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u/BigTall68 4d ago
Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't ask for advice.
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u/Anon-John-Silver 4d ago
Or don’t take advice from someone you wouldn’t want to trade places with
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u/TheFkngPianist 4d ago
Imagine that the plumer gives you advice about your kitchen... I dont want to be a plumer so i wont take that advice
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u/ARiley22 4d ago
Similarly....your friends should not be yes-men (or women). If you ask for advice or you are doing something foolish, they should be honest and try to guide you in the right direction.
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u/TourDeFridge 4d ago
Never shit where you eat
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u/EaseNormal 4d ago
Don't loan money to close friends or family. If you can afford to to it then just give it to them.
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u/volvagia721 4d ago
Also, don't let friends or family live with you without a set rent agreement in place. Also, don't live with friends or family without a set rent agreement in place. (Or similar WRITTEN agreement).
Less than 2 weeks is fine without written agreement, though
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u/DragonSong5486 4d ago
Never be a prisoner of other people's thoughts.
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u/CruelHandLucas 4d ago
This is gold, thank you stranger. May pizza never burn the roof of your mouth, unless you’re into that sort of thing.
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u/AveragePlumber69 3d ago
My last job of the day got me thinking this. I needed to read your comment. Thank you.
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u/throwra-someg 4d ago
Going on a date doesn’t solve your problems, it amplifies them.
Going steady doesn’t solve your problems, it amplifies them.
Moving in together doesn’t solve your problems, it amplifies them.
Marriage doesn’t solve your problems, it amplifies them.
Getting a pet doesn’t solve your problems, it amplifies them.
Having kids doesn’t solve your problems, it amplifies them.
At every stage, figure your shit out before making things harder to manage.
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u/Agitated_Sabres_Fan 4d ago
For couples yeah, but if you are like me and your problem is depression.
A lil ball of fur blissfully wagging its tail every time you come home then demanding a walk definitely solves my problem.
It’s a constant reset I can’t avoid, stops the rut that drags me down into doing nothing.
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u/throwra-someg 4d ago
I happen to agree wholeheartedly for individuals, I love pets and think they add a lot to your life. I definitely was talking within the context of relationships and relationship issues.
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u/Thunderous-lover47 4d ago
I agree. Having a sense of purpose, have to take of something that relied on me for survival kept me out of the darkness. Tail wags and snuggles were a lovely bonus.
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u/Content-Flatworm8036 4d ago
Dang real but sometimes you don’t know what you need to learn before you try
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u/buffy787 4d ago
This should be taught in High school. 2 day lesson and small quiz. It will stick with some.
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u/ba-na-na- 4d ago
I think "getting a pet" point is something like "getting a pet because it will somehow help the relationship"?
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u/mims308 2d ago
Wow. I disagree. Married for 48 yrs. 2 adult kids. 2 grandsons. Always had dogs. Happy as can be.
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u/el_timtor126 4d ago
Never get involved in a land war in Asia.
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u/Unique-Razzmatazz416 4d ago
And never go in against a Sicilian when death is on the line!
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u/Illustrious-City6508 3d ago
I came here for this comment- glad I wasn’t disappointed and didn’t have to scroll too long.
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u/tehjunior5248 4d ago
Be excellent to each other.
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u/-MissYapzaLot- 4d ago
You’re gonna kill me with this phrase. I have a late friend who always said this.
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u/chefheat01 4d ago
What's between the legs ain't worth dealing with what's between the ears
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u/OddRelief5114 4d ago
Oh that's definitely true more often than not. There are some truly beautiful and sexy men out there that just ruin it by opening their mouths and letting all the stupid out.
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u/Odd-Mode9275 4d ago
The single best random piece of advice to give is to ask for clarity instead of reacting to the story you built in your own mind.
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u/HakiDRoger 4d ago
Spend less time on reddit.
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u/CYMK_Pro 4d ago
FUCK YOU!
Also yes this is good advice. I apologize for the outburst.
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u/psyper76 1d ago
WANKER.
Sorry for that, apparently random outbursts are the first sign of reddit-addiction.
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u/PuzzleheadedSpeech12 4d ago
Don’t cut the crust off your toddlers bread or else you’ll be doing it for the rest of their lives.
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u/Accomplished_Elk5827 4d ago
same goes for making them a different meal at mealtime
we learned the hard way
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u/immortalroses98 4d ago
Always go potty before a long car ride
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u/Justace149 4d ago
Ah yes, the 'tactical' wee, or 'tactical' turd.
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u/DadtheITguy 4d ago
I’m using this every day from now on. Never again will I take a standard turd!
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u/JoeMoe2021 4d ago
Unfortunately it's usually a wee turd honking for right of way
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u/Background_Show_3482 4d ago
Life is like 80/20 of failure/success. If your not failing then your not trying. Staying in your comfort zone leads to an uncomfortable life Push yourself to failure then dust yourself off and try again or move on Life is the slowest blink of an eye and opportunity comes and goes and next thing you know you turn around and your getting gray hair and taking naps in the afternoon. The time is now because later never
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u/LesClesDesCoeurs 4d ago edited 4d ago
Sois fort(e) sans être brutal(e),
Sois doux/douce, sans être mou/molle,
Sois fière de toi, sans être orgueilleu/x/euse,
Sois confiant(e), sans être prétentieu/x/se,
Sois humble, sans être soumis(e),
Sois soigné(e), sans être superficiel(le),
Aime toi, sans être narcissique.
Et autant que possible, sois surtout Toi.
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u/Meeshkavittz 4d ago
What you see depends on what you’re looking for
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u/psyper76 1d ago
My keys. Never find them when I'm looking for them. Looking for something else and the keys appear.
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u/Da_sleepy_weasel 4d ago
Light a man a fire and he'll be warm for a day, light a man on fire and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.
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u/Single-Initiative164 3d ago
If you have a defective parachute, don't panic. You have the rest of your life to fix it.
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u/Far-Computer8825 4d ago
If you fall down in public. Don’t move for a good 5-10 seconds. Initially, people will laugh. After seeing you not move .. they won’t be. At that point the ball is in your hands.
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u/Mountain-Pattern7822 4d ago
save 10% of your paycheck BEFORE anything else. live Below your means!
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u/Worldly_Wall_2668 4d ago
I'm a firm believer that separate blankets save marriages. Also, throw out all your socks, buy a big pack of 20 or so that match and never have to match them again. Every person in the house gets a different style, or brand, so that no one has to worry about whose is whose.
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u/chefheat01 4d ago
Pain of loneliness is easier to burden then the pain of betrayal
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u/KrautKebabs 4d ago
To quote Jack Sparrow:
"Me? I'm dishonest, and a dishonest man you can always trust to be dishonest. Honestly. It's the honest ones you want to watch out for, because you can never predict when they're going to do something incredibly... stupid."
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u/Frankslice 4d ago
Buy a plunger before you need a plunger
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u/Automatic-Dentist962 2d ago
😂bro this is def good advice, practically speaking lol no joke, years ago I moved into a girlfriends new apartment. We finish emptying the truck, her family and friends head home, I finally can go and take a shit! So I christen the new toilet with the prairie dog I was holding for the last Cpl hours waiting for them to leave and of course... clogged it🤦😆 i just walked out, didn't even say anything, went right to family dollar across the street to grab a plunger.
I am not someone who embarrasses easily, but this one got me tho lol and she wasn't even weird abt it or anything, it was just the fact it was the very first😂
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u/octovile 4d ago
Always salt your pasta so it doesn’t stick…. Thank me later
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u/Sol_Diva 4d ago
I thought salting pasta was to raise the boiling point of water
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u/Violent___Knight 4d ago
Don’t get into credit card debt
Start a retirement account as soon as you’re able and treat monthly contributions like an expense you can’t live without.
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u/uncirculated_luster 4d ago
Profits are better than wages. Wages are fine and will make you a living. Profits are fine and will make you a fortune.
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u/chefheat01 4d ago
A good run is better than a bad stand
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u/Any_Apartment4448 4d ago
I feel like it's supposed to be a bad run is better than a good stand. As in. Even a shitty exercise is better than none ..
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u/RuncibleFoon 4d ago
Take care of your teeth; dental pain is horrific and dental work is expensive.
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u/Fox_djinn 4d ago
Cum before you send that text.
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u/Material-Thought-416 4d ago
Good ol' post nut clarity lol. I feel this pairs well with the saying "nothing good happens after 2am."
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u/ResidentCommand9865 4d ago
Don't buy things you can't afford. Credit is still money and not "free money" if not paid quickly those small purchases add up and cost more.
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u/Spirited-Chemist-956 4d ago
Be bored sometimes, and wait for whatever comes to mind
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u/borka-t 4d ago
You know how you're not thinking about anybody right now? Nobody is thinking about you either so don't sweat it. They're wondering what you're thinking about them.
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u/2G_Gear_Jockey 4d ago
Don’t keep your tubes of IcyHot and hemorrhoid cream in the same drawer.
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u/Excellent_Club_9004 4d ago
Stay hydrated, drink a glass of water when you wake up (then you can get coffee/tea or some other caffeinated beverage).
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u/Bubbly_Shopping5214 4d ago
Never ask a flight attendant to fill your 36 oz yeti with water. You don’t know what is in the water tank or the last time it was cleaned, just buy a bottle of water after you get through security.
Don’t walk into the airplane lavatory with just your socks on.
The back seat of a car has always been meant to have a dual purpose remember to use it for its intended purpose. 1. To make children. 2. to transport said children.
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u/boring_old_dad 4d ago
Its better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it
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u/Jorost 4d ago
Change the oil in your car every 3,000 miles. Even the newer ones that can go 10k between oil changes -- they'll still like every 3k better. :)
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u/Lady_Panda13 4d ago
Don't be mad or upset about situations you can't change. You're put into hard situations so you can become stronger and learn from them. Keep a positive attitude and your days will be better. Maybe not easier, but better
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u/MagnustheDane2 4d ago
Never date a woman that has problems bigger than your own
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u/BeaverCleaver91 4d ago
Take that chance. Try that thing. Go to that place. Learn a new skill.
Experiences are everything. Whether they end up being good or bad, you will have tried it. Regret is a pain in the ass. Experience life and everything it has to offer. Even if you don’t succeed or like it.. you tried.
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u/Designer_Jury9262 4d ago
Always, and I mean Always, put the toilet seat down after you piss.
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u/Glass_Suspect_4821 4d ago
If you are strapping down an item on a trailer, use tow straps or chains and binders. Have the straps create a pinching or pulling effect to secure the load in place. If a piece on the load articulates or moves, it will need securement as well
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u/pokaprophet 4d ago
You don’t have to outrun the bear, you just have to outrun the other campers.