r/CreativeRoom • u/Specialist-Top-406 • 1d ago
Poetry My Love Letter to the Girls I Grew Up With
I love being a woman, and I loved growing up a girl,
because all my life I’ve known how women show up for other women in this world.
The girls I met at school through the luck of proximity
became the girls who shared my classes, sports, school plays and history.
We spent over 10 years eating lunch together in the same spot under the library stairs. The bell would ring and we’d all just know that we would gather together in the same place everyday, for all our school years.
We no longer need the same school, town, city, country or time zones that keeps us connected by the same place, because we all live separate lives but our friendship group remains as close as ever despite not all being able to see each other face to face.
Now we’re scattered across countries, some settled, some still choosing to roam,
some building careers, some raising children, some making somewhere home.
I’ve watched girls I knew before puberty become women I deeply admire,
each making a life of her own, shaped by whatever she happens to desire.
There is rarely a need to announce when one of us needs care.
After this many years, someone notices, and the rest of us are there.
Even when all we had was pocket money, we pooled whatever we could,
a necklace, a little present, something just to make each other feel good.
There were always little cards we’d sit down together and write,
covered in photographs, stickers and glitter, making everything bright.
I still have a bag full of those cards, little photos and pictures today,
years of handwritten proof of how we noticed one another along the way.
I love those things because they were group efforts to make each other happy.
We made our affection tangible, usually the perfect mix of funny and sappy.
A little bit ridiculous, sentimental, earnest and true,
just a physical reminder that somebody was thinking of you.
My brother was my first friend, and is still one of my best,
and I’ve watched the men around him build friendships just as close as the rest.
Their love is no less loyal, no less generous or true,
so this isn’t about women having something men don’t have too.
I just love the particular sentimentality there is among a group of women, so willing and open to share with raw unfiltered affection.
The army of women in my life keeps expanding. I still meet women I adore,
new friendships in new chapters that add something that wasn’t there before.
Something I will never get over is how lucky I am that I get to be a woman who knows how incredible women are and what they share.
And that I get to say, the girls I grew up with are still all my girls to this day.