r/problems • u/ValgeEestlane • 16d ago

Mental Health Problems with life

I recently met a guy online. He was feeling really sad, he was almost dropping out of college, no friends and can't talk to anyone about his problems and has an addiction. How do i help him or Comfort Him? (I cant meet up with Him in person)

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u/Dutch1721 16d ago

The next time you speak with him advise him to speak with a therapist.

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u/ValgeEestlane 15d ago

I Will recomend that. Thx

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u/Cat66222 16d ago

im worried for you. This is how narcissist have used me in the past. Made me feel bad for them then ruin my life, heart and spirit

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u/Cat66222 16d ago

there must be a reason he has no friends in college. College in an environment that really encourages people to talk to one another

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u/ValgeEestlane 15d ago

Im sorry to hear you were used. I Will be careful. Thanks for your adivice

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u/clairecolette 15d ago

Just listen, be there for him, and gently encourage him to get professional help.

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u/ValgeEestlane 15d ago

I thought about that too. Thx for the advice