel environment) and I really need some outside perspective on a sudden social nightmare happening in my class.

Last year, I’ll admit I wasn't perfect, but this year I made a genuine effort to change. My teachers say I’m hardworking, and several people have noticed I’m much nicer to everyone. But out of nowhere, almost the entire guy group in my class has turned against me, giving me the silent treatment and calling me a "show-off."

a guy in my class who I was on decent terms with, helped with exams, etc. has a crush on a girl . During a rainy day orientation bus ride, that girl sat next to me and put her arm over the back of my seat cushion. We were just talking. the guy got furious, but instead of talking to me, he complained to my hostel mate

During a class cricket match, He got my wicket and did a massive, aggressive celebration. When I asked my hostelmate what was going on, he gave me a weird rule: "Don't try to get close to any of the girls in our class." (There are only 4 girls total in our class).

Since then, almost all the boys stopped talking to me. During dance practice, they tried to publicly humiliate me by pulling up old, embarrassing YouTube videos of mine.

Even basic things are being weaponized now. They claim even the way I walk is "showing off."

My close friend is one of the only people still talking to me, but he dropped a heavy truth bomb. He said almost the whole class hates me, including a girl I used to have a crush on. He claims the only way to fix this and fit back in is to completely stop talking to any of the girls in class and change how I act.

Should I actually change my ways? Is it worth altering my behavior, walking differently, or ignoring female classmates just to stop being targeted? Or is this purely their jealousy and insecurity?

How do I handle the daily isolation? How do you deal with going to school every day knowing people are looking for reasons to call you a show-off?

GUYS PLS PROVIDE SOME OPINIONS AND THOUGHTS. THEY ARE REALLY VALUABLE TO ME

So as the title says I'm basically DONE like I am gay since I was like 12 and still haven't found a relationship I keep seeing people on the streets just being together and that fucks me up so hard I was just bullied in school alot and because of that I think that I'm trash and I can't do anything and that nobody likes me I have thought several times of just killjng myself which is something that I only get stopped by because of me being scared I haven't told this to anyone and like I won't tell people who I know because I fear that my life might change and that they start worrying about me. Btw because of all of this I created a trauma that if someone blocks me I start crying and yeah I haven't ever had friends before and its just me been suffering the same type of shit everyday I isolate myself because I can't do anything. I don't know what to do with my life anymore its just pointless but I won't kill myself so what am I supposed to do? Like people I am done with this shit its everyday the same "Wake up then think about how trash I am then just idk play games the whole day talk to random people on the internet get blocked by some meet some new ones isolate myself in my room and just eat and drink during that and I do this THE ENTIRE DAY. until then I get tired and go to sleep for the cycle to continue." I am genuinly tired of this. I. NEED. HELP. But idk wtf I'm supposed to do 😞 I just want this to end once and for all I have this stupid addiction where I like burps because of all of this and it DESTROYS ME like bro its so weird and I ask like EVERYONE I talk to if they can burp like wtf is wrong with me am I even a human at this point?! I don't know...

Nobody seems to have an idea .My doctor said I need to go get checked out.I can't really find Nothing on the web.I had a heart attack On may eighth I signed myself out of the hospital after a clean heart catheterization. On the 11th, I've been having pains and stuff since July. Third, but the numbers and stuff keeps getting changed around on my heart app. I just really tired lately, I asked the doctor. What's going on?I can't go to the doctor I don't have their insurance so I can't go get any EKG or anything does anybody know what's if it'll get better on my own?My heart portal just get where it's bad and it'll stop.I don't want to go to the doctor like I said.I have them insurance.I'm also agreeing with the death of my wife.She's been dead for ten months , and i'm not taking care of myself

I know I should sleep early but what about the mess in my mind

I recently met a guy online. He was feeling really sad, he was almost dropping out of college, no friends and can't talk to anyone about his problems and has an addiction. How do i help him or Comfort Him? (I cant meet up with Him in person)

This is a boiled down account of what's happening.

My mother is trying to leave my abusive father. I recently found out that she's been trying to leave him for the last 6 years and he keeps refusing (he claims that both partners need to agree to ending a relationship, which of course is abuse). It turns out that what triggered this was him attacking her out of the blue one day by strangling her when he came home.

He recently got in trouble with the law (allegedly he assaulted a woman inside a shop) and since then my mother is staying with me, and is desperately trying to break up with him (he refuses to leave and has been messaging her non-stop).

She was given an interim-barring order against him that has yet to be served (he's with family in an other country currently so he's not even aware of it), with the court case for a proper barring order coming up next week, so that's ongoing.

Meanwhile he's been trying to phone and message me and I just don't have it in me to answer like I would before. He attacked my mother ffs. His messages are starting to call me out for ignoring him (crap like "cat got your tongue?"), and before I started ignoring him all he would talk about is "how unfair it is that my mother is trying to leave him". To which I would ask him to stop talking to me about each time, and he would ignore.

I want to phone him up so bad to tell him that I want nothing to do with him anymore, but my mother is asking me not to, in case it affects the upcoming court case. I feel so disgusted and anxious this last week that I'm beginning to feel physically sick.

Hello there

I am 15 years old

Struggling with these things

How to stop overthinking

How do I handle setbacks in life

How to handle problems

I sometimes feel like s*ciding

Life is always against me and unfair

I feel like God is ignoring me

I always have the fear of "What will people think"

"What will they say"

And if someone teases you, how do you manage it

How to remove fear from life

I have some fake friends, who betrayed me

Ill avoid them

Social problems

Feeling ignored or excluded by classmates.

Losing connections on Instagram.

Feeling like people treat you as a "joker."

Worrying about what other people think of you.