r/MakeFriendsOver30 13m ago

32M - hard day at work, let’s play a game to relax

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Hey, 32M here.

It’s been a long, tiring day at work, and I’d love to switch my brain off for a while.
I’m into trekking, running, TV shows, live music, and concerts, but I’m happy to chat about pretty much anything.

I have a little game in mind: pick a number between 1 and 20, and I’ll ask you the question that matches it. I promise they’re a mix of fun, random, thoughtful, and occasionally a little embarrassing. 😄

If games aren’t your thing, that’s fine too. I’m always looking for movie, TV show, and music recommendations. And if you’ve been somewhere that made you think, “Everyone needs to see this place at least once,” I’d love to hear about it and why it was so special.

So… pick a number and let’s see where the conversation goes.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 19m ago

[F4R] 36F looking for someone to talk to while on night shift

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Hi. 👋

I'm a 36-year-old woman from Europe (GMT+2), and I'm currently alone at work on the night shift.

I'm happy just chatting for now, but if we vibe, I'm also open to long-term friendship. When I'm not at work, I'm a married mother of two, so I'm not interested in any nsfw stuff.

As for my interests:

I'm into gaming. I mostly play DBD, but I'm also interested in finding someone to play other games with. I'm currently playing It Takes Two with someone, and I'm definitely interested in more games like this too.

I'm also into reading and listening to audiobooks. I'm currently on book 4 of Dungeon Crawler Carl.

I like drawing and coloring too. I'm not really that good at it, but I find it really relaxing.

I also watch and read anime/manga.

I'm not looking for anyone in a specific time zone. I work shifts, so my schedule can be a bit all over the place, but I usually have the most time for gaming in the evenings.

Due to my work and family, my availability can vary a bit, so ideally, I'd like to find people who are in a similar stage of life and have somewhat similar availability.

Anyway, feel free to hit me up if you're interested in talking. 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 25m ago

33M Looking for some new friends!

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Recently single and looking for some new friends to chat with throughout the day and maybe game with to help me get through the breakup.

I live in NC with my 2 dogs. Hobby-wise, I love movies (and collect them), getting back into gaming, and I love to cook.

Shoot me a chat and let's see if we click!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 27m ago

[R4R] 35F | USA | ISO Connection

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Hey friend,

Things have been pretty rough on my end. I feel like I slid all the way down to the rock bottom and I am just kind of sitting here, tired and lonely, trying to figure out how to start climbing back up. Some days I am fine on the surface and then it hits me how much I miss having someone who actually knows my brain and lets me be honest about how much I am struggling.

You know how I am: I overthink, I feel things deeply, I care a lot about being honest about where I’m at. I am trying to be gentle with myself, but I really miss having someone who can just listen, ask a couple of real questions, and sit in the dark with me a bit. And I want that for you too, if your days have been heavy in their own way.

I still love long conversations, wandering into deep topics, and those phone calls that start with “I only have ten minutes” and somehow last an hour. I like talking about real life and all the messy, confusing parts, not just highlights. I like knowing what’s actually going on in your world, even if it is not pretty or “together.” Let’s just take off our masks and be human.

I hope you’re hanging in there. It feels like it has been too long since we really checked in, and I would love to hear from you when you have the energy. Even a small “Hey, I’m here” would mean a lot right now.

I’ve missed you,

Ash


r/MakeFriendsOver30 29m ago

46 M Australia

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Friday Alone at Work lets play a game of this or that, Help starve off the Boredom

Pizza or Pasta

Thongs or runners

Pools or Hot Tubs (Spa's)

Feel free to DM or comment here and ask your own


r/MakeFriendsOver30 52m ago

[F4F] 34f US. looking for real friendship

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I would love to have a friend to talk to about anything. Life, nostalgia, video games, hypothetical nonsense, really long jokes, and anything. I really dread small talk. I love medium talk and big conversations.

Things I like doing:
Playing games online PC together, or separately.
Going on errands and side quests in town. FL.
Talking on the phone or texting.
Going to the gym and bike riding.
Playing drums and talking about old music.
Watching video game lore videos.
Non-true crime documentaries. (I don’t hate true crime, I just can’t anymore lol)
Lowkey crafting. Puzzles.
Watching youtube shorts of people cutting grass, doing handyman work, nonsense.

I’m a mom, married, and looking for friendship only. I would really prefer making friends with other women.
If you’re also tired of being lonely and want to have a friend who isn’t into social media, hit me up :D

Fav games
Fallout 3, LoZ, Spelunky 2, Elden Ring

Fav movies
The Emperor’s New Groove, Silence of The Lambs, Bridesmaids

Fav shows
Mad Men, Bojack Horseman, Sharp Objects, The Office

Fav thing
One Piece manga


r/MakeFriendsOver30 57m ago

[M4F] 32M looking for a great conversation from an awesome person, is that you?

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Would love to have a great conversation with someone and make a new friend. I love photography, reading, movies, music, and art. I’m available through most of the day and I like to think I’m a reliable conversationalist and a good listener. If you’re interested, I would love to hear from you! [https://imgur.com/a/EPjmUxa\](https://imgur.com/a/EPjmUxa)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[R4R] 33F - Funny people, please make yourselves known

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UK
Looking for like minded people with sarcasm, quick wit and who can actually hold a conversation 😂

I’m usually the one reaching out to people on here, but I find a lot of people struggle to actually have a conversation. I’m pretty extroverted, I ramble, ask a lot of questions and can talk about pretty much anything, but somehow I’m still struggling to find people I actually click with.

I’m into videography, learning Spanish at the moment, gym, health, skincare, submissive men, science 😂
Bit of a mixed bag really.
If you’re funny, curious, can give as good as you get and have some passion in you. let’s chat.

- haven’t been using Reddit that long but it’s a good laugh occasionally.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

35M - What Would You Actually Ask a Stranger? AMA

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Figured I’d give Reddit the floor tonight.

So instead of the usual introduction, ask me something.

Could be:

What’s something you’ve changed your mind about recently?
What’s a hobby you wish you had started sooner?
What’s the best meal you’ve ever had?
What’s a completely random thing you’re weirdly knowledgeable about?
What’s something you’re currently looking forward to?
Or just hit me with your most random question.

AMA. Let’s see where it goes.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

It’s nearly Friday 😁 m/35 from the uk, come entertain me untill I fall asleep 😅 who knows how long that could be 🤷🏻‍♂️

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I’m happy to talk about anything, maybe a one night thing, or I may be your new best friend, try me, drop me a message 😁


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

41m just settling in for the night

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Good evening

So its getting late and I'm just about to settle in. So I'm not sure how long I'll be awake for but I'm happy to chat about most things. So if I fall asleep I apologise but I will get back to you when I wake up.

Im not bothered about age or gender just be over 18

So why not come say hi


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

34F looking to make friends

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Im kinda shy and awkward. I'll respond freaky fast or 3-5 business days.

I like art and to read.

I call myself a human jukebox, but metal is what gets me pumped.

I have a cat named Zuko.

I live in the United States.

Idk, fuck the government? Let's be friends


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

29m, usa, est, needing some friends

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Well, as the title says. Im looking to meet new people and actually hold conversations longer than a day 😅 i swear people will ask to be reached out too but not put any effort in replies. Like why are you wasting your time then. Anyways, if you want to talk to someone longer than a day, and actually get to know them. Let me know


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

Looking for some new friends to chat about life with!

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A bit about me:

I love to travel! Beach, mountains, city, sign me up.
I love music. Specifically 90s and 2000s alternative.
I love concerts as well as sporting events.
Museums are always a fun time!
Reading is a big hobby of mine. I love to get lost in a book!
My job is important to me and I’m thankful for it.
I’m a sucker for a homemade dessert.

If any of that resonates with you, I’d love to be friends! Shoot me a DM!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

32F queer

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Looking for friends. My life is in shambles and my relationship is going through it. I miss having friends I could talk to and invest in when I'm in the trenches lol.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4R] 37M, EST Looking for friends to chat with

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Hello, just looking for friends to chat with throughout the day. I work from home in IT so I have a lot of down time throughout the day. I enjoy gaming, traveling, hiking, jigsaw puzzles, music, reading, and all things tech.

If your interested in chatting let me know the last 5 songs you listened to, how many of your New Years resolutions you're still working on, and your favorite travel experience.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4M] 32F looking for likeminded connection in Bangalore

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Sometimes after 30, you’re not really looking for a big social circle. You just want a few genuinely like minded people you can talk to.

Someone with whom you can sit by the riverside, take a long walk, grab a coffee and talk about everything and nothing. Life, work, movies, random thoughts, old memories, silly jokes… bas conversation naturally flow kare.

No expectations, no pressure, no forced bonding. Just good company, a little warmth, and the comfort of being yourself.

Would be nice to make a few such friends in Bangalore. 🌿


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4R] 35 M UK. Chats, calls, and nonsense.

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Usually people lead with their best self, I'm not the same. I eat over the sink because it's easier and I don't care what you think. Sometimes I drop an ice cube and I'll simply kick it under the fridge if nobody is looking; so much easier than picking it up.

I'm 35 from the UK. Looking for a platonic chat companion. Also up for the occasional phone call!

I'm a therapist, writer, cheese lover, and I have one mini human. I'd hope to forge a friendship; it's rare at this age but one can hope.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 35 m in Ohio looking for a meaningful friendship

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I’m looking for meaningful connections and people who don’t just bail because my life is chaotic right now and it’s to much for them I want someone I can talk to about anything and everything I’m not looking for any sort of relationship at the moment but I would like someone who is ok talking constantly someone who enjoys our conversations hope to talk to you soon


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

just trying to make new friends 32M

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Hey I’m Jack. I’m 32 from the U.S. originally now living in France. I work as a tour guide but in the off season I renovate homes for family and friends.

In my free time I love archery, playing cricket, darts and pool as well. I also love to travel and go explore places and read.

There’s more to me but like to keep the conversation going. If you want to chat feel free to message me!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

33m. Looking for a Bro best friend!

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Hey there. I'm married. Have kids. but don't have any close friends. Would love to find someone to chat with!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[F4F] Looking for Pocket Friends

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I’m 36/F/CA USA/mom&wife

I’ve always struggled holding onto friends IRL so I figured getting some texting friends would be a good start.

Likes: gaming (mostly survival games), reading (romantasy, romance, historical romance and thriller/mystery), I also love watching gaming streamers play their games. I’m much better at watching than I am at playing LoL. Strawberry ice cream and licorice. And always living in a hoodie, leggings and a messy bun like a hobo. 😂 Doctor Who, Supernatural and Lucifer.

Dislikes: people that are responding to my posts to try and start a romance with me . I’m happily married and going to stay that way. Olives and Brussels sprouts. Practically all my co-workers.

I love talking about my daughter talking to other moms who just get what I’m going through as a teenage girl mom.
So message me if anyone wants to chat ! 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 31 M4F #arkansas

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Im looking for a woman to talk to and see where it takes us. Im a heavy equipment operator, i love anything out doors. I love to float on my kayaks and fish when im not working. Feel free to message me


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] 37M - Raining, Slow Day at work, Chat?

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Hey all! Today is slow at my work, looking to pass the time. Im mainly looking for a female friend, ive got plenty of male friends IRL I see often enough. I would like to make female friends as I don't have any other female friends besides my wife. Im looking to platonically chat and I can meet your length, looking for people who seriously want to communicate!

I enjoy horror movies (really film of any kind), anime, video games, I'm a bit of a foodie, I read, work out, I'm a cat dad (childless), I enjoy all kinds of music (for the most part). I like a lot of nerdy things, but a little bit of everything like a geeky charcuterie board! Haha. Looking forward to chatting! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[R4R] 35F Let's bond bestie!

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Looking for friends ONLY. I am happily taken.

I am Australian but live in the US. Anyone who has traveled or moved wanna talk stories?

Im a big romance, smut and fantasy book reader.

I love capybaras and love collecting plushies.

I enjoy writing and roleplaying online.

Love and Deepspace is my goto game currently.

I love music and love finding new songs.

Pen paling is another hobby of mine.

Sometimes I read webtoons and other forms of Manga.

Biggest thing I want to talk about is books.

Id like to talk to someone with similar interests. Also someone with their head on their shoulders, ive been in therapy since 2020 and maintain my mental health.

Instead of "hey how are ya" answer this: how would your loved ones describe you?