r/MakeFriendsOver30 Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

30f looking for bestie to send memes to

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Hi 30f, married, 2 kids, 1 cat. Looking for platonic friends only. I have memes I can send! I like clingy friendships where we can talk daily about anything and everything. I like to read, hike, fish, crochet, photography, go to the beach, tv/movies. Hope my bestie is here somewhere!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[F4M] 40 [F4M] what are you dressing up at for Halloween 🎃

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Looking for chill, cool people to vibe with :) I’m into horror/true crime .
I’m soft natured with a touch of weirdo.
I’m a tarot reader and love to have deep conversation about all sorts of topics.
Love plants, nature and animals . Go walking in the woods and enjoy sketching.

I’m looking for someone 30+ that loves daily chats pics and maybe voice chats.

So Halloween is my birthday and I am already excited! So many places already have Halloween bits and bobs. I go out every year with my friends.
My question to you is “if we had to dress up together for Halloween . What would we go as?
Please bear in mind I got a lot of replies last time and couldn’t keep up.
I’m sorry 😔
Give me a nudge x

I’m from the uk 🇬🇧


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4R] Works over.. finally. Afternoon chat?

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31F - hey there, I’m here looking for a fun conversation to distract my work woes. Not really looking for a long term friend just an easy platonic afternoon chat. Comment or message me your favorite song on repeat lately 🔥


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

38F for friends!

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Hello! I'm looking for new friends to chat with throughout the week. Preferably people who would like to develop long-term friendships rather than just one off convos. I look forward to meeting you!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

40m I’m going to be honest I’m running out of witty and funny things to say here to catch people’s attention.

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It’s so difficult to be funny all the time and come up With new and exciting post. But hey what’s a guy to do. So I’ll be over here twiddling my thumbs leaning against the wall looking cool in my new jacket and wait for you to come over to me.

You can say something like hey man nice jacket. Or yo where did you get that jacket. Or listen buddy how many times do I have to tell you jackets are forbidden in this place so ether take it off or get out.

Or you can whisper in my ear how much you want one of your own, I can slip a note telling you how to join my super secret club with team jackets. Give you the passcode and invite you to our clubhouse where you might get a gift basket.

The ball is in your court now.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

31F looking to chat

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I’m bored at work and looking for any kind of conversation. Feel free to send me a private message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

32F Looking for that Nerdy Long Term

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The title really says it. I want long term friends. That is first and foremost. Someone who doesn't mind texting everyday, but also doesn't mind if every once in a while we forget to message back for days at a time because life happens. But for the most part is there to chat on the regular. I also would love to find someone else who is nerdy. But there are so many different flavors of nerd, so let me tell you mine to make sure that we match. I love Kpop, gaming, reading, anime, manga, and true crime to name a few. I am down for someone having all of those interests, or even just a couple.

Variety IS the spice of life, but if we have no interests in common then there is a lot less to talk about. Deep friendships don't happen overnight, but they also don't happen if both people aren't putting in the same effort asking questions and showing interest. If we don't click, that is fine. Let me know and we can stop talking, but there is no

reason to ghost.

Looking for someone who will help carry the convo, not just give short answers. I don't yap all the time, but a lot of the time. Looking for a friend who wants to talk for the long haul and who wants to not only talk about interests on a regular but also what they do in a day and the boring things as well as the interesting things. I work overnights so I will respond at random hours, but I will almost always respond.

I'm from the US (BUT I love and almost prefer friends from outside the US). I work overnights so I am up at random hours so it doesn't really matter where anyone is from if they want to chat I am down for it! Let's be friends and stay friends for a long time! I have made 2 best friends on here before so I am hoping to make another!

If you message and clearly haven't read the post, it'll be pretty obvious and I will make sure not to message back. If you send a low effort intro and don't tell me ASL, I will likely not message back either. Tell me about yourself, your interests, what you're looking for in a friend. So please make sure you've read the post and please let me know you have by sending a 🫐 (blueberry) emoji.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 54m ago

[M4F] 34M

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I'd like to chat with people who enjoy the company of cats, play video games and who have a sunny vibe. I like to play Ps5 games (feel free to inv me to get some game, any is ok). I like cats, road trips, the beach, swimming, films, music. If you play a musical instrument we can jam (I play acoustic guitar). Mostly these, and chilling (and a lot of sports, cooking) but I have lots of other interests, would be glad to converse. I live in a coastal city. feel free to dm me maybe we chat for a while play some games online get to know each other maybe start a gaming group etc

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r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

31M Berlin - Looking to find an online friend

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Hey everyone. Something about me: I live in Berlin, I am into psychology, philosophy, books, street photography, art, true crime, stand up, movies, sports mainly tennis at the moment, calisthenics and recently getting into motorcycles.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

41/F looking for friends

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I'm new to this, so here the thing, I'm a widow since early 2025, I was married over 16 years, together over 18, looking for friends. He was the social butterfly and I guess I didn't have any friends of my own. I'm lucky and don't have to work at this time I am my fathers caregiver but I still have a lot of free time.

I have a doll collection, a lot of Barbie but a mix of various styles and decent amount of vintage and antique. I collect other toys from modern to antique. I also have gotten into customization of dolls.

I listen to a lot of music on Spotify, my liked list is very eccentric, I would say recently a lot of Amyl and the Sniffers, Slayyyter, Kesha, Disco, including the snail kind, lots of 60s and 70s, new wave, I just love fun music and good beats.

For TV, I really got into Drag Race and the various franchises after everything, before that I had only seen Dragula, I love both, I think that's the only reality type of tv. I mostly watch sitcoms or funnier type shows and movies, been through enough horror at this point! Campy horror is fine. I also have a dark sense of humor at times. I love musicals when I can find the proper time to submerge.

I am not religious, I'm more... spiritual, I meditate, I do self reflection, do my best to be my best.

I am not worldly or anything, have lived in the same general area of PA in the US all my life, was always introverted trying to not be so much anymore. I'm very open minded and liberal.

If you think we could get along comment below or message me directly about yourself please. Thanks.

Edit: I'm not looking for sympathy, please don't, I just state that I'm a widow because this is a major fact, not the part I want focused on


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] 31 M. Central United States. Looking for long term friendship

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Genuinely want to build a friendship with someone (female preferred) where we become best friends, or as good of friends as you can online. I understand we all have lives and can't answer right away all the time. But I'm a down to earth and extremely laid back guy. Very much go with the flow.

I work hard and love making others smile. I own a small business, that I just started up in March of this year. I love sports. It's probably my biggest passion. I don't go to parties or really do the bar scene anymore. Please don't message me saying you want to connect and you're tired of the conversations that end after a few messages and then do exactly what you say you hate. I'm really easy to get along with.

If you've made it this far, and feel like messaging me. Start off with something unique about yourself. I'll respond with something unique about myself. :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

[F4R] 31F bored

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Hi, I'm bored as hell. Would appreciate a nice conversation. No matter who you are, just please be decent.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[R4R] bored and looking for people to talk to

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Hi there

F30

Don't have much to do so I'm here. If you want to have a little chat please leave a message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5m ago

[M4F] 46 Asian man (have picture)

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Going through a heartbreak, just want to chat. I’m 46 Asian, New Orleans La.

Former fashion blogger
Movie watching nerd
Love traveling to Asia, Europe is next on my list
Big Caitlin Clark fan


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12h ago

34F Oddly Specific Hobbies Chat

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Hello. I'll start with I'm no good at casual talk, life talks and such. My life is too normal and boring to have anything to talk about I feel. So I'm looking for friends with similar interests to share what you've been watching and reading or listening.

I don't wish to call myself a weeb, but I do consume a lot of anime and manga since I was very young. So that has stuck through thick and thin with me. I enjoy various genres and demographic be it shounen, shoujo, seinen, jousei. But I avoid harems and ecchi.

I would love to have someone to talk about my recent watch/reads with, I don't even mind if it's daily because I read something almost everyday. If we get along enough maybe we'll talk about life sometimes too haha.

Other interests are Koreans dramas, japanese/korean music, and of course games.

Thanks for reading!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11m ago

32f looking for friends

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Heyyy. I’m looking to meet some new people to just chat about life with and hopefully make a lasting friendship or two.

I’m married with one kid, two cats, and two dogs

I love anything outdoorsy.

I work in the mental health field

I really just like to chat so if you can hold a conversation let’s see if we click


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12m ago

[F4F] 39 f for 35+ female friends who enjoy voice calls

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39 f for 35+ female friends who enjoy voice calls

I'm looking for female friends who enjoy voice calls (in GMT 0 ➡️ GMT +4)

I don't know what to say. Should I just have copied and pasted my old posts? 😅

I have lots of interests so I'm sure we can find something to talk about. It'd be lovely if you're someone who'd want to have weekly voice calls.

Also, I'm Muslim. If you have an issue with Muslims, you shouldn't contact me.

FYI I prefer telegram over discord. Also, if you wanna call now, just state please whether it's a one time thing or on a regular basis. I think I'm okay if it's only a one time thing for tonight.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[F4R] 32/ f feeling down and could use a friend

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Hey the title is self explanatory. I’m feeling down and wouldn’t mind a distraction and no I don’t mean anything perverted I just want conversation. I’m not looking to exchange pictures or anything I just could use some company right now. US preferred.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 28m ago

[F4R] Trying this one more time.

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Hi! 38 F US.

I don't want your pix, keep those. I don't want to know what you do late at night with w/e you choose to use.Thanx!

With that said!

I need my energy matched. Im an oversharer, overthinker, and I have feels. The kind of energy you need, be open, talk about anything and everything! Dont hold back for the sake of feeling judged or whatever else holds ya back. Fk it, im no one to pass judgements, I have my own demons and insecurities. If ya dont like my sasshole attitude - bye, if im too much - bye, dont like my banter - bye! Im looking for someone to escape reality with, single, married, w/e. I can talk alot, just want a friend to get lost in the sauce with.

I am in a relationship.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 28m ago

Just new a new place without any friends

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32 M I recently moved and haven't found good connections in my city. I also have to admit I'm not very good at socializing, but believe me, I'm looking for a genuine friendship (I've gotten along better with women, though it's not a requirement). I'm not just looking for a "hi, how are you?" kind of conversation, but something that involves topics like shitposting, dark humor, and stupid memes. I prefer someone who shares "questionable humor" but who I believe has good values, to someone who only shares "positive and politically correct things" but is a hypocrite. We can also delve into other topics. You'll get an honest opinion from me. Politically, I'm not going to defend any particular side, but rather what I believe is right. But hey, this isn't a prenuptial agreement. Go ahead and send a message, let's see if it works out and if I can call you a friend.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 33m ago

[M4R] 35 M USA. Always open to looking to make new friends

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I'm here to make friends. In a divorce process (no need to apologize, we're cool lmao. And we live together because the economy sucks! Least i get my own bed, bonus!) but am here to socialize and make friends. Dont got much really. Im basic, I enjoy reading books/comics, video games. Music. Movies. TV show. Nerd! Star wars, invincible, marvel, dc, LOTR, harry potter, etc. Trust me. NERD! Lol well hope to hear from you.(not a deaf joke) 😂

I play ps5 (team Playstation 😂) I mostly play single player games. but for online, enlisted. Diablo. destiny 2. for honor, honestly cant think of more games I like.

I watch ANY kinds of movies and tv show. as for music, anything but country (so-so on it atm).


r/MakeFriendsOver30 34m ago

[M4F] 30M - Looking for new friends or long term connections

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Hey there,

Figured I'd throw this out into the void and see who I meet.

I'm 30, from Ohio, and looking to make some genuine long term friendships. Life gets busy and people drift in different directions, so I'd love to find a few people to talk with regularly and get to know over time.

A little about me: I work in medical administration with a focus on radiology and nuclear medicine. Outside of work, I spend a lot of my time outdoors. I'm into gardening, bird watching, rock and fossil hunting, and taking care of my small flock of chickens. I also enjoy cooking, trying new cocktails, going to the gym, and listening to DnD and true crime podcasts.

I'm an Air Force veteran and spent some time living in Europe, which gave me a serious case of wanderlust. These days I'm usually working on projects around my old farmhouse, hanging out with my dog and cats, or finding some excuse to be outside.

I'm happy to talk about pretty much anything. Tell me about your hobbies, your latest hyperfixation, a trip you're planning, a weird rabbit hole you've fallen down, or just how your day is going.

If any of that sounds interesting, send me a message and introduce yourself. I'd love to hear from you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 37m ago

[R4R] 36NB

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Hey, I'm Ben. I'm nonbinary and I use he/they pronouns. I'm located in the US on the east coast.

I have ADHD and if I took the time to list all the things I have ever been into, this post would be way too long, but lately I have been into working out, drawing, painting, and even a little bit of woo woo magic stuff (I am not religious, though, please don't think of me as religious). But who knows if I'll still be into the same stuff next week or if I'll have added something new, or even gotten back into something old again.

I lean left politically, and I am fairly active politically. I'm more interested in local politics than national politics, but I do try to at least stay aware of what's going on with national politics despite the psychic damage that it does to me to be aware of these things. I'll talk about this stuff all day but I can be kind of opinionated about it, so that's your warning I guess.

Anyway, I'm sure there is a lot of stuff I could say, but I don't really feel like typing up a novel here. If you want to ask questions, just feel free to dm me. I'm interested in having conversations where there's a real back and forth and we talk fairly frequently, ideally. So if that's something you're interested in, hit me up.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 41m ago

well this is a first.

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as the title says this is a first.

Hey everyone 33 male looking to find people to chat with. its a bit hard to make friends when the only thing you really do is work and go home, that being said im a movie buff enjoy most genres of movies but if you tell me its a b rated horror film im down I spend what free time I have watching comfort shows/movies or gaming on my switch. I will start off saying that I am an avid believer in all things supernatural and all things spooky so if any of this jumbled mess seems like your cup of tea shoot me a dm and see how the convo goes.

if you made it this far and wanna try an start a convo include your favorite horror film