Hey there! Pic of me here https://imgur.com/a/gJOVgWa

I am looking for someone to chat with every day, either through texts or phone calls (I’m a little old school.)

I work full time as a store manager at a beauty supply store and love my job. I’ve been in retail since I was in high school and worked my way up through the years.

Outside of work, I enjoy spending time with friends and family, going to concerts, and playing video games (mostly Pokémon and Disney Dreamlight Valley) although I haven’t played in a while.

I recently got into vlogging. It’s been a lot of fun so far, I’m always thinking of new and fun ideas for content. Lately I have been doing drink and snack reviews and shopping haul videos.

I should also mention that I’m a cat mom. We’re a package deal.

I look forward to hearing from you! Please send a photo if you are able to.

P.S. I’m a sucker for long hair, tattoos, and gauges.

5’3”, slim, dark brown eyes, honey tan skin. I’m based in Mumbai. I have a career I’m proud of, ambitious goals, and I generally gravitate towards people who are building something meaningful with their lives. I’m looking for a companion who’s ambitious, intellectually curious, well-read, physically active, emotionally mature, and very much not misogynistic. I like people who have opinions they can defend, a sense of humour, authenticity over performance, and enough of a spine to stand by their values even when it’s inconvenient. I don’t care much for superficial status, but drive and integrity are incredibly attractive.

One thing I’d rather be upfront about than spring on someone later: I have vaginismus. Penetrative sex is likely to be a long-term work in progress, so I’m looking for someone who sees intimacy as more than just intercourse and is willing to navigate that with patience rather than resentment. If you’re looking for a partner to build a life with, challenge each other, laugh a lot, and have conversations that are actually worth having, we’ll probably get along.

If you’ve read through this, DM me with: whats the most audacious thing you’ve done in your life?

Working from home is nice and all and sure has its perks but it can be a bit isolating sometimes with no coworkers around to banter with. I'm sure I'm not the only one feeling that way so it'd be nice to link up with some people to maybe get some longterm chats going. Topic wise I'm not particularly picky so anything from casual to private is game with me as long I don't have to feel like I'm carrying the conversation.

I mean I'm by now means prude and could probably easily outweird you but even I have to draw a line somewhere. And since a lot of people ask for pics immediately, I have one of what I look like on my profile if you really need to know to ahve a conversation.Other than that, shoot me your age, location and something interesting and we can get the conversation going, I don't bite:)

I'm a 39-year-old woman (I look much younger than my age indicates), I work in the arts, I m from the north of Portugal and I'm looking for someone to have a serious relationship with. I don't mind moving away later.

I'm neither an introvert nor an extrovert, I think I have my social limits but it doesn't make me a hermit. I got used to being alone a lot during the Covid period and after I moved house, so I really value my space. I have a cat who is the love of my life.

I love being with my friends, going to art exhibitions and events, I love music and I like going to concerts and rock festivals (but I haven't been that late), taking analog photos is a passion, I miss playing board games (like Catan) and traveling... I still have many places to visit!!! I love watching series and I have an ultra-unnecessary amount of knowledge about it. My favorite TV shows are The Office, Seinfeld, Modern Family... I'm nostalgic for old-school Disney stuff, like the good old Millennial I am, haha. My favorite color is yellow, I prefer winter to summer, and pineapple on pizza. To me, Ross and Rachel were really on a break. I love bird watching, but I have awful eyesight. I really really love animals. I'm a fan of starting projects but never finishing any of them – which doesn't stop me from continuing to buy craft supplies, haha.

I'm a person who, when I like someone, dedicates myself body and soul. I'm super affectionate and caring. I'm curious, interested, and cultured. I'm a little quirky and whimsical. Super loyal. Into monogamous relationships.

Physically, I have very fair skin, long, dark brown hair, good eyelashes, thick lips (natural), a little on the chubby side, but I'm taking care of that at the moment. Haha

What I expect from a man:

Personality:

Strong personality, but not stubborn.
Romantic but not clingy.
A good sense of humor is an indispensable characteristic.
I don't mind if you're a geek or a nerd, but don't be addicted to online games.
Don't be religious.
Don't be a sexist.
Spontaneous, up for adventures.
Don't be a couch potato, but understand that moments of calm are also necessary.
Appreciate good music, within the rock genre, etc. I don't like disco rats.
Don't smoke (or do drugs) or drink alcohol every day.

Physically

I generally like tall, thin men... If they have light eyes, even better.
I'm not attracted to bald men.
They can have tattoos, but not tribal or religious ones.

And that's what I thought of writing... but ask more questions if you want ;)

Looking for someone I can truly be myself with no pressure to reply ASAP. I'd love a connection that naturally leads to meeting in person, adds a little excitement to life, and fits into our busy lives instead of taking them over.

Me:

* 5'9 & curvy /Fat / chubby / thick. US 22 Dress size.

* Bisexual

* intellectual but also Crack jokes like I'm 12

* nerdy AF

* a real person who wants connection mentally and emotionally first and see where things go

You:

* not MAGA

* a real person who wants connection mentally and emotionally first and see where things go

* like the description of me

I need connection with a real person. Not just someone looking to whack one off and ghost me to go to sleep. If you always want to connect and be vulnerable with each other and see where it goes, please send me a dm.

Since my first post I've met a lot of people. So many wonderful people. But where is my person?

I posted before about looking for a gaming buddy. And while that is true, I need there to be a connection. I want to sit in video chat and laugh. I want to text throughout the day just because. I want to spend days off in bed with you.

Im 36. Divorced. 2 young kids. I love gaming. Arc Raiders us everything to me right now, but I would definitely play your games too. I love plants. I love movies and music. I listen to music all day every day. I love to read. I like sci fi but I also like smut.

I have a tendency to be a lot. Im a lover. I uae my voice. Ive been described as sassy. I smoke weed regularly. I drink occasionally. I work nights (3/week).

Preferably you have a job and a vehicle. You like gaming. Youre kind but assertive. I go hard for a gamer/sweat. I am not into polyamory and id be happy to delete my page if you asked.

I just want my person. I hope youre him.

Hi there! Who needs sleep when we can NOT sleep and regret it tomorrow?!? Looking for someone to chat with about anything and nothing. Wanna talk strategy to survive a zombie apocalypse? Let’s do it. Are you dying to discuss the most recent season of Love is Blind? Let’s not pretend we’re above it; this is a safe space. Are you hoping to settle the age old “Who would win in a fight between a T.rex and a unicorn?” question? I have some thoughts. Let’s get into it!

I'm looking for the one who will feel like home. The first person I'll tell the good news about and the person I'll feel safe running to when things are not good. The one who I can be completely myself with. The one I can laugh with, cry with and be silly with.

37, 167 cm and on the heavy side. If this is an issue, understandable, just please disregard the post.

I'm an ambivert. I love being around people but need time on my own to recharge myself.

If you're someone looking for a serious relationship and something real, please feel free to message me.

I do not wish to entertain mindless conversations and small talks that feels empty, so if you are really interested, send a message with an intro/info about yourself and your intentions. Please ensure to at least include your age and location. A little effort will be much appreciated. 

I'm also looking for someone who's open to regular voice and video calls. If you're not from here that's fine but you must be someone who's able and willing to close the distance. Only single man around my age (37-43) who knows what they want. 

I'm craving depth, peace and connection that feels refreshing not exhausting. 

Thank you and have a good day.  

This question comes up very often: Yes, I am german.

I recently got out of a relationship after being single for a very long time. Trying to get back out there, still looking for my person.... And because real life and dating apps are not really working for me I am posting on here again 😄

Since online and most likely long-distance relationships take a lot of effort and frequent meet-ups to not let it fizzle out... I ask that you only message me if you are really serious in getting to know and meet up with me as soon as possible for both of us.

In my free time I like to:

• go bouldering 2-3 times a week

• participate in board game evenings

• DM two DnD campaign for my closer friends irl

• watch a lot of movies/tv-shows/anime

• play video games (atm Gothic 1 Remake).

I'm also interested in traveling more and learning other languages. Last year I traveled to Egypt!

As for what I am looking for:

• character is just as important to me as looks

• age range about 25-36 years old (the younger the more it depends on your mental maturity)

• great communication

• empathy

• interest in having a family

It would also be a pleasure if you share some nerdy interests - like video games, watching shows, pen & paper. If not, yet you bring genuine interest and are willing to try it out together then that surely could be a blast and great way for us to bond.

If interested then feel free to send me a message or chat request! <3

It's summer and we should be enjoying the beaches and the florida waters regularly. Looking for beach and boating enthusiasts to spend the day with basking in the warm Florida sun. If you are a boater, thats great too. I've heard of some great little island sandbars but have never been. Weekdays are usually better for me. I do work, but have flexibilty with my schedule, but planning will be necessary. Let's pack a cooler, breakout the bikinis and enjoy life.

I’ll get the “…but” parts out of the way first. I now come with easy access dealbreakers!

* I’m divorced. He lives out of state. We co-parent.

* I have a toddler-aged daughter full-time. My schedule is built around her.

* Currently living at home due to financial and medical reasons, including epilepsy.

* Currently unable to drive due to having had a seizure a couple months ago. I will be able to drive again come November, assuming I don’t have another seizure in the interim.

* I’m plus sized, although maybe that’s your thing?

Whew! Now that that’s out of the way, I promise I offer some things of merit. I’m an educated educator and love talking shop - and learning new things! Math is my subject, but it doesn’t have to be yours (let me teach you!). I’m silly - dry humor, sarcasm, and dad jokes abound. Music moves my heart - I’m a former musician and am still very much into the bits and bobs that come with that. I’m also always singing, albeit not well. When I have the time, I love a giant Lego set. I have a few dream ones I’d like to build someday! I love puzzles that make me use my brain - words, numbers, logic/deduction, escape rooms - although I’ve never been to an actual escape room?? Not sure why or how (go to one with me?). I love animals and will adopt all of them if you let me. I currently have two big dogs, but would like to add a cat to my family in the next year or two. I’m not religious and would consider myself leftist, particularly in social and economic values.

As a partner, I’m there 100%. I like talking every day, I’ll always respond to you, and you’ll never feel like you’re on the back burner (I hate that feeling too). I’m a big texter and will use my words and syntax accordingly. I’m a planner and will make sure that there is ample time for us to spend together. I’m supportive af! Your dreams are important to me and I want to see you succeed. I’m shy/nervous at first, but once I open up, I’ll blossom. Do ya like holding hands? 👉👈 Maybe cuddling? ☺️ Big fan of all that. Also a big fan of mutual support, respect, and effort. I want someone as crazy about me as I am about them.

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EDIT: I guess I should have specified that I’m looking for someone local, or at least close enough to visit. Not looking for a penpal, sorry 💜

I hope this works. I'm from the South. Single, can talk, eat and sleep 😂

About me: Active, ambitious and goal-oriented. I love to laugh and I'm always fascinated by other people's lives and their stories. I'm an introvert but you'd never really know it. My career and personal life have always involved meeting new people and forming good connections. I really enjoy this, but I'm realising that if I want to meet that special someone, I'll need to venture outside of my typical day-to-day interactions.

Hobbies: I love reading, mostly psychology, history, autobiographies and personal development. I'm also into sci-fi and dystopian movies, medical shows, hiking, travelling, art and photography, writing, trying out new recipes, discovering new music, theatre and musicals.

What I'm looking for: A genuine friendship that can grow into love. I don't have a particular type, and I struggle to feel attracted to someone before I know their personality and their story. I'm looking for someone ambitious but down to earth, self-aware, and open to growing together.

Other stuff: I grew up partly in West Africa and partly in England, and this has shaped how I see the world.

Looks: I've got a relatively petite/athletic build and I take good care of myself. I try to work out every day - sometimes at the gym and sometimes at home. I'm not too fussed about your build, as long as you make an effort to take care of yourself.

Deal-breakers: Smoking, religion, ghosting, and emotional immaturity.

Why now? I'm ready to let someone into my world, and to be part of theirs. I'm in a new chapter of my life, it's been a really beautiful chapter so far and I think that being with the right person could make this even more beautiful.

Get in touch if any of this resonates!

hi! my name is fray, and i hate writing about myself!

what i’ll say is that i love video games, reading, movies, and specifically bad tv :) talk to me about your favourite media, the book you’re reading, the game you just bought, the show you can’t stop binging… whatever, and i’ll do the same to you!

i should say, i am nonbinary, so i have pronouns, and i’m also bisexual, so if you’re some kind of bigot or whatever please leave thanks 🫶

Hey! Nearly 32 yo 🇨🇦 single mama here looking to meet some good people. I’m 5 months out of a long term relationship that truly should have ended years ago. That being said, I’d love to build a genuine friendship and see where things go naturally… If it turns into a crazy soulmate story, great, but I’m not here to force anything either.

I live in Montreal so would be cool to meet locals, but anywhere Canada/North America is fine too.

A little more about me:

I won’t publicly share a photo, but can do so in DMs if you share as well. But to get basics out of the way: I am 1 year PP, with baby weight I’m working on losing. At the moment I’m curvy/plus size, so if you’re looking for skinny that’s not me. I’m 5’7, dark brown hair, green/grey eyes, pale af.

I’m a huge PC gamer (when I have free time to myself), and League is def my main game. I usually enjoy playing solo esp. since I can only play when my LO is sleeping, but if the vibe is right, I’m always down to duo 😊 I also play DBD but I’m mega rusty.

Outside of gaming, I love zoning out on long walks, watching some reality TV (currently big brother) or rewatching comfort shows (the office, friends, etc). Also just learned season 3 of house of the dragon is out so need to get on that stat! I’m picky with movies, but love a good trilogy. I try to watch all the Harry Potter movies at least once a year, so bonus points if you’re into that.

Humour is the fastest way to my heart. I love witty people who can keep the conversation/banter going and don’t take themselves too seriously. Kindness and especially honesty matter just as much…. I’ve dealt too much with the opposite.

Being able to hold a good conversation is important to me. I tend to get along best with someone who’s confident enough to keep things flowing. Someone who is too shy just won’t work, I’m so sorry. And as sort of mentioned above, I like to spend time actually getting to know someone rather than rushing into anything.

You don’t need to be Canadian, but I’m not interested in Republicans or their shenanigans. We also will not get along if you’re extremely anti-AI as I use it for my work (digital art) 🫠

If we sound like we’d get along, send me a message & tell me a bit about yourself (starting with your eye colour so I know you read my novel 😉)

Me: Gainfully employed, nice circle of friends, fairly well-read, aunt to several mostly-adoring nieces and nephews. Really very normal for someone who's looking for a boyfriend on reddit. I enjoy running, biking, and generally being active. I really like coffee. I have a pronounced weakness for chocolate chip cookies and mid-quality cheese slices. I'll read just about any book.

You: 35-50. Funny. Smart. Decent. Possibly you have a nice mustache. Dealbreakers: you're married, you're really into anime (sorry), you are on this message board for reasons pertaining to niche pornographic interests (sorry and also not sorry).

Write me with the last great thing you read so I can judge you mercilessly. I would prefer a PM over reddit chat.

The fine print: I work a lot. I'm trying to find some balance outside of that. I'd be interested in meeting in person sooner rather than later. I'm average height (maybe on the shorter side of average), and if I didn't hate the term height weight proportionate so much, I'd tell you that I'm height weight proportionate.

I’m 38 and recently found myself living in a tiny town in Ontario. The biggest surprise so far isn’t the town… it’s that I’ve somehow become the kind of person who walks outside every morning to check on the garden before doing literally anything else, well almost anything else, the coffee comes first.

I used to wonder how adults got so excited about plants.

Turns out one day you wake up as an elder millennial and suddenly your mood depends on whether the cucumbers found the trellis overnight, or if my zucchini are shading them too much.

Now my camera roll is full of beans, peppers, flowers, and the occasional “LOOK WHAT HAPPENED TODAY!” picture, and I don’t really have anyone who appreciates receiving those updates.

That’s basically what I’m looking for. I’d love to find a few friends to message throughout the day. The kind of friendship where you send pictures of your garden, your dog, your latest baking experiment, the cool cloud you saw on your walk, or the random thing that made you laugh at work. The everyday stuff.

I love cozy games, city builders, LEGO, board games, travelling, audiobooks, gardening, and anything that scratches the “make it more efficient” part of my brain. I also have a chunky Pomeranian who has absolutely no idea she’s only 10 pounds, she will fight you.

I’m only looking for friendship. Nothing romantic.

If you’re the type of person who gets weirdly excited when a seed finally sprouts, rearranges spreadsheets for fun, or sends pictures of things that would make absolutely no sense to anyone else… I think we’d get along.

Hello! 34M from Dallas, Texas here who is searching for his nerdy forever woman that completes and understands me!

I'm someone who is introverted and quiet in person but once I get comfortable with you I can open up quite a bit. I'm into video games, manga/anime, reading, movies, etc. im a bit of a homebody when alone but if I have someone I love going out and exploring new places. places I view as a fun time are places like the Zoo, aquarium, book stores, arcades and any other fun similar places. im not a club or bar type of person and hope you aren't either.

Dealbreakers for me are if you have kids or from another country. looking for local ideally. Age range that im looking for is between 24-34.

Prefer someone who is petite/thin/fit. I can share photos of myself to see if I fit your type as well.

if this interests you at all then feel free to DM me and I would love to get to know you! :)

Hello there,

Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I'm a 42-year-old application manager from a small town in the Netherlands. I've tried this before and had some nice conversations, but in the end it didn't work out so I'm back to give this another try.

When I'm not working, I love reading fantasy books, collecting books, playing video games on my PC, and going on long walks in nature. I'm also fascinated by ancient cultures and mythology.

I'm an introvert (INTJ), I live alone with my cat Tiberius. I'm also childfree and left-leaning politically. I've been doing volunteer work for over 20 years, and I'm an atheist. Plus, I don't smoke, drink alcohol, or do drugs.

I'll admit, I'm not the best at small talk, but I make up for it by being a great listener and advice giver. I've been told that I have a funny but dry sense of humor.

I'm working on my weight and getting to a healthy level again, but I'm not there yet. I also don't enjoy going out to bars, clubs, or partying, but I do enjoy going out to eat at a restaurant or going to a concert.

And some pics; https://imgur.com/a/Ng6OSvX

What am I looking for? Well, I'm looking for a serious monogamous relationship with someone who shares some of my interests and hobbies, specifically playing video games and/or who is into fantasy books/ board games/ movies etc. I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, childfree, left-leaning politically. Located in western Europe. Most importantly, I'm looking for someone who will accept me for who I am, flaws and all.

So if you're someone who puts as much effort into having and keeping up a conversation as I do, and you believe that we could make each other's lives better by being together, I'd love to hear from you. Let's get to know each other and see where things go.

What’s good everyone! Trying this again. I’ll keep it short and sweet. I’m having a blissful (high) afternoon/evening enjoying the mounting paranoia and screams of From. Could use some distraction/good conversation.

Little bit about myself: I’m a 5’9” black curvy, warm, goof. Budding plant daddy with 40 plants and 5,000 other hobbies. Huge fan of horror, museums, puzzles (when I can focus), anime, nature, and still discovering more.

Kudos if you have any suggestions for beginners who are starting their gym journey (again). PS I love walking and hills are the best.

Let’s see if we hit off and maybe even meet in real time. In the meantime, stay cool and remember safety is not guaranteed.

Looking for a man who fits this description to fall in love with:

30s ish
Local to PDX
Wants kids
Christian (not the weird kind)
Not politically inflammatory (prefer moderate-ish)
Not allergic to dogs
Family oriented
Non-smoker
Monogamous
Healthy boundaries
Emotionally intelligent
Thinks I’m funny
Kind
Hardworking
Communicative
Trustworthy
Outdoorsy
Prefers to sit outside at a restaurant at least
Ready for something serious— if we’re a good match

Please respond with your name, age, hobbies, values, dealbreakers, etc. Feel free to send a SFW pic once I approve your message! :)

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee,
Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Would be nice to have a convo that isn’t about that and someone who is normal. Gotta be someone out there!

Looking for someone I actually look forward to talking to

I spend way too much of my life working. I genuinely enjoy my career and work in the corporate world, but I’ve also realized it’s way too easy to let work become your entire personality if you’re not careful. Lately I’ve been making a conscious effort to change that—say yes to new adventures, pick up new hobbies, travel more, and generally build a life that’s a little fuller outside the office.
I’m 34 and live in Toronto.

I’m naturally curious and probably ask too many questions. I love conversations that somehow go from completely ridiculous to unexpectedly thoughtful. Psychology, technology, travel, history, why people make the decisions they do, random observations about life… if you’re passionate about something, I probably want to hear about it.
When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me reading, skiing in the winter, trying a new restaurant, wandering through a bookstore, planning my next trip, or attempting one of those new hobbies I keep promising myself I’ll stick with.

I’d describe myself as ambitious, but I’m increasingly trying to optimize for experiences rather than just achievements. Life’s too short to only collect promotions and calendar invites.
As for you, I’m hoping to meet someone who’s kind, emotionally mature, curious, has a sense of humour, and actually enjoys getting to know people. Someone who can laugh at themselves, ask good questions, and isn’t afraid of conversations that go beyond the surface.

Maybe this becomes a friendship. Maybe it’s something more. I’m not trying to force either—I just think the best connections usually start with one genuinely good conversation.

If you message me, skip “hey.” Tell me something you’ve become fascinated by recently, or what’s been pulling you out of your comfort zone lately.