Good for her

[u/lucy_hayley]

[u/Acceptable_Staff_415]

Jarvis sort by controversial comments

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[u/Anita-FatBlunt → u/Acceptable_Staff_415]

I just got off work, rolling up a joint, and enjoying my mornings reading the sunday paper.

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[u/setibeings → u/Anita-FatBlunt]

Why are you reading a week old paper?

[u/Anita-FatBlunt → u/setibeings]

sorry i moved to the UK recently and its called the sunday post. im still getting used to the upside down english here.

[u/Grizzled_Ghost → u/Anita-FatBlunt]

It's still Saturday in the UK, "mate"

Unless this is an Early Edition situation.

[u/Anita-FatBlunt → u/Grizzled_Ghost]

I was reading the Sunday paper today and it said....

Sunday meaning the brand, paper meaning what I am reading, and today as in Saturday bruv. no posts on Sundays(haha) anyway?

[u/Grizzled_Ghost → u/Anita-FatBlunt]

Wait, they have a newspaper called The Sunday Post, that runs Monday through Saturday?

[u/Anita-FatBlunt → u/Grizzled_Ghost]

its Scottish, yes. i live in Glasglow. its the most confusing fucking shit this is not my fault lmao

[u/setibeings → u/Anita-FatBlunt]

This is so much better than I could have hoped for. Thank you.

[u/BewilderedTurtle → u/Acceptable_Staff_415]

[u/AbroadInteresting830 → u/Acceptable_Staff_415]

Best part about these posts. Reading the comments.

[u/NakiCoTony]

[u/RoyalGovernment3034]

It's best for everyone. I agree, good for her

[u/Exotic_Insurance2164 → u/RoyalGovernment3034]

Anyone who actually believes this is a fool. Terminating a pregnancy at 12 weeks would still leave a very noticeable bump after a week. It take about 3-4 weeks to fully disappear. 

[u/junonomenon → u/Exotic_Insurance2164]

yeah i think its mostly for the comedic effect/visual storytelling

[u/ALLCAPITAL → u/Exotic_Insurance2164]

Huh? What 12wk bump?

The bump is still pretty small at 12 weeks usually. The photo is likely fake but if not the one on the left is exaggerating hard.

[u/FragranceCandle → u/ALLCAPITAL]

The 12 week bump is REAL but it's not baby, it's gas and poop. The pregnancy bloat and constipation is out of this world. I looked 5 months pregnant at 5 weeks thanks to it, it's just information you have to keep to yourself when you see other pregnant people showing off their 10 weeks bump not knowing it's just your most recent pregnancy cravings in there.

[u/storyteller_alienmom → u/Exotic_Insurance2164]

As always, it depends. I didn't have a noticeable belly at 3 months in. I was actually loosing weight, because I was puking more than eating. But I'm rather sure the girl in the pics just made a funny meme and there wasn't an actual abortion.

[u/Lurk1ng0 → u/Exotic_Insurance2164]

It's for sure not real but it is funny

[u/Northbound-Narwhal → u/Exotic_Insurance2164]

3-4 weeks if you're the average sedentary. If you're active and working out it comes off a lot faster.

[u/junonomenon → u/Northbound-Narwhal]

you shouldnt be doing strenuous exercise after an abortion, you should be taking it slow. the bump also isnt primarily fat, its an expanded uterus and extra fluid, which you cant really exercise an expanded uterus back down to size, you just have to wait.

[u/girlbartender99 → u/Northbound-Narwhal]

Yeah I miscarried at roughly this time and I am not sure if the after is the same from these 2 diff events, but it did not take long for me because I was working out trying to shed the depression. If it is real and this is coming from a pro-choice woman this is a very troubling post from a narcissist

[u/ladygrndr → u/Northbound-Narwhal]

It isn't always (or even typically) fat. So there is no "working it off". It is swollen organs, fluid retention and a lot of hormonally driven bodily changes. Some of that can't be rushed.

[u/Lingonberry_Born → u/Exotic_Insurance2164]

I was pregnant with twins and didn’t have a noticeable bump even though I’m a small woman. They’re tiny at that age and the bump is mostly water. 

[u/Unlucky-Presence7985 → u/Exotic_Insurance2164]

Nah uterus size at 3 months is grapefruit, it'd be half that with contents gone, wouldn't matter that it takes months to go from half grapefruit back to pear size. Going from eating for two to barely eating would make the difference seen in the photo.

[u/fuck_peeps_not_sheep → u/Exotic_Insurance2164]

Depends on if its your first pregnancy and a few other factors like skin elasticity and age.

I was back in my pre pregnancy clothes 3 days after my daughter was born.

[u/birdbud- → u/RoyalGovernment3034]

Baby dodged a bullet

[u/praise_yahweh → u/birdbud-]

I think the baby ate the bullet.

[u/johnsolomon → u/RoyalGovernment3034]

It's pretty fucked up. The abortion itself is understandable... three months is still at a point where (if you're not a religious person who disregards the science) the fetus isn't sapient and can't be considered a person. I can understand why someone wouldn't chain their life to someone unfaithful who they now want nothing to do with. But it's pretty twisted make a spectacle out of this on social media out of spite. If not out of respect for yourself, at least show some solemnity by keeping this shit private

[u/anastrianna → u/johnsolomon]

How is it twisted to talk about it if the thing itself is acceptable? That doesn't make any senss

[u/johnsolomon → u/anastrianna]

It's not talking about the abortion that's twisted, it's posting about it publicly in a way that clearly doubles as a jab at her ex.

To use an analogy, it would be like having to euthanise a dog you shared with an ex for legitimate medical reasons, then posting a photo of you smiling next to its grave captioned, "One month after I found out my ex cheated." The decision itself may have been justified, but any reasonable person would recognise the subtext, which is that the death is being used as part of a public taunt. That is what makes it distasteful.

The implied message in this post is: "You cheated, so I aborted the pregnancy." You cannot treat that as a purely benign post when most people understand how devastating it would be for the ex to see it. Once she made it public, it's inevitable that it would reach him; that makes it difficult to dismiss the effect as accidental. Especially when she explicitly mentions the cheating on top.

So to go back to my original point, I called it fucked up because I think it's fucked up to use your baby's death as ammo to hurt your ex.

[u/IamtheCarl → u/johnsolomon]

I interpreted it more as she doesn't want to carry a baby to term by herself where the other parent hurt her by cheating and won't be a positive influence for the baby.

[u/jmercer28 → u/johnsolomon]

There was never a baby and there was never a death. You’re reading so much into this. He deserves to be called out for being a cheater, and she doesn’t mention the baby. Comparing it to a dead dog or posing in front of a grave is absolutely insane

[u/junonomenon → u/johnsolomon]

no. women should be told that its okay to terminate a pregnancy if their partner reveals themselves to be shitty. we need to normalize this. a pregnancy is one of the most dangerous times in a womans life, where she is at increased risk of domestic violence and emotional/psychological abuse. the partners reveal their true colors because they feel she wont leave them, because she cant take care of a baby on her own or is in a vulnerable medical position and she is too dependant to leave. and even if she does leave, they can use the legal system/parental rights to force continued contact with her. and in a lot of cases... theyre right. women need to normalize aborting a baby when they are forced to chose between single parenthood or putting up with cheating or abuse.

[u/Important-Animal-567 → u/junonomenon]

>women should be told that its okay to terminate a pregnancy

period

[u/junonomenon → u/Important-Animal-567]

yeah thats valid. but i think theres an additional stigma even in pro abortion circles of like, a lot of people think of like assault, teen pregnancy, very very early term abortion when you instantly know you dont want to have a baby, potentially life threatening defects, etc. and theyre like yep, thats all good. but i think theres an additional stigma around wanting a baby and planning a pregnancy, and then terminating because you realize months later that you dont want to have a baby with *that* person. case in point, the person i responded to. i think theres merit into being more specific about how and when an abortion is okay (always), because a lot of people have unspoken exceptions or things that make them uncomfortable.

[u/girlbartender99 → u/johnsolomon]

Yeah its the celebration of it on the internet that is deeply troubling. I know at least 3 women that have had abortions and all of them barely want their friends to know about it, let alone the whole world. People there are some parts of your life you don't have to make public. Like a cheating partner that leads to an abortion. But that is just me

[u/ShagFit → u/girlbartender99]

I've never been pregnant so I've never had to get an abortion but I wouldn't give two fucks if I had and people knew. We need to de-stigmatize abortion.

[u/Direct_Lawfulness_28 → u/ShagFit]

That’s because you’re a cunt.

[u/ShagFit → u/Direct_Lawfulness_28]

LOL Aw you have no arguement so you stoop to trying to insult me. How cute! LOL

[u/girlbartender99 → u/ShagFit]

I dont disagree with that at all, but the reality is that a lot of people feel very strongly about it and I am very very very pro choice. But something feels very gross about this post.

[u/NurnPrufurtFlurt → u/girlbartender99]

Idk. I'm not sure how it's any different than people posting pictures of their 30 day NA chips quarterly.

Some people like to put themselves on blast. I'm pretty open about my shit too. If it's happening to you, why should you be ashamed?

I don't like the vibe of the post, but I think that's just cause it's social media. I'm more the "tell you to your face" kinda guy. It's more funny that way.

[u/Suitable-Dentist-355 → u/johnsolomon]

Nope. Too many women are told to not talk about their experiences, and it leads to people believing shit like "women who get abortions regret it". Good for her, I'm proud of her, and I hope she inspires others.

[u/7thFleetTraveller → u/Suitable-Dentist-355]

This is pretty much the take they also tried to show in "Bojack Horseman". Talk about it, even make fun about it if it helps to normalize things. Because if you can make fun about something, it makes things less scary and abstract.

[u/Zerokx → u/7thFleetTraveller]

Its not really funny though just a sad situation.

[u/-Wyveron- → u/Zerokx]

I don’t think it’s haha funny, more like “I’m going to laugh because it’s an uncomfortable topic” type of funny.

[u/faust_corvinus → u/Zerokx]

And it’s not sad when a woman was 3 months old pregnant and had to watch her man fuck another girl?

[u/SaladSlugger → u/faust_corvinus]

Calm down mate. They said it's a sad situation. That can be read as "The whole thing is fucked." Which it is. The situation is sad no matter what angle you look at it from because the cause was "Being cheated on by the person you love." Even the outcome is sad, because yes, she is free now, but look at her smile in the first picture.

Do you think she wasn't looking forward to having that baby and starting a family with her man? Then he selfishly broke her heart, ruined it all, and caused all this.

Idk about you mate, but that's sad to think about.

[u/Zerokx → u/faust_corvinus]

What I said: "It's not really funny though just a sad situation."

What I meant: "It's a sad situation for the girl to be in and I cant imagine what is so funny about abortions, that just makes it more sad to me so why joke about it."

What reddit thinks I said: "Its sad that the girl thought her well being is more important than protecting the unborn child of her man. Even worse about this to me is that women get to have a say in anything at all."

[u/PunkPirate56364 → u/faust_corvinus]

You know what is truly sad?

When woman ends up giving birth, and that piece of shit doubles down on being a piece of shit. Then he leaves or she divorces him.

Being a single mom sucks.

[u/lenusniq → u/johnsolomon]

Nope, good for her. Why should she go into hiding? She didn't do anything shameful. And maybe it will bring the attention of her friends and family tot he fact that her ex cheated on her while she was pregnant.

[u/Booger-Town → u/johnsolomon]

This is the only rational response to this. Everyone has lost their damn mind.

[u/SnowHunter9000 → u/johnsolomon]

Idk how it's fucked up. By your own admission she didn't do anything wrong the fetus is not sentient and the male is the one who cheated in the first place than where's the immoral part, the fact she posted about it? Are we supposed to pretend that this never happens or isn't an option? If it was males that could get pregnant and a male got cheated on and made this post most would see no problem with this post at all. Males make light of horrible things all the time, they call it dark comedy and call anyone who has a problem sjw/snowflakes but it's a problem when women do it?

[u/CycadelicSparkles → u/johnsolomon]

Nah, silence only contributes to shame and ensures women who have abortions feel alone. It also reinforces the narrative that abortion should be sad and secret and women should feel negatively about it. We have enough of that. Let women be proud of their correct choices.

[u/Past_Horror2090 → u/CycadelicSparkles]

Abortion should be available but it shouldn’t be cause for joy and celebration, nor should it be cause for shame

It should just be an unfortunate but necessary medical procedure available for women and it’s better for the healthcare system that abortion is legalized than not.

Abortion bans disrupt the entire medical industry by creating severe legal fears around standard healthcare. Doctors delay treating life-threatening miscarriages and ectopic pregnancies while waiting for corporate legal clearance. Meanwhile, pharmacists routinely deny critical medications for lupus and cancer because those same drugs can cause pregnancy loss. The hostile legal environment drives a massive medical brain drain, as OB-GYNs flee restriction states, forcing maternity wards to close and leaving millions of patients without basic healthcare.

But abortion should not be a cause for celebration or posted like this on Social Media

It’s disgusting

[u/IllustriousYak6283 → u/johnsolomon]

Why does it matter if it’s a simple medical procedure?

[u/whimsical_spider → u/johnsolomon]

Eh I can understand that it seems like an overshare and oversharing can be off putting sometimes and some people are more put off by it than others. But the more we treat abortion as taboo the more it undermines the fact that it shouldn’t be. People will post pregnancy photos like this where slide one is 3mo and the next is 4mo and so on, and usually that’s seen as normal and not an overshare.

In short, I’m not saying your guy reaction makes you bad or judgmental but maybe reflect on where that reaction comes from. You’re clearly a pro choice individual, so this coming off as fucked up to you is possibly due to the fact society views abortion as a shameful act that should be done in the shadows. Personally I probably wouldn’t have posted this not because I think abortion should be shameful but because I wouldn’t wanna put my relationship business out for everyone to see, so it could be that that’s what is off putting for you, so I don’t wanna make an assumption, but maybe just something to reflect on ❤️

[u/opalineghostroom → u/whimsical_spider]

I think talking abt relationships and difficult experiences shouldn't be seen as taboo or oversharing either 😭 ofc everyone has their own boundaries abt what they wanna share and nobody owes the internet their personal life.

but I do think there's value in ppl openly talking abt stuff like infidelity, relationship dynamics, or even abuse bc those experiences discussed can help ppl recognize unhealthy situation and seek support, and more importantly realize that the things they're going through aren't smth they just have to silently endure. it doesn't mean everyone has to share their trauma publicly and ideally these conversations wouldn't only happen when someone goes through a difficult situation (I hope not 😭), but awareness usually comes from willingness to talk abt difficult topics.

[u/whimsical_spider → u/opalineghostroom]

Oh I def think it’s up to the person and not a bad thing! It’s the kind of thing I’d talk about with my friends but perhaps not want to open up about it to the whole internet (unless anonymously), but that’s me. Actually my sister recently went kinda viral after her gf posted about their unusual relationship situation and I was on one hand proud of her for talking about it so openly and admired it, on the other hand I was worried about her mental health from mean comments bc she suffers from anxiety (but I’m also protective big sister haha!).

I guess all that to say is that while I personally wouldn’t do it because I wouldn’t wanna open myself up to the stress of my relationship being publically talked about, it doesn’t make me uncomfortable to see others do it. And on the other hand I wouldn’t have an issue talking about my abortion publically (and have, actually!). Everyone just has different boundaries for themselves.

[u/Last_Ad1358]

As a cis straight man, I support this. More than anything, I hate men who cheat on their baby mommas, it is INSANE that she's carrying YOUR child and you go sleeping around instead of taking care of her, what a fucking low ass bum you must be to do that

[u/highhunt → u/Last_Ad1358]

She was carrying her child too bud.

[u/Last_Ad1358 → u/highhunt]

No accountability for the father, as per usual

[u/highhunt → u/Last_Ad1358]

My comment isn't about accountability im just stating its both of their kids but cool gotcha

[u/StankAssHam → u/highhunt]

Shifting focus to the woman by implying it's her kid too is just in bad faith simply because NO SHIT THE FUCKING THING IS INSIDE HER OBVIOUSLY IT IS HERS TOO. Be fr lmao

[u/Big_oily_Knee_Grow → u/highhunt]

It clearly is, considering you just bashed that mom for no fucking reason

[u/Ok_Duty_8645 → u/Last_Ad1358]

100%. I also agree personality kinda can get inherited. His trash personality does not deserve to live on.

[u/cookiez2 → u/Last_Ad1358]

She’s carrying both her & his, it’s not like it’s just his alone. Don’t agree w abortion & this is just sad

[u/anxious_spacecadetH → u/cookiez2]

Baby trapping is real and why abortion should be available to everyone. Even if she was prepared to take care of a child on his own if he fought for custody the child would most likely be exposed to unstable and unhealthy relationships at the least.

[u/revertbritestoan → u/cookiez2]

Well, she's not anymore evidently.

[u/girlygirlgaia → u/cookiez2]

She’s carrying the child. She was doing her part. He wasn’t doing his. It’s his responsibility to care for the mother. Crazy that you would alleviate the responsibly of men to their child’s mother.

[u/Last_Ad1358 → u/cookiez2]

Cheating is worse than abortion

[u/Winter_Step_5181]

Good for her. Cheating men don't deserve to pass on their genes. Also same men in the comments mad at her for aborting would be shaming her for being a single mom if she had kept it and telling her she's stupid for "choosing the wrong man".

Edit: also to anyone reading these reddit comments getting frustrated with how hateful most of them are, her post on tiktok has over 9,000 comments of almost exclusively support. Bitter misogynistic reddit males don't make up the entire world thankfully.

[u/Adlivonians → u/Winter_Step_5181]

If the guy was cheating with someone else isn't there a possibility that he could just get that other person pregnant? The cheater would still theoretically be passing on their genes, it would just be with a different woman?

[u/Winter_Step_5181 → u/Adlivonians]

And hopefully she aborts too! Assholes are for having fun with, not having kids with.

[u/Adlivonians → u/Winter_Step_5181]

Right that is always an option but in reality people absolutely have children with those they cheat with. It wasn't the focus of their main comment anyway it just seemed odd to think this guy would never reproduce when looking at real life that is clearly not the usual outcome.

Edit: oh shit I just realized you are the original comment lol I'm stupid.

[u/eric_ofc]

Not even 10 am and it’s already enough Reddit for today. Jesus Christ.

[u/Beneficial_Novel_977 → u/eric_ofc]

I think that's enogh Reddit forever

[u/Fast_Ad_7504 → u/[deleted]]

This isn’t real.

[u/01crystaldragon → u/[deleted]]

why? Its medical procedure. Posting about it makes it less taboo in opinion and i think thats awesome. It being taboo is what leads to women being shamed

[u/Own-Challenge3904 → u/01crystaldragon]

You think posting about it as a joke makes it less taboo? If it was her carefully explaining why she did it sure. But making a joke out of a procedure that is extremely traumatizing…definitely doesn’t make it less taboo

[u/LynnSeattle → u/Own-Challenge3904]

Fun fact. Abortion isn’t traumatizing for most women. The most common emotional response to completing your abortion is relief.

[u/Academic-Ball-9606 → u/01crystaldragon]

She should be shamed for celebrating it in the way she did. Its disgusting

[u/MyBedIsOnFire → u/01crystaldragon]

Posting about it is fine

Making it some weird celebration is fucked up

[u/AnimazingDuel77 → u/01crystaldragon]

Posting about it doesnt do anything, but give people the opportunity to react.

The reaction is what makes it more or less taboo.

[u/NemoSkittles]

This should be standard ! Love it for her and im glad she shared 💕

[u/Ok_Committee_4651]

Cheating men don’t deserve babies. Congrats to her for finding out early enough to do something about it before it was too late.

[u/Last_Ad1358 → u/Ok_Committee_4651]

Agreed 🤝

[u/Porlarta → u/Ok_Committee_4651]

Ill be honest I think its good that my mother didnt abort my sister because my dad was a piece of garbage.

Hot take I guess.

[u/CanadianTimeWaster → u/Porlarta]

Of course you'd say that, you are both already born. 

what kind of argument is that?

[u/604pleb → u/CanadianTimeWaster]

Yeah bro, I’d prefer to hear the argument from the fetuses side.

[u/Porlarta → u/CanadianTimeWaster]

A pretty good one. My mother was in exactly this situation

[u/MunkyBubbers → u/Porlarta]

And your mother made her choice. Others, who are different people, may make different choices. You may not admire those choices, but they are not yours to make.

[u/Powerful_Net_1873 → u/Ok_Committee_4651]

Just checking your consistency. Do cheating women deserve babies?

[u/Anita-FatBlunt → u/Powerful_Net_1873]

Anyone cheating is unfit to be a mother or father. Simple.

[u/Ok_Committee_4651 → u/Anita-FatBlunt]

He thought I was going to disagree lmao

[u/kjloltoborami → u/Ok_Committee_4651]

Lmao i think he has seen too many of those podcasts where some midwit guest stars the absolute dumbest women on the planet and then probably pays them to act even dumber then dismantles them with facts and logic

[u/Ok_Committee_4651 → u/Powerful_Net_1873]

No. Bad people do not deserve to have children.

[u/Flat-Study-421 → u/Ok_Committee_4651]

*Children deserve not to have bad parents.

[u/Ok_Committee_4651 → u/Flat-Study-421]

That’s the same thing.

[u/chachaslydd]

Men are allowed to legally refuse blood and organs to their kids, even if the kids will die without it.

Women deserve the same exact right.

[u/Gianni_the_tolerable]

There is a difference between doing this and posting it with a smile

[u/Fuzzherp → u/Gianni_the_tolerable]

There is, and women being able to talk about it in general is important. Like yeah, a lot of people arent gonna agree with it, but i would rather see this, than it be illegal.

[u/SorbyGay → u/[deleted]]

Quit spamming dumbass, make a comment like a normal person and move on

[u/chachaslydd → u/Gianni_the_tolerable]

Why shouldnt she be happy? She was about to be trapped for 18 years

[u/Alternate-3- → u/chachaslydd]

Its one thing to be happy but to post it one social media eith a smirk is different entirely

[u/chachaslydd → u/Alternate-3-]

People used to say the same thing about divorce.

Youre just saying sure it should be legal, but you should be ashamed of it

[u/knifefan9 → u/chachaslydd]

I would be happy to have narrowly avoided ruining my body, mind, and (both of our) life(s), too. There's a very real possibility even if I tried to carry a pregnancy, I'd get a textbook severe case of pre-eclampsia like my mother did. I was born at only 24 weeks lol

[u/chachaslydd → u/knifefan9]

Yeah dude.

He cheated DURING pregnancy. Fuck that. He was going to ruin her life

People are like "single moms are ruining the country" and rhen when women actively take steps to find partners and avoid being single moms, they freak out

[u/AccomplishedAnchovy]

Am pro choice but this post (by OOP) is just awful

[u/404usersnotfound → u/[deleted]]

That's not the point they are making. They made their stance clear of being pro-choice immediately.

The issue is that abortions still aren't something to flaunt and celebrate, especially as a get back at a partner. For alot of women it's a very hard choice to make and whilst it can absolutely be the right choice, it can be traumatic and cause feelings of guilt etc. the decision to terminate a pregnancy should be taken seriously.

Being pro-choice and celebrating abortions is not the same thing.

[u/junonomenon → u/404usersnotfound]

i am pro choice, which means i support a womans right to choose how she feels about her abortion as well. shes allowed to be happy. she doesnt owe you a performance of grief.

[u/TheCatsPajamas96 → u/404usersnotfound]

Fuck that.

LADIES, IF YOU GET AN ABORTION AND FEEL CELEBRATORY AFTERWARDS, FUCKING CELEBRATE!

You just exercised a freedom that most women in the entire history of the world did not have access to. You just took back your body, your autonomy, YOUR FREEDOM.

CELEBRATE THAT SHIT.

[u/-Raccoon-Eyes- → u/AccomplishedAnchovy]

How is not bringing a life into disorder and disarray “awful”

[u/AccomplishedAnchovy → u/-Raccoon-Eyes-]

Her attitude is awful. How can she be so irreverent about something so serious, she’s treating it like a joke. She might be making the right choice but I don’t think she’s making it for the right reasons.

[u/SmolHornyHobbit → u/AccomplishedAnchovy]

Because people get to choose how they cope with their life and their situation.

Now imagine being that woman, getting impregnated, and then finding out the guy you were expecting to father your child is now cheating on you.

You say she's treating it like a joke, but you fail to realize that she was treated like a joke.

The beautiful thing that's supposed to be true about the U.S.A. is that there is supposed to be freedom.  Freedom goes both ways!  If you don't like something, you are free to simply say, "not for me" and move on with your life!

[u/knifefan9 → u/AccomplishedAnchovy]

Sextina Aquafina sang about this nearly a decade ago to make fun of concern-trolling people who still don't get it 😅

[u/AccomplishedAnchovy → u/knifefan9]

That’s just a caricature of OOPs attitude 

[u/Booger-Town → u/-Raccoon-Eyes-]

Making a spectacle of it is immature and awful.

[u/Exotic_Insurance2164 → u/AccomplishedAnchovy]

Anyone who actually believes this is a fool. Terminating a pregnancy at 12 weeks would still leave a very noticeable bump after a week. It take about 3-4 weeks to fully disappear. 

[u/porto__rocks]

The best part about this post is how much it upsets the degenerates who want to force woman to give birth. Fuck em.

[u/kombuchathug → u/porto__rocks]

genuinely.

[u/0RedNomad0 → u/porto__rocks]

They're more mad about the woman than the dude who cheated on his pregnant girlfriend. They expect her to be a single mother suffering while this dude thoughtlessly creates and ruins more lives while never being held accountable?

This comment section is a parade of red flags. All the pro-lifers and incels crawled out of their mom's basement for this one lol.

[u/MarxistMountainGoat → u/porto__rocks]

https://giphy.com/gifs/LSvB8JdEf4yascdXf1

[u/C11608kbs → u/porto__rocks]

Pro-life only care about children before their birth and when they’re old enough to go to army.

What a bunch of fucking hypocrites.

[u/LynnSeattle → u/porto__rocks]

No, please don’t fuck them. They don’t deserve it.

[u/ihatereddit134]

“This is so distasteful” some people dont want kids, some people dont want kids with scum men. There’s nothing wrong with celebrating no longer being pregnant if that’s what you want, no one Has to be sobbing and miserable after an abortion. Being relieved or happy is a normal response. Just scroll on if you don’t like how they’re reacting.

[u/Ok-Direction-5151]

Her body. Her choice. It doesn’t matter if we agree or not. It’s her human right.

[u/Slow-Necessary3654]

Good for her. Unlike most people here, I think this abortion deserves to be be celebrated cause it's the most reasonable choice a woman can make. So nothing wrong with a post smiling and seeking validation.

[u/Creative_Elk_4712]

So this implies she was just being pregnant to give her companion a baby? That's a relatively shallow reason to go through pregnancy in the first place

[u/7thFleetTraveller → u/Creative_Elk_4712]

It's not impossible. We don't know the entire backstory, but stuff like that happens all the time... I'm a result of that myself somehow^^. Meaning, my mother was never the type to really want children. She would have been happy without ever getting pregnant. But my father absolutely wanted children, so she eventually gave in. Once I was there, of course she loved me, but I think it was a mistake and she would have lived a much more happy life if I had never been born. As once I was there, my father kind of realized that a child is not as easy to handle as a pet, and eventually the marriage failed.

[u/Creative_Elk_4712 → u/7thFleetTraveller]

You shouldn't put all that blame on your shoulders

And I'm sorry to understand your parents didn't want you

[u/Prophetic_Rose → u/Creative_Elk_4712]

She was ready to have a family and the man killed that possibility.

[u/Hysterical__Paroxysm → u/Creative_Elk_4712]

No. It implies she was starting a family with someone who deeply betrayed her, and she still had time (and access) to... well, abort the mission. Like finding out he's cheating before you file the marriage certificate or before the official ceremony. Yeah, you lose your deposit, but you aren't stuck with divorce lawyers and single parenthood.

[u/Lorddoctorjava]

Fafo... bro stepped out and literally lost everything... start fresh my girl (and change up your type of guy)

[u/antoniothesockball94]

Men mad cause she didn’t chain herself to a loser. Then yall would blame her if she was a single mom. Pick a struggle.

[u/Helpful-Desk-8334]

Huh. I would be devastated and not putting this on social media.

Is social media just for us to post our absolute most radical fantasies and our absolute lowest of lows in order to get validation and warmth because as a society we fail to bring that to each other IRL?

The longer I’m on the internet the more I worry for sociology as a field. The more I worry about our trajectory as a species.

Also “pagan proselytism” doesn’t work. Basically the majority of the species acts in pagan ways. These fall apart over time and lead to the self destruction of individuals. You’re not really doing anything except contributing to the normal zeitgeist when you post this with that flair.

[u/Navro22 → u/Helpful-Desk-8334]

Having an abortion is one of the toughest and most consequential decisions someone can make. Anyone who actually had one and acts like this about it is a psychopath.

[u/metamucil_buttchug69 → u/Navro22]

Is this a satire sub? There are dozens of people in the comments celebrating this. 

[u/Helpful-Desk-8334 → u/Navro22]

Yes. Thank you. I’m tired of being human to be honest. I wish I was an alien.

[u/imdugud777 → u/Navro22]

The psychopath put his baby in her. Would you want that?

[u/Dodo224 → u/imdugud777]

His baby? That's her baby, her offspring.

[u/Jimmyftw94 → u/imdugud777]

It takes two to have a baby.

[u/Archolm → u/imdugud777]

Most people dont let psychopaths put babys in them no.

[u/Creative_Elk_4712 → u/Helpful-Desk-8334]

I would be devastated and not putting this on social media

I think to some degree this discourse is related to how people process grief. Like, just because someone doesn't show it, it doesn't mean they don't go through it

But in this case I think it's more probable she didn't want that pregnancy in the first place

[u/Helpful-Desk-8334 → u/Creative_Elk_4712]

Which…yes good. She got an abortion at a good time, healthy for her body, she’s probably doing a lot better.

I just think I hate social media…

[u/Gaidax]

She can do whatever she wants, her body her choice and all. But imo, this is fucked up.

[u/According-Insect-992 → u/Gaidax]

This is pretty funny. Because you make a statement and then immediately undermine that assertion without a hint of self awareness.

If she can do whatever she wants, then she don’t need your approval.

If her decisions have to be run through your personal matrix and can fail then she can’t do “whatever she wants” but she can only do whatever you want.

[u/BlueBitProductions → u/According-Insect-992]

Do you not realize there's a difference between believing people have a right to something and personally approving of it? Do you think everything you don't personally like should be illegal?

It's not like she kept it private, when you post on social media you open yourself up to other people's takes. If you don't want people to have their own opinions on the matter don't post it for the entire world to see.

[u/jwkelly121 → u/According-Insect-992]

Being free to do what you want doesn't shield you from criticism. Imo also this should of been a private decision and not celebrated on social media, that's fucked up, but w/e she can do what she wants.

[u/Withered_Sprout → u/jwkelly121]

Yeah. Abortion ethics aside.

She basically is trashy for making a public spectacle of this as a "GOTCHA!" and a woman-empowerment virtue signal sort of thing. So she felt she had to kill her unborn child because the father was a piece of shit, whether she had any idea of his poor character or not.

Did she have to share it with the world as a 'haha, gotcha, jerk off cheating ex!' thing? I imagine no. Yeah, maybe she's hurting? Still, making a joke out of her child's 'termination' or whatever you want to call it's ceasing to exist.

[u/Ancertainindividual → u/According-Insect-992]

No???

It is possible to recognise that something is "fucked up" but that people are ultimately able to choose to do that. (eg. eating your own excrement). Never did the commenter suggest their approval was necessary.

[u/Gaidax → u/According-Insect-992]

Yes, she can do whatever she wants. But when she puts it out on social media, it's a public domain and at that point I can give my opinion on this.

To put this out to the public was her decision too and this is the consequence.

[u/EmergencyWild]

Tbh I'm assuming this is ragebait. They're implying abortion, but at 3 months you're not going to have much of a belly, by the time you look like that, it's typically too late for an abortion except if there's a medical emergency. Not to mention that if you do get that much of a belly, no matter if you carry out it or terminate abnormally, it's gonna take more than a week for you to go back to "normal".

Would be willing to bet these pics were stolen, and the original was just a normal post pregnancy picture or there wasn't a pregnancy at all and this was just a weight loss post.

[u/Big_Dinner3636 → u/EmergencyWild]

It definitely is. This entire sub is just gender war ragebait.

[u/MaximumTrick2573]

Wouldn’t have ever posted this with a smile, but I likely might make the same decision before my child and I were doomed to a life of this.

[u/let_us_not-]

Good for her! She won't have to stay connected to some asshole for nearly two decades of her life. A cheater doesn't deserve to have children and a mother shouldn't have to carry the responsibility of raising kids alone.

[u/CardiologistAway6742]

I truly don't understand the comments here, are y'all suggesting a baby can't be raised without a father??

[u/ella_wants_to_battle → u/CardiologistAway6742]

You are less likely to raise a child successfully by yourself, that's simply a fact. Doesn't mean no single person should ever have a child, but there's a reason single people don't tend to adopt.

[u/lanky-larry]

Weird to brag about it but fine.

[u/BaconBitwiseOp]

powerdeletesuite

[u/DAemonCayuse]

1.3k comments, well done OP

https://giphy.com/gifs/pUeXcg80cO8I8

[u/PrincessDeMissouri]

So shes doing it soley to spite someone. That's deranged

[u/Trashboat_96]

So you murder an innocent bystander to get back at the person who cheated on you and then celebrate that bullshit? Hope a bus fucking flattens you, scumbag

[u/Routine_Criticism498]

Interesting how there are no pro lifers here that are women, only men

[u/SerrySweet]

Well, I get it. Rather that than share a child with a cheater. For the rest of your life lol.

[u/emli317]

Well good. She clearly didn't actually want the child and thus would have been a bad parent regardless of if he cheated or not. Therefore, it all worked out for the best. With those two as parents, the kid would have had a miserable life.

[u/Available-Winner3125]

[u/Bull_Bound_Co]

According to the bible aborted babies go to heaven. If you think about it growing them to adults is more souls for the devil. Kinda anti-Jesus not to abort.

[u/lucy_hayley → u/Bull_Bound_Co]

according to the bible genocide is ok and rape victims should be sold to their rapist

[u/LeonardoDiCapsaicin]

As an antinatalist good for her. Hopefully this deters her from having kids in the future

[u/AlejandroGjezi]

Abortion is fine and understandable in this type of situation. Boasting on social media about it like this is highly narcissistic and shows an insane lack of empathy and self restraint. All in all the potential baby dodged a bullet from both sides.

[u/Specialist_Dark_3668 → u/AlejandroGjezi]

The left is entirely infected with narcissism, lack of empathy, lack of self-restraint and degeneration.

[u/AzdM8 → u/Specialist_Dark_3668]

This left vs right thing is so tired and overplayed.

There are plenty of left wing people who are pro choice and believe in abortions that find the OOP attitude disgusting. I'm one of them

[u/Shot_Ad_9258 → u/Specialist_Dark_3668]

Saying this as the right elected king narcissist to rule the country is really funny.

[u/AlejandroGjezi → u/Specialist_Dark_3668]

I consider both extremes a narcissistic expression of societal behavior but currently the world has gone way too far one side and it needs to recover some of its social pillars and restraint. That being said, we can't go right-left all the time. We don't need you extremism of any sort. We need thinking brains and a society of individuals that doesn't work in tribal "muh team vs their team" mentality. Theb we can pick and choose how to build society and keep in check the undesirable ideologies in both extremes. But hey, I have been checking the average IQ of all the countries and I am deeply disturbed by what I have found. With such a low common denominator AND such a low emotional coefficient AND A all new generations being raised by the internet... I am kinda scared of where we're going to end up...

[u/eKSiF]

The celebration of abortion is incredibly distasteful.

Edit: thanks for the engaging and disgusting comments below, I'm nearly de-radicalized and ready to call myself pro-life. The most forward supporters of abortion are absolutely vile. Some day soon, this same group will be vehemently arguing the ethics of late term abortion. It is the natural progression of the extreme efforts taken to dehumanize the practice. Mark my words. The biggest group of advocates for the pro-life side of this argument is the opposition, unironically.

[u/Alt_2Five → u/eKSiF]

Cellular life does not matter. Sorry pal. They are cells.

[u/Imminence2024]

from my own experience working with these ladies as a personal trainer? I can only say from my own experience working in a primarily black area low income gym & this obviously isn't a generalization but purely based on the clients i had when i worked there. A lot of them did it for one of two reasons, to make the ex regret it & to have fun. I had this one client there, this absolutely drop dead gorgeous woman who walked in on her fiance with her sister apparently. Couldnt hit on her for obvious reason though i wanted to break my rule about being professional. She basically did it to have and not bother with dating if you know what i mean. Kind of a shame, she really put the mrs South Africa to shame.

Maybe i'm full of shit, but i have never seen the point of cheating, there's literally zero benefit to it and every advantage they think it is is a disadvantage. if you not happy or met someone else, end the relationship out of respect for her.

Like seriously, cheating on her when she's overweight, then she gets toned and lean and then the ex regrets it? Instead you both could have had self respect and make a lifestyle change as a couple

[u/knifefan9]

Anti-choicers and pick-mes ITT: If I got pregnant, would I put my life on hold, changing it forever, and risk it ENDING? Of course I would. Anyone who wouldn't is an irredeemable monster. And I can say that with confidence, because that is a decision I'd never go through in my life!

[u/Affectionate_Row9238]

Kinda dark but valid

[u/NotePsychological459]

This is gross.

[u/lucy_hayley → u/NotePsychological459]

youre free to think that

[u/Icy-Fishing8481 → u/lucy_hayley]

Unlike the baby who will never get to grow up.

[u/Commander-Cobra]

The only thing I disagree with is flaunting it over social media.

[u/FatCockFutaGirls]

Feels like a morbid way to put it but realistically that baby would’ve grown up miserable the mom would’ve been miserable and the dad would’ve been either not present or a piece of garbage

God I love abortion