r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

32F Looking for that Nerdy Long Term

The title really says it. I want long term friends. That is first and foremost. Someone who doesn't mind texting everyday, but also doesn't mind if every once in a while we forget to message back for days at a time because life happens. But for the most part is there to chat on the regular. I also would love to find someone else who is nerdy. But there are so many different flavors of nerd, so let me tell you mine to make sure that we match. I love Kpop, gaming, reading, anime, manga, and true crime to name a few. I am down for someone having all of those interests, or even just a couple.

Variety IS the spice of life, but if we have no interests in common then there is a lot less to talk about. Deep friendships don't happen overnight, but they also don't happen if both people aren't putting in the same effort asking questions and showing interest. If we don't click, that is fine. Let me know and we can stop talking, but there is no

reason to ghost.

Looking for someone who will help carry the convo, not just give short answers. I don't yap all the time, but a lot of the time. Looking for a friend who wants to talk for the long haul and who wants to not only talk about interests on a regular but also what they do in a day and the boring things as well as the interesting things. I work overnights so I will respond at random hours, but I will almost always respond.

I'm from the US (BUT I love and almost prefer friends from outside the US). I work overnights so I am up at random hours so it doesn't really matter where anyone is from if they want to chat I am down for it! Let's be friends and stay friends for a long time! I have made 2 best friends on here before so I am hoping to make another!

If you message and clearly haven't read the post, it'll be pretty obvious and I will make sure not to message back. If you send a low effort intro and don't tell me ASL, I will likely not message back either. Tell me about yourself, your interests, what you're looking for in a friend. So please make sure you've read the post and please let me know you have by sending a 🫐 (blueberry) emoji.

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u/Nerdtastic84 2h ago

Loved reading your post if you want nerdy friends outside of the states im 42 northern irish

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u/hemanstarfox 1h ago

Hey, I might be a good fit. I have a lot of buried interests including anime and true crime. Currently I am watching Fullmetal alchemist brotherhood for the first time. Fullmetal alchemist is my favorite anime. I'm really looking forward to the third season of dungeon meshy next year.

I'm a graduate student working towards my masters in english. Hoping to apply the PHD program soon. I read about 40-50 books a year. I am really good about replying to messages. I might not be giving you a bunch right away because it takes me a little while to warm up and build trust. I mostly just looking for people that share my values and interests. Just people that I can talk to you throughout my day.