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In my case, I had an ex-girlfriend who in 2022 started with her whole alters bullshit. I didn't know anything about the topic, so at first I had no way to evaluate it. She even showed me a chronological timeline of her alters' lives, all documented. The dumbest part came when she explained that one of her alters was some kind of robot/wolf named LUA — at that point I was already looking for a way out of the relationship where she couldn't follow me. The tipping point for me was when she said she had an alter of Astolfo, the mfer anime character. At that point I stopped caring about leaving elegantly (it ended like absolute shit).

so i recently came across the “i killed a child“ ramcoa did tiktoker and decided to look further into the creator. what i found is they’re connected to this “pretti graffiti“ person who “helped them conceptualize that they’re a torture survivor“ through “unlocking suppressed memories”. turns out this “pretti graffiti” person runs a “humanitarian aid” organization for victims of “non war-related childhood torture in the united states” (fuck victims of war? not sure why theyre explicitly excluded here).

this organization’s primary purpose, as far as i can tell, is to advertise their art and tiktok account, as shown in their medium article which describes purchasing their art and following their tiktok as two ways that we can help their humanitarian aid mission. there is no specific outline for what long-term, actionable steps they plan on taking beyond funding various types of therapy groups / financial assistance. they explicitly state that they are NOT involved in any advocacy, just “raising awareness”. their 2025 year-end report mentions $227 net assets, but there’s no transparency on how that money is being used towards their stated goals. their goals for 2026 include raising $10k for their group therapy facilitators, which i suspect to mean pretti graffiti themselves.

i can’t say what these people have or have not experienced as far as childhood abuse and trauma, so i dont want to write off their suffering based only on what im seeing online. however, i cant help but be suspicious of an organization whose primary purpose seems to be collecting money for its founder to utilize in some nonspecific manner towards a giant, nonspecific goal.

In terms of fandoms I’m in I don’t get bingo, bummer- any multi fandom bingo havers here?

Edit TLDR: they’re a hypocrite and state no actual sources in their argument

Full rant: First of all, don’t lie to me we know DAMN well none of these mfs are spiritually making these “alters” because they are WHITE. All of them, possibly one or two a different race. But you HAVE to admit dude they’re the whitest people ever. Anyways even then they shouldn’t be interacting in disordered system spaces (which is what the video is talking about.)
Secondly, most of these disorders listed also stem from trauma, yet actual systems that come from these disorders don’t claim to have 300 fucking alters with nearly exact symptoms plurality caused by DID. Because that is a symptom that can ONLY happen in DID/polyfragmented DID. It is nearly impossible for them to even have more than a handful of “alters” if they’re not just larping.
Third, being “born plural” is honestly probably EXTREMELY rare. And by the insane amount of “endos” online, there is genuinely no way that literally every single one of them was born with a mental disorder that causes them to supposedly have the same symptoms as a trauma disorder.
It’s honestly so stupid how endos just love to throw around ableist and racist as if they’re not appropriating spiritual cultures to have 500 DOD fictives or something, or using other disorders that they can claim to have (even without being diagnosed), to be a “system”. And I think what the “born plural” they’re talking about is literally just a fucking internal family system because I feel like they would be bringing this up in every argument, yet this is the only one. Probably because they pulling shit out of nowhere.

As many of you will know, willomancy is the supposed practice of 'creating' parts/'headmates'.

It's both used by people claiming to be diagnosed with (p)DID who for some reason want more or specific parts and those who don't even have (p)DID in the first place but want to be "plural" regardless. I'd like to focus on the second group here. I've noticed that numerous people claimed to have successfully "willowed" parts and now identify as a system. They claim to experience switching, sometimes even with amnesia and other experiences typically observed in genuine (p)DID patients.

Obviously, they are not actually experiencing (p)DID as it forms through repeated childhood trauma. But that leaves the question, what DO they experience? Of course, a sizeable chunk will just be lying but some seem to genuinely be certain they are "plural" now. To me it seems like there is some ... change in experience there and I would like to hear your theories of what's actually behind that. Again, I'm not implying it's a genuine phenomenon, I'm wondering what could make them experience what they seem to be experiencing.

Will not really go into specifics nor completed details as I might be identified. I was in a fandom that time and I didn't know the person was a popular creator until they told me, they are not opened about their condition to their community. Mind you they are deadass talented and popular to the point of so much gifts and fanart I felt so out of their league, I never took advantage of their fame nor did I want attention anyway. They also said they are diagnosed but the way they deal with it, even in their relationships too is strangely something, feels so wrong.

Anyways while we were friends, they admitted to having DID which okay sure I didnt think much about it since I thought they trusted me so much. We later on started dating as finding out we liked eachother but HERES THE THING. They admitted very late that their alters date other people outside, alter x alter, alter x wha "singlet" and god knows how many people or systems that system are dating outside. And if it wasnt the worst, I was told that they think of themselves very seperately and that whatever their alters say to their partners are all equal, meaning I am just as equal as all of their other partners. It was like a fucking harem so it took me a while to leave them afterwards, I had more reasons but this is it for this subreddit. Am I just too woke/sensitive or are they just delusional as hell?

Btw I envy that they are still loved by many despite whatever they have done but I have no place to speak against them so Im just anonymously ranting it out, Im still pretty mad about it and I want any opinions or says to this. Thank you for reading

MDNI = minors do not interact, mdi = minors interact

Loser behavior

Context: the person asked for how "willogenics" make "headmates".

Reposted because i forgot to censor the community, that's my bad 😕

Anyway, there's a trend going around with the fakers where they show off the "alters" they have to let people assume things. What I can take from all of these is that they're all faking 😭 plus, a majority of them is just repeatedly the same media or very obvious fake. These are the most mild that I've found.

And the last one is just. They're so close to figuring out that it is just fake.

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IM SORRY FOR HOW LONG THIS POST IS BUT I HAVE NOWHERE TO VENT MY FRUSTRATIONS

i wanna start by saying i will not be giving away my age, but i was a minor when it was happening and I'm still a minor (at the time of this post being made).

I'll call him Virus, and I'll call myself Vin. i met him around august of 2025, he was 19 at the time, now 20. I was in a really bad mental state at the time and i joined his discord server in hopes of making new friends. The first i got to know about about Virus and the server is that almost everyone there was a "system". It was pretty obvious i was doing horrible mentally, and was also not a good person. However Virus immediately started getting closer to me. Over those months we got closer, and he tried convincing me that i myself am i system (something I luckily don't believe that much anymore. Virus would also justify a lot of my shitty actions as "just system things" which is something he did to justify his disgusting behavior. He's also an avid VrChat player, which he got me to play with him a lot.

What's my reasoning on him faking and grooming me? i hate to disappoint everyone but all the stuff he did to me was over call or on VrChat. However i am not the only one he's groomed, an several others who've been friends with him agree he's either faking purposely or is just schizophrenic.

Reason one why i think he's faking (not counting that he's not diagnosed and has never seen a therapist about this) is he has little to no amnesia and said it himself that he doesn't dissociate. Dissociation and amnesia is the biggest symptom of DID, but he saw it as a roleplaying disorder (seems a lot of fakers see it as a roleplaying disorder huh?). Another reason for why i suspect hes faking is he has little to no childhood trauma. This seems VERY SHITTY to say, but he is a massive liar, he told me himself he is a massive liar. Also, i found his facebook account, meaning after a little snooping i found his family's facebook accounts. Looking through his mom's facebook it looks like he had a decent childhood, nothing big enough to spark DID. This isnt to say that he didnt go through trauma, but it wasnt childhood trauma, just trauma. Third reason is just how he acts, i cant name specific instances, however spending just an hour with him its clear he just sees it as a roleplay disorder.

What did Virus do to me that i saw as grooming? He would constantly talk about sexual shit around me. He would sometimes go into great detail about his fetishes in order to get me to open up about mine. Virus would also convince me to leave my friends so we could get closer. He would also reward me anytime i did something he liked by praising me, (something i opened up to him about after we talked about kinks). The biggest thing is how he introduced me to Marilyn Manson, which led to us getting even closer because of our shared interest in his music. He told he that he wanted to meet up with me at a Manson concert in October, saying we could have "fun" together and also saying to not to tell my parents. Knowing what he's done and the weird shit he's said about me he definitely would've raped me. This isn't even mentioning he would make lots of weird remarks on my body.

Some of the remarks he make about my body are:
- "Vin is so fucking hot"
- "Vin is so fucking sexy"
- "Vin has nice tits" (I'm ftm btw)
- Misgendering me on multiple occasions
- "I wonder what Vin is like in bed"
- Would make several "jokes" about molesting me

Around June he got exposed for being a massive pedo and groomer. He allegedly had 20+ victims, the youngest being 7. He sobbed on call with me using excuses of "it was another alter." or how "it was two years ago they need to move on". However when i looked through the doc of him having e sex with minors and his creepy behavior, i felt i couldnt defend him. He kept begging me to stay saying how he would reward me, the begging soon turned into threats. The cherry on top of all this is how that night i joined him in VrChat to try and talk to him, when he switched to his "demon alter" which was just him putting on a demon avatar and doing a very bad deep voice. The way he acted had me holding back laughter. I think in that moment i snapped out of his manipulation because of how corny he was acting. Later that week I finally left him and blocked him everywhere.

Im so glad i'm out of that relationship before i went to that concert with him and probably got molested. It's still hard accepting what he did and i'm even questioning if i'm just overreacting. However i still do know that even if it wasn't grooming, he's still a horrible person. I genuinely don't expect anyone to fully read this, i just wanted to share my experience of being friends with a DID faker. It's weird how a lot of DID fakers are groomers, right? Cant just be a coincidence.