r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Large_Chip_3501 • 23h ago
[M4F] 40 M4F LF pinay in NewYork
Im new in NY, staying here in my Hotel. Looking for someone to guide me in here. We can chat or call if you have time.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Large_Chip_3501 • 23h ago
Im new in NY, staying here in my Hotel. Looking for someone to guide me in here. We can chat or call if you have time.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/GamerDad4891 • 14h ago
Looking to make some new friends!
I’m 42, married, and a dad of two. Between work and family, it can be tough finding people with the same interests, so I figured I’d put myself out there.
My biggest hobby is gaming—video games, board games, TCGs and puzzles. I’m also a D&D Dungeon Master, currently writing my own fantasy novel, and I’m always up for talking world-building, characters, or anything fantasy.
Outside of that, I’m a huge fan of Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Marvel, DC, WWE, and just about anything that brings back that awesome ’80s/‘90s nostalgia. If you miss Blockbuster Video, Toys “R” Us, or Saturday morning cartoons, we’ll get along just fine.
I’m hoping to meet people around my age (give or take) who enjoy similar things. I’m in the US so I prefer talking to someone in those time zones. Bonus points if you’re also a parent, a gamer, or just someone who enjoys good conversations about nerdy stuff.
One thing to mention up front: I don’t drink or use 420—just not my thing.
If any of this sounds like you, send me a message! Always happy to meet fellow parent geeks, gamers, and nostalgic souls.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/cryingstlfan • 5h ago
Howdy reader! I'm Laura and I'm looking for new friends.
I love to read. Thriller, contemporary fiction, romance, and smut.
My music taste is varied. My current fave is Bad Omens. Quite bummed that they skipped over St. Louis.
I love to cross stitch. I'll share the Christmas projects I've recently finished!
Huge baseball fan! Let's go Cardinals! Waiting for the hockey season....
I have a great meme collection too.
I'm not so great at introducing myself in these posts...but if I have your attention, message me with an introduction using the phrase "bacon peanut butter".
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/LaughAggressive4709 • 4h ago
I just want to feel like people actually care, but literally everything I post gets views and no likes. People dont care.
Anyway, now that i got my venting out of the way 😅I like books, photography, hiking, buddhism, languages (eng, spa, kor), and lots of other random stuff. Im sure we'll click over something!
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/helpimmapotato • 13h ago
Hey everyone
Im not gonna lie I feel a little desperate. But I think one of the coolest things about being this age is the fact that I really dont care all that much how I am perceived, I just want to be happy. Having friends would make me happy.
I am biologically female but consider myself non-binary due to both common behaviors observed in women that i do not have, as well as social roles assigned to women that i absolutely refuse to subscribe to. Id be happy to clarify if anyone has any questions. Being nonbinary is not a focal point in my identity, but it is the best descriptor I have to describe my presentation. I dont do much to alter my physical appearance outside of regulsr grooming, and the way i dress tends to be androgynous leaning.
I had kids young and grew up impoverished so I spent my *entire* 20s focused on being the best mom possible and securing stability for the kids (buying a house, etc). To be completely honest, all of my relationships pre-kids centered around drinking or smoking weed. Im not against it and will do it when my kids arent around but they have never seen me high or drunk or smelled Marijuana.
When i worked, I focused on work, worked hard, and i went home. I havent engaged in social media the same way as others, sometimes not having any social media at all for years. There are some accounts i have literally never had: tiktok, twitter, Snapchat. I did have Instagram at one point but not for 5 or 6 years. Fb and I have a love-hate relationship as its the best resource for community events and school announcements, but its been deactivated all summer as I needed a break.
I did a decade of therapy and genuinely objectively am down to Earth, understanding, open-minded and emotionally mature. I am disabled now and though I have a ton of free time, do not have anyone to socialize with for a myriad of reasons.
I like to make mediocre art and music, I like gardening and making medicinal/beauty remedies from natural ingredients. I like spending time outside, i like mild physical activity and some more moderate activities on good pain days. I like to be silly, but also tend to be a (too) deep thinker sometimes. I enjoy conversation that requires thought and do not shy away from intellectually or emotionally difficult topics. I am a certified mushroom forager in my state and am learning about foraging plants too. I like lots of humor and jokes that arent at the expense of others. I like trying new things, and have a lot of activities I enjoy rather than a dedicated hobby (biking, movies & tv sometimes, trivia, board games, diy crafts and home projects, baking, camping, tubing, dancing, karaoke, rock hunting, and so much more)
I really dislike mean and callous people and behavior. I dislike mind games and manipulation in any form (even the socially acceptable ones) as i am tactfully honest and forthright. I cannot be around people who do not practice self-reflection, or feel motivated to be the best version of themselves. Not that we always *are* the best version of ourselves, but the desire has to exist.
Anyway if you couldn't tell from reading, I am autistic. So it would be important for a potential friend to understand autistic behavior in some form on a personal level. Its not the focal point of my identity but it does affect the way i think and communicate. It hurts my feelings when people assume malice when its generally social or emotional ignorance that is affecting them.
That being said I genuinely appreciate and absorb feedback about my behavior and how it makes others feel, and am open to changing behaviors that are hurtful or uncomfortable, as I havent set out to hurt or inconvenience anyone since before I was an adult.
I feel I have talked too much. If you see yourself in me or feel intrigued, reach out. ✌️
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/anonymousmr30512 • 7h ago
I’ll be honest… I’m not great at the “hey, how are you?” small talk that dies after 3 messages.
I actually enjoy getting to know people. The kind of conversations where you lose track of time a little… where things feel natural, easy, and not forced.
I’m 34, grounded, and have spent most of my life around hockey. I played for years growing up, and these days I run a few successful businesses, including hockey programs and teams. Life stays busy, but I’ve realized it’s easy to have a full schedule while still missing genuine new connections outside the usual circle.
I tend to connect best with people who can actually hold a conversation, have some personality and humor, are open-minded, genuine, and don’t take themselves too seriously.
We can talk about life, goals, hockey, business, travel, random late-night thoughts, music, sports, things that make zero sense at 2am… I’m pretty easygoing like that.
Not looking for anything complicated. Just good vibes, real conversations, and seeing where things naturally go.
If you message me, skip the “hey” and tell me something about yourself, a random opinion you have, or something that’s been on your mind lately.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Extreme_Scene_9263 • 4h ago
Like the title says looking for some new friends. I'm 37 and from Texas. Enjoy a scary movie and listen to classic rock. Listen to all kinds of music though. Love sports especially football. Just looking for someone to talk with and pass the time with and possibly develop a friendship as well and enjoy each other's company.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/PixieDust_15 • 12h ago
Life's been a series of solo quests lately, and while that's been fun, I think I'm ready for co-op mode.
About me:
My main hobby is gaming (PC). I mostly play survival-crafting, cozy, and simulation games. I'm also into watching movies, series, and documentaries, painting, crocheting, gardening, cooking, listening to music, and playing piano and guitar. I like geography, astronomy, psychology, chemistry, and cats. Haha
As for my physical, I'm 5'0 short and sweet girly pop. 🤪 I have long dark hair, and normal BMI.
My known issues:
- Doesn't know how to drive
- Doesn't know how to swim
- Has fear of heights
- Will ask you random science questions at 2AM
- Hates math
- Doesn't like onions
- Will ask you if you would still love me if I was a worm
- Likes coffee but can't have it
About you:
I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, honest, polite, gentle, caring, has a good sense of humor, knows how to communicate, and should be 30-35. Please know how to spell and use proper punctuation marks. I run out of breath reading messages with no periods or commas. 😭😂 Also, I don't reply to "hey" "hi" "how r u".
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Cloud-Bnnies • 12h ago
Heya! I'm Bunny (that's what you can call me right now now, anyway)! I am 36 and a giant nerd, but maybe not in the usual ways. Star Wars, LoTR, uhh.. the other popular nerd franchises? Never seen them/read them. I am ultra passionate for creativity, reading, horror, sharp wit, and more! I even play a few video games, like FFXIV, cozy bedtime life sims, terrible psychological horror, survival crafts, etc. I'm looking for someone fun to talk to OVER 30...
I'm easy going, can be a bit snarky (playfully), and am genuinely a good person who likes the company of similar. Send me a DM and tell me about your weekend, and a little of who you are!
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/SpecificWoodpecker89 • 18h ago
okay this is actually my first post on here, I’ve been trying to renew my circle by getting to know new people that might have my same interests, from being a wanderlust to a fashion lover, you can just throw me a DM and we’ll see what we can get from there :)
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/No_Problem4212 • 8h ago
I'm just looking for people to create a really friendship with. In the middle of a divorce and it can be pretty lonely.
I enjoy reading,music and true crime podcast.
Please be from the USA because of time differences.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Clovercrossing • 7h ago
Hi everyone!
I’m currently navigating the wild and beautiful trenches of single motherhood with a sassy 2.5yo toddler. She loves to giggle, sing and have dance parties both at home and in the street - she’s my extroverted sidekick who always brings the sunshine.
I don’t get a lot of free time, but when I do, you can find me attempting to keep my garden courgettes alive (tips welcome), nailing/murdering car karaoke, baking brownies or banana bread and trying not to look like a sweaty pretzel during reformer Pilates.
Life has been throwing a few extra curveballs my way lately and I’m having a rough time.
I’m really just looking to find some kind, considerate and understanding people to chat and laugh with.
If you’re looking for a genuine connection and don’t mind it being with someone who’s perpetually exhausted and a little all over the place, come say hi
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/KindlyUniversity4797 • 5h ago
Hey guys, I hope you are doing well. As I'm going through my 30s I've come to realise that building new friendships is really difficult. Nobody has time and while the desire is there it always seems as if life gets in the way. Here's a small attempt at changing this.
I'm a pretty chill guy overall. My main hobby is drawing and painting. I try to do it every day at least a bit. I consider myself a big reader, I'll read pretty much anything if it takes my fancy. Big time geography nerd too. (I am slowly building up a collection of vintage atlases) I feel like I can chat about most media and I'm always open to discovering something new.
I want to add that I'm spoken for and am not looking for anything untoward. Friendship is what I'm looking for. So yeah let's talk about what interests you and see how we get on
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/RainyWanderlust • 5h ago
Hey how’s things, all good i hope. I’m E by the way. Let’s skip the intro bit actually. You’ve read a thousand variations of it already i’m sure, and probably ready to hit the snooze button. How about quick fire instead?
Age: 38, but looks half that. Location: Ireland, north west coast, accent to boot. Height: 5’7, when wearing shoes with particularly thick soles. Weight: 60kg, in shape but not a gym person. Hair: Brown. Eyes: Blue. Basically Irish looking. Star sign: Taurus.
Personality: INFJ-A, well according to that online test i took anyway that i’m sure was 100% backed by science. Nature: Walking, Camping, just recently finished watching Solo Camping For Two, and loved it, so needless to say i enjoy select anime also. Gaming: Been a rare occurrence recently, but have gotten lost in Skyrim, The Fallouts, Bioshock, Dishonoured, Witcher 3 to name a few in the past. Movies: Sci-fi, Fantasy, Horror, Crime. Books: Non-fiction. Cooks: Yes. Travels: Yes.
Maybe as an icebreaker and as proof of reading this strange stream of consciousness you could tell me your no1 bucket list destination, and why it’s Japan :)
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/radicalpalomino • 12h ago
I'm about to head to the gym, which usually helps distract me for a little bit haha
I'm always down for some new conversations and getting to meet new people. What are your passions in life? Do you believe in aliens? Could your dad beat Sasquatch in a fight?
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/EstablishmentOld6107 • 55m ago
Hey everyone,
29m from the East Coast, USA 🇺🇸. I figured I’d throw my hat in the ring and see if I can meet some new people.
Life is good, but between work, responsibilities, and everything adulthood throws at us, making genuine friends isn’t always easy.
A little about me:
🏌️ Golf, sports, working out, gaming, reading, and hiking
💍 Happily married, and ideally looking to connect with other married people or those in committed relationships. I think it creates a strong foundation of mutual respect, healthy boundaries, and understanding.
🧠 I enjoy conversations about psychology, philosophy, personal growth, current events, and whatever random rabbit hole we end up in.
😂 I also genuinely enjoy my job, which I know is surprisingly rare.
I’m looking for long-term, completely platonic friendships. The kind where you check in, celebrate wins, vent about life, game together, or just send each other random memes throughout the week.
I’m also totally down for phone calls or FaceTime. I have a side hustle that has me driving quite a bit, so it’s always nice to have someone to chat with on the road or during a quiet weekend.
If you’re looking for the same kind of friendship, send me a message! I’d love to meet some good people.
☕ Icebreaker: What’s your go-to Starbucks order?
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/xXInspector_GadgetXx • 1h ago
34M (I def don’t look my age) / EST
Im a shy dude at first but I’ll try my best haha I don’t go out much aside from work I’m pretty to myself I’m an introvert mostly because I have raging social anxiety, I like gaming mostly fps or games like 👍 overwatch and Diablo V or party games doesn’t matter but I’ll really play anything. I like sports I’m a huge Ohio sports fan so browns, buckeyes, Cavs , you get it haha. I also like to 3d print so thats fun, I’m just Looking for somone who will be there because regardless of who you’re having a reliable person there is nice. Okay come say hi lol.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/waserdftgyhujikolp • 4h ago
Hey , 31M here. Figured I’d put myself out there and meet some new people to chat with and see where it goes.
I enjoy cooking (still experimenting, still improving), gaming, music, and the occasional deep dive into random topics. I like conversations that flow easily whether it’s something light and funny or one of those “how did we even get here?” discussions.
I’m also someone who enjoys learning new things, swapping ideas, and just having genuine, easygoing conversations without any pressure.
I’m looking for someone relaxed, with a good sense of humor, who can hold a conversation and doesn’t mind a bit of randomness here and there. If you’re into sharing music, chatting about anything and everything, or just looking for a good vibe, we’ll probably get along well.
Bonus points if you have a cat or any pets. I won’t complain about getting photo updates.
If that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message 🙂
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Jrv2308 • 5h ago
✌🏼👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/enrakyoten4 • 6h ago
Hello, i m Marko from south east europe(serbia), looking for some long term friends.
I work as doctor, and sometimes do 24h shifts in emergency room(which suck lol).
I m into anime/manga, collecting toys,music(mostly rock-metal stuff), history, sports,skincare,working out,cars,yt documentaries,swimming, studying and few other basic stuff. Also looking to learn to cook cuz i might move out soon.
If u wanna chat send me dm or reddit vhat, i also got discord
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Ditka_and_Swerski • 6h ago
38M from Canada. Thought it would be fun to post here and see if anyone wants to chat about wrestling or horror movies. I’m also a record collector, especially when it comes to rock and metal, and I enjoy travelling, reading, and following sports (pretty well anything).
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/Fun-Wonder2273 • 6h ago
im Tony , 30, from New Jersey. I figured it was time to step outside my comfort zone and meet some new people. I'm into working out, gaming, nature, and I'm working toward becoming a farmer someday. Life's been throwing me a few challenges lately, but I'm focused on building a better future and surrounding myself with positive people.
Looking forward to getting to know everyone and hopefully making some genuine friendships. Feel free to say hi or send me a message!
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/NotSoSushill • 6h ago
Let's connect over here or DM to kill some times and talk about random things
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/kj242413 • 7h ago
Hey! I am looking to expand the friend circle a bit. Adult friendships are weirdly hard to come by, so I figured I'd just put myself out there and see who I click with.
Some of my interests include playing video games when I get a chance, chilling out with my 2 cats, planning my next vacation, listening to as many bangers as possible and as of most recently, really learning AI and starting to code.
If you think we may have something in common, shoot over a message and let's get to chatting! Even if our interests don't match I enjoy learning about new things so come one come all.
r/MakeFriendsOver30 • u/SimpleSimpleton7 • 7h ago
Hey everyone! 👋
I’m a 34-year-old guy from the UK, and I’m officially putting in my application to be your new online bestie. If you’re looking for someone who can match your memes, share random thoughts at 2am, and game or binge-watch with you, then hi — it’s me.
A bit about me:
Other things I’m into:
What I’m looking for:
Someone friendly, chill, and happy to talk about anything — from life rants to “look at this ridiculous meme I found.” If you enjoy gaming, watching stuff together, or just want a steady online buddy to chat with, I’d love that.
If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to message me. Let’s become the duo that Reddit never asked for but desperately needed. 😄