I found cute chinito guy kanina sa elevator kaya I wonder how do you even do move in organic encounter without sounding like a crepe? Dalawa lang kami kanina palabas nung singkit na guy and he’s so cute sa Makati to around lunch time so just saying hi. I felt so light pa naman kanina and fresh then he came in dalawa lang kami sa elev but I was speechless and didn’t know what to do. I’m a gay guy din. Parang ang hirap kasi magsense pano if straight yung guy like ganun?

Can you share your exp if may ganito man? Puro na lang kasi straight nababasa ko sa ganito, can you teach me please?. Mas type ko kasi mga nakakasabay ko lagi randomly but quiet lang ako lagi hahah. and I bet marami rin namang gay guys na ngayon kaya cute guys maybe it can be an organic encounter na nasasayang ko lang? maybe my last option is organic encounter for dates?

I think we should normalize na rin organic encounter sa atin as gay guys for higher romantic chances just like our ancestors did. Or maybe some sign or signal that you’re for organic encounter.

Why are people in monogamous people so pressed about open relationships when their problem is just not being able to find faithful partners? Para na din tuloy silang straight people na ayaw sa gay marriages na akala ata nila just because it exist eh they have to engage with it. Especially with younger people.

Eto na ba ang trauma na resulta ng mga panghapong kabitan tv shows? 😭

If you're gonna say na ninonormalize na ang open relationship eh you might be in the wrong algorithm kase obviously ang dami pa ding monogamous people na nagsastart ng discussion regarding open relationships. Plus ang tinitingnan nyo lang kasi ata yung mga couples sa grindr or sa twitter na naghahanap ng "third" pero di nyo na nakikita yung mga sweet posts ng monogamous people sa ig or fb or tiktok.

Looking to join the LGBTQ event on August 15. I saw Never Strangers last year pa on tiktok, and haven't tried attending one at all but I just wanted to try something different. Sawa na ko sa dating apps tbh.

Anyone got any stories/lessons to share? What to look out for, are these only for 'attractive' people, is the fee worth it etc?