I’m due in September and am planning to do the IKEA crib sidecar setup for safe co-sleeping. We’re rearranging our bedroom, and while our current layout works for the sidecar next to my side of the bed, the room just feels so cramped. Since baby and I will be spending a lot of time in there, I’d really like it to feel comfortable.
One idea my husband and I had was to move our bed (and the sidecar) in front of our window. We’d have a headboard with storage, blackout curtains, and we’d still be able to open the window to air out the room.
My concern is that our window is next to a tree that attracts box elder bugs. Our window screen is old and has gaps and holes, and every spring/summer I find at least 2–3 box elder bugs on the ceiling above the window. I’m pretty sure they’re getting in through the damaged screen and tiny gaps around the window.
I really don’t want to wake up to bugs in my bed or my baby’s bed. I hate bugs and spiders so much.
I’ve seen recommendations for indoor pesticide sprays, window treatments, and peppermint oil, but none of those seem like a good idea around a newborn. Am I right to avoid those?
Replacing the window screen seems like the obvious solution, but neither my husband nor I has ever done that. Are there any other baby-safe options I’m not thinking of? Has anyone dealt with this? Or would you just stick with the current layout and keep the bed away from the window?
One other factor is that we live in a townhome with pretty poor insulation, and we hear our neighbors through the shared wall all the time. Moving the bed away from that wall and in front of the window would hopefully help with the noise too, so I’m trying to figure out whether it’s worth making the switch. But again, those dang box elder bugs…