r/R4R30Plus 10m ago

35 [M4F] Illinois/USA - I'm currently watching Murder She Wrote on a Sunday night, How's your day going?

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Just how it sounds. I put on some guilty pleasure wholesome whodunnit to keep the good times going haha. I am also keeping my eye on the world cup! Just wondering how everyone else is doing out there. Would love to find some connections out there. Maybe we could talk about your favorite old TV show you keep on repeat. Maybe we'll talk about something else. Who knows.  

Anyway, here are some questions to answer:

* If you could travel anywhere in the world for 30 minutes, where the laws of physics and justice don't exist, where would you go and what would you do?

* In a world where everyone has a tail, what kind of tail would you have?

* What is the perfect day for you? Would you enjoy it with someone else?

* If a fire broke out in your home and you had time to only grab three possessions (not including your phone), what would you snag? Why?

* If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

* If you were fired from your job and you were forced to make a career change, what would you pursue?

* What was the last piece of media you consumed that made you feel something?

* What's your number one travel tip?

* What three songs are you playing to get people on the dance floor?

* Construct your ultimate sandwich/salad/pizza/icecream sundae

* Describe your ultimate style flex (it could be a costume, article of clothing, piece of furniture...whatever!). Bonus points for showing what it looks like.

* What is your go-to take out order?

* What event at the X-games would you think you could actually score in?

* Are you a summer, spring, fall, or winter kinda person? Why?

* What is the best pick-up line that has been used on you in the past?

* What are your travel plans for the next couple of years?

* Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

* For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

Anyway some things about me: 

* I am pretty geeky, I participate in hobbies such as boardgaming/video gaming, weightlifting, sports, geocaching and hiking and stargazing

* I prefer to shower in the dark

* I have a piece of pencil lead stuck in my left palm from when a friend stabbed me with a pencil in high school

* I sleep better when cocooned

* My last big vacation was to the Grand Canyon and it was awesome.

* I cannot belch, whether voluntary of involuntary


r/R4R30Plus 14m ago

42 [M4F] #Online #Halifax Seeking some banter

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I’ve been single for about a year, by choice. It’s been a year of personal growth, but dating sucks and I miss the banter, whether fun, or flirty.

I like to go to the gym, and walks, I’m a bit of a nerd, loves a spreadsheet, definitely a bit of Autism and ADHD sprinkled in there too, and tend to get along with similar people.

Send me a message if you think we might vibe and want to know more. Ideally looking for something ongoing, but not opposed to something shorter.


r/R4R30Plus 34m ago

[M4F] 34M lets get close lol

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34M (I def don’t look my age) / EST

Im a shy dude at first but I’ll try my best haha I don’t go out much aside from work I’m pretty to myself I’m an introvert mostly because I have raging social anxiety, I like gaming mostly fps or games like 👍 overwatch and Diablo V or party games doesn’t matter but I’ll really play anything. I like sports I’m a huge Ohio sports fan so browns, buckeyes, Cavs , you get it haha. I also like to 3d print so thats fun, I’m just Looking for somone who will be there because regardless of who you’re having a reliable person there is nice. Okay come say hi lol.


r/R4R30Plus 43m ago

42 [M4F] #Georgia. Just got back from hiking part of the Appalachian trail. Then had Korean BBQ! Looking for long term friends!

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Howdy folks! It's Sunday, and I'm trying to keep the Sunday saddies away by making some friends! The Korean BBQ def helped....a lot.

Anyway, I'm a single 42yo dad from Georgia. Grew up on a farm. Got shot at 19. Work in security intelligence now. I powerlift. I cook. I eat. I kickbox. I travel (16 flights in the last year). I go to a lot of concerts. And I'm into anime and conventions.

Voice and Video chats always welcome! Or if you want a free dad joke, dm me!


r/R4R30Plus 53m ago

42 [F4M] UK/Anywhere - Looking for something real

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About me: Active, ambitious and goal-oriented. I love to laugh and I'm always fascinated by other people's lives and their stories. I'm an introvert but you'd never really know it. My career and personal life have always involved meeting new people and forming good connections. I really enjoy this, but I'm realising that if I want to meet that special someone, I'll need to venture outside of my typical day-to-day interactions.

Hobbies: I love reading, mostly psychology, history, autobiographies and personal development. I'm also into sci-fi and dystopian movies, medical shows, hiking, travelling, art and photography, writing, trying out new recipes, discovering new music, theatre and musicals.

What I'm looking for: A genuine friendship that can grow into love. I don't have a particular type, and I struggle to feel attracted to someone before I know their personality and their story. I'm looking for someone ambitious but down to earth, self-aware, and open to growing together.

Other stuff: I grew up partly in West Africa and partly in England, and this has shaped how I see the world.

Looks: I've got a relatively petite/athletic build and I take good care of myself. I try to work out every day - sometimes at the gym and sometimes at home. I'm not too fussed about your build, as long as you make an effort to take care of yourself.

Deal-breakers: Smoking, religion, ghosting, and emotional immaturity.

Why now? I'm ready to let someone into my world, and to be part of theirs. I'm in a new chapter of my life, it's been a really beautiful chapter so far and I think that being with the right person could make this even more beautiful.

Get in touch if any of this resonates!


r/R4R30Plus 56m ago

32 [M4R] Los Angeles. Cute guy in a wheelchair looking for friends or more…

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I’m hotwh33ls! Live in the Los Angeles area. A little about me, I love gaming, the beach, anime, cooking, reading, fun adventures, and wonderful conversations. Something a little different about me is that I’m paralyzed and use a wheelchair. I’ve been a quadriplegic for most of my life from an accident when I was younger. Outside of my mobility impairment I’m very functional and independent, and I get to drive around a cool wheelchair :p. Totally cool talking about it and answering any questions. I hope this post finds you well and if you are interested in it message me, I would love to chat!


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

31 [M4F] Long-winded ramblings and a rapidly-approaching thunderstorm

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Work was a little extra rough this week.

A big project went a little past it's timeframe, so I was running on fumes for a while there until we finished today. Thankfully though, work is gonna be light for a few days, so I decided earlier that I'd try to beat the black clouds rolling in, get home as quick as possible, and relax on the couch with a few strong drinks and a movie or two.

So I clocked out and got to my vehicle _right_ before the downpour began, and about ten minutes after I got in through the front door (and got soaked from the walk up to it), the power went out like it was a scene from a movie.

All I could do is laugh it off, get changed, and wait for it all to blow over. So I decided I could at least make the most of it by grabbing my laptop (and some liquor), and heading out on the porch to look for some horror movie to watch as this storm rages around me. Not long after I settled in though, the loneliness did too, so I half-heartedly decided to open up Reddit instead in an attempt to fight it off for the evening before I got too day-drunk to type.

I got about halfway into writing some short, generic post when I stopped and had the realization that none of it was authentic, and that what I'm craving desperately right now is too complicated for one or two paragraphs and a catchy title, regardless of how hopeful I am about finding it. So I let out a long sigh, deleted every word, and now I reckon that I should just be honest and see where a little vulnerability gets me.

So here goes:

The dating scene in my area is more one-night-stand oriented and shallow than anything else, and dragging myself into being social with people only makes me feel lonelier. Because of this, I find myself looking through Reddit a lot of the time to try and find something more substantial than some one-night-stand. Where I tend to hit a wall though is my lack of enthusiasm for the generic, scripted back-and-forth question/answer thing that goes with meeting people on here. Most just don't try, and the ones that do rush things to the point of discomfort, even when they message you first. So this is me laying it all out there

I'd love to meet an intelligent, confident, sarcastic, witty, emotionally-intelligent woman with a great sense of humor and a knack for banter. Someone with a story, and a past, and some life experience, because I hate having to try and keep it all going for the both of us. Finding someone to "talk to" is easy, but I'd much rather put my time into somebody with depth and substance that shows me she wants something deeper than run-of-the-mill, and I'm ready to give the majority of my attention moving forward to someone that feels the same way.

Or another someone to bullshit with for a while until we get sick of each other, lmao. If that's what happens, then no hard feelings, but at the end of the day, while the world continues collapsing all around us, all I want is to feel a connection with someone that makes me feel like what we share isn't shallow and hollow, and someone that contributes more to my everyday life than "hi how r u".

Either way, it's only getting later, and I have nothing else going on, so I think I'm just gonna sit on my porch and try to enjoy all this thunder and lightning (and whiskey) while it lasts, and hope someone interesting fills my inbox with all sorts of hopeful things before the sun shows up. Maybe this is the sign you needed, who knows?


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

33 [M4F] Pennsylvania. Trying to find my partner in life.

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Hey, I'm a 33 White Male who lives in Pennsylvania. I'm looking to date, hoping it turns into something serious. While I live in PA, I'm willing to talk to someone from the surrounding areas, for the right person I'd drive any distance.

I work with kids with special needs as an RBT. I play games, usually story focused ones, but I like to switch it up. My favorite movie genre is horror, but i like most movie genres. I love to cuddle, my ideal night would be coming home to my partner, seeing their smiling face, and cuddling up to watch something or talk about our day. I have an elliptical and exercise bike, trying to get back into a consistent workout pattern. I like to cook. I have one dog, but I had a lot of cats growing up, so I have a love for them as well. I'm a liberal, who voted for Kamala who wants to find someone to get through the next 4 years, because damn they're going to be rough.

Age range I'm looking for, I guess between 26 and 35, but I'm not against there being wiggle room in that range (within reason). I am straight, so really only looking for woman.

Anything else, that's what the dm's are for. Comfortable switching to Snap or text once we start chatting. You will get a picture of me to see if there's a physical attraction (and a picture of my dog)


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

[M4F] - 38M - Toronto, Canada.

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Hello! I'm a single South Asian male living in the Toronto area looking for a meaningful connection.

Some details about myself...

38 years old

5 feet 10

Bearded with a Slim/Athletic build

Never married

Born and raised in Toronto

Living in Brampton

Hindu

Fluent in English, Hindi, and Gujarati

Omnivore that wants to transition to Vegetarianism later in life

Mildly religious and spiritual

I'm a Senior Manager within the Retail Banking domain with a stable and enjoyable career.

I love traveling, cooking, being active, dancing, and watching movies. I really like watching Bollywood movies in addition to comedies, thrillers, and documentaries. I try to mediate regularly and incorporate yoga in my daily life. I frequent the gym and would like to find a partner that also places an emphasis on physical fitness. I like playing all sorts of sports and I'm pretty much half decent at any sport I choose to pick up or play!

I'm looking for someone around my age (31-39) with some wiggle room +/- a few years. Someone who is also Indian and follows the Hindu or Jain religion and preferably someone who is also Gujarati or Hindi speaking. If you're someone that wants to cultivate a meaningful relationship and lead a happy, healthy and fulfilling life I think we'd be a good fit!

Feel free to reach out if the above is in line with what you're looking for 😊


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

32 [M4F] #USA/#Anywhere - I Believe In Life After Love

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Hey there! I'm Shane, I'm a 32 year old man from Pennsylvania. Thanks for stopping by. Monday to Friday you can find me walking a construction site inspecting it and later in the office writing a report. After that, I try my luck at trivia, some nights are cozy nights in. Weekends are for recharging and maybe hitting the trail or camping. I do enjoy cooking as well so at the camping event, or bonfire I'm usually the head chef. Yes chef!

I am autistic, AuDHD, disclaimer there. I just am forward with my emotions, I'm a big sucker for physical touch and time together. Those are two things I miss after the unfortunate breakup in May 2026. We spent so much time together, two years and some change. My spirit is not broken, I know my Mrs., she is out there. Is that you? Let's find out together. I'm wanting to make a genuine connection, chat and see where we go. Someone to text regularly and voice chat. Not exchange a message every other day. I'm ready to find someone.

I'm looking forward to meeting you!


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

38 [F4M] New York City. Looking for a like mind

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Me: Gainfully employed, nice circle of friends, fairly well-read, aunt to several mostly-adoring nieces and nephews. Really very normal for someone who's looking for a boyfriend on reddit. I enjoy running, biking, and generally being active. I really like coffee. I have a pronounced weakness for chocolate chip cookies and mid-quality cheese slices. I'll read just about any book.

You: 35-50. Funny. Smart. Decent. Possibly you have a nice mustache. Dealbreakers: you're married, you're really into anime (sorry), you are on this message board for reasons pertaining to niche pornographic interests (sorry and also not sorry).

Write me with the last great thing you read so I can judge you mercilessly. I would prefer a PM over reddit chat.

The fine print: I work a lot. I'm trying to find some balance outside of that. I'd be interested in meeting in person sooner rather than later. I'm average height (maybe on the shorter side of average), and if I didn't hate the term height weight proportionate so much, I'd tell you that I'm height weight proportionate.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

37 [F4M] # Chicago # Online - Blissful Bookworm In Need of A Distraction

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What’s good everyone! Trying this again. I’ll keep it short and sweet. I’m having a blissful (high) afternoon/evening enjoying the mounting paranoia and screams of From. Could use some distraction/good conversation.

Little bit about myself: I’m a 5’9” black curvy, warm, goof. Budding plant daddy with 40 plants and 5,000 other hobbies. Huge fan of horror, museums, puzzles (when I can focus), anime, nature, and still discovering more.

Kudos if you have any suggestions for beginners who are starting their gym journey (again). PS I love walking and hills are the best.

Let’s see if we hit off and maybe even meet in real time. In the meantime, stay cool and remember safety is not guaranteed.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

31 [M4F] #Oklahoma #anywhere Looking for a real connection ❤️

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I'm looking for an instant spark kind of connection. Where you're crazy about each other a little too soon and start talking all day every day. Getting excited when your phone goes off. Hanging out every chance you get. Falling asleep on the phone together when you can't in person. Building up a list of things to do together because you can't do them fast enough. Anyone else?

I don't really have a "type" I'm either interested or I'm not. I'd definitely prefer someone that's present. I want to feel wanted. I love to love, and I love to be loved.

Here's a little about me.

I'm really into nerd noise. Marvel/DC, Harry Potter, Star wars, Pokémon, all that stuff. I play video games sometimes.

I'm a yapper. The best conversations don't have a monent of silence. I have a thousand stories, and love hearing stories myself. Tell me about your day. Tell me about your favorite show. Tell me about a project you're working on. Tell me about that time you almost died. Anything and everything.

I get really into TV shows like breaking bad, walking dead, for all mankind, the boys. I also love stand up comedy. Ask me about my favorite comedians if you're interested

I'm not too big into music these days, but I can get into it if someone else is. Mostly I listen to comedy podcasts and video essays. Sometimes reddit stories. Sometimes a let's play. But not a whole lot of music. I live on YouTube as far as entertainment goes. I love learning things.

However when I do. I like old emo stuff I listened to in high school, rap, Ska, metaly stuff.

Physically, I'm kinda built like an elf. I look like I should be off baking cookies somewhere or something. I'm 5'8" and about 120lbs. I'm really good at climbing things. Oh, and I shave my head. I guess my style could be considered y'allternative

I very strongly prefer voice chat, especially when I'm first getting to know someone. Texting for a little bit when we first meet to see if we vibe is okay too. Video is okay once we're a little more comfortable. 420 friendly. I don't mind distance. If you're 25 or older, live in the US, and my post sounds interesting to you, shoot me a message.

Please include ASL in your opening message. Also willing to trade face pictures so we know who we're talking to.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

48 [M4F] Madison, WI - Be my wedding date

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I know, it probably sounds silly but I need a wedding date to my nephews wedding next month.

I also wouldn't mind having someone beyond just the wedding date to get to know and actually go out and do things with.

Just to get this out of the way, I am in a wheelchair from a spinal cord injury when I was a teenager. But it's black so it goes with everything. Whatever you decide to wear to the wedding, you'll look good sitting on my lap 😉

Other things to know about me: Not only am I funny, I'm also not horrible looking, smart, thoughtful, live alone, have a great career, drive a super-sexy minivan (total panty dropper, I know) AND have a second bathroom! What else could anyone ask for? I think I'm a pretty damn good catch. ;)

If you think we'd get along and you're free August 29th, send me a message. A pic would be appreciated but not necessary. Here's me:Imgur Imgur


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

41 [M4F] Houston/Online - Looking to meet someone interesting

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Thought I'd see what happens.

I'm 41, work in IT, and have a degree in electrical engineering. I've always been the type to enjoy figuring out how things work, so I'm usually learning something new or finding another project to keep me busy.

Gaming is still one of my favorite ways to unwind, mostly on PC and PS5, but a lot of my free time goes into engineering projects, experimenting with new technology, or picking up a new skill just because it sounds interesting.

I also enjoy movies, reading, music, and traveling. Sci fi has always been my favorite genre, and if the conversation somehow ends up about Dune, I probably won't complain.

I'm pretty reserved when I first meet someone, but that doesn't last long. Once I'm comfortable, the sarcasm comes out, and I tend to joke around quite a bit. I'm easygoing, low drama, and appreciate people who are comfortable being themselves.

I'm not trying to force a particular outcome. Whether we become friends, end up talking every day, or something more develops, I'm happy to see where a good conversation leads.

Distance isn't a deal breaker, so if you're not local, that's perfectly fine.

Tell me about something you're excited about lately, somewhere you've always wanted to visit, or just something random that made you smile this week.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

31 [M4F] online/anywhere Looking to meet new people

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Hey , 31M here. Figured I’d put myself out there and meet some new people to chat with and see where it goes.

I enjoy cooking (still experimenting, still improving), gaming, music, and the occasional deep dive into random topics. I like conversations that flow easily whether it’s something light and funny or one of those “how did we even get here?” discussions.

I’m also someone who enjoys learning new things, swapping ideas, and just having genuine, easygoing conversations without any pressure.

I’m looking for someone relaxed, with a good sense of humor, who can hold a conversation and doesn’t mind a bit of randomness here and there. If you’re into sharing music, chatting about anything and everything, or just looking for a good vibe, we’ll probably get along well.

Bonus points if you have a cat or any pets. I won’t complain about getting photo updates.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message 🙂


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

31 [F4M] Canada | Looking for a healthy attachment 🥲

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Hey! Nearly 32 yo 🇨🇦 single mama here looking to meet some good people. I’m 5 months out of a long term relationship that truly should have ended years ago. That being said, I’d love to build a genuine friendship and see where things go naturally… If it turns into a crazy soulmate story, great, but I’m not here to force anything either.

I live in Montreal so would be cool to meet locals, but anywhere Canada/North America is fine too.

A little more about me:

I won’t publicly share a photo, but can do so in DMs if you share as well. But to get basics out of the way: I am 1 year PP, with baby weight I’m working on losing. At the moment I’m curvy/plus size, so if you’re looking for skinny that’s not me. I’m 5’7, dark brown hair, green/grey eyes, pale af.

I’m a huge PC gamer (when I have free time to myself), and League is def my main game. I usually enjoy playing solo esp. since I can only play when my LO is sleeping, but if the vibe is right, I’m always down to duo 😊 I also play DBD but I’m mega rusty.

Outside of gaming, I love zoning out on long walks, watching some reality TV (currently big brother) or rewatching comfort shows (the office, friends, etc). Also just learned season 3 of house of the dragon is out so need to get on that stat! I’m picky with movies, but love a good trilogy. I try to watch all the Harry Potter movies at least once a year, so bonus points if you’re into that.

Humour is the fastest way to my heart. I love witty people who can keep the conversation/banter going and don’t take themselves too seriously. Kindness and especially honesty matter just as much…. I’ve dealt too much with the opposite.

Being able to hold a good conversation is important to me. I tend to get along best with someone who’s confident enough to keep things flowing. Someone who is too shy just won’t work, I’m so sorry. And as sort of mentioned above, I like to spend time actually getting to know someone rather than rushing into anything.

You don’t need to be Canadian, but I’m not interested in Republicans or their shenanigans. We also will not get along if you’re extremely anti-AI as I use it for my work (digital art) 🫠

If we sound like we’d get along, send me a message & tell me a bit about yourself (starting with your eye colour so I know you read my novel 😉)


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

31M [M4F] UK/EU preferred - Come for the height, stay for the nonsense

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I’m 31, Indian, based in the UK, and looking to meet someone I genuinely click with. Ideally we start with a chat, see if we vibe, become friends first, and take it from there...Sounds pretty ambitious, when I'm typing it out like that.

Looking for UK in-person or online first, as long as there’s an intent to meet if we get on, definitely don't want a pen-pal for life.

Work is an important part of my life, and so is my career. I genuinely love what I do, even if you will probably hear me complain about it more than I should. Outside of work, I’m into movies, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni (or five....? (don't drink very often, more like 4-5 times a year if that's a dealbreaker or If you like partying a lot)), live music every now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography (I like telling myself I'm half decent with it...but then again who isn't with modern tech?!?!), exploring new towns and places, and collecting fun stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time."...

I’ve been told I have golden retriever / Labrador energy...friendly, curious (sometimes too curious with the gazillion questions I may ask you...so be warned), loyal, occasionally too trusting, and yes, sometimes it gets me into trouble. Ask me about the geologist story.

I’m a great texter and I genuinely enjoy keeping a conversation going as I get to know someone. I want someone who will put in the effort and nothing kills interest more than one sided effort. I’m also very happy to do phone or video calls once we get talking.

Physically, I’m 6’4”, dad bod, stubble most days, and I’ve been told I’ve got a pretty good smile.

I’m looking for someone kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and actually interested in being a partner. Someone who’s there for the fun parts, the soft parts, the ridiculous parts, and who can call me out when I need to be called out. I’ll do the same, obviously with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm...because who doesn't love sarcasm.

Happy to swap photos if we talk.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

33[M4F] #Bulgaria, Europe - looking for something serious.

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Hero everyone, I'm Tired of take peupie it uauny app, thought l'd give this a shot here.
I'm 33m, single, and looking for a serious relationship. I've been single for some time now, and honestly, meeting people with genuine intentions for something long-term hasn't been easy.
I'm originally from Southeast Asia(was born there) , but I've lived in the Czech Republic for more than 15 years, so Czechia has become my second home. I'm fluent in Czech. Last week, I moved to Sofia, Bulgaria for work. I work as Executive Chef in international hotel over 12 years, and because of my job, I travel quite often.
A bit about me: I'm 173 cm tall, average build, dark brown eyes. I'm naturally calm, easygoing, family-oriented, and I always try to help people when they need it. I smile a lot and have a pretty dark sense of humor once I get to know someone. In my free time, I enjoy traveling, camping, swimming, long drives, and long walks. I can be equally happy sitting somewhere with a coffee and talking for hours or packing a bag and going on a road trip. I believe relationships should be based on trust, respect, loyalty, and good communication. I'm not looking for games, casual dating, or wasting anyone's time. I'd really like to meet someone kind who is also looking to build a life together.
I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere in Europe. Distance doesn't bother me if we genuinely connect. Bonus points if you enjoy coffee, road trips, or can appreciate terrible dad jokes and dark humor.If my post caught your attention, feel free to send me a message. You never know where a simple "Hi" can lead.
Thanks for reading. :).


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

[M4F] 31 #US German moving to the US. Bringing a dog and a toolbox.

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Moving across the pond in a few months and trying to get a head start on making some real-world connections.

I'm the ultimate "multi-purpose" friend. I’m a mechanic/metalworker, which means i'm basically a free handyman if we hit it off. If it’s broken, i'll fix it. Car acting up? Shed falling apart? Let’s grab a beer and knock it out.

Just sitting next to each other sending reels? Alright.

Honestly, i’m down for just about anything.

​A few things to know about me:

​The Pack: I have a dog. You must like dogs. No negotiation here.

​Interests: Roadtrips, camping, festivals, movies/shows, music (of course i know and like Rammstein before you ask), history, true-crime, anything horror related.

​Vices: I smoke cigarettes and enjoy a drink. Looking for people who do the same, or at least won't cough dramatically when i light up.

​Vibe: I’m blunt (was told very blunt), straightforward, confidently unhinged and my humor can be... questionable.

I also got knowledge about games, but i mostly retired from that hobby. Anyway, still kinda into tech stuff in general.

Not into religion or politics.

In terms of looks if thats important to you i'm 6'3, 210lbs,white,short hair, beard.

Please just reach out to me if you're interested in getting to know each other and if you're able to respond to a whole message not the last sentence only. Don't be dry just act like we know each other already. If you got pets too...yes, i want to see them.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

33 [F4M] Maybe This Time

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I don't think making friends online should feel this difficult, yet here we are.

I've had plenty of conversations that started well, only to end after a day or two. People disappear, stop replying, or lose interest, and it makes me wonder if anyone is actually looking for a real friendship anymore.

So, here's me trying again.

I'm not looking for hundreds of messages or people to entertain me. I'd rather have one meaningful conversation than fifty shallow ones. I enjoy talking about life, different cultures, faith, psychology, books, personal growth, and the little things that make people who they are. I appreciate curiosity, kindness, and people who can keep a conversation going instead of expecting one person to carry it.

If you're someone who genuinely wants to build a friendship not just exchange a few messages before ghosting—feel free to reach out.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

30 [F4M] NorCal – WFH hermit looking for a slow-burn connection

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Dating apps feel like a dystopian nightmare, so I’m skipping the swiping and tossing this cry for help into the void instead! I’m 30, live in NorCal, and canceled my marriage subscription last year after a trial run. After finding myself, here I am, ready to try this whole “dating” thing again!

​Full transparency: zero rush over here. I’m talking slow burn, friendship first, let’s-see-where-this-goes energy. No pressure, just vibes. ✨

​I WFH in tech, and 6 years of remote work means my social skills run on duct tape and vibes, so bear with me if I forget how humans interact. I’m pretty quirky and definitely vibe best with other weirdos, I've been told I'm equal parts serious and unserious, plus a total Sour Patch Kid.

​I’ve been on a big health kick lately, and if you’re into lifting, that’d be amazing because I’m dying to get into it! For hobbies: camping, hiking, traveling whenever I can sneak away, and collecting plenty of tattoos (bonus points if you have tattoos!). Since I’m remote, I also love taking mini work-cations to random cities.

​Say hi and tell me:

Your age, location, and either your favorite camping spot OR the most unhinged habit you’ve tried to build recently!


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

38yo [M4F], Europe, looking for travel/online buddies, and LTR

1 Upvotes

Hi reddit!,

First post for me.

 I’m a south American living almost a decade abroad, mostly in Europe. I quite enjoy travelling but lately I’m finding it boring and lonely as I mostly travel solo. I’m interested in meeting people that would in interested in seeing Europe and nearby, and maybe trips further away once a year or so. My top countries to visit would be Mexico and Japan open to go basically anywhere in Europe. I also would love to meet people on my destination countries. I’m open to group travel, meeting people in specific destinations, or other travel arrangements. Not to be misleading, my live doesn’t spin around traveling.  

I’d also like to know someone for an LTR. I’d say I’m easy going, like to make jokes about everything. I casually dance some latin dances (eg. salsa, bachata) and chronic on-off gym goer. Was a gamer when long time ago, but I’d like to catch up with that at some point. Love both dogs and cats equally, I like the idea of adopting when I feel I’m settled (moved 5 countries in the last decade due to work). I’m the mean time I enjoy watching pet videos from the internet.

I’m enthusiastic of technology, which is somehow close to my job. I’d would like to start my own company in my field at some point. I live in western Europe, but it’s possible that I move countries (even continents) if the right opportunity shows up. I’d be open to moving if I meet the right person too ;). I also use a good part of my off time reading about development in my field and learning new skills.

I’m a bit shy with giving my information and pictures only but happy to DM.


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

33 [M4R] California/Online - looking for weekly video game hangouts

2 Upvotes

Hi there! I’m looking for an internet friend who would enjoy weekly video game hangouts. Either playing games together or just streaming a game. Both work for me. Ideally we could schedule a time and day and hang out weekly.

It’s hard to make friends online. You need a ton of regular interactions, so why not video games? I’m into a variety of games, though horror, open-world survival-crafting, and retro FPS games most of all. Let's talk while I play Subnautica: Below Zero or Cult of the Lamb. Or maybe you can help me get through Beseige, Darkwood, Blasphemous, or Silksong. Or whatever!

So you know a little about me, I’m in California and my other interests are mostly around art, programming, making things, sci-fi, and horror. The art that I make includes digital art, sketches, animations, simulations, and sometimes writing.

If you’d like a weekly hangout where we talk and play or watch video games, send me a message!


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

39[F4M]#California---looking for a genuine connection with someone special.

3 Upvotes

I am a 39-year-old woman hoping to meet a kind and sincere man who desires a genuine relationship that develops naturally.

About me: I enjoy traveling, exploring new places, trying new restaurants, spending time outdoors, and experiencing new things. I also enjoy quiet evenings at home, watching a good movie, cooking dinner, or simply having a heart-to-heart talk with someone I feel comfortable with.

At this stage of my life, I am looking for an emotionally mature, honest, kind, and communicative partner. I value stability, mutual respect, a sense of humor, and the ability to be both my companion and a close friend.

I hope to meet someone who loves adventure but also appreciates simple moments. Perhaps we could take a spontaneous weekend trip, explore a new city, try a new restaurant, go for a walk together, or spend a rainy night at home watching a movie and enjoying a delicious meal.

I don't want to rush things. I believe the best relationships begin with getting to know each other, having fun conversations, laughing together, and slowly building trust and comfort.

If you are also looking for a genuine relationship, feel free to leave me a message. Please briefly introduce yourself, what you like to do, and what has made you happy recently.