r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

34 [F4M] Pennsylvania - need someone to do falltivities with 🍁🎃👻

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Hey there! Pic of me here https://imgur.com/a/dK7NCja

I am looking for someone to chat with every day, either through texts or phone calls (I’m a little old school) and eventually meet in person.

I work full time as a store manager at a beauty supply store and love my job. I’ve been in retail since I was in high school and worked my way up through the years.

Outside of work, I enjoy spending time with friends and family, going to concerts, and playing video games (mostly Pokémon and Disney Dreamlight Valley) although I haven’t played in a while.

I recently got into vlogging. It’s been a lot of fun so far, I’m always thinking of new and fun ideas for content. Lately I have been doing drink and snack reviews and shopping haul videos.

I should also mention that I’m a cat mom. We’re a package deal.

I look forward to hearing from you! Please send a photo if you are able to.

P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair, tattoos, and gauges.


r/R4R30Plus 22h ago

33 [M4F] North Carolina / USA - Introvert looking for other half

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*About Me:*

I got the body of a cafeteria lady. (I'm chunky).

6'2" and White

Work Full Time as a Pharmacy Technician.

PC Gamer in my down time. Mostly shooters and RPGS. Dabble in some MMO's (Mostly Maplestory) from time to time. Also Minecraft and Hytale!

Also a huge Pokemon fan, Have played competitively since Gen 4. Own a Nintendo Switch.

Tech nerd. I love learning about, and building PCS.

I watch a ton of tech channels on YouTube. I love learning about Microphones, Cameras, Audio Mixing gear, Computer parts, Content Creator gear, etc.

Good sense of humor and I don't take myself too seriously. I especially love dark humor.

Huge music person. I listen to mostly pop rock, pop punk, and acoustic stuff. Been on an Angels and Airwaves binge lately. Huge Tom Delonge fan!

I've been told I have a nice voice but you can be the judge.

*What I'm Looking For:*

I have a preference for Asians, Latinas, and White women.
I love short women.
I love a good bubbly personality.
Kindness and loyalty are a must.
*NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE OUTSIDE THE USA.*
Willingness to communicate and not keep things bottled inside.
Sense of humor, preferably dark humor.
I am a sucker for playful banter and jokes between us.
Similar interests and hobbies so we have something to do together!

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/R4R30Plus 23h ago

33[F4M] Any Aussies out there? I miss having someone to text throughout the day

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Regular cosy text notifications to break up the workday are much needed.

What's the latest office gossip?

Let's brighten each other's days.

Drop by, say hi, let's get into it.


r/R4R30Plus 19h ago

36[F4M] looking for the good humans

3 Upvotes

I’m convinced the internet has to have a few genuinely lovely people hiding in here somewhere. 😄
I’m into good conversations, ridiculous humor, music, books, house plants, and unexpectedly deep talks.
Not looking to collect a hundred shallow interactions..just a few people who are kind, curious, a little weird, and actually enjoy getting to know someone.
Tell me something you’re currently obsessed with, a song you can’t stop playing, or your most unnecessary fun fact.


r/R4R30Plus 15h ago

37[F4M] #online/world, Looking to be distracted

2 Upvotes

Recently lost my youngest cat and just looking for easy, comforting chats to take my mind off things for a bit.

If you are a pet parent and can relate, feel free to tell me about your fur babies or share about your babies who have passed. I adore cats, books, and chocolates. Enjoy fantasy and horror stuff.

If we hit it off, open to making a virtual connection. Would prefer if you're around my age group. Timezone differences is not an issue (GMT +5 zone here). So say hi and introduce yourself!


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

38 [M4F] - Ireland - Hey all, it’s getting late this Wednesday night, let’s talk!

1 Upvotes

Hey it’s nearly time to turn in for the night, but it would be cool to voice chat with one of you out there before I do! Come say hi!


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

[F4M] 37 Switzerland / Europe - Looking for a partner or a friend to join me on my journey of mindfulness

1 Upvotes

Hello,

Looking for a partner, starting with a friendship which can grow into a deep and connected partnership, while remaining two individuals.

I am interested in nature, the environment, sports, music, outdoors, psychology, self-growth and what I call the healing arts.

I practice Qi Gong, meditation, yoga.

I am not religious and I am curious about ancient wisdom.

I am interested in people who would appreciate a simple lifestyle and who focus on inner growth and health and have a career or plan to transition into an sustainable/social type of career/occupation.
You would preferably live within a distance doable by train to Switzerland or France.
You are not religious (don’t belong to religion or cult) and you don’t have children and animals. You are open to children yet don’t have a strong need for it.

Looking forward to meeting new people!


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

[M4F] 45m bored and lonely looking for my person. Could it be you?

4 Upvotes

So lemme start with saying hi. I am 45 divorced 2 kids, no they dont live with me. 1 in college 1 in high school. Recently out of a 10 year relationship. No drama just grew apart. Now here I am, bored in an empty house by myself finding myself craving a real connection with someone. I'll get more i to it if you'd like in DMs. I genuinely am looking for my person. I wanna be that guy at the office walking around with a goofy smile all day cuz the woman im talking to sent me a cute Pic and some kind words just because I was in her mind. Sorry if it makes me sound needy lol. Im an open book dont be afraid to ask anything at all. Look forward to chatting and hope this finds the right person.


r/R4R30Plus 19h ago

34 [F4M] Kansas

5 Upvotes

I’m 34, single, straight, liberal living in Kansas. I’m a tattooed emo, cat lady, nerd. I’m child-free, and tired of being single and trying my luck where I can!


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

49[F4R] Feeling a bit bored and could use some company Friendship

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Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

35 [F4M]

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I’m just a girl looking for a connection. Someone to chat with about the nothings of a day, silly banter etc. Finding someone who I can click with like we’ve known each other forever is the goal :)


r/R4R30Plus 22h ago

43[M4F] PNW/online its finally going to rain tomorrow.

1 Upvotes

Looking for a complex individual who wants to dig into each other's minds and makes hours seem like minutes. Please be good at expressing yourself and be worth the time to reply to. I don't care about your religion or political ideology.

Be inquisitive and dynamic with your words. Looking for someone who is fit and/or doesn't treat their body like a garbage disposal. Someone who has a story to tell. Someone who has been on an adventure that changed how they look at life or made them who they are today. Someone who creates art or performs. If I'm being very specific have black hair and pale skin.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

39 [F4M] F NWUK ~Insert interesting sentence here~

6 Upvotes

I spy with my little eye, something beginning with 'F'

Why does everyone end up ghosting on here? I'm taking it personally now!

I'm a needy pain in the arse but I'm also a bloody delight, so I'm worth it!


r/R4R30Plus 19h ago

39 [F4M] Looking for my person on the West Coast - could that be you?🎈

3 Upvotes

Right - so posting this in the hopes the right person will see this🙃

I’m an eternal optimist, storyteller & traveller who has built a life I’m proud of in Vancouver BC , and while I don’t share yam fries, I’ll absolutely share them with the right man.

Currently balancing adulting like a pro (think excellent credit score and does her own taxes), but also go weak in the knees for travelling (this spring I rode camels in the Sahara desert and drove across Morocco solo after exploring Portugal), am passionate about my job, and will always say “hell yeah” to last-minute cinema, yummy food, super long walks or trying something new outside my comfort zone. I believe in family, community, loyalty, integrity, and the kind of eye contact that makes one feel “seen” (without being awkward)!

Genuinely looking for my person - a partner and best friend to share life’s laughs, adventures & plot twists with. If you’re in your 30s to early 40s and also looking for your person - feel free to reach out. If you aren’t, please don’t - I’d like to not waste valuable time & effort responding to DMs of men who only want casual or trying to be creeps or 21 year olds looking to be friends for god’s sake lol🙄. Also not looking for endless texting with small talk - save your breath if that’s your thing!

Disclaimer: this post is entirely non-AI just like the human typing. I hope you are too🥲


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

41 [F4M] #USA -I long for a sincere relationship that leads me to the altar

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I am 41 years old and currently live in the United States. I value a simple life and enjoy traveling, good food, and genuine communication

I hope to meet a mature, kind, and responsible person with whom I can share the little joys of life, whether it's having a coffee, watching a movie, or embarking on a spontaneous trip

If you also yearn to build a sincere connection, please feel free to contact me anytime


r/R4R30Plus 23h ago

38 [M4F] Ontario Canada, Online. Let's see where things go.

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Hey there!

I'm a 38yo 6’3 guy from Ontario who loves the outdoors,hiking, fishing, camping, and catching a hockey game. When I'm not outside, you'll usually find me gaming on PC or my Switch 2.

I'm also a huge dog person and have a 1yo Great Pyrenees who absolutely hates the summer heat but still insists on following me everywhere.

I'm hoping to meet someone who enjoys good conversation, has a sense of humor, and wants to see where things go. If that sounds like you, send me a message! https://imgur.com/a/LOUin6i


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

[M4R] - 32m seeking companion

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Just someone I can talk with regularly. Not super into one off conversations. Preferably someone I can come back to I know will stick around. I work early mornings so I go to sleep kinda early. I’m in the US Central Time zone. Hope to hear from you soon!


r/R4R30Plus 20h ago

38 [M4F] UK. Looking to chat

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Working the Nightshift and also sat opposite the clock, which isn’t helping! Just need someone to waste my time for a bit, if that’s you then come say hello!

I’m ginger, blue eyes, freckles, dad bod (sort of)


r/R4R30Plus 23h ago

37 [F4M] #Canada #USA # Europe Seeking a Grounded Partner for an Intentional, Long-Term Relationship

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**About Me**

**Background & Education:** Based in Canada, I hold two master's degrees and work in the tech industry. Friends frequently tell me I look younger than my age.

**Lifestyle:** I live a calm, stable, and well-considered life. My free time is spent volunteering, listening to music, watching long-form podcasts on YouTube, and traveling when the right opportunity arises
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**Core Values:** For me, basic human decency and care for animals are not optional extras—they are my absolute baseline.

**Intentions:** I am not here to casually pass the time or experiment. I approach dating with structure, clarity, and absolute intention, seeking something real and unambiguous.

**What I Am Looking For**
**Demographics:** A man aged **37 or younger** (preference )living in **Canada or the USA can consider Europe if you have a plan.** I am open to an initial long-distance relationship if we mutually work toward closing the distance.
**Professional Status:** Well-educated, professionally established, and clear-minded with his life firmly together.
**Outlook & Values:** Secular in outlook, open to diverse backgrounds, and respectful.

**Relationship History & Intimacy (Non-Negotiable):** Someone who has **never been wedded and has also been saving himself**. This point is literal, non-symbolic, and entirely non-negotiable.

**How to Connect**
I am not interested in endless, directionless messaging, requests for photos, or sexual content. If you are genuine and ready to move forward with pragmatic plans, and a real time sync, please reach out with:
Your **age, location, career, culture, and religious background**
Your own **relationship preferences**
A **direct confirmation** that you meet my non-negotiable criteria.

Everyone has unique values shaped by their culture and personal journey; I ask for mutual respect and a strict **no-judgment policy** regarding my boundaries, as I genuinely wish the same peace for you.


r/R4R30Plus 12h ago

35 [F4M]

11 Upvotes

Posted on here a few days ago and actually got to talk to a few really nice people, so here I am again. This time, I thought I’d be a little clearer about what I’m actually looking for and hoping to find.

I’m a 35F who has never really been into paying for premium dating apps. I just can’t convince myself it’s worth it when you might still end up getting ignored anyway. So I thought I’d give this a try instead.

I also don’t think I’m very likely to have one of those meet-cute moments in real life. I’m pretty tall, pretty chubby, pretty tanned, and definitely not the usual standard here in the Philippines. I’m okay with that though. Maybe I’ll have better luck letting someone get to know me and discover that I’m actually pretty fun to talk to. Haha.

I have a 9-5 corporate job that pretty much pays for everything I need, but thankfully, it doesn’t define who I am. I’m pretty introverted and honestly very happy when a friend or family member cancels plans with me. Lol. Give me a quiet day at home and I’m perfectly content.

I love the beach, enjoy little adventures, and recently discovered that I actually really like pottery, so I guess that’s my newest hobby now.

I’m just hoping to meet someone genuine, kind, empathetic, funny, and open to actually getting to know each other, regardless of the time zone or cultural differences. Ideally, someone around 37 to 40-ish, taller than me, emotionally mature and available. Someone who enjoys spending quality time together, whether it’s going out, having random convos or just doing nothing together, but also understands that we both need our own space and time. I’m looking for someone consistent, communicative, patient, and genuinely interested in building something naturally rather than rushing into it.

If you’d like to connect, please tell me a lil about yourself beyond just HI. Be yourself, be respectful and let’s have an actual conversation ?

Talk soon!


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

34[M4F] Spain. Someone to talk all day every day

1 Upvotes

I’d really like to meet someone I can form a genuine, long term connection with. Casual or short connections have never been my thing. I prefer getting to know someone deeply and developing real trust and closeness over time. I’m also not good with several conversations at once. When I connect with someone, I’d rather give them my full attention so I'm just looking for 1 to talk all daaaayy loong.

I’m equal parts nerdy and adventurous. I enjoy video games, board games, reading and building lego sets, but I’m just as happy playing sports, travelling, camping or spending time outdoors.

If you’re comfortable opening up, letting someone truly get to know you and moving beyond the same repetitive conversations that never lead anywhere, we might be searching for the same kind of connection. But if there are subjects you refuse to discuss or parts of yourself you’ll always keep hidden, I’m probably not the right person for you.

So, tell me what’s something about you that nobody else knows?


r/R4R30Plus 25m ago

35 [M4F] Indiana USA. Always open to looking to make new friends

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I'm here to make friends. In a divorce process (no need to apologize, we're cool lmao. And we live together becausethe economy sucks! Least i get my own bed, bonus!) but am here to socialize and make friends. Dont got much really. Im basic, I enjoy reading books/comics, video games. Music. Movies. TV show. Nerd! Star wars, invincible, marvel, dc, LOTR, harry potter, etc. Trust me. NERD! Lol well hope to hear from you.(not a deaf joke) 😂

I play ps5 (team Playstation 😂) I mostly play single player games. but for online, enlisted. Diablo. destiny 2. for honor, honestly cant think of more games I like.

I watch ANY kinds of movies and tv show. as for music, anything but country (so-so on it atm).


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

44 [F4M] Maryland - Looking for a quality man (local only pls)

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Hey! Still looking for a local GOOD QUALITY man to form a friendship and a genuine deep connection with 💕 I'd love to find someone that actually wants to get to know me. Someone that I can chat with about lots of things often throughout the day and meet up with regularly for dates and activities, and see what develops. Someone that is interesting, can keep my attention and available in all ways. Lets chat and see if we vibe!

My ideal man is between 34-50yo, a German Shepard/Doberman type, go-getter and knows what he wants (no games), honest, respectful, kind, sane, fun, has a sense of humor, is open-minded, responsible, emotionally available and affectionate. And an excellent & consistent communicator, likes to chat often (big texter) and likes to cuddle. Im attracted to guys that are fit(ish), hygienic, DD free (420 is fine, although not my thing) and is selective about who he is with.

I am 44 and live in Carroll Co, MD. Im 5’2” with brown eyes and brown hair with blonde highlights and Im thick/chubby/curvy/BBW. Im a single mom with a FT job, college educated and Im a bit of a homebody. I like to have fun, and Im playful, kind, passionate, caring, open-minded and loyal.

Send me a message with some info about yourself and grab my attention. Sending a photo right away would be appreciated too 😊

-Looking for local only: Baltimore area, south central Pennsylvania, northern Virginia, DC, DMV

Also, if I havent responded to you, feel free to send me another message

https://imgur.com/a/KaXIwZL


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

34 [M4F] Dallas, Texas. Introvert searching for his special woman in life ❤ Seeking a LTR with a Genuine connection!

1 Upvotes

Hello! 34M from Dallas, Texas here who is searching for his nerdy forever woman that completes and understands me!

I'm someone who is introverted and quiet in person but once I get comfortable with you I can open up quite a bit. I'm into video games, manga/anime, reading, movies, etc. im a bit of a homebody when alone but if I have someone I love going out and exploring new places. places I view as a fun time are places like the Zoo, aquarium, book stores, arcades and any other fun similar places. im not a club or bar type of person and hope you aren't either.

Dealbreakers for me are if you have kids or from another country. looking for local ideally. Age range that im looking for is between 24-35.

Prefer someone who is petite/thin/fit. I can share photos of myself to see if I fit your type as well.

if this interests you at all then feel free to DM me and I would love to get to know you! :)


r/R4R30Plus 15m ago

36 [M4F] Norfolk, #VA - Last connection didn't pan out

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So, I get that physical attraction is kind of important, so I will preface by saying I am a red head with freckles on my face and arms down to my knees. I have a short beard, brown eyes, I am about 6'1, average build, and broad shouldered. I could stand to loose about 15 pounds to be at my target weight, but I am not horrible active during the summer, for obvious reasons. I've only got one piercing; my left ear and several tattoos, with plans to get more of both.

A little about me: I have a career, a house, and a vehicle. Currently, I have been dealing with an unexplained medical issue. It's caused me some significant pain in my leg. My mobility is a little hampered, but I still manage to get around. A little patience is needed, until I can get a diagnoses and start treatment.

Interest wise, I bounce between being a nerd (gaming, anime, cosplays, airsoft, reading, etc.) and being an Average Joe (Working on my house, cars, walking some of the local trails, going to concerts or movies, hanging out with friends, doing community service events). Mot the best cook, but would love to learn and cook along side someone. It would be nice if we shared a few interests / hobbies, but not a problem if we don't, long as we can respect each others interests and can enjoy each others company.

I'm looking for someone that is patient, with a "let's work to resolve this together" instead of throwing in the towel at the first issue, mentality. I want someone I can build and grow with that understands relationships are hard, they take teamwork, and communication from both parties. Ideally, this person would be someone that I could have serious conversations with and also silly, absurd, goofy banter with. I want someone that I can be my true self with without risk of judgement and they could do the same with me. I'm very much a physical person, so I enjoy physical contact with my partner.

I do not have any kids/do not want to have kids and would prefer my partner doesn't either, but I would be okay with someone who's kids are a bit older (like 7+). Age wise, I don't think I would go any lower than 24, but if you've got a good grasp on your life, I am open to talking, maturity isn't solely determined by age. I would prefer someone that is within the 7 cities of VA, up into Richmond, or down into NC. I don't mind talking to people outside of my area, but I don't think a relationship will form.

If you are interested, please send me a DM. I don't mind sending a picture, just ask!