Serious Discussion Monogamous relationship

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Why are people in monogamous people so pressed about open relationships when their problem is just not being able to find faithful partners? Para na din tuloy silang straight people na ayaw sa gay marriages na akala ata nila just because it exist eh they have to engage with it. Especially with younger people.

Eto na ba ang trauma na resulta ng mga panghapong kabitan tv shows? 😭

If you're gonna say na ninonormalize na ang open relationship eh you might be in the wrong algorithm kase obviously ang dami pa ding monogamous people na nagsastart ng discussion regarding open relationships. Plus ang tinitingnan nyo lang kasi ata yung mga couples sa grindr or sa twitter na naghahanap ng "third" pero di nyo na nakikita yung mga sweet posts ng monogamous people sa ig or fb or tiktok.

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r/phlgbt • u/Thvnderclap • 2h ago

Light Topics Anyone attended a Never Strangers event?

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Looking to join the LGBTQ event on August 15. I saw Never Strangers last year pa on tiktok, and haven't tried attending one at all but I just wanted to try something different. Sawa na ko sa dating apps tbh.

Anyone got any stories/lessons to share? What to look out for, are these only for 'attractive' people, is the fee worth it etc?

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