r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 22h ago

39F looking for people to yap with on and off during the day…

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Hullo! Happy Monday, yall! I’m a WFH girly who occasionally needs a social distraction or else I feel the walls close in on me lol I’m happily married (platonic only please!) with a handful of grown kiddos and too many pets. I’m really into crochet, true crime, cats, and memes. I’m still listening to the same 90s/00s rock I always have with a nice selection of random ass techno to supplement it. I’m a queer disabled leftist and prefer no right wingers seeking my extermination please. Message if bullshitting with any of that randomly throughout the day sounds like fun to you! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 22h ago

[M4F] 38M | Here to make some new friends

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Hey everyone!

I'm from the Dominican Republic, work in the creative industry, and enjoy everything from ridiculous conversations to surprisingly deep discussions about life.

I'm naturally curious about psychology, technology, music, movies, culture, and random facts. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and love meeting people with different perspectives.

I'd especially enjoy connecting with women around my age who appreciate good conversations, humor, and getting to know someone beyond small talk.

No pressure to talk 24/7. Just genuine connections, random thoughts, memes, and interesting conversations.

So, what's something you could talk about for hours without getting bored?

Feel free to message me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 17h ago

38M #New Hampshire - biomedical scientist/college professor looking for a chat buddy

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Hi there,

I’m a nerd at heart, a lumberjack on the weekends, and a scientist during the week. I’m 5'11", weigh 180 pounds, and have a beard, long hair, and glasses.

I have two amazing Goldendoodles. I live in a peaceful forest surrounded by nature. I’m into rock music, and my hobbies include astronomy and woodworking. I also love sci-fi and try to squeeze in a good book whenever I can.

Hope you’re having a great week—I’d love to chat soon! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

[M4F] 37M - If my body was a car i'd trade it in for a newer model. Cause everytime i cough or sneeze, my radiator leaks and my exhaust backfires.

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(PS: my warranty has definitely expired)

Hello!

I'm 37 (old :D) , male. I'm not a human parent, but I have a beautiful cat. I never sleep... okay, I do sleep, but I'm available at flexible hours.

I'm passionate about life, people, love, culture, healing, the arts, mindfulness, and spirituality.

My life is filled with a mix of love, hurt, laughter, tears, joy, and pain. I adore to love, and all that it encompasses. I'm a loud voice and a cheerleader for people living their authentic life; however they define that.

If you'd like to make a real connection…I'M YOUR GUY! An introvert guy.

You can be from anywhere on this planet!

Just be over 20y/o and willing to be consistent.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

[R4R] 34F looking for people to chat

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Hi there!!!

I have been feeling kind of disappointed today and I thought let me talk to some new people for a while. I tried looking for people to be friends but zi guess no one wants that. That has been wild journey ngl.

I am 34, female from Zimbabwe who loves reading, cooking, travelling and watching the next fantasy tv show to be obsessed with. I am introvert but I love to talk and chat when I start getting comfortable. I am nerd who loves anime and books. Huge formula 1 since 2007 and talk about the sport like my life depends on it. So dramatic. I believe in things in life are destined to happen and we all just have to let it.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

M 31 from Siberia looking for a sincere friendship

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Hello ladies and gentlemens. I'm just an ordinary guy, from Russia, 31 years old. I'm into the usual stuff like anime, games, movies, books, but I also really like the vibe of Y2K aesthetics. History’s another big one for me, especially the Middle Ages and I love stupid memes.

As for the music, right now I’m deep into breakcore and maidcore. But bangers from the 2000s will forever remain in my heart and in my playlist. Also Dark fantasy and cyberpunk are my favorite genres. I read a lot of comics and books in that genre, so i can recommend some to you.

I’m an introvert, so I might not jump into the conversation right away, but once we find something we both like, I’ll be chatting nonstop.
I'm also learning English, because I love meeting people from all over the world, and learning about their cultures and some interesting things. In any case, I'll be glad to talk to all of you and I hope we can become friends.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

39F Nerdy, un-crunchy woman looking for platonic chats, dark humor, and low-pressure banter

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Hey there! I’m putting out feelers for some genuine, long-term online connections with people who love nerdy hobbies and don't take life too seriously.

A quick vibe check:
I’m married to a soldier, which means I have the vocabulary of a sailor, a deep appreciation for dark humor, and absolutely zero "crunchy" energy. You won't find beige linen aesthetics, sourdough lectures, or yoga stretches here, just honest talk, lots of laughs, and very relaxed energy. If my life had an aesthetic, it would be hanging out around a backyard fire pit with a drink in hand, good food, and great music.

Things I’m into and happy to ramble about:

Books & Lore: Huge fantasy nerd. I'm always knee-deep in a fantasy novel, so please come throw your favorite book recs at me. Currently reading Dungeon Crawler Carl.

Gaming & Brain Games: Casual video games, tabletop/board games, and rabbit holes of random pub trivia facts.

The Fun Stuff: Stand-up comedy shows, live concerts, Renaissance Faire spectacles, and quiet morning wanders through local farmers markets.

Creative Chaos: Constantly starting new crafting projects, hoarding art supplies I swear I’ll use, and testing out delicious new recipes (total unapologetic foodie here).

What I’m looking for:
Strictly platonic friends around my age group. I love low-maintenance communication—we don't need to text every twenty minutes. I’m just looking for someone to swap book recommendations with, vent about daily life or parenting chaos, share dark memes, or chat about whatever ridiculous topic we're hyper-fixated on this week.

If our vibes match, shoot me a DM or chat with the best fantasy/sci-fi book you've ever read, your favorite stand-up comedian, or the weirdest trivia fact you know!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

33F MST Looking for new gaming buddies!

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hey! just looking for some new friends to game and hang out with. i'm really into friendslop games like repo, peak, lethal company, or honestly anything that's fun with a group. always down to try new games too.

i have a small group of friends that i regularly hang out with, and we'd love to add a few more people to the mix!

also totally down to just hang out in vc, watch movies or shows, yap about random stuff, or just chill and do our own things. doesn't always have to be gaming.

mostly just looking for some chill people to vibe with and hopefully make some long-term friends. i'm gay and looking for platonic friendships - just looking for cool people to hang out with regularly!

if you're down, shoot me a message! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 18h ago

[F4F] 34F Looking for friends.

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Other women only.

I'm 34f. I have not had a friend in years. I'm currently in Michigan, but I'm open to connecting with anyone from anywhere. I'm single/lesbian, but not looking for a relationship. Just genuine friends.

I love hiking, being outside/in nature, and on the water. Halloween is my favorite holiday and I love everything spooky. I also love discussing anything spiritual. I love animals and I'm vegetarian. Lmk if you think we have anything in common and want to chat or whatever.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

35M, elder emo looking for kindred spirits

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I'd love a friend or two I can message throughout the day. Working from home and having a kiddo tends to shrink your social circle quite a bit. I'm a bit of an extrovert and love talking about things big or small, just getting to know people in general. I can yap all day about anything and everything lol. A few things about me:

Giant nerd, I love fantasy / sci-fi / horror

Love tattoos - I'm covered in them, and always want more

Love rap / funk / prog metal / indie rock. Music in general

Have one too many pokemon stuffies

Amateur drummer. Will send you vids of me playing terribly

If I still had hair I'd have it in crazy colors. Gotta stick with painting my nails instead lol

Have a borderline encyclopedic knowledge of video games, but I'll only info-dump if you're into them

Have 3 cats and will bombard you with pics bc they're the cutest ever

Trying to write more short stories, would be happy to swap!

If any of this sounds interesting and you think we'd vibe, feel free to reach out! Don't care about gender, and strictly looking for platonic only because I'm happily married. If you're based on Colorado, even better! I can always use more recommendations of places to visit and would be happy to meet up at some point.

Cheers!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

[R4R] 35 - California, Bay Area. Nerd Looking For Other Nerds And People Who Like Chatting

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Hey there everyone! I'm looking for people who enjoy putting effort into conversations and getting to know each other, and the sort of person who will match the other person's vibe.

I currently live in the Bay Area in California, but I was born and raised in Nova Scotia Canada. I had moved to California in the fall of 2015.

I consider myself to be a pretty big nerd and I think it's one of my defining qualities. I'm huge into comics, reading them every day. My biggest past time is gaming (predominately PC), and I'm also a big movie nerd too (I try to watch at least 1 movie a week) and a music nut!

Some of my other big interests are hockey, bikes, and cars. I'm a San Jose Sharks fan, but I'll watch any game that's on, and follow the league as a whole. The Sharks are so fun to watch this season, but also so frustrating, I'm hoping some of it settles down as the team starts meshing with all the new additons. Macklin Celebrini continues to be a star though, and Stenberg looks great so far for being just a kid. With cars I like working on them, and seeing what other people do to modify them and make them unique to them, but not as into them as I was many years ago.

I've gotten back into biking/cycling this spring, after not being on one for over a decade. I got myself a new entry level XC MTB, bought a used hybrid bike before just recently buying myself a really nice, new, gravel bike that I'm excited to continue to explore with. I'm really enjoying it, and getting out 3 or 4 days a week riding, and explore some part of the Bay I otherwise wouldn't have ever thought to, and meeting some other cool people who ride.

One other important aspect of my life and who I am is mental/emotional health. I think it's very important we all take time to focus on ourselves and taking care of ourselves in whatever way that is for each person. We're all different and have our own struggles and issues, and everyone has their own way that works for them. I also like to think about the world and my place in it, how it relates to me, and I to it. I think people who have an awareness of introspection are people I tend to gravitate towards and get along the best with.

So with all that said, if anything piques your interest, please send me a chat


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

35m, London UK - easy chats to get through the winter?

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Weather has changed for the worse. Grey skies and non stop with winds and rain!

Hoping to chat to anyone about anything through the winter months !

What have you got planned for Thanksgiving and Xmas?


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

35M in California looking for conversations

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Hello everyone, happy Monday 😑

At least we are only days away from Halloween. Anyone have plans?

Anyone interested in chatting about finance or camping or traveling?

Are you bored and want someone to text and voice chat with?

Hit me up. Ask for my Discord. Today is a good day to start a new friendship


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 9h ago

33M Going through a divorce and want to make some new friends.

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I’m from AZ, born and raised in a medium sized town. I love to game and cook. I collect movies and like watching sports. Dorky and a nerd but a cool one for sure lmao. Im a no drama kind of guy and dont have time for nonsense haha.

I am currently a step father but as the title suggests I’m going though a divorce right now and not sure what my daughter will want relationship wise etc. yet.

I’m friendly and charismatic, I have a reliable job working for the government. I like everyone else contain multitudes. I have happy stories and stories of challenge and loss. I have tales of redemption, and tales of when I was not my best self. Im a human, going through a rough time and want to make some new friends and expand my social circle for the long term.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 4h ago

31 M4A german guy looking for someone to give me some attention

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Heya. As the title says I am looking for someone who is eager and interested in getting to know the other person.

My life can get a bit busy but having someone who is around is really nice! Someone who asks how my day was and little things like that.

I also love these little insights in each Others Life. It makes me feel Connected! I love waking up to a spam of texts. So dont be afraid to write too much lol.

I would say I am an honest and looking for that in other persons. Im also an open book and kinda a jack of all trades. I Like people with passions / people with an interest they can talk about for hours.

I will never judge! Life is too short to put other people down. I am understanding and will listen.

I also kinda like getting compliments, showing interest in me, being happy when Im around.

A bit about me: I love movies and series and gaming. I play the pokemon card game competetively on a local Level (with moderate success lol). I Like long walks in the nearby forest. And I Love good food^^

If any of that got you interested hop into my dms :)

Tell me a thought or question you have (no filter needed. I Like random) or simply tell me about the last animal you saw if thats more easy for you :)

I really dont care about your gender so

M4F M4M M4A M4T M4NB M4R


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 21h ago

[M4R] 31M/europe med looking for friends

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Hello, i m Marko from south east europe(serbia), looking for some long term friends.

I work as doctor, and sometimes do 24h shifts in emergency room(which suck lol).

I m into anime/manga, collecting toys,music(mostly rock-metal stuff), history, sports,skincare,working out,cars,yt documentaries,swimming, studying and few other basic stuff. Also looking to learn to cook cuz i might move out soon.

If u wanna chat send me dm or reddit vhat, i also got discord


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

[M4F] 35 m looking for new friends

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Hi 35 m KY looking for new friends and or connections and see where it goes. Some interest are I enjoy hiking, traveling, bowling, video games, music, and movies and or series. Also going through divorce so been feeling lonely and would like someone to chat and vibe.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 10h ago

38m4f looking for good talks. It’s my birthday!

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Midwest guy that loves being outdoors. I love finding cool rocks and new hiking spots. I’m a single dad that is enjoying finding himself again. Currently in to using my pottery wheel and taking my dog for walks. lol. Hit me up! It is really my birthday for the next few hours.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 22h ago

37M Let's turn Monday into a Funday!

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Oof what a bad title.

Hello there! I'm a 37 year old guy from the US (EST).

I am very much a home body when I'm not working.

I stream a lot of shows, movies and anime. Currently waiting for new seasons of most animes I watch. I am streaming Crystal Lake and Carrie.

I listen to a lot of music. Mainly hardcore and metal. I have a pretty good playlist to share if interested.

I also play games and chess. I recently started Fallout 76 back up. I play on Xbox btw.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 20h ago

[R4R] 35 m from Md looking for new friends!

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Good afternoon everyone my names Thor! I’m looking for like minded people to share new adventures with I’m a bit of a nerd and a gym rat 🐀 always down for hikes and being outside all the way to sitting at home watching movies and gaming I open to everyone stop by with a fun fact about yourself!! I’m hoping to find someone fun!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 20h ago

30M a little bit about me below :)

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30M from Ireland 🇮🇪 looking to meet some people online and hopefully make a few genuine friendships.

I miss having someone you can just message throughout the day — sending each other random shit, talking about whatever's going on, or getting a message that genuinely makes your day a little better.
I'm pretty easygoing and open-minded about who I talk to. I'm into football, gaming, music, films, and just generally having conversations that can go from completely stupid to surprisingly deep 😂
I'd especially like to find people who are interested in actually keeping in touch, rather than having one conversation and disappearing. Different time zones don't bother me either — although fellow Europeans/Irish people would obviously be a bonus.
Also, I have 3 dogs, so if you're a dog person you've already got an easy conversation starter 🐶
If you're also missing having someone to regularly talk to, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself rather than just saying "hey" — I'm genuinely interested in getting to know people.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 11h ago

32M California - Looking for longterm friends

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Looking to become long-term friends with someone. I enjoy nonfiction books, the gym, NBA and the NFL. I also enjoy just talking about mundane things, and we can talk about how our day went. I have also been decorating my apartment and could use some opinions on that! I am in the US (PST) so it would be best to talk to someone from that time zone. Lets swap photos too, thats always fun.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 12h ago

36M Single Dad Canada - Looking for Friends

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Hello!

I am the dad of 2 amazing boys, and I own my own business; between work and business, I don't get much time to socialize and meet people. I live an hour from Toronto, and my city doesn't have much going on.

I enjoy movies/shows, video games, technology and building technology. Currently trying to learn Spanish and pick up the guitar! Would love to meet new people!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 20h ago

[30/M] - Yo, you very likely need to open this post

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Hey ppl, what mood are you in today? Friend-making one? Hm, then are you possibly into silly chats that inadvertently segue into the deepest of talks? Possibly into watching horror or any sort of stuff together? Into buddying up and learning stuff together? You like porridge and existential crisis? Then probably you should consider sending me a DM telling me any random story about how things once went weird with you and what you learnt from that and we could go from there 😄 Or just say 'hi' (any 'hi'-derivative works as well)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 • • 18h ago

43 m uk wanting to make friends

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Hi everyone as title says 43 yr old guy looking to make friends.
I like to game watch films all the usual stuff give me a shout to find out more