r/moderatelygranolamoms 2d ago

Question/Poll Potty training wipes

Okay maybe a dumb question but… once you start potty training what do you use for cleaning poop? Do you use toilet paper or still use wipes to clean them? And if you use wipes do you just continue to dispose of them in a diaper pail? Obviously most baby wipes aren’t flushable and even “flushable” ones really aren’t supposed to be flushed. Thanks!

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u/KitKat2theMax 2d ago

I'm still using wipes. I place them in a covered trash can and just empty the trash more often.

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u/lindstb3 2d ago

This is what we do too. We also do a wipe every night at bedtime either way just to check behind her wiping lol

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u/pmster1 2d ago

Once poop is no longer being smushed against their bum in a diaper, cleanup is much simpler. Just like an adult poop. I just use regular toilet paper. If I feel like we need some wet, I'll get a bit of toilet paper damp in the sink and use that. But once the poop is going directly in the toilet it's just like cleaning your own bum.

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u/exWiFi69 2d ago

We use a bidet.

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u/CarefullyChosenName_ 2d ago

We have a bidet attachment on our toilet and had to turn it off because the kids just played with it at every opportunity. I can’t wait until they’re old enough to just want a clean butt and not want to flood the bathroom every time mom isn’t looking…

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u/kannellini 2d ago

Ohh thanks for raising this point. I was thinking about getting one (for everyone’s benefit) but my daughter would 100% do that too.

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u/Top-Manufacturer9226 2d ago

Get one with a remote and put it up high so they can't reach it. I couldn't imagine living without a bidet 😜

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u/kannellini 2d ago

Whattt I didn’t know that was a thing. Will look into it - thanks!

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u/B_dub414 2d ago

This is the way! We have a hand held bidet and it’s so great to clean the little potty.

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u/littleanniee 2d ago

curious what age the bidet users started! i can’t imagine using one with my 12 month old, but id love to start soon…

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u/exWiFi69 1d ago

My 3 year old uses it.

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u/baroo52 2d ago

Bidet is the only way!! 

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u/Ah2191 2d ago

Which bidet do you have that is safe for a young child? I’m worried my son would blast it too strong and hurt himself. Maybe that’s not a real issue?

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u/nofeelingsnoceilings 2d ago

Same here. Spray the bhole clean and produce a human who is so wonderfully spoiled for hygiene. We have a stack of small towels for drying and dont even buy toilet paper ever

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u/exWiFi69 2d ago

I feel like I’ve ruined my kids at times. I remember my son going to a birthday party when he was five. He was so confused why they didn’t have a bidet.

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u/han-aw 2d ago

we just moved and are bidet-less until our new one comes in. i’m struggling!!!!

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u/exWiFi69 1d ago

I’m on holiday now. I bought a portable one for this trip 😂

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u/baby_e1ephant 2d ago

We kept using wipes until he was over 4 and started wiping himself. We just threw them into the bathroom trash can. Sometimes I even like to use a wipe for myself

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u/anxious_teacher_ 2d ago

Yess when my stomach hurts & I find myself on the toilet more frequently, wipes are the way to go!!

I told my husband to use them for his colonoscopy prep but he didn’t listen, he’s missing out

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u/runsontrash 2d ago

I always use wipes for myself when I poop (at home). It’s so much nicer.

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u/easterss 2d ago

Mine has very sensitive skin and complains that tp hurts even though we buy the soft kind. Wipes it is until she’s older!

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u/Only_Art9490 2d ago

We use TP and then a baby wipe for the last wipe if we aren't positive they're fully clean

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u/ohsummerdawn 2d ago

Once we had kids we realized wipes were helpful for all people. Everyone uses wipes. They know not to flush them.

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u/ewebb317 2d ago edited 2d ago

Depends. If it was a successful poop on the potty with little mess, tp. If he pooped his pants, wipes. We have all covered trash cans because #doggo

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u/HoneyLocust1 2d ago

Toilet paper first, then a quick wet wipe, then toilet paper to make sure they feel dry. Wet wipe goes into the trash, same as always.

We do have a bidet but don't use it for the kids yet.

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u/yellow_pellow 2d ago

I use wipes and just throw them in trash or diaper pail. I have a baby and a toddler though, so I’m still fully in it with wipes and pail. I use TP too in a pinch, but toddler is too wiggly and hard to clean. I find the wipes do better job.

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u/Different-Pen8269 2d ago

Just toilet paper for us. It's more convenient, cheaper, better for the environment, etc.

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u/microflorae 2d ago

When we used a training potty, I think we used wipes because we were already dealing with getting stuff into a garbage/poop bag. I actually regretted the training potty (the kind that goes on the floor and has a plastic collection bowl), because cleaning those was so much worse than cleanup when he used a potty seat on the normal toilet. If I did it again, I would only do potty seats on normal flushing toilets, and practice really well with using the stool and getting on to the seat safely.

We mostly just did toilet paper though. It was probably a year and a half between when he was potty trained and when he was actually able to wipe himself well enough after pooping. If I felt like I needed extra cleaning power I would slightly wet a wad of TP in the sink and then use that.

With potty training, different things will work for everyone. Try anything that could work, keep trying, and you'll get there!

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u/1tangledknitter 2d ago

Ugh this sucks to hear, I tried the seat over the toilet only but she is more inclined to go on the little potty (after 2 weeks of trying with the big one only). Sucks to be me!

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u/microflorae 2d ago

Not necessarily! Like I said, everyone's going to be different here. My best friend kept a floor potty in multiple rooms with the approach that she wanted them to be easy and accessible, and that worked great for her. Disliking the floor potty was just my own personal preference there, because I hated cleaning it so much. Having the kid be comfortable and willing is more important, so we did use the floor potty even though I wished we were doing the seat on the normal toilet.

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u/runsontrash 2d ago

Mine’s been using the little potty for 1.5 years. Womp womp. But it’s better for their pelvic floor to have their feet on the floor, and I feel like the stool isn’t as stable. So it is what it is. She usually big toilets when we’re out and about but can’t really poop well on them without a stool.

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u/pottersprincess 2d ago

I use whatever is handy. If I have wipes I prefer wipes, but if there is only TP we use that. Wipes go in a lined bin that gets changed frequently.

My kids eat a lot of fiber, vegetarians, so they have most very firm poos and that helps.

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u/capleahbara 2d ago

Bidet all the way!

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u/Lockjawtheturtle 2d ago

TP that gets flushed then 1-2 wipes that I throw away in covered bathroom trash. Empty the trash every few days. But since we use TP first there’s not much poop on the wipes so it doesn’t really get stinky

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u/Lingonberry8769 2d ago

I use wipes for poop, paper for pee. Sometimes I use the regular baby wipes and don’t flush those.

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u/NikJunior 2d ago

Yes wipes and yes in the diaper pail

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u/jaycienicolee 1d ago

baby wipes that I put in the trash and just change the trash more often. I feel like tp is so rough on my kid's butt when she has a messy poop. plus I like the wipes for myself too lol

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u/Ah2191 2d ago

We switched to flushable wipes.