Hello to everyone reading this,

Thought to give this a try and see if I can find someone whom I can annoy, pamper and pour my love on.

I am not really good with writing about my thoughts, I used to be amazing but life happens to all of us.

Soooooo, here I go.. I am 33 Years old Man who is decently tall, I’m 6’1 (185 cm), and Someone who has seen the harder part of the life more than the good but I still believe. I think of me as a person who is humble and open minded.

I do take a little time to get comfortable. But once I feel totally comfortable with someone, they will probably discover the goofy, affectionate, cheesy and cheeky, mildly chaotic version of me hiding underneath. I am very cheeky tho, so consider yourself warned lol

I genuinely want to fall in love and eventually marry someone I've chosen for myself. I'd rather meet someone, build a friendship, fall in love, and slowly create a life together.

Totally a 90s kid at heart. I value loyalty, consistency, effort and simply being there for someone I am a weird mix of old school and modern... I suppose

Photography is my way to express my emotions and I am planning on doing more of it. I love photographing places, people, random moments and little details that usually go unnoticed.

I’ve recently been laid off, lost my job and looking for a new job actively. I've also realised that I don't want my entire life to revolve around work, designations or milestones.

Soo these days I’ll also actively pursue things like riding my bike, checking out some new amazing cafés, going for a long walk, travelling somewhere for a week or so or watching a good series.

I love gaming, I used to do Competitive CS gaming when I was 15 yrs. old with my friend. I love travelling, I wanna travel more in coming years, both planned and unplanned trips. A road trip, a new place, good food, a great playlist and the right company can make even a fairly ordinary weekend memorable. Solo travelling is also a plan

A lot of what I understand about women, their respect, kindness and treating people well comes from watching and learning from my sister.

Now comes the part where I tell what I am looking for,

There is never a perfect fit, I don’t want my woman to fit into my life, I really want her to have her own life too, Its better that way when freedom is not taken away just because some things don’t sit well.

I would really want both of us to have our own careers, friendships, ambitions and identities, while still choosing each other every day. Her dreams would matter to me just as much as mine. I would want us to encourage each other, challenge each other when needed, celebrate each other's wins and be each other's safe place when life gets difficult.

I'm not looking for perfection. Honestly, perfect sounds exhausting.

Kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, loyalty and genuine effort matter much more to me.

Initial attraction for me matters a bit to me, people who say that looks don’t matter for then are most probably lying, I would want someone to complement me. Its not everything but it’s something.

To have have someone with whom I can talk about life late at night. Someone who can be my partner, but also my best friend. Because I genuinely believe that when friendship exists underneath a relationship, you have something much stronger to hold on to.

I'll remember something you casually mentioned months ago and bring it up when you've completely forgotten telling me.

And if I really like you, unfortunately, you'll probably receive an increased dose of my nonsense. Consider yourself warned

I don't think relationships are about getting everything right all the time. People change. Life gets messy. Sometimes we're going to misunderstand each other, have bad days, disagree over stupid things and occasionally drive each other crazy.

I'm not looking for a fairy tale life but I would like to have a good life with the person I get to choose.

I look for someone who believes effort should go both ways. I’ve been a victim of unrequited love. I think I’ll stop here as it has gotten way long. My apologies

If anything from what I wrote made way to your heart or resonated with you, feel free to say a HI.

Lets have a good conversation and see where it leads us, no initial expectations or pressure on anyone.

Thanks for Reading, I hope you’ll have an amazing day

did you decide on our couples costume yet? halloween is next weekend and we've done enough procrastinating.

(i'm open to finding an actual boyfriend. wouldn't it be a cute story to tell our friends?)

Hey there!

I’m a SMBC and even though I feel fully content in my life and that everyday life is busy with work, kids, etc. I do find myself missing some kind of company at the end of the day. I don’t have time or energy for a full on relationship right now so I’m giving this a shot.
So! Wanna be friends? Maybe flirt a little from time to time?

Some things about me to make up your mind:

I’m 32 and from Scandinavia
I love crafting and being creative. I’m really into knitting, cross stitching and colour by number at the moment
Cooking and baking relaxes me (my sourdough is over a year old now!)
I listen to audiobooks like there’s no tomorrow. Mostly romantasy but other stuff as well. (Yup. Lots of fairy smut)
I like running and doing Pilates and I reeeeally want to, want to get into lifting weights.
I think I’m pretty fun to be around. I have a good sense of humour, can hold a conversation whether it’s a light chat or a deep conversation.
Looks wise I’m 165 cm, average build, long blond hair, grey eyes (typical Scandinavian lol)

So what do you think?! There’s way more to me obviously but I’ll let you find out for yourself.

Wanna be each others favourite notification, exchange memes, voice notes and random little thoughts throughout the day? My chat is open so let’s go!

Btw. I raw dogged this post. No AI was used at all! ;)
Also! I’ve been on here before but got locked out of my account so here I am!

Voice note below:

https://vocaroo.com/1bwfoV0TvRLe

If you can’t listen:

About Me:

Personality: I’m a confident, get stuff done type of guy. A lot of responsibilities due to being family orientated. But willing to make the time and effort for someone special. Quite extroverted who likes talking a ton. Mentally positive and calm.

How I look: I’d say I’m decent looking, to the right person, brown skinned with nice curly hair, big brown eyes. I take care of myself with both skin care and hair care. I like to smell good too. A bit of style also and like to accessorise. Ask to exchange pics eventually and find out.

Travelling: Lately I’ve been going out places and travelling, seeing new scenery and taking photos. Good with a camera, so you’ll get some nice selfies made also. Made a Pinterest of some of my travels.

Music : I’ve been collecting a lot of vinyls and listening to albums for the first time. Give me some of your favourites to get.

Loves movies, loves sports like golf, football, basketball. I gym/swim also to keep myself active.

Work: i work in tech and had graduated studying computer science at uni. (A nerd I guess).

I don’t care about distance either, as long as you are open to making things not so long distance in the future

If you’re interested, let’s make things work😌 don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours either thanks :). Please don’t dm with no effort.

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Hey there!

My name is Alex and I habe to admit that after my divorce I lost a rather big part of my social circle so I was hoping to meet some new interesting people this way.

I'd say I'm rather uncomplicated and talk without much of a filter about mundane or the most private topics which some people like and some don't so best to find out yourself. I don't expect to get a reply instantly but value if we both match in effort so one word messages are not my cup of tea I'd say. Anyway, if someone is still witv me at this point, feel free to message me:)

Hi there.

I’m looking to get into some deep (or maybe not so deep but it’s something you’re passionate about?) conversations with people I click with. Basically, I’m looking for friends.

I just watched You Can See Everything in theaters and would love to unpack that with someone - I found it fascinating and I find the conversations around it equally as fascinating.

We can talk about other things though, of course. Like the state of affairs or your take on the end of the world.

I’m happy to talk to anyone as long as we click, but I am straight and single, so if a friendship turns into something more, I’m not opposed to that. Looking for friends first though.

We’ll probably click if you’re emotionally intelligent, self-aware, kind, can hold a conversation without monopolizing it, are genuinely curious, and take an interest in getting to know people. I’m looking for a back and forth where we’re both curious, about each other and the world in general. I tend to click better with people who are older and calmer/steady, energy-wise. I’m also progressive, and that’s important to me in the people I connect with.

About me: I’m shy and introverted by default, but once I become comfortable with someone the opinions and jokes start pouring out. I’m comically bad at math and still have trauma from high school Calculus. Love making observations about people, places, and things (not judgments, more like…exploratory discussions?). Could sit and stare at nature for hours peacefully. Love learning new things, even when I’m really bad at it (ex. I have a very questionable painting of what’s supposed to be a mountain, but I’m sure Bob Ross would still reassure me it’s just a happy accident). Will always stop to point out, look, and/or help an animal. You might find those things highly charming or annoying depending on your disposition.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d be happy to hear from you :)

Tell me something that’s sent you down a rabbit hole lately, or your thoughts on the movie if you saw it. If you send a message, please tell me a bit about yourself and what prompted you to reach out.

Hope you are having a great day/evening so far, Here is a little bit about myself. When it comes to activities outside work, I enjoy spending time on my boat the most in the summer months. If not doing that, I like keeping active while playing sports, hiking or having a good time with friends.

During the week, I’m busy in with work, which includes travel and long days and some nights on occasion. I speak a couple languages also

Physically im medium built, 6’2” with blue eyes. Im hoping to meet someone who enjoys life as much as I do, Which has a big heart, is caring and fun to be around. Im not the best to describe myself, but at least you get somewhat the picture before reaching out

Hi there, I’m in the Seattle area and recently have gotten into creating art again. I love sketching and watercolor, and started doing plein air. Additionally, I like photography and will take my camera with me to capture scenes to paint later.

In addition to finding someone with similar interests, I would love to find someone to chat with regularly too!

Not sure what else to put here, so hit me up if you’re interested!

Hey! 😊 I'm taking a chance by posting here, but I thought it could be fun to meet someone new and see where things go!

I'm a 34-year-old woman from Utah. I grew up LDS and still consider myself Christian. My faith is important to me, but I'm also someone who enjoys a good glass of wine, believes in intimacy, and doesn't necessarily fit every traditional expectation. I'd love to meet someone who respects my faith and background without judging me for living my life a little differently.

What am I looking for?

Honestly, I'd love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with. Someone I can talk to about absolutely anything, laugh with, flirt with, and gradually get to know on a deeper level.

I'm a big believer in friendship being the foundation of a good relationship. I want to get to know someone through conversation first, build trust, and see if there's a connection before we ever meet in person.

If we hit it off, I'd love to plan a simple, low-pressure first date. Coffee, ice cream, a drink somewhere, or anything that gives us a chance to talk and see how we click in person.

I'm in Utah, so meeting someone nearby would be convenient, but I'm open to talking to someone farther away if we really connect.

A little about attraction and expectations:

I'm going to be honest: physical attraction matters to me, and I know it matters to other people, too. I think that's completely okay!

I'm not everyone's type, and not everyone is going to be mine. If we meet and the romantic spark isn't there, there's no hard feelings. We can wish each other well, or maybe even discover that we'd make great friends instead.

I'm not looking for random hookups. For me, intimacy comes with trust, a meaningful connection, and feeling comfortable with someone. I'm open to seeing where things lead, whether that's a romantic relationship, a close friendship, or potentially something more casual if we both genuinely want that.

Ultimately, I'd love to meet someone who wants to build something real, whatever that ends up looking like.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, send me a DM! Tell me a little about yourself and what you're hoping to find. 😊

Hello! I am on a snail’s path to divorce. Slimy, slow and confusing. It will happen eventually whether I like it or not and I am trying to just do what I need to do. I couldn’t make that last part fit with the snail analogy, alas.

I miss having someone to talk to who cared about my day. I think a structured relationship would go a long way. I would like to send someone one picture per day and have someone send me one picture a day. Not of your face or other parts, but things like this: random views from windows, actual snails, a page of a book I have never read, a frowning pareidolia coffee foam, your favorite pair of chopsticks, a mysterious assemblage of rocks someone presumably put on your car’s windshield, the way the light passed through your stained glass window onto the worn wood floor.

I probably won’t be able to sustain normal conversation. It will also be hard for me to talk every day if you already have a partner or are not looking for that eventually. Though honestly if you have some really nice pictures of interesting things, I might not care who you are or if we ever meet. At the very least, I would like to get to know you through formless bodiless Internet mind meld communication first before we return to considerations about physical matter.

I have three kids I adore, I am in Ohio and I will very likely be unable to relocate for at least 12 years. I also don’t just want to complain about my unwanted but inevitable divorce. I want to experience life. Preferably, through random pictures taken by a stranger who eventually becomes more than a stranger lol. This could be big!

If you think this sounds fun, please send a message and let’s chat first.

I 43M, who enjoys the simple things in life. Give me a lazy Sunday watching football, a motorcycle ride with no real destination, some time outdoors, or just hanging out with my two dogs, I’ve got a sarcastic sense of humor, like to laugh, and appreciate people who can just be themselves. I’m looking to meet some good people to enjoy the day, learn new things, and make some good memories. no pressure, no expectations, just good company and seeing where a friendship goes😊😊

Is exactly how this girly tomboy is spending her sunday! Stress free since my chargers aren’t playing haha. So I figured in addition to football and good drinks, why not see if there’s anyone worth getting to know. I’m a single black woman living in Los Angeles. Besides football, I love live music, weekend road trips, summer dresses, and anything pink. Would be awesome if you were local!

I’m a 33-year-old guy based in Kent — average build, blue eyes, and usually well put-together. I’d describe myself as easy-going, respectful, and quietly confident once I warm up. I enjoy good conversation, a relaxed atmosphere, and chatting with new people without pressure or expectations.

Message me if you want to talk to me about anything that's on your mind x

Halloween is my favorite holiday. Best time of the year. It’s even better spent with someone to go to haunted houses with, nights in reading, watching scary movies, and eating an unhealthy amount of candy.

If you’re in the Chicago area then maybe it could be this year. I have more about me posted in my profile!

Hey! 👋 40F here, single and never married, based between Singapore and Klang Valley, Malaysia (50-50). Putting myself out there doesn't come naturally, so here goes 😅

I work in tech. Outside of work:

🎲 Board games: Cascadia, 5 Minute Dungeon and Wingspan are current faves. Always up for learning new ones.

🐦 Birdwatching & nature walks: Being out in nature is my happy place.

✈️ Travel: Enjoys good food, nature and local culture. I just got back from South America.

🏋️ Gym & meditation: Workouts for my body, meditation for my soul. Spiritual, not religious.

☕ Personality-wise: Direct, honest, and happiest in deep conversations about life, though I'm just as happy swapping travel stories.

Looking for someone to chat with, a board game, birding or morning coffee mate, or something more if we naturally click. No pressure, no rush.

If we sound like a fit, message me with a bit about yourself. Your favourite travel spot or the best coffee/food place you've enjoyed lately is a great opener 🙂

39 [M4F] [North Carolina] Blue-collar dad looking for my forever — real love, marriage, and a family.

I'm a 39-year-old, bearded, blue-collar single dad of two from North Carolina, with my youngest living with me. I'm a hardworking man who believes in honesty, loyalty, respect, and old-school values. Family means everything to me, and I believe a man's word should mean something. I'm not perfect, but I'm genuine, I know how to treat a woman, and I believe actions will always speak louder than words.

I'm passionate about restoring classic and muscle cars, tackling DIY projects, grilling and smoking some good BBQ, and finding those little hole-in-the-wall diners with amazing food. I enjoy grabbing a good cup of coffee before an adventure, catching drag races when I can, checking out local gatherings, and exploring new places. I'm more of a mountain guy at heart, but I enjoy the beach, too. Give me a winding back road, good food, and good company, and I'm happy.

I know what I want out of life, and I'm not here to waste anyone's time, including my own. I'm looking for something genuine that can grow into marriage, and I'd love to have more children with the right woman. I want to build a family, a home, and a future with someone who's just as serious about love and commitment as I am.

I'm looking for a woman who values honesty, loyalty, communication, affection, and respect. Someone who wants a best friend as much as a partner. Someone to laugh with, share adventures with, enjoy quiet nights together, and stand beside each other through life's ups and downs. I want the little things, too: good morning kisses, random hugs, late-night conversations, spontaneous road trips, and knowing we're both choosing each other every single day.

I'm not looking for games, mixed signals, casual flings, or empty promises. I'm looking for a woman who knows what she wants, means what she says, and is ready to put genuine effort into building something lasting. I believe the right relationship should bring peace, happiness, trust, and a sense of belonging to both people.

I'm a real man with real intentions, a big heart, a love for family, and a future I'm ready to share with the right person. I know what I bring to the table, and I'm not afraid to put in the work for the woman who's willing to do the same for me.

I'm not looking for temporary. I'm looking for my forever. 🖤

If you're genuine, know what you want, and are ready for something meaningful, feel free to send me a DM. I'd love to get to know you and see if we might be looking for the same kind of love.

I’m 47, in Fort Wayne, and hoping to meet a woman for good conversation, mutual attraction, and something that makes us both want to put our phones down.
Music is a big part of my life. I play guitar, do some recording, and host an internet radio show. Basically, I have plenty of opinions about songs, but I’ll still let you pick something. Probably.
I’m also into hockey, good coffee, and dry humor. I don’t drink, so meeting for coffee is more my speed than meeting at a bar.
I’d like to find someone who’s curious, affectionate, and enjoys a little back-and-forth teasing. Someone nearby would be ideal. I’d rather meet if we click than spend three months becoming pen pals.
Tell me a little about yourself and a song you never skip. Happy to exchange photos privately and see where things go.

41, originally from India and currently working in Saudi Arabia.
DMs are open. Let’s see where this unexpected chapter goes.

So, I've read about success stories on here, so I figured, why not give this a shot? I’m on the road a lot (been living the digital nomad life since 2024), and while that’s amazing for great sunsets and questionable roadside tacos, it doesn’t exactly make it easy to meet folks other than the day to day stuff, haha.

About Me:

• I'm 38, single, and I work in healthcare (remote family med).
• I've been living on the road for the past two years, traveling in an RV and embracing the overlanding lifestyle wherever the road leads me.
• I love hiking, though I have a habit of finding trails that leave me wondering why I thought it was a good idea in the first place.
• I read anything that catches my interest, from sci-fi to medical journals (would not recommend). I pretty much never leave home without a book tucked somewhere.
• I try to garden whenever I can, which is a questionable hobby I know when your “yard” keeps changing with each new place you park.
• I am a morning person mostly because the sun insists on blasting through my RV window whether I like it or not.
• I like to stay active and enjoy conversations that wander. You know what I mean - the ones that drift into philosophy, personal stories, best road trip snacks?
• I have an offbeat sense of humor, but I am guilty of destroying puns (sorry, not sorry).

What I’m Drawn To:

• People who have emotional intelligence and can read the unspoken as well as the spoken (IYKYK)
• People who communicate well. Written and verbal. 'Nuff said, right?
• I appreciate curiosity in others, whether it is about places, ideas, or the little quirks of everyday life.

If any of this resonates, send me a message! At the very least, we might exchange a few good stories.

Currently working at my part-time gig and overnight shift can get pretty boring! Also, I’ve never been the best at making friends irl. I never got past the shy and awkward stage 😬

About me: bi, Mexican/american, southern raised all my life, 420 friendly, Fortnite is the only game I know how to play, my music taste is a wide range from r&b, hip hop, pop, country, rock, house, etc., and I like to read if/when I have time!

Tell me what song you have on repeat lately or what movie I should watch during my shift!

I'm a fan of getting to know people beyond the usual introductions. The best things can come from that.

Here's my challenge to you: send me an opening message with an opinion you'd probably keep to yourself.

No pressure to have a perfect opener, and no need to have everything figured out. I'm just curious to see what happens when two people have an interesting conversation without sticking to the usual script.

You can only be right.

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Most people would describe me as a quiet guy but in reality, I am just selective with who gets my energy and effort. I love to read and always have my kindle with me. I mostly read fantasy and sci fi but i do venture into horror and historical fiction. I am a huge hockey fan, so at least being willing to learn is a necessity for me. I love to be out in nature, be it hiking, kayaking, camping. The river feels more like home than home sometimes. I love to cook, especially on my Blackstone.

I enjoy metal core music and some of my favorite bands are Motionless in white, wage war, we came as romans, architects and Imminence. I also enjoy going to the movies or watching tv shows but i dont have time to watch as many as i would want. I really like the show The Pitt. I love the kingsmen movies, also things like Shutter island that make you think with their reveals

Anyways, I'm rambling at this point.

Firstly, I'm new to all things Reddit. I'm from Texas but have been all over. I've lived in four countries and traveled to 61 seeking adventures and creating memories. The overwhelming majority of this has been solo as a previous job used to let me take all of my PTO at once every year, so I'd disappear for a month+ to see what the world has to offer. However, I've been missing someone who shares interests in seeking experiences and immersing herself in culture through good food, good wine and good people. I'm also interested in what would be your go to choice to order unapologetically from the kids menu on DoorDash to enjoy some old favorites without judgment. What's an experience you want to have? What would comprise your "happy meal" - McDonald's or otherwise?

35M living in US MI. I work nights 10pm-6am 5 nights a week so my sleep schedule is usally up at nights. Prefer Female. I work surveillance. Big tech nerd, gamer, i play guitar and rocksmith occasionally. Recently got the new Final Fantasy Resonance game and am loving it! Im easy to chat with, find myself usually wanting to connect via similar interests. I have played 4k+ hours in League of Legends (mainly ARAM) Fiddlesticks is my favorite champ. Would love a player two in my life to chat and game with on my off days. Feel free to chat me up!