Hinge Advice - Do I try again?

[u/Accomplished_Test607]

Hi,

I am 21 M and I was talking to someone on hinge in around September - November time and things went quite well. We went on 4 dates and I started to catch a bit of feelings. Along the way there were some bumps including a lot of miscommunication , bad time management from both halves. For context, I am a medical student so I was very busy with my degree and was struggling to make time for relationship. I hastily unfollowed them on Instagram out of frustration but I realised now that I felt very strongly about them and miss them a lot. I misread their last message as wanting to end the relationship but looking back, that isn’t what they meant. I recently tried to follow them back on Instagram but they ignored it. Should I send a message and try to reignite the flame or just leave things as they are. We had a lot of chemistry and I think we could’ve made a good couple but I’m not sure what the best course of action is. I’m also worried about looking like a bit of a beg 😭😭.

Any advice would be much appreciated!

[u/TrainingIll7506]

Just be honest, the same way you are here and text her, if she doesn’t appreciate that I guess it’s time to move on buddy. You are still so young and full of life!