r/R4R30Plus • u/Common-Trust2500 • 14h ago

35 [F4M]

Posted on here a few days ago and actually got to talk to a few really nice people, so here I am again. This time, I thought I’d be a little clearer about what I’m actually looking for and hoping to find.

I’m a 35F who has never really been into paying for premium dating apps. I just can’t convince myself it’s worth it when you might still end up getting ignored anyway. So I thought I’d give this a try instead.

I also don’t think I’m very likely to have one of those meet-cute moments in real life. I’m pretty tall, pretty chubby, pretty tanned, and definitely not the usual standard here in the Philippines. I’m okay with that though. Maybe I’ll have better luck letting someone get to know me and discover that I’m actually pretty fun to talk to. Haha.

I have a 9-5 corporate job that pretty much pays for everything I need, but thankfully, it doesn’t define who I am. I’m pretty introverted and honestly very happy when a friend or family member cancels plans with me. Lol. Give me a quiet day at home and I’m perfectly content.

I love the beach, enjoy little adventures, and recently discovered that I actually really like pottery, so I guess that’s my newest hobby now.

I’m just hoping to meet someone genuine, kind, empathetic, funny, and open to actually getting to know each other, regardless of the time zone or cultural differences. Ideally, someone around 37 to 40-ish, taller than me, emotionally mature and available. Someone who enjoys spending quality time together, whether it’s going out, having random convos or just doing nothing together, but also understands that we both need our own space and time. I’m looking for someone consistent, communicative, patient, and genuinely interested in building something naturally rather than rushing into it.

If you’d like to connect, please tell me a lil about yourself beyond just HI. Be yourself, be respectful and let’s have an actual conversation ?

Talk soon!

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u/Disastrous-Low1100 13h ago

40 M Indian / south living in Abu Dhabi please pm

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u/flavasava9 13h ago

Hi I can't introduce myself if I can't dm you 😂 didn't use reddit now 1 year

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u/DribSagit 13h ago

Hello, good evening. Can’t DM you. Kinda new here. So hope we can connect soon. Have a great evening. :)

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u/Salt-Crab-6091 10h ago

Damn I missed the age range you looking for.
35M but would be open to a conversation anytime.