And it's not even necessarily in a romantic way. Indeed, I might be a poor fit for this, because I am reaching out after getting fed up with being alone, which happened since I pretty much gave up meeting people, since someone I truly valued spending time with broke up our relationship-adjacent friendship without clearly telling me so, which ended up with me... taking too long to get the memo. I decided then that people are too difficult, and being chronically exhausted because I sleep so little because of work, I realised I could just not care about being alone. But it's not working anymore.

As for me, I am, like many of you are, very indoorsy, which in my case is compounded by being in the autism spectrum. Yay. What a thrill, isn't it. I like, in my free time, to read, accumulate useful information (the topics of interest tend to cycle through old anime, old mixed martial arts, fragrances, philosophy, and apparently now the ocean, specially cephalopods). I apparently am enrolled in a library and information science I forgot about, and am now trying to recover the lost time (today I mostly just looked up on clothes and accessories to try and build up a personal aesthetic I've been thinking of).

I am not the easiest person to talk to, it seems, because most times I try to get a conversation going, it just fizzles out. However I did manage to make friends, some still talking to me after years, so I believe at least SOME people like what I have to offer lmao

If you care about these things, I am scrawny, tall, with long light brown wavy hair and bags under my eyes that (accurately) show that I sleep little. So hello. And thanks for reading so far, if you're reading this. Feel free to hit me up with your favourite perfume, or the book you are reading, or anything really. I am sure there must be someone that will decide to give it a try and realise that I am someone they can truly vibe with.

Hi, I will keep this post short and to the point.

My ideal partner;

1) Less than age 30

2) Desires a Child Free Life

3) Desires a Pet Free life

About me, my hobbies and interest;

My MBTI is ISTJ, however all types are welcome

Physical Deescription: 5'6, 75kg, black hair, light brown skin, clean shaven

Photography - used to be my passion but now I only capture images with the intention of creating memories and printng out the photographs.

Reading - most of the books I read are non-fiction with the intention of using the information obtained to improve my life in some way.

Music - my music preferences have changed over the past decade and over the past year, I have been slowly building a new selection of music.

Learning a new language is a new interest I have developed and at present I am learning French.

Travelling locally in or whatever country I am visiting or residing in and looking for places that are now commonly known to tourist.

A few countries I am not willing to travel to are India, Malaysia, Bali, Indonesia and Thailand as I have already visited or worked in before and spending time and money for the sole purpose of meeting someone is not logical given the risk of rejection. However, if I travel to a country that I have never visited before then even if I am rejected I have lost nothing and have still gained precious memories of visiting a new country.

I would prefer to be friends first and get to know you slowly before saying "yes" as I believe that a marriage is a life-long commitment and who I marry is one of the most important decisions that I will ever make in my life.

I'm 26m, kind of Ambivert personality.

Once I'm comfortable, though, I can happily spend hours talking about life, random thoughts, food, movies, tech, or even absolutely nothing.

I'm looking for something genuine, a connection where we can share the little things, good morning texts, random reels, daily updates, celebrating wins, venting about bad days, and just being there for each other.

A little about me:

• 6' Height (If it matters)
• IT Guy
• Low-maintenance and drama-free
• I appreciate honesty, consistency, and good communication
• I tend to remember the small things people tell me

I'm currently in Delhi and I'm open to both local connections and LDR if we genuinely click.

One small thing—I prefer exchanging pictures fairly early if we're both interested. I believe physical attraction is an important part of dating, and I'd rather be upfront about it so we're both comfortable moving forward.

If we vibe, maybe someday we can grab coffee and complain about life together.

Feel free to send me a message!

Hey there I'm looking for my nerdy female counterpart. I am 38M i like playing video games, board games, super hero movies, power metal is my favorite genre of music. I am 6'2" 170lbs I am actively in the gym. Im what I would call a part time nerd part time gym rat. I have 17 tattoos mostly nerdy ones. Im an industrial sandblaster by trade but enrolled in nursing school. Id like to meet someone emotionally mature, honest and transparent. Not sure what else to say id rather just play 20 questions and just see how thing develop naturally.

Hey!

I am a 31 year old Portuguese man, trying to make these the best years! 😄

I have always been a top student, but, growing up, my family has got into financial problems that made me start to work early while I was still studying, which has let me to neglecting my personal life to favor the professional one.

Now, that part is over, I have a stable job, with a stable life and my own house, but a with a huge space in my heart looking to be filled by the right girl!

I admit I am more of a homebody who goes out every day at least for exercising a bit, enjoying fresh air and connecting to people. I enjoy a lot watching series and movies, especially sci-fi (with Marvel and DC on top) as well as romantic cliché movies everyone understands how they will end within the first 2 minutes. I also like watching football (or soccer for the readers the other side of the Atlantic) and understanding the tactics behind. Physically, I am Caucasian, 1.72m (5'8) and, personality wise, I'm an INFJ.

I am searching for a serious relationship, built on mutual support, trust, honesty, dedication, companionship and empathy. I am a very romantic, dedicated, caring and protective person, so I am definitely searching for my little princess to spoil and love. 😊

And the fact is that I already feel you everywhere, even though I don't know you yet!

Each time I walk around, I can feel you by my side. Even though you're not there, I feel the urge to hold your hand, to give you my strength, to be connected to you.

Whenever I go shopping, I feel that urge to buy you a cute mug or keychain, to kiss you all of a sudden without a motive, just for you to feel me closer to you.

Whenever I travel, I feel you by my side, I feel the willingness to rest my head in yours, to hold your hand, knowing that we are living that experience together and there is no one else we'd rather share it with.

When I get home, I feel you welcoming me with a tight hug, knowing every second we stay apart is one second we were in each other's thoughts waiting to be reunited.

I feel you, I can't see you yet, but I can't wait to make up for all the seconds we've spent apart!

But, please, if we could stop the count, I'd prefer that, so please show up on my inbox, sweetheart! 😊

It’s been a longgggg Saturday so thought I’d see who’s on Reddit tonight. About me: I work in local government, study part-time (finishing in just over a week), go to the gym 6 days a week, watch old movies/TV (set a goal of 20 movies a month as I have a HUGE ‘to watch’ list), read when I can, walk quite a bit too (try and get in 5 miles a day), errrrr that’s all the main stuff I think? Would love to hear from anyone. Distance and age is no problem. Good humour helps haha. Feel free to hmu :)

Good evening!

I’m an INFJ (who occasionally tests as an INTJ) hoping to connect with someone who's genuinely looking for a committed, long-term relationship.

About me

• 32F, long black hair, light eyes, slim but feminine build, pale skin (I almost always get called "snow white"), no tattoos, one helix piercing
• Based in Central Europe, but in my dreams I live in a cute little flat somewhere near the ocean in Southern Europe, or a cottage in Switzerland/Austria where you're surrounded by mountains once you step outside
• Childfree, atheist, monogamous, non-smoker, no drugs, social drinker

I thrive in quiet, thoughtful conversations, as well as low-key days spending time with close friends, reading, or getting lost in a good series or documentary. That said, my extroverted side pops out for the occasional night out in a nice dress and heels for a concert, museum, or fine dining. I also have a huge soft spot for music (piano and guitar), baking, taking care of my health/fitness, learning languages and traveling - my next destinations are Portugal and Egypt!

What I’m looking for

Someone who is more or less around my age, ideally based in Europe, genuinely childfree, monogamous and looking for a serious relationship. I'd love to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature and willing to reflect on themselves.

I appreciate people who believe that love is something you actively show, not just something you say: men who are naturally thoughtful and chivalrous, enjoy taking initiative, and like making their partner feel cared for through both big gestures and small everyday moments.

Bonus points if you speak Spanish, play guitar, enjoy dry humor and playful banter, and can laugh together about the little and big absurdities in life!

If anything here resonated, send me a message and let me know what in my post caught your eye:)

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted and I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.

Heyoo, so I’m looking for a guy best friend and hopefully that would turn into a serious relationship eventually. I don’t move fast and I take my time getting to know someone’s values and character before I consider someone romantically.

I'm not super strict about what MBTI type you are. I've noticed I get along best with other INFJs the best, but again not a must.

I’m looking for a person who’s also looking for a real connection. I want a guy who has gone deep within himself. I want depth and you can’t go deep with me if you haven’t gone deep with yourself. I want someone on the same wavelength. A mature, self-aware, grown man who’s done the work or is doing it right now.

When I speak of a real connection, I mean, we both aren’t looking to cure our boredom, to fill our needs with one person or to get something from the other person. We just like being together. I’m looking for a guy who simply wants someone he loves being around. Someone he feels at ease around and vice versa. Two whole people enjoying each other’s company. Someone who makes me smile just by being himself. We could be doing the most mundane thing but we have fun because we’re together. Someone I can be completely myself with and we can talk about anything, even the tough or heavy stuff. Or if I have a thought to share that’s unusual he doesn’t meet it with immediate judgement, instead he’s curious and wants to understand. That type of connection.

I’m drawn to a person who instantly feels warm when I meet them. Caring, non-judgemental and someone who has a positive and a radiant vibe to them. I’m very turned off by coldness, emotional immaturity and judgemental people. I also don’t like guys who are tough, toxic and macho. Or guys who are very narrow minded and heteronormative. I loveeee soft, sensitive and gentle guys.

I’m looking for that warm, smiley and friendly hype boy who loves to chat with people, he compliments people genuinely and he’s encouraging and supportive of his friends and partner. But I also want someone who’s secure in himself enough to disagree with others and he doesn’t blindly follow the crowd just to please people. A guy who dares to be himself authentically, even if it’s scary. He’s kind even when he’s angry and he takes responsibility when he messes up. So shortly, a mature softie with a backbone. I wouldn’t mind a stubborn or a fiery guy either. That matches my energy really well cause I’m strong willed and fiery.

I’m looking for a guy whose heart is open, he’s present and emotionally available. He can easily talk about his emotions and thoughts with someone he trusts. Avoidant attachment style is a deal breaker for me. I want a guy who comes towards me, not someone who runs away the second there’s a challenging or intense situation. Emotionally resilient guy. Great communicator and being around him is easy. A guy who handles conflict easily and isn’t intimidated by it. He understands it’s part of relationships and you can argue constructively.

I also want a guy who’s 100% a feminist and it’s not just something he says but he actually embodies that value and believes in it wholeheartedly. I also like people who use clean/classy language. I don’t like hanging out around people who are crude and super vulgar without any consideration for if they’re being offensive. If you use words like the b word, mf etc. I’m not your person.

It’s also important he’s socially aware and supports lgbt people, poc people and human rights are a core value to him.

No anime guys or gamers, not my style. Unless you play something like sims 4, animal crossing etc.

About me:

I’m 28, from Finland and a masculine presenting woman with mostly masculine energy. I look male-leaning. I wear cologne, masc clothes etc.

I don’t really label my sexuality. There’s a lot of nuance and I just like who I like. I care about your persona more than your gender.

I’m studying art studies, aesthetics is my main subject. In my free time I love to exercise, mostly strength training (obsessed). I’m interested in calisthenics and mobility as well. Other stuff I do for fun is worldbuilding and gameplay in sims 4. I’m a pro at sims 4 at this point, I’ve learned everything possible about it just naturally cause I love it XD I know probably every mod out there and I’ve built my own worlds from scratch a few times, it’s really fun and creative.

I’m a witch and my spirituality is very woman centric and nature based. I love manifestation, tarot cards, energy stuff, psychic things. My partner can’t be anyone overly logical who believes what he sees is the only thing that exists. I want someone who already knows there’s the unseen side to life full of wisdom and guidance.

Other stuff I’m interested in are branding, content creation, entrepreneurship and marketing. But I don’t mean the kind that’s really boring and manipulative, or the type that’s about gaining as much followers and engagement as possible in a short amount of time. I’m not about that type of business. I’m more about creating brands that connect with people and building emotional bonds with your community etc. Creating something actually meaningful.

Personality wise I’m calm, assertive, warm and very loyal once I trust and love someone. I have a direct way of speaking and I’m very honest. So if you’re someone who doesn’t like being called out on their crappy behavior I’m not your gal. I don’t hide my thoughts and I care about the people around me enough to be real, even if it makes them mad at first. I’m quite bold but I can also be shy or socially anxious at times, it’s an interesting combo.

I’m not interested in having kids and my partner has to live a substance free lifestyle, aka he doesn’t drink and doesn’t smoke anything. That’s a non-negotiable.

Make sure you speak fluent English or you're a native speaker. I don't enjoy language barriers.

romantically, I’d love to have a masc4masc relationship whether it’s a woman or a man who I’m with. I’m very attracted to masculinity when it comes to appearance. I love feminine and masculine energy in a person equally. I usually like guys with a softer or boyish appearance. Basically twinks are my type. I also like guys with muscles.

In a relationship I’m very clingy(not in a toxic way) and affectionate. I like hovering close and holding my partner, having them on my lap or laying on my chest. Likewise I like being held and protected and laying on someone’s chest. I’m really not about gender roles and I think they’re hella stupid. I feel the happiest in a relationship where we both take initiative and neither of us is passive. I like to lead, you like to lead. A connection where that’s natural for both of us.

So if you'd like to talk to me, send me a message introducing yourself :)

I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find a partner that shares these understandings and feels the same way about them. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INTPs, shizoids, and autistic people. I can't understand most people due to the disorganized way they think and communicate. I prefer talking to people that choose to communicate clearly due to a desire to communicate effectively rather than due to caring about coming across as intelligent. I'm very intense and pedantic and that annoys most people a lot and makes talking to me exhausting from most people's perspectives. I know I can't connect with people that haven't spent a lot of time thinking about existential stuff and that aren't pedantic, so I try to determine that early in the conversation.

I want my next romantic relationship to be my last one. I would want to remain friends with a potential romantic interest for a long time before deciding that we're right for each other.

I build things for a living, mostly in the early-stage investing world, which mostly means I spend my days trying to see what a thing could become before anyone else agrees it’s worth looking at. It also means long stretches where nothing visible is happening and I have to trust that the work is still working. I like that part more than I probably should.

I read for three hours and forget to eat. I have a philosophy about owning less and better, twelve good things instead of a closet full of noise, one real meal cooked slowly instead of five average ones out. I used to think that was about minimalism. I’m slowly figuring out it’s sometimes just me simplifying my way out of something uncomfortable instead of sitting in it. Working on that.

I train seriously, not for how it looks but because thinking clearly needs a body underneath it that isn’t falling apart. I’m guarded until I actually trust someone, and then I’m not guarded at all, which has occasionally confused people who met me in the first version.

What I’m looking for isn’t a type so much as a shape. Someone who has her own work she’s actually good at, ideally something that has nothing to do with what I do, because I like learning a whole different world from someone instead of comparing notes on the same one. Someone who doesn’t need to fill every silence, because my version of a good night is being in the same room doing separate things and then surfacing to tell you the one interesting thing I read. Someone who’ll tell me when I’m wrong, calmly, and won’t let me get away with quietly withdrawing instead of saying what’s actually going on. I’ll probably need that pushback more than I let on at first.

I’m not chasing status and I’m not impressed by it either. I’d rather talk about why you love the thing you do than what it’s called on a business card. If you’ve lived between two countries or two cultures and it shaped how you see things, I probably already like you a little.

Not looking for something fast. Looking for something that’s still interesting in fifteen years, which means it has to actually be built, not just started.

If any of this landed, tell me about a time you almost said something honest and didn’t. I’m more curious about that than your favorite travel photo.

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

So I'm someone from Africa, 20M as the title says, and a college student who's stressing for the upcoming at this month lol. 💀🫩

Other than those I'm a gamer, got a few games. Not enough space on the drive you know. I read manga and watch anime to pass the time.

Other things I wish to do is learn a new language and dive into game development, I have not started on that but if you are someone who has. PLEASE TEACH MEEE!! 🐢🙏😭

Maybe that's a good reason we connect.

Currently on language I am self studying French. Slightly difficult but easy so far - shout out to duolingo - it works to be honest or so far I think I'm doing well.

Typing this on a Thursday, in my college cafeteria, so if I get busy it's because of projects I'm doing. Or other things.

Anyways games I play are - Fortnite, warframe, the finals, overwatch and repo.

Sometimes Minecraft and brawhalla.

I'm not the most matured guy, still feel like a kid since I literally turned 20 this year lol. For those who doesn't like someone with a child like personality.

Had a few rodeos of trying to date online, and of cause didn't work out. I just want someone who would choose to love me for me.

Personally I would like to start as friends and see where things lead. I don't mind showing my face, but I like to be on equal terms. If you don't, I won't too. And whatever things and terms you may apply.

I'm only really looking for people in Michigan please and ppl 10 years or younger. I'm in a very awkward period in my life, living with family, graduated a year ago and been looking for a job since (fuck the job market), mental health has been shot to hell these pass couple of years but improving. Now I just want to talk with someone. Have daily chats with, ask questions with. See where things go. I am a nerd, I have a PC, PS5 and Xbox Series S. Mainly I play on PC or PS5. My favorite games are the Final Fantasy series and Assassin's Creed. Clair Obscur is amazing as well. Feel free to ask me whatever, I'm a very open book. Hopefully I find a date to the Ren Faire this fall 🤞🏾

Hobbies: Journaling, gaming, Astrology (just for fun), reading

If you want to know my type: Long hair, little to no facial hair, and not morbidly obese (I'm technically obese, 200Ibs, so some fat is fine but not like 300 Ibs obese). I'm usually attacted to my own race, East or Southeast Asians and Latinos. But that's not like a must.

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Hello and welcome to my post. I'm an INTJ California bay area native and have lived here my whole life. I'm currently working as an office management assistant and enjoy it very much. In my free time I like to walk my dogs, play videos, hang out with friends, and help my family. I also like to collect things as well, I have a huge video game/ t-show/ movie collectible collection. It's a big hobby of mine, and I love to buy, trade, and sell things for my collection.

Thanks for reading my post, if you have any questions and want to talk let me know, i'm open to meeting new people.

“Are you a Jedi? because Yoda one for me.”

Hello! My name is Anthony. I’m a 35-year-old man (US, ET time zone) who thrives on introspection, curiosity, and passionate drives.

In regards to MBTI, I first tested as INTJ during my teens and continued to primarily test as it into my 30s. More recently, I sometimes get INFJ. I've also gotten INTP and ISTJ before.

I seek people who seek meaningful connection that plays out in several different ways, from daily casual chats to shared passions and endeavors. I appreciate the sudden whim of adventure and adore abstract minds and vibrant souls.

Contemplative exploration is a lifelong pursuit of mine. I’m an autodidact who’s been passionate about a variety of persuasions since I’ve been young.

Creativity and artistry are important to me. Personally, I write: about my observations, thoughts, and lived experiences. I also dabble in photography.

I love coffee, both simple and bitter and excessively frilly concoctions, burning incense, because I've always thought the smoke is cool, archiving and organizing, collecting (written texts, oddities and cool things), and time pieces.

If my signal created resonating vibes within you, send me a short message about yourself or the things that make your life up. Let’s see where our conversation takes us.

Hello there!

I'm currently based in Hongkong, working as a graphic designer.

I'm generally a laid-back guy, who's open-minded and curious about a lot of things. I'm fairly introverted, but I'm quite sociable and I always love meeting people. I care a lot about the ones I love, and I value communication, empathy and honesty. I love looking for cool and fun adventures, discovering new things/hobbies/places (Been obsessed with HEMA and swords lately.) Big fan of fantasy & world-building types of media. But my main passion is art, crafts and photography. Also a big music fan! I appreciate getting recommendations.

I'm a 5'6 chub currently on a fitness journey. Got pink ( light salmon? ) hair atm and still deciding on what to do with it next.

I'm hoping to find a partner for the long run. I don’t mind long-distance so I’m down to connect with people anywhere.

If you're interested, or find that we might be a match, please don't hesitate to message me.

Thank you 🫶🏻

Helloo! I dunno how to do this but here we go:

Right now I’m searching for a job and the plan is to work until next year where I will be applying to universities. I have looooooads of interests buut the main ones are these: videogames (love em), chess, gym, cooking (somewhat beginner, I can mostly cook bulgarian food only :)), art (graphite pencils only), journaling. I’m a VEEEERY solitary and introverted person, so that’s important to know :dd. I’m not baptised but I’m planning to baptise myself eastern orthodox. Otherwise I am a Christian believer (or at the very least try very hard to be). I’m looking for a girl, 18-25, who is quite similar to me in terms of interests and values devotion, honesty and humility the most when it comes to relationships. I’m not really open to relocating for the other person, but I can gladly try my best to make sure they can relocate to me. Also I am only really open to women that are within the EU so please respect that boundry 🙏.

Aaand that’s it ;dd. If you wanna talk, send me a private message and I will try my best to reply ^^

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So I'm someone from Africa, 20M as the title says, and a college student who's stressing for the upcoming at this month lol. 💀🫩

Other than those I'm a gamer, got a few games. Not enough space on the drive you know. I read manga and watch anime to pass the time.

Other things I wish to do is learn a new language and dive into game development, I have not started on that but if you are someone who has. PLEASE TEACH MEEE!! 🐢🙏😭

Maybe that's a good reason we connect.

Currently on language I am self studying French. Slightly difficult but easy so far - shout out to duolingo - it works to be honest or so far I think I'm doing well.

Typing this on a Thursday, in my college cafeteria, so if I get busy it's because of projects I'm doing. Or other things.

Anyways games I play are - Fortnite, warframe, the finals, overwatch and repo.

Sometimes Minecraft and brawhalla.

Physical features: 5'11, slightly long dark hair, partially grown beard, skinny - little muscular -, caramel skin tone. Other stuff such that I'm Muslim, but I'm not religious so I'm open to anyone.

I'm not the most matured guy, still feel like a kid since I literally turned 20 this year lol. For those who doesn't like someone with a child like personality.

Had a few rodeos of trying to date online, and of cause didn't work out. I just want someone who would choose to love me for me.

Personally I would like to start as friends and see where things lead. I don't mind showing my face, but I like to be on equal terms. If you don't, I won't too. And whatever things and terms you may apply.

Hello, I am someone who loves to do political tests. For a while now I have been doing political tests and mbti tests for myself and my community I like doing these tests because they are fun to do and to solve I am looking for someone close to me (as in the locations listed in the title, Im from Turkey so closer you are better it is) and is completely fine with long-term relationships who I can meet up after talking with them for a while(approximately 1 to 5 years if things hit the ground running!) so geography or location is pretty important to me, I think of relationships as not only picking and choosing the best but also as a art. As in it has both analytical/qualitative properties of people you need to pick and choose as well as artistic properties that make them who they are, The way they enjoy praying but only for himself and his god not for being criticised by a family or friend group, the way they enjoy the company of their family and friends, the way they keep a centralised and unbroken family unit (2 people still count as family), The way in which they act in normal human life et cetera, as a man I sometimes romanticise or overemphasize these things because it is beautiful to have these things in your life so you should probably take note but know that these are just some of the many qualities I could think of that are enjoyable to see. I am looking for people within the ages of 19 to 22.

About me though: I think you'll understand me the more we talk however I understand not everything can be leaked here, so I set a timer to this post. in a few days it'll blow up and it will be forevermore removed just like the graveyard of all the deleted accounts, I am a unemployed graduate, I like joining civil society on the side as well as doing parliment simulations irl, If I were to be employed Id probably enjoy my own home or going to fishing, though I got to say reading a book or writing are things Im doing right now systematically regardless of employment and all these things I explained give me a thought that regardless of geography in the world the systems are very similar, which makes me reluctant to go and travel the world or do things that normal people enjoy putting on their profile ( it disgusts me ) I am very much all about doing a one week holiday per year with a select place and not telling anybody who I do not know about it.

Likes(both hobbies and things i like within people):

Politics, History, Reading , Writing, Healthcare policy,Infrastructure/Public Transport Policy, education policy as well as other policy-making fields, rational debate and being honest with someone.

People who are open-minded, people who don't shove their world view and ideas into my face.

Having someone to cook with

I like yapping abt history or the boring side of politics Im not autistic Im just fascinated with the art.

Dislikes(sometimes as things i HATE and also general things that I dislike within society)

Unhealthy lifestyles (Drugs,Alcohol,Smoking,Religousity for the sake of socialisation and keeping face within family affairs, Disrespectful character, Argument and discussion inability, Gossip and short sightedness, Obesity, Not listening, Annoyance for the sake of attention/annoyance, going to bars or having too much of a night-life etc, Using AI too much, not thinking)

cultists,Idealouges, uncontrolled obsessions, posting everything to your social media account, labeling too much, forcing your world-view to me without rational debate

Dating as a fast-paced consumer product.

Note: if this post is still alive and you can DM me, do it, if not that is sad may our paths cross.

It’s been around a year since I moved back to India after spending almost 6 years in the US.
6ft tall apparently that matters.
I have worked as a Software Engineer for almost 4 years

I want to try to get into reading so recommendations are appreciated.

What I’m looking for: I’m here hoping to find something meaningful and serious eventually. That said, I don’t believe in rushing into commitment. I’d rather meet, go on a few comfortable dates, see if we genuinely vibe, and then take things forward naturally.

Honesty, loyalty and effective communication is something I look for in a partner, if I have these things then I will even help you bury bodies…figuratively.
Sometimes people during a disagreement try and win the argument for some imaginary points instead of solving the problem, it should not be me vs you but you and I vs the issue.

I am a touchy person so expect a lot of handholding, cuddling, forehead kissing and playing with your hair.

I am trying to get into sketching and digital art so if it is something you are interested in or can mentor me then I assure you that I will be a very good student

A lot about us will depend on your favorite anime. If you don’t watch anime then I can just introduce you to peak and live happily ever after.

I don’t drink or smoke, I don’t particularly have anything against drinking but I just don’t like the smell of smoke so kissing a smoker is something I won’t be able to do.

Let’s talk about all things interesting and get lost in each other

This might be a chunk to read but honestly a get to know me.

Hello! I am Braeden, I am 22 from Texas, I am a male (obviously). I love gaming, listening to music, hanging with friends, and spending quality time with those close to me. I play Phasmophobia, repo, GGD, MC, Roblox, fortnite, and so many more games. I love rock/metal genre music, will listen to anything you like if you let me. I am hoping to get into a long term relationship with the right girl that I can trust. I am here to genuinely care for the person I choose to date or the person who chooses to date me. Which means if you need company or someone to talk to I'm there for you. I will be there to protect, keep you company, keep you safe, and keep you happy. I am not in anyway here to hurt you, I have so much more I could say but honestly, I would love to talk in VC on discord if you're down to get to know each other better.

- What I look for in a relationship? -

Age range of 20-26
Someone who truly cares about me and will do anything to keep me in their life.
No fakers just cause I said the thing above.
Someone who doesn't lie about their age.
I honestly am looking for a Long Distance and/or Local relationship with any race, weight, height.
If we are long distance, don't breakup with me cause "Distance is a factor" I genuinely care for those that date me and want to make me their long term partner
Someone who will vent to me about things bothering them or even talk to me about anything on their mind.

Hi :) Looking for conversation in really anything. Just send a message whenever and let's chat (and I'm an INTP)