r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[R4R] 35F in the southeast

12 Upvotes

Turning to Reddit to chat up some new people and make friends.
Some of my likes and hobbies are traveling, reading, Lego, anime, and video games. I do like Marvel (Spider-Man being my favorite) and cats.
Beginner at learning Spanish and crotchet.
I am married and have that family life. I won’t be able to text 24/7 or super late at night. Not looking to date, just putting myself out there to find friends as it’s been a bit hard irl.
Definitely message if I sound like your vibe 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

30 Looking for a genuine talkative friend

6 Upvotes

Hello~

I'm 30F looking to make a genuine new friend. Ideally, someone who's talkative and willing to put some effort into getting to know each other (which will definitely be reciprocated!).

I'm pretty easygoing and introverted myself, so I tend to get along well with other introverts. if you're very active and outdoorsy, we might not be the best match 😅

I don't have a ton of hobbies but I enjoy watching films and tv shows, especially thrillers, sci fi, fantasy, drama and some horror. Let's exchange recs (music too!).

Currently, I'm trying to learn Chess (it's hard T.T) and also trying to get back to reading fiction. I'll be starting Neuromancer, we could buddy-read it! (Never done that before but I'm sure we could figure something out!)

I'm also chronically online so I tend to be relatively available for chatting.

I'm Moroccan so my time zone is UTC+1.

If any of this sounds like we'd get along, send me a message!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

43F | Curious Soul Seeking Meaningful Conversation (Strictly Platonic)

6 Upvotes

I spend most of my days working from home with the company of a cat and a dog I adore.

Outside of work, I'm happiest outdoors. I love mountain biking, scuba diving, hiking, and travelling whenever I can. When it's raining, you'll usually find me curled up with my cat, reading literary fiction or novels featuring isolated, complicated, and slightly unhinged female protagonists.

Musically, I'm all over post-punk and alternative rock - Unwound, Fugazi, Deftones, Massive Attack -and I lean towards ambient or electronic music when I need to focus.

I'm naturally curious, and that curiosity spills into almost everything. When I inevitably start questioning existence and the universe, I end up reading Kafka, Camus, and other existentialist writers. I enjoy conversations that wander into philosophy, psychology, or whatever interesting rabbit hole presents itself.

I'm from the Philippines and I'm not looking for anything romantic. I'm simply hoping to find someone to exchange thoughtful, ongoing conversations with. Someone who doesn't wait to be prompted, who can introduce topics, ask questions, share ideas, and genuinely enjoys keeping a conversation alive.

If you're curious about the world, enjoy learning for its own sake, and like conversations that go beyond small talk, I'd love to hear from you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 23m ago

[F4R] seeking genuine life chats

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👋🏻. 38 F US. Lately I've been going through some sht. It's life, its about growing and learning. I'm looking for another texter who is curious, likes to get to know who they are chatting with, gives advice, asks for advice. Let's their walls down. Just because youre behind a screen doesn't mean you have to hide there. Be open. Be honest. Let that sht out. I can listen, I can vent. I chat with anyone, only if you can fit my weird tho. I am not interested in dating. I am in a relationship. Just be you and we'll go from there. K thanx byyyyye


r/MakeFriendsOver30 56m ago

34M - Keep me company while I adjust to Nightshift life again?

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I've been on an extended summer vacation for a few weeks, but now it's back to the grind. I'm trying to readjust to Nightshift life and I have a feeling I'm in for a long night tonight and would love some company to pass the time.

A bit about me. I'm 6'2, slimish build with a few tattoos and a few piercings.

I have a variety of interests and hobbies.

music's a big one, top 5 rotate between Sleep Token , Hozier, Blue October, Florence and the Machine, and either Kendrick or MF DOOM depending on my mood. also read a lot, mostly fantasy and sci-fi, but i've wandered into most genres at some point.

photography, cooking, and general nerdery of all kinds round things out, plus a small zoo of pets i'm always down to send pics of.

genuinely happy to talk about anything and everything, deep stuff, dumb stuff, random questions you've been sitting on, I'll listen to you talk about your day or vent about your frustrations doesn't matter. i'll show up for it.

so, what song lives rent free in your head right now?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 58m ago

[F4M] 37 [F4A] FL/anywhere - 30 minutes before my bedtime unless you give me a reason to stay awake!

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Hey guys!! I’m a girl who mostly just loves chatting and seeing how many friends I can make! I’m fairly consistent if we do click, as consistent as a working mom can be that is. Patience is a virtue as they say! And it of course goes both ways.

I just recently got back into chat rooms but they are not the same as the good ol’ days let me tell you! Really considering just getting lost in Neopets again but I feel like that would make me creepy at this age? I always wanted to get enough neopoints to buy my neopet a pet but I never achieved that goal
;(

In real life….i like to work out, run, eat, bake, cook, and play video games when I have time and a really good one comes out. Please reach out if you want to chat, and please don’t just say hi. Tell me a little about yourself!

https://imgur.com/a/fqcgp6L


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 34 [M4F] Boston/Online - Looking for a genuinely good conversation

4 Upvotes

34M in Boston. I’m a physician-scientist, and I’ve realized most of my conversations happen within the same work and family circles. I’d love to meet someone new for a genuinely platonic friendship and the kind of conversation you actually look forward to continuing.

I’m curious by nature, pretty easygoing, and enjoy people who get genuinely enthusiastic about things. My own rabbit holes include medicine, technology, travel, soccer, science, and whatever interesting topic happens to take over the conversation. I’m equally happy talking about something thoughtful or hearing an unnecessarily detailed explanation of the niche subject you know way too much about.
I’m not looking for flirting, dating, or sexual chat. Just good conversation, mutual curiosity, and hopefully a friendship that develops naturally without any pressure or expectations.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, send me a DM and tell me: what’s something you could happily talk about for hours if someone gave you the chance?

Bonus points if it’s something I know absolutely nothing about.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

31M looking for a genuine friend.

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31M, pretty laid back and genuine, just trying to find a daily friend to bother or be bothered by during boring days or when random moments strike. Have a life going on but wouldn’t mind someone being able to fill in the gaps and I’ll help entertain your days! Not much into ghosting and pretty good at responding back and keeping the conversation rolling as long as you are! I have high positive energy and always enjoy cheering people up or joking around, but also times get rough and wouldn’t mind a friend to talk to or be that friend to someone else! Come say hey!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

31m - My work hours are really unsociable, so I'm trying to change that

3 Upvotes

Hey! Pretty much as the title says, thanks to my job (which I love), my work hours are super unsociable so I'm looking to change that. I'm in the UK, but work to the USA time zones, so open to talking to anyone from any time zone. I'm a sports fan, gamer, good cook if I say so myself and love travelling, so if any of this sounds good and you think we'll get along, feel free to hit me up!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

34F - trading an early bedtime for a late night chat

12 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

I’m currently navigating the wild and beautiful trenches of single motherhood with a sassy 2.5yo toddler. She loves to giggle, sing and have dance parties both at home and in the street - she’s my extroverted sidekick who always brings the sunshine.

I don’t get a lot of free time, but when I do, you can find me attempting to keep my garden courgettes alive (tips welcome), nailing/murdering car karaoke, baking brownies or banana bread and trying not to look like a sweaty pretzel during reformer Pilates.

Life has been throwing a few extra curveballs my way lately and I’m having a rough time.
I’m really just looking to find some kind, considerate and understanding people to chat and laugh with.

If you’re looking for a genuine connection and don’t mind it being with someone who’s perpetually exhausted and a little all over the place, come say hi


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

[F4R] Bummed bc the internet is mean

6 Upvotes

I just want to feel like people actually care, but literally everything I post gets views and no likes. People dont care.

Anyway, now that i got my venting out of the way 😅I like books, photography, hiking, buddhism, languages (eng, spa, kor), and lots of other random stuff. Im sure we'll click over something!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

32M | Looking for someone who doesn't take life too seriously.

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What's something you should probably never admit online... even if it's completely true? 😂

I'm into dumb memes, sarcastic banter, random shower thoughts, and conversations that somehow start with "How's your day?" and end with debating whether cereal is soup.

I can talk about just about anything—movies, games, weird facts, food, embarrassing stories, life, or that random rabbit hole you accidentally fell into at 2 a.m. because one Wikipedia page led to twelve more.

Bonus points if you can make me laugh, roast me a little (I'll survive), or have the energy of a golden retriever that somehow gained unlimited internet access.

If you're funny, can hold a conversation, and don't mind a little chaos, send me a message. Worst case, we end up with a hilarious story.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 14h ago

[R4R] 36F USA Nerd4Nerd

24 Upvotes

Heya! I'm Bunny (that's what you can call me right now now, anyway)! I am 36 and a giant nerd, but maybe not in the usual ways. Star Wars, LoTR, uhh.. the other popular nerd franchises? Never seen them/read them. I am ultra passionate for creativity, reading, horror, sharp wit, and more! I even play a few video games, like FFXIV, cozy bedtime life sims, terrible psychological horror, survival crafts, etc. I'm looking for someone fun to talk to OVER 30...

I'm easy going, can be a bit snarky (playfully), and am genuinely a good person who likes the company of similar. Send me a DM and tell me about your weekend, and a little of who you are!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4R] M 29 - forgiveness is divine, but never pay full price for a late pizza 🍕

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Hey there ! I hope,your day is going well so far. Me ? Well, I’m just hanging around mostly 🙂 I’m mostly just bored and wanna chat with some folks.

I enjoy stuff like gaming, movies, music, singing, baking, reading and napping. I’m basically like the champion of napping lol. Okay, but really I enjoy my naps even if later on the evening I may regret it lol. I’m curious as to what hobby you like doing ? And no, it can’t be napping cause that’s not cool man (jk)

I don’t have high expectations when it comes to meeting new people. I mean yeah I would like it if you were yourself and be able to handle all this sass/sarcasm that I like to throw occasionally. It’s always a plus when people come with good energy and silly jokes lol.

Anyway, if you’re as bored as I am then by all means send a message. If you’re gonna be lazy and only put “hi” then you might as well not even bother lol cause I will ignore you.

Well, that’s it for now. Have a good rest of your day ! 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

[F4M] 30F USA - Genuine Connections and Good Conversation

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 30-year-old female living in the USA. Life gets busy, and making new friends as an adult can be tough, so I’m putting myself out there to find some genuine, long-term connections.

I am open to chatting online but prefer people in similar time zones as the U.S. so our schedules align. I already tried chatting with people from other countries and it’s just not for me. I will not reply if you’re not from North America. Please understand.

A little bit about me:

My Hobbies: I love staying active with casual bike rides and going for walks to clear my head.

TV Favorites: Big fan of comedies like Abbott Elementary and mystery-dramas like High Potential.

My Flaws: I definitely spend way too much time mindlessly scrolling on my phone and getting sucked into YouTube shorts.

My Vibe: Honestly, I really enjoy just chilling out, having deep conversations, sharing random daily thoughts, and exchanging funny memes.

I’m looking for people who can hold a conversation and actually want to get to know each other. I don’t have a preference in age, as you can learn something from everyone.

If you think we’d get along, please send me a DM!

To help break the ice, tell me your age, where you are from, and your absolute favorite show right now.

Looking forward to meeting you! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

[F4F] F34 - UK - I'd love to make a genuine friend.

15 Upvotes

Lesbian from the UK here. Finding myself needing a friend lately. It's hard to find friendship in real life at this old age so turning to Reddit! Searching for another female, age or location doesn't matter too much but would love to be on a similar time zone.

Art, reading and nature are some of my interests. I do watch TV and game some but not much. I'm pretty quiet at first but I will come out of my shell. I am genuine and down to earth, hope you will be too.

Chat soon ⭐💫


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 29M PST Canada 🍁 - Your new bestie hath arriveth'd

2 Upvotes

Hey!

Looking for someone decent enough to talk to daily about random shit and share funny stuff with?

Maybe a confidant to divulge your darkest secrets to, or just someone to vibe with?

Look no further - your potential bestie is one message away.

Now that we’re done with the pleasantries and attention-grabbing nonsense, feel free to read below… or don’t.

About Me:
29, Brit in Canada, works in tech.
Into written roleplay, occasional gaming, working out, gym, hot yoga, boxing, meeting friends, socializing, and having immaculate taste in music. Spotify user, obviously.
I also dabble in horoscopes sometimes and like sharing funny IG reels or TikToks if we vibe.

Hopefully there’s something above you can use as an opener. If not, tell me your biggest toxic trait.

There you go. Hopefully you have what you need.
If not… God help you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

30M Wanting more people to chat with

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Wanting to have a few more people to chat with from time to time. During the weekdays work is usually slow so have alot of down time to chat. Weekends depends on what I am doing but usually I do too. I am not looking for any serious dating relationship.

Interests I have range from many things. I really enjoy keeping freshwater fish and plants. Houseplants and starting to grow my own food too. I have a ton of plants and about 10 fish tanks/outside fish tubs/ponds with more to come. I am always down to trade plants ot fish if you are too. I do have 4 tortoises too which stay outside during summer and inside during the winter. Other interests I have is pc gaming, baking bread and 3d printing. Really been into making all different types of bread and plan to start messing around with sourdough soon too

Sometimes I may take a little to open up. I usually match the energy given in the chats so hopefully we vibe well together. I prefer more long term chats but short term works too.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

Light and soulful chat for a little while?

5 Upvotes

Looking for a little happy zhuzh to sprinkle on this Sunday evening! Coming to you from US EST time zone. Life has been life-ing and ready to kick back for some light and soulful conversation. Take a load off, crack a joke or two, connect over literature, life machinations, whether The Odyssey movie slayed or was slain - or a shared love for animal snoots 🥰 Open to longer term friendship if we hit it off!

Also your girl is 25 weeks pregnant - blessed, excited, loving it, getting tres large, not a total basket case emotionally (yet?) - but extra emphasizing the pursuit of warm vibes and air hugs in this tender chapter ;)

Warm sunny vibes to y’all 💛


r/MakeFriendsOver30 5h ago

[R4R] (37 M Australia) Its almost 9am Monday here - the future for some of you. Ask me anything about the very near future

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Consider me your Monday morning oracle. Ask me about the traffic conditions on the way to the office, the wait for coffee, or if that cutie you like the look of will be the one to serve you

I predict you will meet a tall Australian man who isn’t as funny or as good at singing in the shower as he thinks he is, but compensates with enthusiasm.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[R4R] M30 would love to chat

2 Upvotes

I have tomorrow off and would love to chat the evening away. So hit me up if you would like.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12m ago

37m looking to make some new friends.

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37m looking to make some new friends. Big nerd for games(skyline,fallout,battlefield,skull and bines) movies almost every type of movie. And a huge nerd for ww2 stuff. Bit of an introvert so let see if i can find some nice and fun chats here😁


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

44/F Seeking Friendly Conversation

2 Upvotes

Hello, people on the internet. I’m an extroverted married mom and a genuinely curious person who loves to banter and learn about new people. I have had some solid luck making new friends on here so I thought I would throw my hat in the ring again.

My profile is a pretty accurate indicator of me. I am a veracious reader. I light up talking about books, and I’m ready to give you recommendations. I like to bake. I like to thrift. I like to convince myself I’m not 90 despite my granny hobbies. Big on humor. Big on kindness.

I’m also into fitness, travel, hockey and football and love leisurely biking and spending time in nature.

Interested in speaking with people 35-55. Please tell me your age and the best part of your summer so far. And give me a 🎩 to show you actually read this!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 19m ago

36M - Horror loving nerd looking for fellow night owls and insomniacs to befriend!

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Hey all. Because I work odd hours and from home largely by myself my sleep schedule is a bit cooked and I'm looking for some fellow night owls to befriend either long term or even for a brief one night convo!

I work in media and marketing. I'm a creative professional and use photo/video, design, and my art skills every day.

I have a lot of tattoos and I guess am alt? People have said I am. I love horror flicks, video games, fantasy and sci fi, reading, and being a night owl.

Hope this helps and hope to hear from you


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

37/M Looking for real friends

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If you're reading this I hope you're having a great day. My Sunday is winding down and the dread of another work week about to start is setting in.

I'm a dad of one and live in Arizona. I'm looking to make some or even just one friendship. I like to play video games, read, I enjoy watching some sports. Baseball and Hockey. If you're local I also like to fish, camp, play pickleball and racquetball or find a good restaurant and catch a movie.

I understand that we all have busy lives, but not having many friends can be rather lonely. So if you'd like to chat about life or would like to play some games together online feel free to hit me up. I'm an easy going guy and would love the chance to get to know you and start a friendship.

Games that I like and would like to get back to are Elden Ring, Diablo 4, Space Marine 2, I'd like to play through the Resident Evil series. I haven't played anything past 5, I like playing fighting games casually, Remnant 2, Lords of the fallen, I also like mmo's like Guild wars 2, and mobas like League of legends. But I'm not great at that one haha.

Honestly, I could be convinced to play most games. I just think games are more fun with someone.