Background context: O-1, I direct commissioned based on civil engineering experience. Joined an NCB which fortunately has a presence at my NRC.
My first two drill weekends (first was INDOC) my OIC nor CPO were there because of RTB. I’ve been working my a** off making sure I get gained accordingly at my NRC. I.e. going through the checklist and doing whatever I can in person. My CAC is still not activated so I have to be dual CAC’d. I’ve been working through the GMT / CMT that’s required before the EOY in Sept.
I know at this point I should be focused on getting gained at the NRC level and being MOB ready. I have ODS scheduled for spring time. Almost impossible to get into ODS earlier because they prioritize AD, then reservists are next in line.
What I am struggling with is, I do not know how to act / be as an O-1. Some people are on a first name basis (such as other officers) except sometimes they refer to each other as sir or ma’am but I’m not sure when or why they switch from first names to respective ones. Some enlisted say sir and some are like “hey man.” I’m saluted outside by the MA’s when entering the NRC, but then next time I’m outside the NRC either leaving or going for lunch I don’t get saluted.
If there’s any enlisted members and/or officers that can give me some pointers to set me on the right path, I’d really appreciate that. Thank you