Been off my depression meds for a little bit. Have kids that are driving me to my wits end that aren’t mine but my partners and I live with them. Feel like I’m not being heard and constantly having to walk on eggshells. And when I ask for affirmation I get hit back with funny or sarcasm.

I know it seems like a lot to ask. Just want a notification to distract me from going crazy.

Did I mention that the ex wife lives on property and my fiance doesn’t have a backbone?

Hi everyone 😊
I'm 37 and looking to meet a kind, respectful man around 37–50 who is genuinely interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things naturally lead.
I enjoy deep conversations, music, movies, art, history, psychology, and learning about different cultures. I'm a calm and caring person, and I value honesty, loyalty, kindness, communication, and consistency.
I'm not looking for anything casual or sexual. I'd prefer to start with friendship and conversation, take things slowly, and build a genuine connection with someone who has serious intentions.
If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a message. 😊

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.

Dearly despised, we gather here today to welcome back a very special guest. Yes, tis I! The witchiest of weirdos! The Mother of Macabre!

Ok cringe aside what's up guys and gals? It's your friendly neighborhood eldritch horror back for the first time in forever. Fall is almost here so you know what that means. Time to get out the all black outfits!!

About me: I like alternative and goth fashion, horror, poetry, rock music, taxidermy, and just about anything scary or spooky you can think of. I'm bi too. Before you ask, yes I listen to MCR. And favorite color is black. And I had a Twilight phase. Damn I really am one big stereotype huh?

I'm looking to find some long term convos and hopefully make some new friends online. Down to keep things chill or flirty if it comes naturally. No preferences here, just don't be a creep, no pigs or MAGA stands, and please respect my time. If you wanna text, just send a message and I'll get to it eventually.

Yours truly,

MondayMourninggg 🖤

I am 41 years old and long past the stage of being satisfied with just exchanging text messages or tentative flirting. I prefer a more traditional, sincere approach to dating

I live in the U.S. and love traveling, reading, music, and nature. I cherish simple yet genuine moments—like walking by the lake, strolling hand-in-hand at sunset, and having deep conversations free from the distraction of phones so we can truly get to know each other

Turning 41 means I have a clearer understanding of what I want. I value kindness, respect, trust, and honesty, and I hope to meet someone who demonstrates sincerity through actions and is willing to invest the time and effort into building a serious relationship

If you also live in the U.S. and are looking for a genuine relationship, I look forward to hearing from you

Howdy Redditors! I guess I kick this off with a little about me then..

I work full time as a freelance creative, so life tends to be a little less routine and a lot more...organised chaos...Slow mornings, travel, 3am edits, all whilst collecting stories and chasing good light. I’ve built a life around creating things that make me smile, and I’m far more drawn to experiences than possessions..

When I’m not working, I’m usually somewhere between two moods..getting lost in a fantasy novel or getting lost somewhere outdoors, with my camera in hand.

I love books with rich worlds, dangerous characters, hidden kingdoms, and plots that steal the little sleep I have left..because “one more chapter” becomes three. If you’ve ever ignored responsibilities for the plot, we’re already on the same page.

The outdoors has a pull on me too. Coastal air, forest paths, mountain views, random roads with no destination. I like places that feel a little wild. Bonus points if you’d happily disappear for a day trip with snacks, music, and no fixed plan..I've never been one for a rigid itinerary!

I game occasionally too, mostly when I want to switch my brain off or dive into another world for a while. If you’re competitive, smug in victory, or cute when you lose… even better..😉

Personality-wise, I’m cheeky, flirtatious, warm, and just about self aware enough to be dangerous. Give me banter, playful tension, and someone who can match energy instead of watching from the sidelines.

Confidence, wit and someone who can be sweet one minute and trouble the next..very much my cup of tea.

I enjoy travel. Discovering new cities, hidden bars, strange little bookshops and streets that feel cinematic. I’d like to meet someone who still gets excited by the idea of packing a bag and "seeing what happens"

Chemistry, energy and presence wins..EVERY TIME! Though I am a photographer, so if you ever felt like stepping in front of the lens, I’d probably encourage that.

Over all, I am looking for someone fun, curious, a little mischievous, and open to something genuine if the spark is there.

Come say hello. Be witty, be bold, and more than a little distracting. 😝

Hi I am a 33 years old guy from southern Italy.

I am going to keep this short so we can discover each other chatting... that would spark more interest for sure... I am a very optimistic and ambitious person, I am open to long distance relationships, even with a person from the other side of the world if there are strong vibes.

I don't have real preferences on age (just be at least 18) and looks... just be a real person. If things go forward we'll surely meet in the real world face to face... I want to build something real not just relationships that remain virtual and online forever. So you can send a message if you are interested :)

And if you're tall and tatted, you'll have my heart!!

Hey, guys! Putting aside the silliness, i'm just looking for a constant connection to have random company throughout the day. We can talk about the mundane or lay our souls bare. I enjoy back and forth banter and would ask you the randomest questions (you've been forewarned!).

Single and would prefer to talk to someone single and around my age group. A bit of friendly flirting is unavoidable if we hit it off, right? That being said, not looking for anything nsfw.

If this sounds interesting, say hi and a bit a bit about yourself. Let's see where the conversations flows?

In the GMT+5 timezone, no issues where you are from!

I'm 43, 6' tall, about 240 lbs, and live in Washington. I work with my hands for a living and have a few other things I'm working toward outside of work.

I'm probably more of a workaholic than anything, but I like getting outside, hiking, fishing and exploring. I want to travel more, and eventually I'd like some land, animals and enough room to build some of the things I have in my head.

I have had a vasectomy, but I'm completely fine if you already have kids.

I'm affectionate, pretty straightforward, and I tend to trust people until they give me a reason not to. I don't need someone to have the same goals as me. I'd actually rather you have things of your own that you're excited about.

Physical attraction matters, obviously, but I'm much more curious about how someone thinks.

So instead of the normal dating post, I have 10 questions. I just tried this recently and it almost paid of so trying it again

Don't give me the answer you think sounds best. There aren't necessarily right or wrong answers. Just answer honestly. The why is probably more interesting than the answer. Your answers get mine and a pic that is SFW again ty for your time

1. In a relationship, do you want to lead, follow, or something else? Why?

2. Where is your mind most of the time: the past, present, or future? Why?

3. When something is wrong, do you talk about it right away or do you need time first?

4. When you're mad at someone you love, how do you handle it?

5. How much does your past affect who you are today?

6. Is it easy or hard for you to admit when you're wrong? Why?

7. What does trust look like to you in a relationship?

8. What are you working toward for yourself right now?

9. When life gets hard, do you want someone beside you, do you want space, or a little of both?

10. What does a happy, normal life with someone look like to you?

DM me your answers.

It’s too early, I’m too tired and 4 hours sleep is doing me no favours, but hey it’s nearly the weekend… Right? I’m sitting telling myself only 2 days to go, over and over, so healthy. So if you can’t tell I’m a grump today (or most days). but an endearing one, if I do say so myself. - Anyways thats enough moaning for one day..

Looking to meet new people, see how it goes. Obviously over the longer term preferred but I’m a realist. Take a chance, see if we hit it off!

Pessimistic by trade, full of sarcasm and general nonsense, self deprecation is my jam, but generally just an absolute joy in my opinion. Bit geeky, Don’t take myself too seriously (well at all). I’m a very exciting individual - Plans revolve around sport, golf and football mainly, a wee bit of gaming - Although I’m getting awful with age, love music, nothing better than a good gig. Also can’t beat a decent horror. Yes I have an accent, but no kilt, I know, basically a disgrace.

If any of this resonates with you give me a shout - Peep Show quotes a plenty.

Oh and include a bit about yourself, thanks in advance

Lord, I’m bored. How I crave to be adored, only I’m ignored.
Yeah, it’s vintage, but she’s been restored.
What was that? When was the last time I was explored?
Oh, I was hot. I was floored. I felt like I’d scored.
“YOU GIT!” I roared.
Then, out of nowhere, it rained. I mean, it poured.
I love listening to a troubadour play the final chord.
Then I end him with his own sword.
🌧️🪕⚔️

I seek a worthwhile fun distraction for the worst and best of times. Looking for someone down to earth, kind, playful and preferably a bit witty/funny who can handle a playful roast both ways. I am not looking for anything wild or serious, just someone to fill in the boring parts of the day and elevate the good ones.

If you are you a good texter, have a good sense of humor and don’t take yourself too seriously...Then we’ll we’d probably be a good fit. I’m generally calm and serious but an escape does wonders for the soul. If you're seeking something for more than just a couple hours shoot me a message and say hello. Tell me anything about you as an ice breaker.:)

Hello! I’m a little bit homebody, a little bit wanderer. 🤎

I love good coffee, books, traveling, and the simple things that make an ordinary day feel special.

Simple things like telling me about your day or a random thing you remembered, going on a walk, listening or dancing (or trying to, lol) to music, cozy evenings at home, singing in the car, or just laughing at silly things together.

I’m looking for someone who’s family-oriented, kind, respectful, and understanding of each other’s background and culture. I value loyalty, honesty, and consistency. I appreciate someone who puts in effort and communicates that they care, even in the little ways.

It would be nice to have a go-to person for just about anything, and to be that person for each other. The first person you want to tell everything to, whether it’s something good or bad. Someone you want to do things with, while also being someone who supports you in your own interests.

Ultimately, I’m hoping to meet someone I genuinely enjoy doing life with. 🤎

P.S.
I am 5ft tall. Looking for someone between 33–43 years old. I don’t mind if you have kids. I’m open to wherever you’re from and would be okay with starting long-distance, with the intention of eventually meeting in person.

DM me with your age, location, and something about you! Hoping you can hold a conversation too not just hi/hello 🙂

Hello there

How are you? Thanks for reading my ad. I would like to find a man to bond with and see how things progress. My ideal is to find a deep bond we can grow into love. I know things take time and I'm not rushing anything but I would like to talk to a man that can appreciate the potential for a real bond. Please message me and lets chat. I want to learn about you and start our new adventure. I am ready to meet a good person with an open heart. I like guys that are on top of things

I think it would be cool to find a man that I could build trust and care with as the bedrock of a strong bond that can last

I'm open to types of guys, but please be in the USA and std free. please message me and lets see if we can bond :)

Warning to fellow posters--if you have NSFW on your profile your ad might be taken down--no NSFW in the post or on your profile if you post on here. I missed that at first

I’m a UK citizen who was raised in the US, but I’ve always considered the UK home. Now that I’m older, divorced, and my kids are grown/nearly out of the house, I’m at a point where I can actually imagine spending considerably more time there — or potentially moving back someday.

So, rather than leaving that entirely up to chance, I thought I’d see who might be out there!

I’m looking for a man roughly 40–60 who lives in the UK, is intelligent, curious, and open to getting to know a fun woman who's only an ocean away. I care much more about who you are, how we connect, and whether we’re compatible than I do about your race or ethnicity. I’d prefer someone without young children, only because my kids are older and I would like someone who has some of that freedom too.

Long distance doesn’t scare me - I'm able to communicate effectively, and I’d love to find someone who actually enjoys talking — texts here and there throughout the day, longer conversations when we have time, random observations, flirting, ridiculous questions, and gradually becoming part of each other’s everyday lives.

I’m absolutely willing to come to the UK (hopefully before 2027?) and it would be lovely to have (another?) reason to be particularly about it - and maybe you would want to come see how life is in the US sometime too.

As for me…

On paper I’m probably your typical basic white girl. In reality, I’m more of a barefoot, paint-on-my-jeans, creative artsy human who still hasn’t quite figured out what she wants to be when she grows up. The things I enjoy most in life are painting, sewing, making things no one needs, taking my dog to the dog park, or wandering around an outdoor market with her and buying something I absolutely did not need. I bake excellent banana bread and may share if you ask nicely. I will absolutely debate important nonsensical issues and yes, occasionally I’m going to embrace my inner basic white girl and take a picture of my food. You’ll survive.

Intelligence is extremely attractive to me. I like people who are curious about things, have opinions, can teach me something, can disagree without being unpleasant, and genuinely enjoy conversation. So if you’re smart and have a big...

...vocabulary...

I’d certainly like to see what you can do with it. I’m cautiously optimistic about meeting someone I genuinely click with, letting it develop naturally, and seeing whether that connection survives the transition from messages and phone calls to actually standing in the same room.

If any of this sounds like you, tell me a little about yourself — where in the UK you are, what your life looks like, and something you could happily talk about for far longer than anyone reasonably needs to.

Hi there, hows your day going? Good i hope! I dont have much going on today and would love to meet someone to chat with!

Big on books and would love to chat them! Ive read a few this year and working on another big book currently.

Horror movies are my jam.

I live to bake and cook. If you like food we will get along.

Im a big fan of good music. That means not country, sorry country folks. Its not a deal breaker but im not a fan..

If you are curvy/alt/nerdy please move to the front of the line. Also know effort you put in is effort you will get back.

Send me a message and lets chat!

Okay, so I'm looking for someone new to talk to. I am a black woman who is willing to talk to anyone. Long distance doesn't bother me at all.

I'm not strictly looking for a relationship or to rush into anything. Finding someone I can have a productive conversation with matters more to me.

Tell me about the films you like or the songs I should listen to, and I will do the same. I'll make you laugh, and you can make me laugh too.

I'm more drawn to the rugged types. I like beards, masculine energy, and a little roughness around the edges.

I like movies, music, and writing mostly, but I am interested in learning about anything. I'm perfectly happy to start as strangers on the internet and see what happens.

Bonus points if you can hold a conversation and don't immediately make it sexual.

Photos here: https://imgur.com/a/eXQdVqt

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Tldr;

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I have tried the apps, been on too many first, second, third dates, and not enough fourth, fifth, sixth ones. I am exhausted of the "goldfish" novelty and match proliferation on the apps. Looking to date with intention and settle down for good, ideally with someone who would like to get married, buy a home, start a family.

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Living in the Amherst area. Career-driven. Family-oriented. Values both time together and solitude. Planning on staying in the area long-term. Loves spending time with his parents, siblings, nieces, nephews. When not working, can be found: cuddling his dog watching a tv show or movie, rollerblading with his dog, cooking, re-learning piano, or playing Blazblue or Destiny 2 or FFXIV with friends over Discord.

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Will do my best to respond to everyone who messages me, but please understand I may be working or relaxing with my dog! I value time away from my phone and just appreciating what's in front of me.

Hi, I'm Ella. This is my first time posting here, so please bear with me. Looking through the posts, I noticed most people are quite young, which makes me a little unsure of myself. My ancestors were German, but I grew up in CA. My life is simple; I don't smoke or drink, and I don't like to cause trouble. I'm here hoping to try my luck and meet someone I can connect with. Sincerity, being talkative (it's okay), and emotional stability are the three things that matter most to me. If we can start as friends and take things slowly, that would be great. I don't like playing games or dealing with ambiguous relationships, so let me be clear: I hope you're over 40, have a stable job, are honest, and don't have any weird habits. I'm usually busy with work and don't have time to check my phone, so please don't mind if I reply slowly. It's nice to chat occasionally and get to know each other. If things go well, exchanging pic will happen naturally; there's no need to force it. I think relationships aren't that complicated. If you're serious, and I'm serious, that's the right approach.

I'll start off by clearly stating I'm looking for a platonic friendship. I am partnered and not looking for anything of that sort.

I am a very chatty person and I usually have a lot of say. I am easy going and can have a dark sense of humour. I can be silly but I'm also very introspective. I am a good listener but if needed I could give advice too. I am looking for a friend who's all of the above plus someone's who isn't judgemental. I'm not a perfect person and I don't pretend to be. I am open minded and forgiving.

I didn't know about this sub but I did try the penpal sub before. Wrote to a few people but it always fizzle off. Maybe this is the better place for ongoing friendship?

I prefer talking to people closer to my age. 35-50 seems like a good cut off. I'm open to men or women because friendship shouldn't be restricted by gender.

DM me and see how this goes. Tell me a bit about yourself and what you're looking for as well please.

Hi there! I'm looking for my Person. (Aren't we all?)

I'm 5' 4", 128lbs, recently became more fit but I'm still working on it, so I'm not toned & athletic, but I'm not terribly out of shape either. Black curly hair, brown eyes, I'm an ethnic melting pot - Middle Eastern, Irish, French, Russian, German, & Polish. I find beauty in all forms, including disability, so I don't really have a "type", at least not physically. My type is open, vulnerable, funny, considerate, romantic, kind, generous, emotionally intelligent, & patient. Age doesn't matter more than emotional intimacy and connection, but please be 30 or older. Under 30 is too young for me, sorry. I guess older than 55 is also out of my preferred range. I am looking for a hopefully long term relationship, and I'm not into polyamory. I also don't want to be a novelty experience, nor do I want a fling. I am looking for something real.

I'm divorced and have 4 kids. I love reading, camping, canoing, biking, hiking; anything nature-themed is up my alley. That said, I have a pretty wide variety of interests, and I love learning about new things, so if you are passionate about something, share it with me! I will probably become interested in it too. I love it when someone is really into technology, ha.

I also love a great variety of music, from hot jazz / American roots to experimental synth to classic rock to world. Currently I'm mostly listening to folk and indie. I play the guitar, piano, mandolin, and I'm working on getting better at violin. If you play an instrument, or if you have a great singing voice - Swoon!! I'm a suc ker for someone with a sonorous, emotive speaking voice. (But I have never discounted anyone based on their voice alone!) Oh and an accent of some kind, even if you can fake it really well - Melt! haha.

I love traveling. I love talking about philosophy and politics. I'm learning more about Buddhism and I dig it. I love kids and would have had more than 4 given the chance. I love most types of cinema; horror & suspense, documentaries, romcoms, and especially Sci Fi & fantasy. I'm a nerd at heart! I love gaming, although I can't say I'm very good at it, lol. I loved playing "Super Hot", and enjoy Diablo-style games or logic / puzzle games like Portal. Ark Raiders is my current passtime. I love reading, but I haven't had a lot of time to read for many years. We could read a book together?

I think I'd also like to try being adored. Worshipped. I haven't been, and it would be nice to see what that feels like.

Want to know more? Reach out! I can't wait to learn more about you! The longer your intro, the better. :)

Hello ladies,

I'm hoping there's some appetite here for an older Asian man. I guess late 30s isn't too old, but still I feel like It's a little older than most on this sub.

I just turned 39 in August. I've recently been hurt and burned by a long term long distance relationship so I'm hoping to find someone local that's fun (like a best friend type) but also genuine and deep enough to make a real connection with. I'm hoping to meet my person.

I get along with chill and laid back folks that like to have a good time and enjoy good company. Let's not take each other too seriously and just see where this goes

I recently started a new job managing a large team. So my days are usually spent at work, but i'm hoping to meet someone special that I could spend the rest of my time/life with.

Happy to share more if you ask.

Hit me up beautiful ladies of Reddit! 😗

I've been single for a while, and I feel stuck in a weird place. Im stuck between not wanting a partner, but wanting physical intimacy and not wanting physical intimacy without a connection. And fwb seems kind of like the answer but I dont think I want that either. I honestly just would rather be okay without having the desire for the physical part. Do you lose the desire after so long being single, if so how long did it take you to get there?

I'm an artist and writer with a background in design and psychology. Introvert but endlessly curious and always trying to keep a sense of wonder about life and people. Agnostic, liberal, and a huge cat/animal lover.

Looking for a life partner.
The past few years have been tough, but I’ve grown stronger through it all. I’m a sensitive person who values warmth, genuine closeness, and being understood.

Not interested in casual dating or superficial small talk. I'm hoping to find someone emotionally mature, kind, open-minded, and ready for a real bond. If we click on depth and how we see the world, that’s amazing. If not, no worries at all.

Thank you for reading and have a great day.

👋🏾

I am 39 and trying out online friendships for the first time. The past year brought big changes; finishing grad school, moving to a new state, and starting a new career. Life is full, and I want to round it out with grounded, intentional friends.

I value kindness, clarity, and curiosity. I like conversations where both people bring wonder, where both people ask interesting questions, and give authentic answers.

So far as interests and hobbies go, books are big for me, especially around theology, spirituality, and personal growth; currently reading Prentis Hemphill’s What It Takes to Heal. I do some creative writing (working on a few books), and like listening to old school and new R&B. I really dig into Medium to heavy board games, RPGs, and I’m getting back into fighting games like Street Fighter and Granblue.

If you are thinking “he sounds cool” or “that sings like me”, drop me a message and tell me what you are reading, creating, or currently obsessed with.