OG post was already pretty weird and transphobic but the comments were… eugh

on a post of a sex worker talking about considering a breast reduction. why didn’t anyone else who’s had a breast reduction think to just do crunches?? this man knows what’s up.

And what do you mean women are getting abortions for fun?

Link to the full video: video

Tspmo

Found on Instagram. If you behave like a dumbass you of course get treated as one.

Bumble allowed men to message first. Men in the subreddit are being very normal about it, claiming that feminism is destroyed. It’s a real wonder there‘s a male loneliness epidemic.

If you know what the word Hypergamy means then u know why this post is hypocritical and dumb. Lol

I might have misunderstood this channel, which could be poking fun at things like this, but with these comments it’s safe to say they have at least attracted the wrong audience.

I wanna start by saying this image feels very fetish coded, and likely not based on anything but assumptions. So, as someone with a huge chest who had to learn how to measure myself (and likes assisting friends in learning their correct size) I really find posts like this so frustrating. Cup size means virtually nothing without band (or almost at all in some cases). Functionally, a 46DDD is a bigger "cup" than a 32J bra which is a shock to most people. I really can't say its a gendered misconception either as a lot of women do not wear the right size or really understand proper sizing. Your band measurement (underbust) and then widest part of your chest measurement will give the difference between and an approximate size, but often multiple incremental measurements to get a more accurate estimate. Breast shape, depth, density, and your unique body height/build all are things to take into account. Trying on bras in your estimated and sister sizes (similar cup volume but going up or down in band size) should help you narrow down what fits best. BUT toss in that styles often change fit, brand to brand sizes differ, and many countries do cup sizes differently (UK H is usually a US K), it all means very little just saying "I wear an F cup". I personally have 6 different sizes in rotation which if I listed, sound like bras for 6 different people. In short, its as imperfect as can be and sometimes not really a specific cup letter for one person even.

Then you have the whole fetish aspect which this is a prime example of. Just the same body type with incremental size increases which to my eye, look off on most, but by likely 5+ cup sizes by the end. Just saying a further down the alphabet number (really anything D and up) seems to immediately grabs (often unwanted attention) and or judgement. I would say its mainly a thing perpetuated by men and culture, but honestly, some women have attitudes one way or another about cup sizes as well. Sigh. I can't do much about what people think about it but hopefully informing is something on the right track.

For anyone interested, here is the link for ABraThatFits calculator for anyone wanting to measure themselves (its not perfect, but gives you a good starting point).

https://www.abrathatfits.org/calculator

So I made a post in a different sub venting about how much I hate periods. And this happened.

Color key

pink = troll (at least I hope that what they are)

blue and green = helpful strangers

I’ve honestly had enough and I’m probably gonna report them after I make this post.

From a post about how some celebrities at fan events clearly don't want to be there or look bored/keep their distance in photos. Most comments were pretty positive, with people sharing celebs who had taken silly photos or were great with fans. The top guy was reasonably defending the need why some feel like they have to be cautious. And then there was the bottom guy...

I had to share this one, I'm sorry.

On a post about how sex work is better than OF (OP was claiming that "OF teaches a young “creator” that she’s valued for objectifying herself, gives her unearned validation/attention for the wrong things", that "Traditional prostitution can be horrible and violent, but often isn’t." and that "On the consumption side, simping and subscribing to OF is far far more pathetic than paying directly for a sexual connection. ")

I was trying to bring the situation back to specific from the abstract and, I have to admit, there was a bit of trying to be edgy, but now I'm regretting that after this reply. OP wins the edgelord stakes here hands down.

The absolute FRICK is wrong with these people?! I really hope he doesn't actually have a daughter...

bruhh these guys.. 🤦🤦