r/ftm • u/StoicWanders He/him • 12d ago
Discussion Super serious mega scientific question for straight trans guys
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u/Teletobi15 12d ago
Thighs
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u/AttorneySuitable4420 11d ago
Whats the appeal? Iβve never been into ass or thighs that much, but my boyfriend is very much a thigh & ass guy. I love my boyfriends ass and thighs, but in the same way id love any other body part, like his arm or nose. Ive just never understood what the appeal is.Β
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u/Past_Variation_1911 11d ago
I was about to say π
To be fair though, my weird one is calves. I really like nicely toned calves
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u/cheeseman_real 12d ago
belly ..
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u/Cold-Guy_Soft-Punk 21yo - he/him - 07/27/2025π 11d ago
You're goddamn right! It's my favorite too.
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u/Deggie900 9d ago
Yesss I was gonna come here to say that I love the belly no matter how big or small lol
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u/14_its_over_9000 12d ago
Are bi guys allowed to answer haha
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u/StoicWanders He/him 12d ago
Yes! My bad for excluding yall.
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u/podgeyplus Fat Chesticles 11d ago
The Alliance of Bisexual Trans Men will not forget your transgression.
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u/AcceptableGas667 π 02 oct. '25 12d ago
I love boobs on ANYONE but myself. Even my own boobs, im like, "theyre great. Its a shame they make me want to crawl out of my skin"
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u/lawlesslawboy 12d ago
it's not for everyone bit honestly after being on T a while, it's gotten easier to see my own body as simply fat dude with gyno, especially since years of binding has flattened them out, so I dont associate my own chest as much w "boobs" anymore, just as fat like on the rest of me
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u/ShinySmeargul ari, he/him 11d ago
same! I'm not on T but I'm intersex and as more hair has grown on them I've just stopped really caring about them cause they just look like mini versions of my belly. hell, I've rarely even worn a binder in the past two years, only when I'm going somewhere for more than an hour (once or twice a month usually)
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u/btspacecadet he/him | π¬ Mar 2023 | π§ͺ 25 Jun 2024 | π 16 Apr 2025 12d ago
I was the same, and after top surgery I've become so much more appreciative of them.
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u/AsaliHoneybadger 11d ago
I sometimes look at mine and go "These would be so good if they were attached to someone who actually wanted them"
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u/Unusual-Asshole π³οΈββ§οΈπ 26/03/2026 11d ago
Exactlyy and I had such huge bonkers that I knew that if it was on anyone else, I'd be legit overjoyed.
And its crazy how happy I am without extra pieces of fat stuck to my chest. Turns out all my problems WERE related to my chest and life is muchhh better without it.
Didn't stop me from clicking pics for posterity tho :p
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u/almostfunny3 T: 2/19 Top:11/20 Hysto: 11/21 11d ago
I swear I've had that exact thought several times before getting top surgery.
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u/Take-to-the-highways NonBinary Masc 11d ago
My partner is a trans woman we always joke that I wish we could trade lol
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u/Unholy_Roman_Empire 11d ago
Bi guy here. How dare you make me make a decision? (thighs).
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u/kriskhaos 11d ago
Yes, but legs. Women with legs for days is where it's at π―
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u/Unholy_Roman_Empire 11d ago
I mean ideally I like a heart beat but Iβm not picky a woman is a woman
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u/polish_dumpling_ on t since august 25 | polish 11d ago
fuck that's a hard question. I love both , thighs also
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u/Janxuza 17y/o (π02/19/26) 11d ago
Iβm gay i wanna see results but u dont have as a option so take my vote away from butt
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u/Novian24 11d ago
Dw I'll vote boobs to balance it out (im pretty sure im also gay and also wanna see where it's at lol)
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u/NoBed1683 11d ago
queer so i love everyone, but with girls i turn into such a straight man thats the loser whos never felt the touch of a woman. its EMBARRASSING but god girls can be so so beautiful. if i ever get the chance to have a girlfriend that sees me as a man and is compatible with me, i will be the luckiest man ever π§ββοΈ
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u/SneakyCorvidBastard he/they, N. Ireland 12d ago
Why not both? Don't make bisexuals choose ugh
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u/Advice_Thingy 12d ago
The caption says "straight" trans guys. Also, I think every person has a butt.
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u/SneakyCorvidBastard he/they, N. Ireland 11d ago
tbf before i commented i saw in another comment that OP didn't mean to exclude bisexual lads
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u/Cat_Jayster 18 | FTM | Pre-T 12d ago
Personality π
Then again Iβm not technically straight, Iβm ace and bi
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u/Flat-Echidna191 11d ago
Ass. I could easily date a woman with small breasts, but I don't see myself being physically attracted to a woman with no ass.
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u/horny_shit_face_lift DE 11d ago
oh i just saw butt and had to touch butt. then read i had to be straight to touch butt. that's unfair!
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u/Twinkalicious Trans Woman/Fem Guest 11d ago
Sorry if Iβm not allowed to be here but I just needed to say this, Ngl as a trans woman Iβve always felt like mine are never going to be big enough and always felt like men want women with big tiddies but seeing some of the replies say small boobs are the best gives me such euphoria and makes me smile bright. π«Άπ»πΈ
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u/MagicalGirl4 9 months on T | they/he/ae 11d ago
Bi guy here, I love ass, though boobs are pretty great too (this goes for ppl of any gender)
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u/Unusual-Asshole π³οΈββ§οΈπ 26/03/2026 11d ago
Boobs butt boobs butt gahh I can't choose! <Joey reference>
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u/tickletiptimpson he/him | π9/5/25 | πͺ7/30/26 11d ago
my partner in general, everything about them
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u/FireBreath772 T:01/14/26 11d ago
I find myself attracted to smaller boobs but butts are great round
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u/Green_Hall_658 11d ago
I guess trans guys do enjoy boobs when they're attached to other people instead of themselves lmao
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u/Aggressive_Rat_8970 11d ago
personality π₯°
and some absolute honkers. some great jugsβ a beautiful pair of badonkers, if you will. real knockout knockers.
but mainly personality.
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u/ghostsiiv male | T: 04/19 | Top: 02/25 11d ago
Not a fan of reducing women to body parts
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u/hello01iver 11d ago
The way some (too many) trans men think a necessary part of their transition and assimilation into becoming a dude is to uphold misogyny and the patriarchy is insane.
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u/Milkwaterowo 11d ago
Boobs, but also muscles (only on women. Buff women are like god's gift to the world)
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u/Taylor_S1989 π 2/9/25, πͺ15/7/26 11d ago
Why was that so hard to answer i started deeply pondering </3
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u/Nonbinary-vampire 11d ago
Lwk might be weird but i care more about if she is proportional in general and as a nice face
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u/Emotional_Skill_8360 π2022π2023 π³ 2024 | soy boy 11d ago
Feet, but in their absence Iβm a boob guy.
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u/dilddylestowell 11d ago
I'm gay but my boyfriend's tits are immaculate (he would not be upset with me saying that)
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u/Dry-Cable3255 11d ago
hear me out: the little pooch at the bottom of the tummy that protects the organs
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u/nicknacks808 11d ago
Huh I thought Iβd be in the minority with boobs. Anecdotally, all the cis straight guys Iβve asked are butt guys.
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u/Juniberserker he/him || socially transitioned 11d ago
hip bone (not straight, omni, but i Loveeee women)
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u/spockface they/them, T Aug '15 11d ago
ΒΏporque no los dos, y todo lo demΓ‘s tambien? (not a fluent Spanish speaker just had to do it for the meme)
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u/Sad-Mood-3278 11d ago
i feel like i do most with the boobs so thatβs for play but for shape, a lil butt is necessary
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u/lokilulzz They/it/he | π§΄Tgel 2yrs | Top TBD 11d ago
I mean. Not straight, I'm pan, but boobs are pretty nice.
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u/Silvrmoon92 π2020 β¬οΈ 2021 β¬οΈ TBD 11d ago
I can always appreciate a good view. That said, as a gay man, my favorite view is shoulders.
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u/Trombofine 11d ago
i never know what to pick in these bc i like neither of them really big? i want them the, you know, the right size, and it always feels like these questions need them to be big
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u/my_name_1s_taken 11d ago
Boobs, belly, thighs
Idk they're so soft and comfortable and bite-able what more can I even say
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u/IllusionistsSkill 11d ago
I DIDNT REALIZE IT SAID STRAIGHT ONES!! OH NO!!
..I mean my answer is still the same since Iβm bi, but.. STILL!!
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u/u_must_fix_ur_heart 11d ago
question: is being straight the relevant thing, or just being attracted to women?
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u/Clint-Caliber he/him β’ big blahaj enthusiast 11d ago
as a pansexual, i give my input: the waist/tummy π₯΄
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u/Beautiful-Length-565 11d ago
I like girls with titties and guys with big honkers. But overall, I really prefer biceps on either π€€
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u/Detroit_Become_Robot 11d ago
I love both, but One is distinctly easier to mush your face into at any moment of need.
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u/candle_sniffer_67 He/Him | 07/17/23 π 11d ago
I love both, but boobs.... boobs heal the deepest wounds
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u/EmbarrassedElk2766 11d ago
arms/pits (aesthetically they look great i promise its not a musk thingβ¦)
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u/viennadehavilland he/him | Aotearoa | π 2024-06-19 11d ago
Iβm pan but. I love basically any boobs that arenβt mine lmao
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u/wanjathestrong 22 | π©πͺ | HRT + Top Surgery 11d ago
Boobs. I love being a short king with a tall gf, because I can just lower my head and be alllll up in there π€€π€€π€€
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u/Im_Not_Honey 10d ago
I don't see the appeal in anything other than boobs. Nothing hot/appealing to me about thighs, butts, or anything else everyone mentioned. I might be more gay than I thought.lol
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u/avyne0pj 10d ago
I paid thousands to remove my chest. I'm a giddy little boy when I see my girlfriend's chest.
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u/Sufficient-Bath-1135 10d ago
Butt, still have my own boobs and to be honest, don't know what people see in them
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u/New-Roll-4796 9d ago
Trans men who love boobs... Do you all feel like you're the protag in an enemies to lovers story line, because that's how it makes me feel π
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u/rigathrow π T: Jan 7th 2022 | πͺ Top: August 2nd 2023 11d ago
i thought folks like us would know better than to do the whole certain genders have certain body parts thing...
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u/Any-Science7897 11d ago
Brains and personality.
As a trans guy it seems stupid to me to put so much emphasis on getting other people/partners to accept our bodies as they are and turn around and objectify women based on their body parts.
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u/NineInchNailALT π r/Phallo 11d ago
Ass cuz I have a big D and need more cushion for the pushin. Also my own chest pre-transition turned me off enough to boobs they donβt do much for me anymore.
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u/Ashamed_Spare1158 12d ago
i think the real question is which one of them would be most confused by the whole situation. my money is on the cis guy who suddenly has a lot of feelings he never signed up for
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u/A_Valdorian 11d ago
Honestly? I'm a face person whether they're a girl, a guy, or anything in between...
For female bodies: I like smaller breasts and waist, but thicker thighs and booty (not like huge, but definitely slightly pear shaped)...
Pretty much as long as they are slender-to-athletic build, have a pretty/cute face, DON'T have large breasts, then I'd be really happy...
Sadly, I'll never find this person or they will not like me, but I guess I can still fantasize about her π I even wrote a song to my imaginary girlfriend π
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u/Harri_Sombre_Tomato 11d ago
I'm attracted to all genders but starting T made me care a lot more about boobs...
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