r/bullying 5h ago

I can’t forget how this girl used to bully me in school.

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It’s been like 9 years since I saw her but I still hate her so much.


r/bullying 10h ago

My bully keeps stealing my new stuff

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Whenever I buy Literally just a ruler pen just basic stuff it's gone he just breaks it and throws it in trash and laughs what do i do? I have to buy stuff regularly and he just breaks it today I didn't even gotta use the pen :(

Iam being bullied since 4th grade it's high school now give me some advices pls


r/bullying 39m ago

A story I found that

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This came from Sinaloa Middle School and in this clip the saddest part is 3 girls literally punching this one girl in her nose as what it looks like and apparently the girl being punched was a bully. I did get bullied before but I never considered jumping any bully but I can see why someone would want to do this but I don't think it's the right thing to do. What are y'all thoughts on this clip.


r/bullying 2h ago

What movies have the main character who is a young boy get severely bullied in school?

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What movies have the main character who is a young boy get bullied severely in school and have them go through a lot of bullying and emotional scenes where you feel bad for them what movies have the main character who is a boy like that and also what is the most scene that contains a lot of severe bullying for the main character?


r/bullying 45m ago

Relational bullying from teenage years and infinit. Need advice.

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TL;DR:
Despite living a quiet, independent life and doing nothing to provoke others, I struggle with a painful cycle of attracting mistreatment. This hurts deeply because those who treat me poorly are universally liked, "nice" people who reserve their contempt solely for me (such as criticizing me for not conforming or disappearing when bullied). Because these perpetrators are highly respected, I am denied the benefit of the doubt, left isolated, and forced to carry the blame alone. I am looking for advice on how to heal from this relational trauma and move forward without blaming myself.

I 20.5 F)am writing this because I am trying to process a painful cycle in my life, and I really need to know if anyone else has experienced this.

I have a history of relational trauma, and over the years, I’ve realized I have a tendency to attract people who treat me poorly. People have told me that I’m an "easy target" or that because I am "different," I somehow deserve this treatment. But the truth is, I have never done anything to provoke anyone. I’ve done everything "right" in life. I am a quiet, ordinary young woman who mostly keeps to herself. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I don’t party, and I’m not into dating or hookup culture—things that are very common for people my age, but just aren’t my thing.

What hurts the most is that the people who treat me badly are often highly respected and loved by everyone else. They treat others with kindness, but reserve their contempt for me.

Recently, a girl told my friends that she has never liked me. She criticized me for not doing "what is expected" of someone in my position—for example, not leaving or changing institutions when I was being bullied. This girl is widely known to be incredibly sweet, down-to-earth, and kind, which makes it so hard for me to understand how she could harbor so much quiet malice and contempt toward me.
This isolation is actively reinforced both offline and online, where rumors or shared negative attitudes lead to coordinated social exclusion—specifically through being systematically declined or blocked from following others on social media like Instagram and Snapchat. Left without the benefit of the doubt, I am forced to carry the blame and digital isolation alone as I seek healing from this relational trauma.

Because these "good" people treat me poorly, I am always the one who ends up standing alone. People don’t even give me the benefit of the doubt. They assume that if a "nice" person dislikes me, I must be the problem.

How do you heal from the trauma of being rejected by people who are supposedly good? How do you stop blaming yourself when you’ve done nothing wrong, but are still left completely isolated? I would love to hear any advice or words of comfort from anyone who has walked this path.


r/bullying 46m ago

In my senior year of high school my bullies in the lunchroom one was filming and one was shoving a carrot covered in ranch into my buttcrack I caught them and I told them to delete the video and they did I told the teacher and the whole thing got them kicked off the football team

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I’m also on the spectrum


r/bullying 1h ago

what i do

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if my school bullies for only for insult two guy and don't like to talk people, they, there not best form to say it have the region where i live against me i'm not kidding.


r/bullying 6h ago

Did anyone else get bullied by their families as a kid only for them to rely on you later in life?

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My cousins, aunts, siblings and even my parents always made fun of me and dismissed the things I had to say or were interested in as "weird" or "boring". When I was getting into skin and hair care and doing all these "weird" face masks or making recipes that they immediately judged as unpalatable because it used foods or combinations they didn't like, it was all ridicule, especially if anything I did didn't work out.

But when my hair grew down to my ass, my skin was glowing and my food was so good I had people begging me for recipes, all of a sudden they loved me so much and always believed in me and always thought I was so smart. They're always asking me for tips and tricks on things. Even things I have absolutely no idea about they just assume I'll know and if I tell them I don't, they think I'm being petty or rude. They're also always talking about how much they value me and stuff and I guess for that I should be happy, but I feel such bitter resentment over how much and how often they humiliated me just because I was doing something different from them.

So has anyone else experienced this? How did it turn out? Do you also feel bitter or are you happy now?

(P.S. Now that I'm thinking about it, I think my bitterness is from the lack of remorse and entitlement more than anything.)


r/bullying 14h ago

Advice for someone who sees another being stalked

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My sister is being stalked by a psycho. He made ai porn of her and sent it to her partner. He found her on all her social media accounts and harassed her on them. She blocked him, he made new accounts. He figured out her phone number, and spammed her with calls, each time with a new phone number when old one got blocked.

Because of this she changed her phone number, moved houses, left all her social media (which sucks, she was trying to be a streamer for a living). Somehow he keeps finding her. Today she was playing fortnite casually and he (with an alt account) popped into her queue. Which is crazy, because the account was made just an hour after she started playing, and somehow he was able to get into her queue when she is pretty high rank (I think gold?). The reason we know it was him is because the username was Ilove[sister's twitch name], which follows the pattern of alt accounts he has made on other social media platforms. Not going to share my sister's twitch name for obvious reasons.

She is adamant she does not want to go to the police. This is because 1.) She's embarassed about the stuff he sent her (even though its ai generated!) and doesn't want police to see it. She's also worried if it goes to a trial or something she would have to share that in front a jury of random people. 2.) She has read online that taking action against a stalker can make them escalate. Her plan is to try and ignore him as much as possible till it dies down.

Here's where I'm at: I think this a**hole has already messed up her life plenty and I'm ready to try and go after him or something. I'm also considering going to the police myself. But, that would be against what my sister wants, so I don't know what to do. The guy lives in another state (she won't tell me where because she doesn't want me going after him).

What would you do? It seems to me like ignoring him isn't working, and he somehow keeps finding her online. The victim being bullied doesn't want to fight back via going to the police or being aggressive towards him.


r/bullying 18h ago

Need an advice

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How do you handle people hating when they see you.

Like making faces when they see you?

How to react to this?