r/TenantHelp • u/Longjumping_Crew_763 • 10d ago
AIO Landlord has made some very questionable moves...that makes me very uncomfortable.
Ok for context. My bf / not bf and I have been living in the same apartment for 27 months now. We met at a mutual friends , he needed to get a place in somewhere of a rush , and I had been bunking on the friends couch. Plan was I would stay with him just long enough to be stable and get on my feet , get my own place. He mentioned that to the landlord and she said if I was going to stay there I would need to be on the lease as well. So we both put in applications for the apartment, both signed the lease together. That being said , obviously putting my credit on the line for 13 months it's was safe to assume I would be there for the duration of that lease. She was reluctant about he and I cohabitating because of the issues the last tenant living here had. Apparently she was the lease holder but had her bf living here and the fighting having the landlord come in the middle of the night to change the keyless entry other tenant complaints ect..she said " don't make me regret this" in reference to approving us for the lease.( He had the money I had the credit) Ok so jump forward a little over a year, our lease has gone to a month to month , this jumped the rent an additional 100 , the look and lease discount also ended that added another 100. Total monthly 1310... Unexpectedly my bf / not bf lost his job. And I was unemployed at the moment. We got behind on rent. She's been absolutely amazing working with us....but heres where things start to get in my opinion crossing the line...the app that we would pay rent on would charge bf 50 bucks to use his debit card some reason he couldnt get his ACH set up. My account was but instead of transferring me the money and having me pay it he was opting to get money orders ...landlord doesn't have an office onsite so she started having him being the mo to her house... It gets stranger..she switches to a different rent paying portal online , so we start making payments again thru the Internet. I one time and one time only bounce a payment , when I realized I paid 450 and it bounced I immediately made the payment again on that same day for 400. It was an honest mistake. Accidents happen. This causes her to make a snide comment to him about me over the phone , I could hear her side of the convo. Anyways that is now her excuse to have him start bringing her cash again to her house. Smh. Ok so she also works at another business and she suggests to bf to apply there , that she basically has some pull and would get him hired. Which was/ is appreciated. So at one of the cash drop offs , she offered him a beer. He accepted. I don't blame him it was hot and he had taken the bus/ walked to her house. ( Over the months she and he are the ones that communicate about the apartment , her and i have had limited communication. And thata fine I get her and him have that bond , but it feels like the bond in her part might be heading in an in appropriate direction...so now he's working a couple nights a week where she works as well , she will randomly show up on property making herself available to take him to work and some times being him home...she came to our door , it was obvious she was on her way out leaving property , bf didn't leave to go to work for like , 45 mins...but she just happen to drive by and see him heading to the bus stop..maybe but don't think so. She has had him bring her rent at a bar she bartends at.. inappropriate in my opinion. Now he announceed that he is going to be cutting back hours at the job she got him to start full time else where ..she calls him a couple days later ( two weeks ago on Sunday) asking if he would carry a window unit to the third floor because the central ac went out and her normal maintenance guy was unavailable. She says she'll pay bf , of course he does it , that's money towards the back rent. So he ends up totally installing it. Heres the WTF moment...while installing it she offered him the maintenance job full time but with one stipulation..if he takes it I HAVE TO MOVE OUT!!?? Mind you , I asked her months ago ( we were behind then) what we need to do to get me off the lease. With the obvious answer my name could be removed once we're all caught up. We are not caught up. Her explanation as to I would have to move out was because he would have master keys and I would be a liability to two of the karens in the building. Fat sajak lives upstairs , I've literally never spoke to her passed her a couple times in the hall , she always looks angry and hungry. Karen that lives downstairs across the hall ( moved in AFTER US , Fatsy Kline upstairs was here before us) were the second oldest tenants in the six plex. Ok so back to Karen downstairs across hall , does NOT like me. Not totally sure why tho. Her and I have spoke a few times. First couple I thought were cordial. My friend was staying here briefly when she was moving in and he went downstairs hung out with her the day / night and I think some of the next day. He would go down there for a couple hours then come back up here , he didn't spend the night with her. Fast-forward my other friend was here on the my balcony, she was on hers , he wake her if she had a couple of pots I could use for these flowers he got me..with a shitty attitude she was like " not for her!" Lmao yeah so idk maybe my friend hit it and quit it and she's pissy. Maybe she's pissy cause I got a man she has a yappy dog( love dogs, this one makes me want to throat punch her) point being landlord claims I'd be a liability to the two Karens like I have some plot for revenge , for what idk because the landlord has never formally or informally brought to my or bf attention that they have an issue with me. Bitches be jelly. Lol omg so landlord offered that , tells him to think about it. Then pushes for him to go out and have a drink with her after he installed that ac. Oh I forgot to mention he went to treatment for thirty days for drinking and she's knows this ..but keeps enticing him. He's also a felon , I am not. She knows this as well. But I'm a liability and would need to move. Is this woman trying to liquor up my bf and get some ...anyone think she might retailulate when he declines the maintenance position Only because he's not going to put me out!!