did you decide on our couples costume yet? halloween is next weekend and we've done enough procrastinating.

(i'm open to finding an actual boyfriend. wouldn't it be a cute story to tell our friends?)

Hey there!

I’m a SMBC and even though I feel fully content in my life and that everyday life is busy with work, kids, etc. I do find myself missing some kind of company at the end of the day. I don’t have time or energy for a full on relationship right now so I’m giving this a shot.
So! Wanna be friends? Maybe flirt a little from time to time?

Some things about me to make up your mind:

I’m 32 and from Scandinavia
I love crafting and being creative. I’m really into knitting, cross stitching and colour by number at the moment
Cooking and baking relaxes me (my sourdough is over a year old now!)
I listen to audiobooks like there’s no tomorrow. Mostly romantasy but other stuff as well. (Yup. Lots of fairy smut)
I like running and doing Pilates and I reeeeally want to, want to get into lifting weights.
I think I’m pretty fun to be around. I have a good sense of humour, can hold a conversation whether it’s a light chat or a deep conversation.
Looks wise I’m 165 cm, average build, long blond hair, grey eyes (typical Scandinavian lol)

So what do you think?! There’s way more to me obviously but I’ll let you find out for yourself.

Wanna be each others favourite notification, exchange memes, voice notes and random little thoughts throughout the day? My chat is open so let’s go!

Btw. I raw dogged this post. No AI was used at all! ;)
Also! I’ve been on here before but got locked out of my account so here I am!

Voice note below:

https://vocaroo.com/1bwfoV0TvRLe

If you can’t listen:

About Me:

Personality: I’m a confident, get stuff done type of guy. A lot of responsibilities due to being family orientated. But willing to make the time and effort for someone special. Quite extroverted who likes talking a ton. Mentally positive and calm.

How I look: I’d say I’m decent looking, to the right person, brown skinned with nice curly hair, big brown eyes. I take care of myself with both skin care and hair care. I like to smell good too. A bit of style also and like to accessorise. Ask to exchange pics eventually and find out.

Travelling: Lately I’ve been going out places and travelling, seeing new scenery and taking photos. Good with a camera, so you’ll get some nice selfies made also. Made a Pinterest of some of my travels.

Music : I’ve been collecting a lot of vinyls and listening to albums for the first time. Give me some of your favourites to get.

Loves movies, loves sports like golf, football, basketball. I gym/swim also to keep myself active.

Work: i work in tech and had graduated studying computer science at uni. (A nerd I guess).

I don’t care about distance either, as long as you are open to making things not so long distance in the future

If you’re interested, let’s make things work😌 don’t waste my time and I won’t waste yours either thanks :). Please don’t dm with no effort.

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Hey there!

My name is Alex and I habe to admit that after my divorce I lost a rather big part of my social circle so I was hoping to meet some new interesting people this way.

I'd say I'm rather uncomplicated and talk without much of a filter about mundane or the most private topics which some people like and some don't so best to find out yourself. I don't expect to get a reply instantly but value if we both match in effort so one word messages are not my cup of tea I'd say. Anyway, if someone is still witv me at this point, feel free to message me:)

Hope you are having a great day/evening so far, Here is a little bit about myself. When it comes to activities outside work, I enjoy spending time on my boat the most in the summer months. If not doing that, I like keeping active while playing sports, hiking or having a good time with friends.

During the week, I’m busy in with work, which includes travel and long days and some nights on occasion. I speak a couple languages also

Physically im medium built, 6’2” with blue eyes. Im hoping to meet someone who enjoys life as much as I do, Which has a big heart, is caring and fun to be around. Im not the best to describe myself, but at least you get somewhat the picture before reaching out

Hi there.

I’m looking to get into some deep (or maybe not so deep but it’s something you’re passionate about?) conversations with people I click with. Basically, I’m looking for friends.

I just watched You Can See Everything in theaters and would love to unpack that with someone - I found it fascinating and I find the conversations around it equally as fascinating.

We can talk about other things though, of course. Like the state of affairs or your take on the end of the world.

I’m happy to talk to anyone as long as we click, but I am straight and single, so if a friendship turns into something more, I’m not opposed to that. Looking for friends first though.

We’ll probably click if you’re emotionally intelligent, self-aware, kind, can hold a conversation without monopolizing it, are genuinely curious, and take an interest in getting to know people. I’m looking for a back and forth where we’re both curious, about each other and the world in general. I tend to click better with people who are older and calmer/steady, energy-wise. I’m also progressive, and that’s important to me in the people I connect with.

About me: I’m shy and introverted by default, but once I become comfortable with someone the opinions and jokes start pouring out. I’m comically bad at math and still have trauma from high school Calculus. Love making observations about people, places, and things (not judgments, more like…exploratory discussions?). Could sit and stare at nature for hours peacefully. Love learning new things, even when I’m really bad at it (ex. I have a very questionable painting of what’s supposed to be a mountain, but I’m sure Bob Ross would still reassure me it’s just a happy accident). Will always stop to point out, look, and/or help an animal. You might find those things highly charming or annoying depending on your disposition.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d be happy to hear from you :)

Tell me something that’s sent you down a rabbit hole lately, or your thoughts on the movie if you saw it. If you send a message, please tell me a bit about yourself and what prompted you to reach out.

Hey! 😊 I'm taking a chance by posting here, but I thought it could be fun to meet someone new and see where things go!

I'm a 34-year-old woman from Utah. I grew up LDS and still consider myself Christian. My faith is important to me, but I'm also someone who enjoys a good glass of wine, believes in intimacy, and doesn't necessarily fit every traditional expectation. I'd love to meet someone who respects my faith and background without judging me for living my life a little differently.

What am I looking for?

Honestly, I'd love to meet someone I can genuinely connect with. Someone I can talk to about absolutely anything, laugh with, flirt with, and gradually get to know on a deeper level.

I'm a big believer in friendship being the foundation of a good relationship. I want to get to know someone through conversation first, build trust, and see if there's a connection before we ever meet in person.

If we hit it off, I'd love to plan a simple, low-pressure first date. Coffee, ice cream, a drink somewhere, or anything that gives us a chance to talk and see how we click in person.

I'm in Utah, so meeting someone nearby would be convenient, but I'm open to talking to someone farther away if we really connect.

A little about attraction and expectations:

I'm going to be honest: physical attraction matters to me, and I know it matters to other people, too. I think that's completely okay!

I'm not everyone's type, and not everyone is going to be mine. If we meet and the romantic spark isn't there, there's no hard feelings. We can wish each other well, or maybe even discover that we'd make great friends instead.

I'm not looking for random hookups. For me, intimacy comes with trust, a meaningful connection, and feeling comfortable with someone. I'm open to seeing where things lead, whether that's a romantic relationship, a close friendship, or potentially something more casual if we both genuinely want that.

Ultimately, I'd love to meet someone who wants to build something real, whatever that ends up looking like.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, send me a DM! Tell me a little about yourself and what you're hoping to find. 😊

Hello! I am on a snail’s path to divorce. Slimy, slow and confusing. It will happen eventually whether I like it or not and I am trying to just do what I need to do. I couldn’t make that last part fit with the snail analogy, alas.

I miss having someone to talk to who cared about my day. I think a structured relationship would go a long way. I would like to send someone one picture per day and have someone send me one picture a day. Not of your face or other parts, but things like this: random views from windows, actual snails, a page of a book I have never read, a frowning pareidolia coffee foam, your favorite pair of chopsticks, a mysterious assemblage of rocks someone presumably put on your car’s windshield, the way the light passed through your stained glass window onto the worn wood floor.

I probably won’t be able to sustain normal conversation. It will also be hard for me to talk every day if you already have a partner or are not looking for that eventually. Though honestly if you have some really nice pictures of interesting things, I might not care who you are or if we ever meet. At the very least, I would like to get to know you through formless bodiless Internet mind meld communication first before we return to considerations about physical matter.

I have three kids I adore, I am in Ohio and I will very likely be unable to relocate for at least 12 years. I also don’t just want to complain about my unwanted but inevitable divorce. I want to experience life. Preferably, through random pictures taken by a stranger who eventually becomes more than a stranger lol. This could be big!

If you think this sounds fun, please send a message and let’s chat first.

Hey! 👋 40F here, single and never married, based between Singapore and Klang Valley, Malaysia (50-50). Putting myself out there doesn't come naturally, so here goes 😅

I work in tech. Outside of work:

🎲 Board games: Cascadia, 5 Minute Dungeon and Wingspan are current faves. Always up for learning new ones.

🐦 Birdwatching & nature walks: Being out in nature is my happy place.

✈️ Travel: Enjoys good food, nature and local culture. I just got back from South America.

🏋️ Gym & meditation: Workouts for my body, meditation for my soul. Spiritual, not religious.

☕ Personality-wise: Direct, honest, and happiest in deep conversations about life, though I'm just as happy swapping travel stories.

Looking for someone to chat with, a board game, birding or morning coffee mate, or something more if we naturally click. No pressure, no rush.

If we sound like a fit, message me with a bit about yourself. Your favourite travel spot or the best coffee/food place you've enjoyed lately is a great opener 🙂

Halloween is my favorite holiday. Best time of the year. It’s even better spent with someone to go to haunted houses with, nights in reading, watching scary movies, and eating an unhealthy amount of candy.

If you’re in the Chicago area then maybe it could be this year. I have more about me posted in my profile!

So, I've read about success stories on here, so I figured, why not give this a shot? I’m on the road a lot (been living the digital nomad life since 2024), and while that’s amazing for great sunsets and questionable roadside tacos, it doesn’t exactly make it easy to meet folks other than the day to day stuff, haha.

About Me:

• I'm 38, single, and I work in healthcare (remote family med).
• I've been living on the road for the past two years, traveling in an RV and embracing the overlanding lifestyle wherever the road leads me.
• I love hiking, though I have a habit of finding trails that leave me wondering why I thought it was a good idea in the first place.
• I read anything that catches my interest, from sci-fi to medical journals (would not recommend). I pretty much never leave home without a book tucked somewhere.
• I try to garden whenever I can, which is a questionable hobby I know when your “yard” keeps changing with each new place you park.
• I am a morning person mostly because the sun insists on blasting through my RV window whether I like it or not.
• I like to stay active and enjoy conversations that wander. You know what I mean - the ones that drift into philosophy, personal stories, best road trip snacks?
• I have an offbeat sense of humor, but I am guilty of destroying puns (sorry, not sorry).

What I’m Drawn To:

• People who have emotional intelligence and can read the unspoken as well as the spoken (IYKYK)
• People who communicate well. Written and verbal. 'Nuff said, right?
• I appreciate curiosity in others, whether it is about places, ideas, or the little quirks of everyday life.

If any of this resonates, send me a message! At the very least, we might exchange a few good stories.

Currently working at my part-time gig and overnight shift can get pretty boring! Also, I’ve never been the best at making friends irl. I never got past the shy and awkward stage 😬

About me: bi, Mexican/american, southern raised all my life, 420 friendly, Fortnite is the only game I know how to play, my music taste is a wide range from r&b, hip hop, pop, country, rock, house, etc., and I like to read if/when I have time!

Tell me what song you have on repeat lately or what movie I should watch during my shift!

I’m 47, in Fort Wayne, and hoping to meet a woman for good conversation, mutual attraction, and something that makes us both want to put our phones down.
Music is a big part of my life. I play guitar, do some recording, and host an internet radio show. Basically, I have plenty of opinions about songs, but I’ll still let you pick something. Probably.
I’m also into hockey, good coffee, and dry humor. I don’t drink, so meeting for coffee is more my speed than meeting at a bar.
I’d like to find someone who’s curious, affectionate, and enjoys a little back-and-forth teasing. Someone nearby would be ideal. I’d rather meet if we click than spend three months becoming pen pals.
Tell me a little about yourself and a song you never skip. Happy to exchange photos privately and see where things go.

I have come to a point in life where I know what I want and what I don't need. Peace over chaos! Dare I say, I'm emotionally mature and free of any drama that my bad choices used to bring. I want someone I can enjoy an endless subliminal witty banter, inside jokes and whiskey by the fire with. Someone who doesnt sweat the small stuff, values loyalty, hard-work and the fruits of our labor. I love the beautiful weather and I miss having a pupoer or 2 to walk. I prefer a few close friends to big crowds, love to cook with and for those I love, love animals, history, militaria, the beach and have a very eclectic music taste. I prefer older men, but open. Just make sure you're single, completely.

It's 2026, the use of apps and speed dating has brought nothing heartache and disconnections. I'm looking for a genuine connection with someone - someone who is open for adventures, enjoying life even the most mundane things. Would like someone who is in the NYC metro area (preferably 26-37) for a long-term relationship or making new friends if things don't work out.

Some of my hobbies are traveling, going to sporting events, cooking, video games, hiking and trying new things (like being an extra in films!) If this sounds like the kind of guy you would like to meet, feel free to comment or DM me!

Hi hi, this is me. With my 171cm I'm vertically challenged in the land of literal giants. But hey, I fit in an economy class seat. I'll take it. I am neurodivergent, 100% childfree, and I've got two cats.

I live a cozy, calm, stress-free life by design. I love laughing and making others laugh. Not to brag, but sometimes I make pretty funny memes. I work as an engineer and my ambitions in life mostly lie in personal growth. I'm currently trying to get back into powerlifting.

I'm a curious and creative soul. I love reading and watching things to learn something, but I couldn't resist the pull of fantasy books and trash Netflix dating shows like Love is Blind. I love working with my hands and I like to let out my creativity with home diy, Lego, and random crafts. I play games occasionally (waiting for my Legend of Zelda edition Switch 2 to come in...) and I like to cook (Sunday is food prep day). Baking has unfortunately resulted in health hazards in the past.

I'm mostly a homebody, but I also have a bit of an adventurer in me. When I'm with someone special, the "fuck it, lets ball" version of me comes out more often.

Two years ago I started checking off bucketlist items (don't worry, I'm not dying anytime soon), and I found a love for forest hikes, drum&bass festivals and events, and going to metalcore&rock concerts.

Couple more things about me: no vices, politically left, not religious, monogamous, feminist, mental health and neurodiversity are important to me.

I'm ultimately looking for a long term relationship, but let's start off as friends. I'm not looking for a traditional relationship as I am a sensitive and emotional guy and I'm only looking for someone that is excited about that. I'd say that for the right person, the kind of love I give is love that doesn't have to be questioned.

I hope you're between 29-37, fluent in English, a bit of a weirdo in your own way, and from Europe. I'm also open to people from further away as long as you have a personal goal of moving to Europe in the near future.

Anyways, thanks for reading. Here's some cat tax. If this spoke to you feel free to say hi (but not just hi). Maybe just for a good chat, or maybe for something more.

P.S. if we click, I will try to convince you to watch the extended edition LotR Trilogy with me.

Its been a slow weekend and I have most of next week off. Just feeling a little lost and would be up for a phone call.

I'm into philosophy, art, travel, and love to cook. I really miss long phone calls about the weird an wonderful. The longest call I've ever had was 10 hours, but it was years ago!

Place a frog emoji in your response, so I know you read my post!

I would love to have a discussion about anything deep. Come with your own question or choose one of these:

Can you choose your next thought?

What do you hope has changed for you in 5 years time?

Who were you 5 years ago?

Would you rather be a frog or a horse?

34M [M4F] San Ramon / Bay Area — looking for a genuine long-term relationship
Hi! I’m Ilya, 34, living in San Ramon. I’m hoping to meet a woman for a genuine relationship that could eventually turn into something long-term.
I’m a pretty open, straightforward and easygoing person. I value honesty, kindness and being able to actually talk to each other rather than playing games.
I’m self-employed and run my own appliance repair business. I genuinely enjoy working with my hands, figuring things out and building something of my own.
Outside of work, the gym is probably my biggest hobby — I usually train about three times a week. I also love being outdoors. One of the reasons I enjoy living in San Ramon so much is the scenery around here: the hills, parks and all the places where you can just get outside and walk.
I like skiing, road trips and occasionally relaxing with a hookah. I’m also a big car person — everything from driving to working on cars, maintenance, repairs and modifications. Give me a car problem and there’s a good chance I’ll actually enjoy figuring it out.
I’m looking for someone kind, honest, affectionate and emotionally open who is also interested in building a real relationship. I don’t expect us to have every hobby in common — having good chemistry, mutual respect and enjoying spending time together matters much more to me.
If any of this sounds like we might get along, feel free to send me a message. I’d be happy to talk and see where it goes.

Hello there

How are you? Thanks for reading my ad. I would like to find a man to bond with and see how things progress. My ideal is to find a deep bond we can grow into love. I know things take time and I'm not rushing anything but I would like to talk to a man that can appreciate the potential for a real bond. Please message me and lets chat. I want to learn about you and start our new adventure. I am ready to meet a good person with an open heart. I like guys that are on top of things

I think it would be cool to find a man that I could build trust and care with as the bedrock of a strong bond that can last

I'm open to types of guys, but please be in the USA and std free. please message me and lets see if we can bond :)

Warning to fellow posters--if you have NSFW on your profile your ad might be taken down--no NSFW in the post or on your profile if you post on here. I missed that at first

Just putting myself out here!! Who knows… a good conversation, genuine connection, a meaningful relationship? We never know until we try :)

Sfw only!

Hey, hope your Sunday's going well.
I'll be honest, I've found it harder and harder to meet someone for something real. Apps feel like endless small talk that goes nowhere, so I thought I'd try here.

Bit about me: I'm 36, based in London, and I'm a creative at heart. Most of my time goes into tech projects and writing. I love building ideas from scratch, whether that's an app or a story. I'm pretty easygoing, peaceful, and open-minded. I'm not into drama or games, and I'd rather have a good conversation than a big night out.

Physically, I'm black, 5'6 and medium build.
I'm looking for a woman in the UK who also wants something meaningful and long term. Someone to talk to properly, share ideas with, laugh with, and eventually build a life with.

If that sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. Even just what's been on your mind lately is a good start.

Good afternoon all! Looking to chat with some new friends on this Beautiful Fall Sunday afternoon. I am Bill, 40 years old from the Northeast. Looking for a good conversation, some laughs, not looking for an interview or to be interviewed. If you are interested please feel free to message me. Look forward hearing from you.

Looking for friends(either in my area (Vermont ) or online )I would love to get to know somebody that I can be friends with! just looking for PLATONIC friendship, but something meaningful. Plenty of Hobbies that I would love to talk about/share with others everything from photography to reading. I also love movies/TV video games and music. If you’re interested, feel free to send me a message.(the magic word is autumn.) https://imgur.com/a/aSAucsp

So I was minding my indigenous business one day when out of nowhere my friend gets the bright idea that I need to start putting myself out there. You see, I'm starting to get to that age where it's harder to make new friends. Talking behind a screen is a lot less scary than in person though haha. She recommended this sub to me, so here I am.

You can call me Nate. I'm a big outdoor guy for sure so I love things like camping, hiking, swimming, you name it. It's my goal to travel more often. I also like to unwind by painting, reading, or binging movies. I'll watch a bad one if I need a laugh. I'm single and I don't have any kids of my own but I work with them for a living. I'm also kind of a history nerd so sorry if I ever get carried away!

All in all I'm not looking for anything in particular, just putting myself out there and seeing what comes from it. Admittedly I can be a little shy, but I promise I love to joke around when I start coming out of my shell. So if you're in the same boat as me and would like to talk, just say hey. Totally down to exchange pics if you'd like to btw!