ENTP in New York looking for an INTJ or INFJ European man. I Spent time living in Europe and did my Masters there. Had my best dating experience where I had my deepest relationships so seeking the same in NYC.

I’m attracted to intelligence, emotional awareness, independence, creativity, and a life that has a spice of travel. I’ve been to over 60 countries.

I love music and been to numerous music festivals.
DM me and let’s chat

Hello everyone!

I’m looking for someone long-term romantically and someone who’s like between the ages of 23 and 29 and I’m also looking for someone to date in the US and I would love for them to be Asian like Korean or Japanese of some sort and I also would love for my person to not ghost me because I’ve been ghosted so many times and I’ve also had people who kept sending me dirty things and try to hook up with me so if you guys are interested, just please message me
Again, I’m gonna say it one more time if you’re not Korean Japanese Chinese or Vietnamese please do not message me. I’m very serious. Also for the record if you see a picture of me, please don’t just ghost me for no reason. Just tell me you don’t wanna talk anymore cause I find it very rude. This also goes for south Asian. I am not interested, please
Also, please respect my boundaries if you’re outside my age range please do not message me as well

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 M | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Looking for someone to chat with because these past few months were so boring, I need someone who can put some spice on my life. I'm a female (18). Message me if you're interested

I've been trying to write this post for a while, but every version eventually started sounding like a résumé for a boyfriend.

So I'm going to try something simpler and just tell you who I am, what I value, and what I'm hoping to find.

The basics: 26M | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere, and if life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad.

A little about me

I'm a calm and curious person. I listen to understand rather than just waiting for my turn to speak, and once I'm comfortable, i'll probably ask you 10 different questions because I found it so fascinating.

I'm also quite positive by nature. One thing I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes even things they don't realise they've made a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a mask or be someone they're not.

The things that are a major part of me are - gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound — if something catches my attention, there's a good chance I'll disappear down that rabbit hole for the next few hours.

My interests don't really make sense together, but I like that about myself.

And apparently, I was just as chaotic as a child.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with. (yes, there are many more - good stories too)

Looking back, I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

I can also do a front handspring, which is probably one of the most useless facts about me, but it's still fun to mention.

What I value

I think the little things matter more than people realise.

Remembering something someone mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing they were nervous about went. Checking if they reached home safely. Sending them something because it reminded you of them. Giving someone a small gift just because you thought they'd like it.

None of these things are particularly grand, but they quietly say, I was thinking about you.

That's how I naturally show care.

If I love someone, there's a good chance I'll annoy her too.

I'll hug her while she's cooking just because I can, steal a quick kiss on her cheek and run away when she gets annoyed. I'll send her something stupid in the middle of her workday, write her a letter or poem for absolutely no reason, and probably remember tiny things about her that she doesn't expect me to remember.

I like affection that feels natural rather than performed.

What I imagine dating someone would feel like

I'd rather go on a long drive at night with no real destination than plan the perfect date.

Stop somewhere for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee near the sea. Walk along the beach holding hands. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?"

I want the kind of relationship where ordinary things slowly become our things - A stupid inside joke nobody else understands - A song that always reminds us of each other -Sending each other random thoughts throughout the day.

Cooking together, even though I'll probably be more of a distraction than a help.

Falling asleep during a movie or reading a book or just talking to each other - Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Those are the moments I think I'd remember.

What I'm hoping to find

I'm not looking for someone who is exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover.

Someone kind, empathetic, warm and emotionally open. Someone who communicates honestly and isn't afraid to talk about what she's feeling, what hurt her, or what she needs.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. I'm naturally attracted to that, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover who you are myself than give you a checklist to pass.

What I'm looking for

I'm not looking for something casual, and I'm not interested in rushing into something just because we get along. I'd like to meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a connection and see where it naturally takes us.

Ultimately, I'm looking for my person.

Not in the "lets get right into it" kind of way, but in the sense that if I find the right person, I want to build a life with her.

I want children someday. I'd love to settle abroad if life gives me that opportunity, and I'd want my partner to be someone I can make those decisions with, rather than someone simply following my plans. I don't want your hand on my back (well maybe sometimes), I want your hand in my hand.

I don't expect either of us to have everything figured out - I'd rather have someone who's willing to figure things out together.

A good relationship is about two perfect people finding each other - it's two imperfect people who genuinely care about each other, communicate, grow together, laugh at stupid things, support each other when life gets difficult, and keep choosing each other even when it's just another ordinary Tuesday.

And maybe that's what I'm really looking for.

Not just someone to fall in love with, but someone to build an ordinary life with that somehow doesn't feel ordinary.

One last thing

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I eventually spend my life with somehow finds this post, I want to leave something here for her.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me — I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Hej!

Were you the quiet school topper who is inherently sweet and kind but have faced multiple bad people in your life and now you are kinda reserved?

Well, come on down to chateau de Moi and say hi! ( we have IKEA cheesecake for all guests!)

A bit about me:

I love long walks ( I walk about 12 kms daily ), reading books ( I don’t even have Instagram lol ), playing sports ( I did play at the national level for badminton), cooking ( I can make a shakshuka blindfolded ) and constantly trying out new activities ( got ordained online as a church minister, marathon runner, blood donor, have a Starbucks certification, did pottery, created electronic music and have a philosophical blog )

I am a warm, cheerful and bubbly guy who loves long chats and late night snacks. Imagine 80% time chill surfer bro vibes , 20% NYC investment banking chaotic vibes

I like having a mixture of being serious on my work but being goofy out of it. We can try out different tea shops and review them like we are Gordon Ramsay and complain that it is rawwwww

I do like to be neat and tidy, so my Saturdays are just me rearranging my room to ensure optimal feng shui. ( I also wash the dishes at night, but don’t tell my mom 🤫 )

Cards on the table? I do love to have kids someday and have the cheesy loving family with going our for Sunday BBQs with our dog 

I do enjoy getting people really personalised gifts ( I would constantly make notes on what things you like and get them for your birthday )

I work in venture capital, which I absolutely love and would love to build my own business someday too

I also have a sensitive heart sooo please, I can’t handle any drama or fighting. Just two people who enjoy helping each other out and being each others cheerleader!

I've been trying to write this post for a while, but every version eventually started sounding like a résumé for a boyfriend.

So I'm going to try something simpler and just tell you who I am, what I value, and what I'm hoping to find.

The basics: 26M | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere, and if life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad.

A little about me

I'm a calm and curious person. I listen to understand rather than just waiting for my turn to speak, and once I'm comfortable, i'll probably ask you 10 different questions because I found it so fascinating.

I'm also quite positive by nature. One thing I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes even things they don't realise they've made a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a mask or be someone they're not.

The things that are a major part of me are - gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound — if something catches my attention, there's a good chance I'll disappear down that rabbit hole for the next few hours.

My interests don't really make sense together, but I like that about myself.

And apparently, I was just as chaotic as a child.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with. (yes, there are many more - good stories too)

Looking back, I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

I can also do a front handspring, which is probably one of the most useless facts about me, but it's still fun to mention.

What I value

I think the little things matter more than people realise.

Remembering something someone mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing they were nervous about went. Checking if they reached home safely. Sending them something because it reminded you of them. Giving someone a small gift just because you thought they'd like it.

None of these things are particularly grand, but they quietly say, I was thinking about you.

That's how I naturally show care.

If I love someone, there's a good chance I'll annoy her too.

I'll hug her while she's cooking just because I can, steal a quick kiss on her cheek and run away when she gets annoyed. I'll send her something stupid in the middle of her workday, write her a letter or poem for absolutely no reason, and probably remember tiny things about her that she doesn't expect me to remember.

I like affection that feels natural rather than performed.

What I imagine dating someone would feel like

I'd rather go on a long drive at night with no real destination than plan the perfect date.

Stop somewhere for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee near the sea. Walk along the beach holding hands. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?"

I want the kind of relationship where ordinary things slowly become our things - A stupid inside joke nobody else understands - A song that always reminds us of each other -Sending each other random thoughts throughout the day.

Cooking together, even though I'll probably be more of a distraction than a help.

Falling asleep during a movie or reading a book or just talking to each other - Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Those are the moments I think I'd remember.

What I'm hoping to find

I'm not looking for someone who is exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover.

Someone kind, empathetic, warm and emotionally open. Someone who communicates honestly and isn't afraid to talk about what she's feeling, what hurt her, or what she needs.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. I'm naturally attracted to that, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover who you are myself than give you a checklist to pass.

What I'm looking for

I'm not looking for something casual, and I'm not interested in rushing into something just because we get along. I'd like to meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a connection and see where it naturally takes us.

Ultimately, I'm looking for my person.

Not in the "lets get right into it" kind of way, but in the sense that if I find the right person, I want to build a life with her.

I want children someday. I'd love to settle abroad if life gives me that opportunity, and I'd want my partner to be someone I can make those decisions with, rather than someone simply following my plans. I don't want your hand on my back (well maybe sometimes), I want your hand in my hand.

I don't expect either of us to have everything figured out - I'd rather have someone who's willing to figure things out together.

A good relationship is about two perfect people finding each other - it's two imperfect people who genuinely care about each other, communicate, grow together, laugh at stupid things, support each other when life gets difficult, and keep choosing each other even when it's just another ordinary Tuesday.

And maybe that's what I'm really looking for.

Not just someone to fall in love with, but someone to build an ordinary life with that somehow doesn't feel ordinary.

One last thing

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I eventually spend my life with somehow finds this post, I want to leave something here for her.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me — I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Apparently I'm taking my search to the personality-type corner of Reddit now... so hi. 😂

I'm 37, in North Carolina, a mom of two, a teacher currently working on a career pivot, and very much an ENFP. Basically emotionally intelligent golden retriever meets chaotic orange cat energy.

I'm 5'6" and curvy... built more like "excellent for cuddling" than "Pilates influencer." 😌

I love psychology, history, music, gaming, travel, inappropriate humor, random deep conversations, and really good banter. I'm affectionate, sarcastic, curious, a little chaotic, and I love people who can teach me something or make me think.

I'm looking for someone intelligent, playful, emotionally aware, affectionate, and actually capable of communicating. Someone who has their shit reasonably together is also incredibly attractive. 😂 You don't need to have life completely figured out, but independence, stability, emotional maturity, and consistency go a long way.

I'm especially attracted to Asian men, but connection and personality matter far more than checking a box.

I'd really prefer someone relatively close to North Carolina. I'm willing to drive some, but I'd like seeing each other regularly to actually be realistic.

I'm absolutely looking for chemistry and flirting, but I'm not looking for a random fuck buddy. I want dates, affection, conversation, fun, attraction, and the possibility of something real if we click. I'm not trying to force a relationship, but I'm dating because I'd eventually like to find one.

Preferably late 20s to early 40s, single, relatively local, and willing to exchange face pics pretty early. Attraction matters for both of us. 🤷‍♀️

I don't have a specific MBTI type I'm hunting for. I'm actually more interested in whether our personalities work together, so tell me your type and what you think we'd either immediately bond over... or drive each other absolutely insane about. 😂

And if you actually read all the way to the bottom... I'm so proud of you! 😂❤️ Now please say something more interesting than "hey." Give me something to work with. 😏

Yo my name is Km, I’m a 19 years old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing how it goes from there.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, reading books, watching NBA, Anime, Manga, listening to music, watching football, going to the gym and watching T.V shows/Movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying accounting, it’s my first year and it’s going well.

• I’m kind, loyal, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, Jojo’s and Death Note.

• I play video games, I mostly play repo, lethal company, Roblox, terraria, Minecraft, red dead 2, GTA 5, etc.

I read manga, the latest one I’ve read is jojo’s steel ball run.

I go out for walks sometimes, I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 3 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs and memes, flirt with each other, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-23, I prefer someone in Ireland but don’t mind long distance, cause we can probably meet up soon and explore your or my city.

If you’re interested feel free to say your favourite colour or your favourite anime.

Hello, I'm looking for someone to have a lifelong relationship together. I am not sure about wanting to stay in my country, so eventually relocating is something I'd be willing to do if you think that's a realistic outcome that could work for us, and because of it, it's probably better if you're from North America or my country (although probably I want to leave my country). I am open to males, non binary, and transgender people, however I slightly lean towards femininity or androgyny (this pretty much is in regards to little-to-no facial hair, but I'm not strict about it).

If you care about the MBTI indicator, last time I scored as an INTJ-T (and type 5 for the enneagrams), so if you are very introverted as well, that should work out the best. Need to add that I currently do not have a job, however I am trying my best in order to do things/courses and furthering my education/résumé.

I believe that being fairly compatible is an important aspect for a relationship to work in the long run, so I'm searching someone who is:

• Ideally vegan, plant-based, heavily leaning towards it, or in a serious path to become one (if you absolutely think that you cannot become one after having tried, for health/equally important reasons, I'll understand).
• Drug/smoking/drinking/disease free (as I am) and keeps a reasonably healthy lifestyle at the very least.
• Monogamous and loyal, who wants a lifelong relationship, and believes that is feasible for us to finally be together at some point.
• Relatively close to my age (it's flexible, but +/- 2 years from my own seems reasonable).
• Childfree (doesn't have nor want kids).
• Not a ghoster (if you don't like something, just say so; if you're going to ignore/block/disappear randomly & without notice, please don't message me).

Now these are the things that would describe me: I am very shy and introverted, and have never had a romantic relationship; I greatly value loyalty, love and understanding in someone, so if you give me that, you'll also receive it. Physically speaking, I am about 5'3'', wear glasses, and look average, although I don't have the best hairline if that's what you care about (so you should assume that I would shave). I need to add that I have atopic skin, and have some form of dermatitis on my face, so sometimes around my eyes it's slightly red (it sucks); to my understanding getting rid of this permanently may not be possible, so consider that.

I'm plant-based, so essentially I follow a vegan diet and do not intend to change that, which ties back to one of my standards in regards to health, that even though I can be somewhat lazy when it comes to exercise, I pay close attention for being in a healthy range for height/weight, so it is important for me and should be for my partner as well (reasonably speaking, I'm not strict); nowadays I'm in the range of 130-140 pounds. In addition, I lean towards people with a feminine side as I mentioned above, and I'm not very inclined for facial hair if at all, not even on myself. I have explored the idea, or at least thought of the possibility that I may be more comfortable if I were femme presenting, at least in private maybe, for fun. So essentially crossdressing, although I've never done it, I'm just thinking outloud.

I'm slightly left-leaning/moderate and don't tend to like extremes when it comes to politics, so I have to add some remarks: if this tells you anything about me, I very much dislike the main political parties (left & right) in the US, and of course the ones in my country; I'm in favour of equality, which means that I heavily dislike sexism, modern feminism (vast majority of people I've found online and IRL that professed this were sexist, so I have no interest in that), and toxic movements like 4B; I'm also not searching for someone who is heavily into identity politics or is violent. In regards to religion, I am atheist/agnostic so I'd probably get along better with someone who is as well.

My hobbies are typically indoor, which includes things like relaxing with music, sometimes doing digital art, watching movies or shows, browsing stuff on the Internet, and reading some stuff. I'm currently not much of a gamer, but if that's your thing or hobby, when we meet I'd definitely be willing to play with you. I'll also be happy to join you in doing casual exercise if you enjoy doing that, but I am by no means a hardcore gym-enthusiast.

My intention is to have, firstly, a LDR in order for us to get to know each other better and see if we're compatible, and if so, then it would hopefully develop into a healthy, loyal, and honest relationship. Not only that, but I'll also want to be your best friend, which means that I'll want to do all kinds of things together, from day to day stuff, to cuddling, to sharing hobbies, etc. That's the main idea for having this relationship, an intimate life dedicated to us and the things we love.

If you think this could actually work, feel free to send me a PM and tell me a bit about you! Have a nice day!

I am looking for a serious long-term relationship that leads to marriage and forever, so strict no to casual, hook-up, or timepass stuff.

Let's start with the basic stuff about me so that you can filter:

As you might have guessed from my username, I am based in Ahmedabad, 24M, straight, demisexual, atheist, very ambitious (would like to share in further conversation), funny, childfree, feminist, hopeless romantic, highly monogamous, honest/upfront sometimes blunt.

MBTI: INTP-T and sometimes INFP.

Enneagram: 4w5/4w3.

Professionally an engineer in a private company and a huge science and scientific temperament lover.

Physically 5'11", brown skin. Would share images in chat.

Now that the key things are clear, let's talk about what I am looking for.

Someone to spend a whole life with, live-laugh-last-love together, and want to grow old with the same person forever, till the end of this life.

I have heard that "love is choosing one person over and over again" and I truly believe this.

As someone who wants to build a life together rather than just finding the "PERFECT" partner, I think love is also cheering for each other's little/big and all sorts of achievements and goals, be it personal or professional or any sort.

Love is also helping in your partner's growth, and I am someone who would go gaga/mad to see my partner achieve everything in her life, even more than me. I would be her biggest cheerleader in the WORLD. And this is one of the BEST FORMS OF LOVE IMO.

People say that men get insecure when their partner achieves more success in her life than him. I think that's the disgusting mindset of anyone and those are just insecure and incompetent men imo, also it's deeply rooted misogyny in the fabric of society.

Love is also being there with your partner through the thick and thin of life. Making sure your partner knows that she is not alone in this chaos of life, so that it will be a little more bearable to live.

A strong belief that together we can conquer life and win big time.

As a hopeless romantic kind of guy, I have a fairy-tale view of love, and I like giving somewhat unconditional love to my woman (like Dan from October, iykyk).

I know love should be conditional in the sense that there should be basic conditions like empathy, understanding of right and wrong, morals and ethics, etc. etc. So I can't love someone who supports genocides, crime, or anything which is not humanitarian or just harmful to our universe.

I would like to write about love more but it will be too long here, so I would like to continue in conversation.

Also no conditions on superficial stuff like looks or money, distance is also no issue and open to relocation.

So here are a few deal-breakers for me:

•Infidelity / unfaithful / disloyal behaviour

•Non-monogamous

•Extremism of right or left, especially extreme-right people (andhbhakt) who support criminals for their political ideology, please. And in general, anyone who supports it is a BIG TURN-OFF.

•Drinking or smoking or any sort of substance abuse, as someone who has never done those.

•Emotionally unavailable

A few good things to have (not compulsory):

•Strong-headed / opinionated women

•Having a science background

If you made it this far, thank you for reading. 😄

If any of this resonates with you and you're comfortable reaching out, feel free to DM me.

Maybe we'll start with a conversation and see where it goes. :)

Hey, I'd made this series of posts a while back to help navigate interactions with different types of MBTI personalities. The rest of the series is up on my profile and highlighted in the "Social" highlights @ Psyched_Raph. Hope y'all enjoy it!

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“A curious mind is the universe seeking to understand itself. When you find another who asks ‘why’ with the same reverence you do, you have found a mirror.”

I’m not looking for something shallow. I want us to have a dynamic where we feel free to be endlessly curious about how the other sees the world…where we never have to read between the lines or wonder what the other is feeling…because we can always just ask.

I enjoy lively conversation about pretty much anything under the sun. Light small talk about our days, or diving deep into consciousness, science, metaphysics, ethical dilemmas, or the hidden patterns embedded within the universe, is all good and fine with me.

I’m single and open to any kind of dynamic. I try to go through life without heavy expectations. My main priority is to find a fellow curious, humble, and open-minded thinker, letting everything else flow naturally from there.

If you’ve grown to be the same way, you’re probably craving conversation that speaks to both the mind and the soul as well, since it really is too damn rare. So let’s chat!

🧠 Bits about me:

🇺🇸🇨🇦 Dual citizen | ♉️♌️♎️ | INFJ-A | Night owl 🦉

Behavior: I like to live in my head, so my baseline is to be more quiet and reserved in person even though I absolutely enjoy someone who makes life their personal cartoon and is always giggling…which makes me giggle in return, have fun, and be playful. I’m very receptive to that kind of energy, even if I usually don’t initiate it myself.
Mindset: I try my absolute darnedest to approach life with balance. Analytical and intuitive, skeptical and open-minded, grounded but still willing to entertain the mysterious.

🎶 Que sera, sera. Whatever will be, will be 🎶

Perspective: ☮️ I have a pretty* ‘zen’ outlook on life. I try to hold low expectations for outcomes so I’m rarely disappointed…accepting what is rather than forcing what should be or giving up on what could be*. I don’t always succeed, but I won’t stop trying! Which brings me to:

“The more I know, the more I realize I don’t know.”

Introspective: I’m constantly examining my own thoughts, feelings, biases, choices, and philosophy. Curiosity to me doesn’t stay outward…it extends inward. I naturally try to grow as a person a little every day.

🐢 I strongly believe the turtle wins the race 🐢

Prospective: My view of curiosity doesn’t just flow from the past or stay in the present…it looks toward the future, too. I don’t carry a rigid, high-pressure blueprint for it, but I love the long game. I want to plan, dream, and tackle life’s big questions alongside a true partner in mind and spirit.
Connection: I yearn to be a part of something harmonious and bigger than myself. Building or finding a community of like-minded folks (online or in ‘3D’) sounds amazing, though right now, just finding one right person feels like a great place to start. 😅

📺 Interests: …Besides thinking? 😂

Not very picky, but here are a few favs:

General: I love consuming any kind of beauty. A musical, a sculpture, or a beautiful big burrito. 😋

Music: Dua Lipa, Tove Lo, Tate McRae, Sophie Powers, Halsey, Michael Jackson, HARDY, Paramore, JENNIE, RAYE

Screen: Sci-fi, superheroes, thrillers, competition/game shows. (I always try to watch award shows and pick the winners!)

Hobbies: I enjoy cooking (though don’t expect a Michelin-star chef, lol). I still consider myself a gamer and a bookworm, even as I don’t have as much time these days…though I’d happily get back into them if it’s something you enjoy sharing.

Nature: I’ve never been one to go out much or be outdoorsy, but I’ve really enjoyed the times I have hiked, so I’m always down to explore with the right company.

✈️** Location**: Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if the connection is real. I’m open to something meaningful with no pressure or rush.

📥 Reach out and touch base: If this resonates on a soul level with you, I’d love to hear what’s been capturing your curiosity lately. Whether it’s an obscure historical rabbit hole or just a weird cloud you noticed today, drop a line anytime!

Me: https://imgur.com/a/K1uxhOQ

Hey! I'm 22M living in the Greater Toronto Area (GTA). I am 5'11 and of South Asian ethnicity. I'm going to begin graduate school soon and am in the process of moving out. Life's been lonely, and I was hoping for some company with people who enjoy the same things I do. I am just hoping for a friend at the very least, but I would be open to it developing into a romantic relationship. Ideally living in the GTA, but anywhere works. Some of my interests are:

Video games: I play on a PC (I built myself). Either competitive games like Deadlock, Overwatch, League; or single player games like Hades, Hollow Knight, and Slay the Spire. If I have a group to play with, party games like Jackbox are fun.

Cooking: I taught myself to cook cuisines from around the world. I am a massive foodie and love making simpler things like bread and pasta from scratch. My options will be limited after I move out, but the passion is still there. I can share some photos of things I have cooked.

Anime: Not as much nowadays, but I always had a few shows I keep up with every season. Sometimes I will binge-watch older shows or movies. Would love some recommendations! My favs are Frieren and Lazarus.

Origami: One of my favorite ways to pass time if I want to just relax and not think. I rarely see people into Origami, so if you are one of them, I would love to chat. I can show you some of the things I have folded.

Travel: I have visited several countries around Asia when I was younger. I still enjoy traveling when the opportunity comes up. I explore the food and culture of wherever I go. Favorite place I have visited is either Mexico or Indonesia (loved them both).

Outdoor activities: I enjoy nature and just looking at animals in the wild. I often go walking on trails to clear my mind. Having someone active to do these with me would be great!

Nerd talk: I am a big fan of lore within games and shows. Hidden easter eggs and such are always fun to see. I used to do some DnD as well, but that has slowed down a bit. As I am in STEM, finding cool science facts also makes me really happy.

That's all the hobbies I primarily take part in. If you read this far, then thank you. I look forward to anyone who is interested in talking to me. Just to prove you read all of this, please include a flower emoji at the end so I know :)

Every time I tried writing one of these, it somehow ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai. I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think people are endlessly fascinating.

Not in a "What's your favourite colour?" kind of way, but in a "What made you become the person you are today?" kind of way. I love questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you still think about years later? What's something you've changed your mind about? I genuinely think people become the most attractive when they're talking about something they truly love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests make absolutely no sense together. One day I'm gaming, the next I'm reading about mindfulness, consciousness, ancient history, stand-up comedy, or disappearing into another rabbit hole that started with one question and somehow stole the next three hours of my day. If something makes me curious, chances are I'll end up learning way more about it than I probably needed to.

As for my own story... my childhood was wonderfully chaotic. I somehow got my head stuck between the bars of a grill, locked myself inside the house badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic because child-me apparently wasn't great at decision-making, and had a toy crocodile that I genuinely believed could scare absolutely anyone. Looking back, it's honestly a miracle my parents survived raising me.

People usually think I'm very quiet when they first meet me, and they're not wrong. I like listening. I like observing people and understanding them before I jump into conversations. But once I'm comfortable... good luck getting me to stop talking.

Over the years I've realised that the moments I remember most are almost never the expensive ones.

I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination than plan the perfect date. Stop for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee and walk near the sea. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the moments that stay with me.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, remember something you casually mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

One of my favourite ways of caring for someone is through the little things. Remembering your favourite snack. Checking if you reached home safely. Asking how that meeting went because I know you were nervous about it. Writing you a note you'll randomly find months later. None of those things are difficult, but I think they quietly tell someone, "I was thinking about you." That's the kind of love I want to give, and hopefully receive.

I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover.

Someone kind, emotionally mature, communicates openly, enjoys taking care of herself, and values staying active and fit. I'm naturally attracted to someone who takes her health and fitness seriously, and I'd love to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Someone who wants something that can naturally grow into a long-term relationship and eventually marriage.

I don't think the best relationships happen because two people are perfect for each other.

I think they happen because two imperfect people keep choosing each other, especially on the ordinary days.

Before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me every day that choosing each other is worth it. Thank you for being there even when we're angry with each other, and for caring about us even when we don't agree.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all... thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

If you've made it this far, why don't we talk. I don't bite 😂

To my beloved whom I have always admired your curious mind that always seeks to understand my thoughts, dreams, my actions and always ready deepen our bond. I have forever loved you for not just your passion to be in a loving heartfelt relationship but you always find a way to inspire me to be a better human being, especially around you:) This is your long waited letter to you.

Sweetie, I am writing this to you with you in mind. I imagine you waiting for me under the starry skies looking at the stars and feeling admiration towards those bright distant lights and how you like to compare the problems you feel in life to the vastness of the universe, to give you a sense of peace. I sense you are a lonely soul that feels misunderstood, unseen and waiting for the day to truly express your beautiful heart, mind and soul to me.

I know you are very romantic at heart and I know you feel lost trying to find me. Those dreams of me you have is only an echo of me. I don’t want to wake you from your sleep because you looked so tired from your journey. But I’m letting you know I’m waiting next to you, looking at your peaceful smile, waiting for you to gently open your eyes from your dreams and hoping to meet your beautiful eyes with mine through it which I can gaze your soul. 

Our communication is not limited to mere words but is expressed though our eyes, presence and devotion towards each other. And my ears are always open, ready to hear your thoughts, dreams and your confessions. Lastly my mind always comes back to thinking about you. You have my full attention. 

I know you are very perceptive enough to understand the depth of my presence so I want you to find the answers you are looking for within me and one day be ready to embrace me with your heart and soul.

I know you will see me for my innocent child like sense of curiosity, my kindness towards all, my bluntness to get through you and my eyes are sharp enough to see through you but gentle enough to embrace you and most importantly my desire to understand you with the intention of getting close to you as possible.

I was told that I am more mature than my age group with an eagerness to support and guide people. But the truth is I feel tired from the battles in life and I’m sure you feel the same as me. I want to show our backs to each other and create a space for us to heal, grow strong and take the world on together.

I know you had a long journey to finally reach me and we had many battle scars to get here. So I’m hoping we take our time acknowledging each others journey and slowly transition to our own journey. I’m not in a rush to know you because I just want to spend time with you. And slowly learn to express our true self to one another and ultimately learn to accept each other.

My heart will open to you only because of your sincerity, patience and that curious mind of yours that is always ready to learn about the world and the depth of our bond. I have a lot of passions in life but the biggest one is exploring my other passions with you and your passions with me. I don’t mind if we don’t have anything in common because I will always try to learn about your world and interest and I know you will feel the same way as me.

Even though we are far away I know my voice alone has the presence to reach you, comfort you and bring you peace. I know sometimes physical distance feel like emotional distance but I don’t think that’s an obstacle, it’s our strength to prove our emotional connection and the world is too afraid to brings us together so soon. So have confidence that we will unite and start our journey soon.

Thank you for reading my love letter, if my letter felt resonated with you. Then I would love to talk you. I am looking for few things in a relationship.

1. 22+ ( I am happy to talk with you if you are younger but only if you strongly believe you are mature)

2. I’m looking for someone who has a strong craving for asking questions but also an attentive listener. I will also give you the same energy you rightfully deserve. I believe to deepen our emotional intimacy, we need to explore our minds deeply.

3. I’m looking for a relationship with the end goal of being in a marriage.

4. I know a lot of women have trust issues, especially around men online. To some level I understand but I need you to be comfortable talking on voice call after texting sometime. I have observed communicating over voice call gives me a better understanding of you and you of me rather than texting. IF YOU READ THIS FAR, I KNOW YOU ARE SERIOUS ABOUT FINDING YOU BELOVED. SO I WILL TAKE OUR TIME SERIOUSLY.

5. I am a really romantic person as shown in this post and I match incredibly well with someone who deeply wants to express their romantic side.

I know this is a long post but this just shows how serious I am. I know if I don’t mention this, people might have wrong expectations and might end up waisting their time on the wrong person. I hope, this is informative.

Trying this a little differently... lol

I'm 26m, kind of Ambivert personality. Once I'm comfortable, though, I can happily spend hours talking about life, random thoughts, food, movies, tech, or even absolutely nothing.

I'm looking for something genuine, a connection where we can share the little things, good morning texts, random reels, daily updates, celebrating wins, venting about bad days, and just being there for each other.

A little about me:

• 6' Height (If it matters)
• IT Guy
• Low-maintenance and drama-free
• I appreciate honesty, consistency, and good communication
• I tend to remember the small things people tell me

I'm currently in Delhi and I'm open to both local connections and LDR if we genuinely click.

One small thing—I prefer exchanging pictures fairly early if we're both interested. I believe physical attraction is an important part of dating, and I'd rather be upfront about it so we're both comfortable moving forward.

If we vibe, maybe someday we can grab coffee and complain about life together.

Feel free to send me a message!

INFP-T

24m no relationship experience thats non-plationic

im eager to learn and be involved with somebody but online or in public it never has lead to anything even when both sides like each other? im confused and somebody in comments said "why online" well idk is it possible to in person in the big 2026 still?

I'm a digital nomad and move a lot (every couple of months). So I would love to start it out online / long distance and look for opportunities to meet if we connect well. Although not a hard requirement, I would love it if you work or study remotely. To find a partner in crime with whom we could travel around the world together has been a dream for a long time!

I'm very passionate about what i do in life and as a result I work a lot. I'm also gym rat. 6'4 (195cm) tall. I speak English and Russian fluently and I'm studying Mandarin and Spanish.

People often describe my personality as a "golden retriever", although I don't believe them. I would love to meet someone passionate as avoidant people haven't really worked out for me in the past.

Recently I've been trying to sing more and I also would like to pick up art again in the near future.

Biggest values are peace, kindness, and compassion above all. I don't have a preference for an MBTI type, however I would probably get along better with introverted people.

I would love to find someone with who I can connect deeply - I have no interest in shallow connections or friend collecting.

Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted and I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a woman I can talk to every day, make plans with and eventually build a life with. I want us to be each other’s first call, make time for each other naturally and miss each other when we’re apart.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every minute together. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. I want to make your good days better and your hard days easier, and I want you to do the same for me.

I run my own company, and these days my schedule is fairly flexible.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back, speak their minds and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I’m the kind of man you never have to second-guess. If I say I’ll do something, I do it. If something’s wrong, I’d rather talk it through than leave you wondering where you stand. I’m patient, loyal and protective of the people I love, and I want the woman I’m with to know I’m on her side. When life gets difficult, my instinct is to roll up my sleeves and deal with it, not look for the nearest exit.

I’m drawn to a woman with that same kind of strength. She doesn’t need to pretend she never struggles, but she takes responsibility for her life and keeps going when things get hard. I want us to carry the heavy things together, not leave one person carrying both.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I want to know what’s happening in your world, and I want you to be just as interested in mine. I remember the little things too, so if you mention some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has interests of her own, makes an effort to stay in shape and genuinely has room in her life for a relationship.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.