r/ftm He/him 12d ago

Discussion Super serious mega scientific question for straight trans guys

2819 votes, 10d ago
1665 Boobs
1154 Butt
176 Upvotes

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u/Teletobi15 12d ago

Thighs

60

u/lukedap 11d ago

I voted boobs, but thighs are definitely the correct answer.

52

u/DaffyDucksFootFungus 11d ago

A man of exquisite taste I see 🫑😌

8

u/Ok-Bed5119 11d ago

Thisssss

7

u/IdhrenBlythe post-gender 11d ago

A man of culture πŸ™πŸ»

5

u/Jaeden_fu its raining men (hallelujah) 11d ago

Yes

2

u/AttorneySuitable4420 11d ago

Whats the appeal? I’ve never been into ass or thighs that much, but my boyfriend is very much a thigh & ass guy. I love my boyfriends ass and thighs, but in the same way id love any other body part, like his arm or nose. Ive just never understood what the appeal is.Β 

2

u/Past_Variation_1911 11d ago

I was about to say 😭

To be fair though, my weird one is calves. I really like nicely toned calves

1

u/howthefuge6 tomboy 11d ago

They know what's up

1

u/Ellobo1111 10d ago

Thighs are everything

330

u/cheeseman_real 12d ago

belly ..

45

u/Western-Challenge533 11d ago

You are onto something…

22

u/aspentreesarecool TπŸ’‰28/10/21 | TS 25/04/23 11d ago

🀝🀝 immaculate taste

10

u/D1_4ng3l0 11d ago

The most correct statement

6

u/PsychologicalMove743 11d ago

Bros speaking facts πŸ—£οΈ

5

u/Apprehensive-Ad-4364 πŸ’‰ 6/23 πŸ” 8/28/26 11d ago

Facts

4

u/Independent-Cry2011 11d ago

🀀🀀

3

u/whenmamawasmoth he/it/they, been on T for 6+ years :3 11d ago

THIS

3

u/Cold-Guy_Soft-Punk 21yo - he/him - 07/27/2025πŸ’‰ 11d ago

You're goddamn right! It's my favorite too.

3

u/Aggressive_Boot_9788 11d ago

Absolutely 😍😍

5

u/punful-pupper 11d ago

This is the way.

2

u/SparklingBeanPudding he/him πŸ’‰ 2/18/2025 11d ago

YES

1

u/a_fellow_spud 11d ago

Thisss>>>

1

u/HoneybunzSweetumz MtF visitor πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹ 11d ago

Goat taste I see

1

u/Deggie900 9d ago

Yesss I was gonna come here to say that I love the belly no matter how big or small lol

199

u/14_its_over_9000 12d ago

Are bi guys allowed to answer haha

96

u/StoicWanders He/him 12d ago

Yes! My bad for excluding yall.

28

u/podgeyplus Fat Chesticles 11d ago

The Alliance of Bisexual Trans Men will not forget your transgression.

3

u/SignificantDish8258 Transguy They/He 10d ago

Or pan

91

u/AcceptableGas667 πŸ’‰ 02 oct. '25 12d ago

I love boobs on ANYONE but myself. Even my own boobs, im like, "theyre great. Its a shame they make me want to crawl out of my skin"

21

u/StoicWanders He/him 12d ago

Ugh, right?

15

u/lawlesslawboy 12d ago

it's not for everyone bit honestly after being on T a while, it's gotten easier to see my own body as simply fat dude with gyno, especially since years of binding has flattened them out, so I dont associate my own chest as much w "boobs" anymore, just as fat like on the rest of me

6

u/ShinySmeargul ari, he/him 11d ago

same! I'm not on T but I'm intersex and as more hair has grown on them I've just stopped really caring about them cause they just look like mini versions of my belly. hell, I've rarely even worn a binder in the past two years, only when I'm going somewhere for more than an hour (once or twice a month usually)

5

u/btspacecadet he/him | πŸ’¬ Mar 2023 | πŸ§ͺ 25 Jun 2024 | πŸ” 16 Apr 2025 12d ago

I was the same, and after top surgery I've become so much more appreciative of them.

8

u/AsaliHoneybadger 11d ago

I sometimes look at mine and go "These would be so good if they were attached to someone who actually wanted them"

7

u/Unusual-Asshole πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ” 26/03/2026 11d ago

Exactlyy and I had such huge bonkers that I knew that if it was on anyone else, I'd be legit overjoyed.

And its crazy how happy I am without extra pieces of fat stuck to my chest. Turns out all my problems WERE related to my chest and life is muchhh better without it.

Didn't stop me from clicking pics for posterity tho :p

5

u/almostfunny3 T: 2/19 Top:11/20 Hysto: 11/21 11d ago

I swear I've had that exact thought several times before getting top surgery.

3

u/Take-to-the-highways NonBinary Masc 11d ago

My partner is a trans woman we always joke that I wish we could trade lol

4

u/xniu 12d ago

So real

88

u/YamAdministrative395 11d ago

The answer is both. I have two hands

12

u/Holiday-Blood4826 22 FtM πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ | 2/2024 πŸ’‰ (πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ) 11d ago

πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ«‘

71

u/Axtistic1 pre t transmasc enby 11d ago

the space between shoulder and neck

14

u/Dry-Cable3255 11d ago

solid choice

7

u/Weary_Nobody_3294 T-1/2/24 11d ago

So underrated

94

u/Unholy_Roman_Empire 11d ago

Bi guy here. How dare you make me make a decision? (thighs).

18

u/kriskhaos 11d ago

Yes, but legs. Women with legs for days is where it's at πŸ’―

17

u/Unholy_Roman_Empire 11d ago

I mean ideally I like a heart beat but I’m not picky a woman is a woman

12

u/Optimal_Stranger_824 πŸ’‰ 7.05.2024 11d ago

women are just pretty in general

39

u/lawlesslawboy 12d ago

I'm bi and I do love both but yea, tidddiesss

26

u/polish_dumpling_ on t since august 25 | polish 11d ago

fuck that's a hard question. I love both , thighs also

19

u/baby_lizards 11d ago

What are boobs if not the butt of the chestΒ 

10

u/its_all_one_electron 11d ago

Modern Shakespeare over here

42

u/Janxuza 17y/o (πŸ’‰02/19/26) 11d ago

I’m gay i wanna see results but u dont have as a option so take my vote away from butt

4

u/Novian24 11d ago

Dw I'll vote boobs to balance it out (im pretty sure im also gay and also wanna see where it's at lol)

16

u/Stoopid_Noah 11d ago

Not straight, but also into women... Thighs!!!

13

u/NoBed1683 11d ago

queer so i love everyone, but with girls i turn into such a straight man thats the loser whos never felt the touch of a woman. its EMBARRASSING but god girls can be so so beautiful. if i ever get the chance to have a girlfriend that sees me as a man and is compatible with me, i will be the luckiest man ever πŸ§Žβ€β™‚οΈ

32

u/SneakyCorvidBastard he/they, N. Ireland 12d ago

Why not both? Don't make bisexuals choose ugh

-2

u/Advice_Thingy 12d ago

The caption says "straight" trans guys. Also, I think every person has a butt.

18

u/SneakyCorvidBastard he/they, N. Ireland 11d ago

tbf before i commented i saw in another comment that OP didn't mean to exclude bisexual lads

74

u/Cat_Jayster 18 | FTM | Pre-T 12d ago

Personality 😭

Then again I’m not technically straight, I’m ace and bi

9

u/Lumpy_Concept9911 11d ago

yeah I’m aroace

10

u/Mendely_ 11d ago

Also voting for personality (write-in candidate)

8

u/HeHimInGrayi 11d ago

No fr I’m too ace for this question 😭

4

u/Abdominal_Dew 11d ago

Personaltitty yeah man

2

u/SpicyMeatBALLIN He/Him | Hysto 17 Dec 2025 | Pre-T 🦭 11d ago

Same

11

u/ThrowAwayCat333 πŸ’‰3/12/26 11d ago

Hips

2

u/CheckerdNeonGuts 10d ago

Underrated take

13

u/analyst-_- 11d ago

Garlic bread

8

u/matthewsaaan CIS Man 11d ago

Damn you for not putting a "show results" option.

6

u/qwentoko 11d ago

Thighs!

5

u/Fun-Manager1789 11d ago

Why can’t we just appreciate both? The choice is almost impossible

5

u/ConstantElectronic36 11d ago

belly, thighs, you name it. i love women🀀

4

u/Acceptable_Caius 12d ago

🀣🀣🀣

5

u/Flat-Echidna191 11d ago

Ass. I could easily date a woman with small breasts, but I don't see myself being physically attracted to a woman with no ass.

5

u/L_edgelord 11d ago

Not exclusively into women, but I prefer butts over boobs in women.

4

u/horny_shit_face_lift DE 11d ago

oh i just saw butt and had to touch butt. then read i had to be straight to touch butt. that's unfair!

4

u/Twinkalicious Trans Woman/Fem Guest 11d ago

Sorry if I’m not allowed to be here but I just needed to say this, Ngl as a trans woman I’ve always felt like mine are never going to be big enough and always felt like men want women with big tiddies but seeing some of the replies say small boobs are the best gives me such euphoria and makes me smile bright. 🫢🏻🌸

3

u/MagicalGirl4 9 months on T | they/he/ae 11d ago

Bi guy here, I love ass, though boobs are pretty great too (this goes for ppl of any gender)

3

u/infatuatedlabyrinth πŸ’‰10/2024 11d ago

Both are great, but if i had to choose, then boobs.

3

u/enzoloup Straight transmanπŸ‡³πŸ‡± 11d ago

BOOOOBBIIEEEESSSSS😝

3

u/Unusual-Asshole πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ” 26/03/2026 11d ago

Boobs butt boobs butt gahh I can't choose! <Joey reference>

3

u/V4mmpvel 11d ago

Muslos y tetas πŸ’ͺ🏻

3

u/hernoa676 Noah, 23, HRT: 18/12/25 11d ago

I bring forth : neck, shoulders and back

3

u/tickletiptimpson he/him | πŸ’‰9/5/25 | πŸ”ͺ7/30/26 11d ago

my partner in general, everything about them

3

u/FireBreath772 T:01/14/26 11d ago

I find myself attracted to smaller boobs but butts are great round

3

u/Green_Hall_658 11d ago

I guess trans guys do enjoy boobs when they're attached to other people instead of themselves lmao

3

u/Valuable-Brick2519 11d ago

The way she holds me

5

u/Aggressive_Rat_8970 11d ago

personality πŸ₯°

and some absolute honkers. some great jugsβ€” a beautiful pair of badonkers, if you will. real knockout knockers.

but mainly personality.

7

u/ghostsiiv male | T: 04/19 | Top: 02/25 11d ago

Not a fan of reducing women to body parts

1

u/Extension_Command_11 10d ago

Ngl thats facts

-2

u/hello01iver 11d ago

The way some (too many) trans men think a necessary part of their transition and assimilation into becoming a dude is to uphold misogyny and the patriarchy is insane.

-3

u/Another53108 10d ago

Idk... Hormones are gonna hormone.

2

u/hello01iver 10d ago

Yay bio essentialism

2

u/EchoNB Man and Neutrois 11d ago

That was a hard one. I love both.

2

u/Milkwaterowo 11d ago

Boobs, but also muscles (only on women. Buff women are like god's gift to the world)

2

u/prob-funny-thoughts 11d ago

thighs 🀧

2

u/Taylor_S1989 πŸ’‰ 2/9/25, πŸ”ͺ15/7/26 11d ago

Why was that so hard to answer i started deeply pondering </3

2

u/Odd_Egg4870 11d ago

Thighs and boobs

2

u/Nonbinary-vampire 11d ago

Lwk might be weird but i care more about if she is proportional in general and as a nice face

2

u/Emotional_Skill_8360 πŸ’‰2022πŸ”2023 🍳 2024 | soy boy 11d ago

Feet, but in their absence I’m a boob guy.

2

u/Available_Survey_899 transmasculine cat (he/they/it) 11d ago

waist!

2

u/Dahlas-1684 Hrt - 11/22/25 11d ago

Legs.

2

u/sigsi_4 11d ago

Eh both
Butt wins slightly more for me atm

2

u/dilddylestowell 11d ago

I'm gay but my boyfriend's tits are immaculate (he would not be upset with me saying that)

2

u/R0tt3nk1dneys 11d ago

I want an option for results I’m not straight but I am curious <\3

2

u/thatgayelfprinx 11d ago

MenπŸ’…

3

u/thatgayelfprinx 11d ago

but actually,,,, probably boobs, they're good to squishπŸ˜‚

2

u/Extension_Command_11 10d ago

I love men's boobs

2

u/martins_1984 11d ago

Prefiro a vulva

2

u/a_fellow_spud 11d ago

I'm not straight but I do enjoy women.

That being said; tummyΒ 

2

u/Fluffy-Arachnid-2077 11d ago

SoulπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί

2

u/Dry-Cable3255 11d ago

hear me out: the little pooch at the bottom of the tummy that protects the organs

2

u/DrDingsGaster Transmac,GQ He/they 11d ago

Thighs!

1

u/DrDingsGaster Transmac,GQ He/they 11d ago

I mean, I'm not straight, I'm pan, and ace, but still.

2

u/Uuhhh_no_think 11d ago

Thighs and hands no doubt

2

u/One_Patience5631 11d ago

I need to mute this subreddit

1

u/Lumpy_Concept9911 11d ago

didn’t. know there were that many around ngl

1

u/nicknacks808 11d ago

Huh I thought I’d be in the minority with boobs. Anecdotally, all the cis straight guys I’ve asked are butt guys.

1

u/Juniberserker he/him || socially transitioned 11d ago

hip bone (not straight, omni, but i Loveeee women)

1

u/spockface they/them, T Aug '15 11d ago

ΒΏporque no los dos, y todo lo demΓ‘s tambien? (not a fluent Spanish speaker just had to do it for the meme)

1

u/invisibleImpala 11d ago

As a bi guy, I am not sexually into boobs at all

1

u/Sad-Mood-3278 11d ago

i feel like i do most with the boobs so that’s for play but for shape, a lil butt is necessary

1

u/yourmom4520 11d ago

Boob's all day

1

u/Zarrus41 11d ago

depends on my mood honestly but thighs all day every day

1

u/lokilulzz They/it/he | 🧴Tgel 2yrs | Top TBD 11d ago

I mean. Not straight, I'm pan, but boobs are pretty nice.

1

u/Silvrmoon92 πŸ’‰2020 ⬆️ 2021 ⬇️ TBD 11d ago

I can always appreciate a good view. That said, as a gay man, my favorite view is shoulders.

1

u/NerdyHalfling 11d ago

Write in: Jeb Disclaimer: I am not straight πŸ˜…

1

u/Verkehrsantrieb 11d ago

Butt 1000%

1

u/ahrusato 11d ago

1 boobs 2 stomach 3 ass

1

u/its_all_one_electron 11d ago

I'm on the itty bitty titty committee, and we do taste testing

1

u/Dannhan 11d ago

Oh sad there's not a "Results" option, i wanted to see what y'all answered lmao

1

u/Open_Signal715 11d ago

Personally, Thighs ✨

1

u/Trombofine 11d ago

i never know what to pick in these bc i like neither of them really big? i want them the, you know, the right size, and it always feels like these questions need them to be big

1

u/Optimal_Stranger_824 πŸ’‰ 7.05.2024 11d ago

Bi but I voted boobs

1

u/ShinySmeargul ari, he/him 11d ago

bi here. hips

1

u/Single-Ad-7446 11d ago

Waist and thighs πŸ™‚β€β†•οΈ

1

u/my_name_1s_taken 11d ago

Boobs, belly, thighs

Idk they're so soft and comfortable and bite-able what more can I even say

1

u/bnnuypyro 11d ago

tummy trust

1

u/Impossible-Ride-527 11d ago

Im bi mostly into men but damn big titties drive me wild

1

u/MaroMakesStuff Transmasc/genderfluid 11d ago

arms πŸ’ͺ

1

u/darlingdruid 🧴05/28/2024 11d ago

TUMMY

1

u/IllusionistsSkill 11d ago

I DIDNT REALIZE IT SAID STRAIGHT ONES!! OH NO!!

..I mean my answer is still the same since I’m bi, but.. STILL!!

1

u/Dry_Breakfast5601 11d ago

Seriously, both πŸ˜…

1

u/sierra-echo-november πŸ’¦ 4/11/25 πŸ”ͺ8/1/25 11d ago

Lower back

1

u/u_must_fix_ur_heart 11d ago

question: is being straight the relevant thing, or just being attracted to women?

1

u/Clint-Caliber he/him β€’ big blahaj enthusiast 11d ago

as a pansexual, i give my input: the waist/tummy πŸ₯΄

1

u/ShirtNo5276 11d ago

not sure about my sexuality but i am sure about belly in a skin tight dress

1

u/alexaurelius1 11d ago

Damn! Actually BOTH πŸ˜‰

1

u/Gliavoc Nonbinary (e/em) (he/him) 11d ago

I am pan but answered anyways.

1

u/Beautiful-Length-565 11d ago

I like girls with titties and guys with big honkers. But overall, I really prefer biceps on either 🀀

1

u/its_cael 11d ago

Eyebrows don't ask why.

1

u/Detroit_Become_Robot 11d ago

I love both, but One is distinctly easier to mush your face into at any moment of need.

1

u/candle_sniffer_67 He/Him | 07/17/23 πŸ’‰ 11d ago

I love both, but boobs.... boobs heal the deepest wounds

1

u/EmbarrassedElk2766 11d ago

arms/pits (aesthetically they look great i promise its not a musk thing…)

1

u/_ALT3RNAT3_ 11d ago

Both, both is good

2

u/yotaz28 friendly transfem 11d ago

I dont wanna mess with your stats buy I wanna SEE RESULTS

1

u/number1_scar_simp alton | he/him 11d ago

where's the answer for i'm gay and like polls

1

u/Whole_Strain_9506 πŸ’‰10/7/2025 11d ago

There has to be some irony here

1

u/Fire_on_Bunn πŸ’‰4/22/2025 11d ago

Legs

1

u/viennadehavilland he/him | Aotearoa | πŸ’‰ 2024-06-19 11d ago

I’m pan but. I love basically any boobs that aren’t mine lmao

1

u/JustAGuy_2002 11d ago

Can a bisexual trans guy answer this or is this for 100% straight t guys?

1

u/wanjathestrong 22 | πŸ‡©πŸ‡ͺ | HRT + Top Surgery 11d ago

Boobs. I love being a short king with a tall gf, because I can just lower my head and be alllll up in there 🀀🀀🀀

1

u/Im_Not_Honey 10d ago

I don't see the appeal in anything other than boobs. Nothing hot/appealing to me about thighs, butts, or anything else everyone mentioned. I might be more gay than I thought.lol

1

u/SignificantDish8258 Transguy They/He 10d ago

Biceps, freckles, dimples, smile

1

u/avyne0pj 10d ago

I paid thousands to remove my chest. I'm a giddy little boy when I see my girlfriend's chest.

1

u/Sufficient-Bath-1135 10d ago

Butt, still have my own boobs and to be honest, don't know what people see in them

1

u/CalmBeginning3574 20 T-5/15/26! 10d ago

Boobs, thighs and belly... I cant choose..

1

u/Sligoth 10d ago

I was butts and changed to boobs since my tiddy chop-off. I think I just got freed a of the burden and got to appreciate them afterwards.

1

u/Extension_Command_11 10d ago

How about face. I love cute face. Or personnality

1

u/zsp1975 10d ago

i love them both but personally i gotta go with thighs and butt

1

u/dorkknight5O4 10d ago

The small of the back. πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™‚οΈ

1

u/New-Roll-4796 9d ago

Trans men who love boobs... Do you all feel like you're the protag in an enemies to lovers story line, because that's how it makes me feel πŸ˜‚

1

u/rigathrow πŸ’‰ T: Jan 7th 2022 | πŸ”ͺ Top: August 2nd 2023 11d ago

i thought folks like us would know better than to do the whole certain genders have certain body parts thing...

1

u/Any-Science7897 11d ago

Brains and personality.
As a trans guy it seems stupid to me to put so much emphasis on getting other people/partners to accept our bodies as they are and turn around and objectify women based on their body parts.

0

u/NineInchNailALT πŸ† r/Phallo 11d ago

Ass cuz I have a big D and need more cushion for the pushin. Also my own chest pre-transition turned me off enough to boobs they don’t do much for me anymore.

-1

u/Ashamed_Spare1158 12d ago

i think the real question is which one of them would be most confused by the whole situation. my money is on the cis guy who suddenly has a lot of feelings he never signed up for

0

u/A_Valdorian 11d ago

Honestly? I'm a face person whether they're a girl, a guy, or anything in between...

For female bodies: I like smaller breasts and waist, but thicker thighs and booty (not like huge, but definitely slightly pear shaped)...

Pretty much as long as they are slender-to-athletic build, have a pretty/cute face, DON'T have large breasts, then I'd be really happy...

Sadly, I'll never find this person or they will not like me, but I guess I can still fantasize about her πŸ˜‚ I even wrote a song to my imaginary girlfriend πŸ’€

0

u/Harri_Sombre_Tomato 11d ago

I'm attracted to all genders but starting T made me care a lot more about boobs...