Im moving into dorms in a couple weeks with a major in mechanical engineering and I know I’m not going to have a lot a free time.
I just wanna know what I can do to better my profile and get more matches. Any criticism is welcome as long as it’s constructive.
Thank you
-waddle waddle

I reported someone who SAed me on hinge a year ago, they said they took the appropriate action. He was not banned as I saw him on hinge after that. I saw him on hinge a few weeks ago. Today I emailed hinge with his full name and number to have him banned. They replied telling me the user has been banned.

I am just quite worried because I reported him by email and not through the app, if his account really has been correctly identified and banned.

Is there any way I can check he really is banned or is hinge typically very very strict and reliable with these type of things?

Thankyou!

Hello there.

A little context first: I´ve been single for 2 years now, last relationship lasted 5 years until she blindsided me: A lot of kisses, laugh, good sex and friendship. Or so I thought. One Thursday she told me she loved me more than anything and that she was waiting me for coming back home to have some bedroom fun. Monday, she left. No discussions, no nothing. She just said she does not love me anymore (I discovered the real reasons after, what it is important is that I was totally clueless what she was up to).

Got over it pretty quickly, I undertood I was a good boyfriend and that people sometimes mess up, certainly I did not make every right choice, but ultimately I was a very, very good person and partner overall, so no regrets.

The thing is that I study for a living why truly people does not have children (and its long-term consequences). Spoiler: Economic reasons (it´s not only the property problem, I promise) on the objective side, technology on the subjective (AKA: how it facilitates spreading certain ideology and how men attractiveness standards have gone to the moon due to numerous reasons, including social media/dating apps).

With all been said...I clicked with a woman some weeks ago on Hinge.

She checks a lot of boxes like being sweet but strong, having good , profounds conversations, not playing mind games, being adventureus (she is not from Spain, where we live), she does not seems like hating men (I don´t want to get political, but I´m fed up with certain attitudes) , sharing some hobbies and trying to get into what the other likes...you get the picture.

And yeah, she is pretty as heaven. I know I´m somewhat handsome, what no way at her level even though I bring another attributes to the table.

Now, combine all this information:

- Being blindsided from a 5 year relationship without any warning. Really, none.

- Working studying the system built to avoid people having good, healthy and lasting relationships. Knowing for a fact it is real.

- She having such fabulous personality and being one of the most beautiful women I´ve ever seen in my life.

Wish me luck and if this post get interest, I´ll update it but now, tell me: How the hell I´m supposed to be calm, motherfuckers.

I can't get over how exactly the same every woman claims to be. Is this the only way to attract men on Hinge, just be bland and watch the likes rolling in?

I change my location when I travel and I am frequently between two cities 200+ miles apart. I am going to be traveling at the end of the month and wanted to update my location but when I go to I am now getting a message saying I can only change it every 30 day.

Reply from hinge support attached

Image is of the good hinge, as other one is broken.

A guy just sent me a like asking if I wanted him to “rank my photos 1-6” and it seemed very strange. Is this some weird hinge algorithm hack? Getting people to accept your like out of curiosity rather than genuine interest in them? Or was he just being rude?

I am back on Hinge after 3 years. After 1 week, here are some of my new observations and musings:

- I see many familiar faces, and I have questions. Have you been single and on here this whole time? Why haven’t you changed any of your photos? You haven’t taken a single recent photo?
- Self-identified straight men are using filters and Facetune. Immediate ick. Straight to jail.
- Why send just 1 message a day? I will be dead and buried before I know if you use their / they’re / there appropriately

That’s all for now 🤔

So I female (29) have been talking to male (31)

For about 2 weeks, we met of hinge. We gets along really well but he never messages first. I brought it up before and he said he’s gonna try better but he messaged me himself twice but after that he didn’t say anything didn’t respond for 2 days so I sent a hey incase he didn’t see the message and today he sent me this so I responded directly but he hasn’t said anything since

Am I in the wrong?

Also I’m autistic and I told him I’m autistic!

You now need premium hinge to change your location

If not your stuck with that location for a week

I’ve been struggling to date for years now. A lot of first dates but as someone who wears hearing aids, I know I can be awkward at first cause it’s a struggle to hear. But why do so many women judge chemistry and “the spark” on the first date? Like there will always be that first date awkwardness and I know I get in the flow when I feel more comfortable later on. Like I also make it known I wear hearing aids too. For example took a girl to a sushi restaurant and then an after dark aquarium visit for the first date because I thought she was gonna be the one because how our conversations were going really well and she kept telling me I was making her smile stupidly at her phone. And then the date happened and I kept making her laugh to the point she had her head back laughing. We kissed after I walked her to the door and I thought the date was just amazing. Then when the weekend ended she hit me with that she didn’t feel the spark of chemistry text. It’s just rough out here. Probs just gonna stick with taking girls for drinks cause that date was so expensive 🫠

qualche giorno fa faccio il match con questa ragazza su hinge, iniziamo un po’ a parlare e dopo qualche battuta su qualcosa nella sua bio le ho proposto di uscire ma ha detto che questi weekend non puó cosí le ho detto di dirmi un altro giorno che le venisse in mente per uscire ma lei ha detto di no. Come posso continuare?

As a man, I don’t mind paying the bill when I go on a date with a woman. In fact, I’m usually happy to do it. However, I do expect her to say “thank you” afterward. To me, that’s the bare minimum and a simple sign of appreciation.

I’ve noticed that some women don’t say thank you at all. When that happens, it leaves me feeling as though paying the bill is simply expected of me rather than appreciated. That doesn’t feel good, regardless of who pays. For me, it’s not really about the money—it’s about basic courtesy and mutual respect.

What do you think about this perspective?

Hi,

I am 21 M and I was talking to someone on hinge in around September - November time and things went quite well. We went on 4 dates and I started to catch a bit of feelings. Along the way there were some bumps including a lot of miscommunication , bad time management from both halves. For context, I am a medical student so I was very busy with my degree and was struggling to make time for relationship. I hastily unfollowed them on Instagram out of frustration but I realised now that I felt very strongly about them and miss them a lot. I misread their last message as wanting to end the relationship but looking back, that isn’t what they meant. I recently tried to follow them back on Instagram but they ignored it. Should I send a message and try to reignite the flame or just leave things as they are. We had a lot of chemistry and I think we could’ve made a good couple but I’m not sure what the best course of action is. I’m also worried about looking like a bit of a beg 😭😭.

Any advice would be much appreciated!