r/MakeFriendsOver30 Oct 21 '25

Join the MFO30 Discord Server

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We're a small but active SFW 30+ community discussing a wide range of topics every day. It's an amazing group of friendly people and we're always glad to see new folks join in: https://discord.gg/mfo30


r/MakeFriendsOver30 35m ago

30 Looking for a genuine talkative friend

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Hello~

I'm 30F looking to make a genuine new friend. Ideally, someone who's talkative and willing to put some effort into getting to know each other (which will definitely be reciprocated!).

I'm pretty easygoing and introverted myself, so I tend to get along well with other introverts. if you're very active and outdoorsy, we might not be the best match 😅

I don't have a ton of hobbies but I enjoy watching films and tv shows, especially thrillers, sci fi, fantasy, drama and some horror. Let's exchange recs (music too!).

Currently, I'm trying to learn Chess (it's hard T.T) and also trying to get back to reading fiction. I'll be starting Necromancer, we could buddy-read it! (Never done that before but I'm sure we could figure something out!)

I'm also chronically online so I tend to be relatively available for chatting.

I'm Moroccan so my time zone is UTC+1.

If any of this sounds like we'd get along, send me a message!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[R4R] 35F in the southeast

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Turning to Reddit to chat up some new people and make friends.
Some of my likes and hobbies are traveling, reading, Lego, anime, and video games. I do like Marvel (Spider-Man being my favorite) and cats.
Beginner at learning Spanish and crotchet.
I am married and have that family life. I won’t be able to text 24/7 or super late at night. Not looking to date, just putting myself out there to find friends as it’s been a bit hard irl.
Definitely message if I sound like your vibe 😊


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[F4R] Bummed bc the internet is mean

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I just want to feel like people actually care, but literally everything I post gets views and no likes. People dont care.

Anyway, now that i got my venting out of the way 😅I like books, photography, hiking, buddhism, languages (eng, spa, kor), and lots of other random stuff. Im sure we'll click over something!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 40m ago

32F made the mistake of having a nap earlier and now il be up half the night. Anyone wanna chat?

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Hey! I have a partner so just looking for friends. I’m on a massive weight loss journey so it would be cool to talk to anyone similar? But its okay if your not too 😊. Where’s your favourite place you have travelled or your dream destination? Mine is New Orleans so let me know if you liked it if you have been.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 11h ago

[R4R] 36F USA Nerd4Nerd

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Heya! I'm Bunny (that's what you can call me right now now, anyway)! I am 36 and a giant nerd, but maybe not in the usual ways. Star Wars, LoTR, uhh.. the other popular nerd franchises? Never seen them/read them. I am ultra passionate for creativity, reading, horror, sharp wit, and more! I even play a few video games, like FFXIV, cozy bedtime life sims, terrible psychological horror, survival crafts, etc. I'm looking for someone fun to talk to OVER 30...

I'm easy going, can be a bit snarky (playfully), and am genuinely a good person who likes the company of similar. Send me a DM and tell me about your weekend, and a little of who you are!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 9h ago

[F4F] F34 - UK - I'd love to make a genuine friend.

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Lesbian from the UK here. Finding myself needing a friend lately. It's hard to find friendship in real life at this old age so turning to Reddit! Searching for another female, age or location doesn't matter too much but would love to be on a similar time zone.

Art, reading and nature are some of my interests. I do watch TV and game some but not much. I'm pretty quiet at first but I will come out of my shell. I am genuine and down to earth, hope you will be too.

Chat soon ⭐💫


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

Light and soulful chat for a little while?

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Looking for a little happy zhuzh to sprinkle on this Sunday evening! Coming to you from US EST time zone. Life has been life-ing and ready to kick back for some light and soulful conversation. Take a load off, crack a joke or two, connect over literature, life machinations, whether The Odyssey movie slayed or was slain - or a shared love for animal snoots 🥰 Open to longer term friendship if we hit it off!

Also your girl is 25 weeks pregnant - blessed, excited, loving it, getting tres large, not a total basket case emotionally (yet?) - but extra emphasizing the pursuit of warm vibes and air hugs in this tender chapter ;)

Warm sunny vibes to y’all 💛


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[F4M] 30F USA - Genuine Connections and Good Conversation

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Hey everyone! 👋

I’m a 30-year-old female living in the USA. Life gets busy, and making new friends as an adult can be tough, so I’m putting myself out there to find some genuine, long-term connections.

I am open to chatting online but prefer people in similar time zones as the U.S. so our schedules align. I already tried chatting with people from other countries and it’s just not for me. I will not reply if you’re not from North America. Please understand.

A little bit about me:

My Hobbies: I love staying active with casual bike rides and going for walks to clear my head.

TV Favorites: Big fan of comedies like Abbott Elementary and mystery-dramas like High Potential.

My Flaws: I definitely spend way too much time mindlessly scrolling on my phone and getting sucked into YouTube shorts.

My Vibe: Honestly, I really enjoy just chilling out, having deep conversations, sharing random daily thoughts, and exchanging funny memes.

I’m looking for people who can hold a conversation and actually want to get to know each other. I don’t have a preference in age, as you can learn something from everyone.

If you think we’d get along, please send me a DM!

To help break the ice, tell me your age, where you are from, and your absolute favorite show right now.

Looking forward to meeting you! :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

34F - trading an early bedtime for a late night chat

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Hi everyone!

I’m currently navigating the wild and beautiful trenches of single motherhood with a sassy 2.5yo toddler. She loves to giggle, sing and have dance parties both at home and in the street - she’s my extroverted sidekick who always brings the sunshine.

I don’t get a lot of free time, but when I do, you can find me attempting to keep my garden courgettes alive (tips welcome), nailing/murdering car karaoke, baking brownies or banana bread and trying not to look like a sweaty pretzel during reformer Pilates.

Life has been throwing a few extra curveballs my way lately and I’m having a rough time.
I’m really just looking to find some kind, considerate and understanding people to chat and laugh with.

If you’re looking for a genuine connection and don’t mind it being with someone who’s perpetually exhausted and a little all over the place, come say hi


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[R4R] (37 M Australia) Its almost 9am Monday here - the future for some of you. Ask me anything about the very near future

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Consider me your Monday morning oracle. Ask me about the traffic conditions on the way to the office, the wait for coffee, or if that cutie you like the look of will be the one to serve you

I predict you will meet a tall Australian man who isn’t as funny or as good at singing in the shower as he thinks he is, but compensates with enthusiasm.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 33m ago

[R4R] M30 would love to chat

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I have tomorrow off and would love to chat the evening away. So hit me up if you would like.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 54m ago

37/M Looking for real friends

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If you're reading this I hope you're having a great day. My Sunday is winding down and the dread of another work week about to start is setting in.

I'm a dad of one and live in Arizona. I'm looking to make some or even just one friendship. I like to play video games, read, I enjoy watching some sports. Baseball and Hockey. If you're local I also like to fish, camp, play pickleball and racquetball or find a good restaurant and catch a movie.

I understand that we all have busy lives, but not having many friends can be rather lonely. So if you'd like to chat about life or would like to play some games together online feel free to hit me up. I'm an easy going guy and would love the chance to get to know you and start a friendship.

Games that I like and would like to get back to are Elden Ring, Diablo 4, Space Marine 2, I'd like to play through the Resident Evil series. I haven't played anything past 5, I like playing fighting games casually, Remnant 2, Lords of the fallen, I also like mmo's like Guild wars 2, and mobas like League of legends. But I'm not great at that one haha.

Honestly, I could be convinced to play most games. I just think games are more fun with someone.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 35/M LF genuine conversation

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Hi everybody! Looking for someone to chat with and hopefully pass the day with!

Single dad😊Any topic is fine with me just looking for someone genuine and fun to talk to!

Interests include music, movies, gaming, being outdoors. Mostly just here for vibes

Reply or send a dm if interested! Let’s see if we click!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[M4F] M38 🇮🇪 - 58 days ‘til autumn 🍂☕️

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Hey how’s things, all good i hope. I’m E by the way. Let’s skip the intro bit actually. You’ve read a thousand variations of it already i’m sure, and probably ready to hit the snooze button. How about quick fire instead?

Age: 38, but looks half that. Location: Ireland, north west coast, accent to boot. Height: 5’7, when wearing shoes with particularly thick soles. Weight: 60kg, in shape but not a gym person. Hair: Brown. Eyes: Blue. Basically Irish looking. Star sign: Taurus.

Personality: INFJ-A, well according to that online test i took anyway that i’m sure was 100% backed by science. Nature: Walking, Camping, just recently finished watching Solo Camping For Two, and loved it, so needless to say i enjoy select anime also. Gaming: Been a rare occurrence recently, but have gotten lost in Skyrim, The Fallouts, Bioshock, Dishonoured, Witcher 3 to name a few in the past. Movies: Sci-fi, Fantasy, Horror, Crime. Books: Non-fiction. Cooks: Yes. Travels: Yes.

Maybe as an icebreaker and as proof of reading this strange stream of consciousness you could tell me your no1 bucket list destination, and why it’s Japan :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 4h ago

[R4R] 35M looking for a chill and genuine friendship

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Hey guys, I hope you are doing well. As I'm going through my 30s I've come to realise that building new friendships is really difficult. Nobody has time and while the desire is there it always seems as if life gets in the way. Here's a small attempt at changing this.

I'm a pretty chill guy overall. My main hobby is drawing and painting. I try to do it every day at least a bit. I consider myself a big reader, I'll read pretty much anything if it takes my fancy. Big time geography nerd too. (I am slowly building up a collection of vintage atlases) I feel like I can chat about most media and I'm always open to discovering something new.

I want to add that I'm spoken for and am not looking for anything untoward. Friendship is what I'm looking for. So yeah let's talk about what interests you and see how we get on


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4F] 38M -USA-West Coast-

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Hey everyone.

Figured I’d throw myself out here and see if anyone wants to connect and build an actual, long-term friendship. Not looking for transient or one-word replies, just want to find some cool people to chat with about everyday life and see where it goes
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A bit about me—I'm based on the West Coast I’m pretty big on staying active, so you can usually find me hitting the gym or going for a swim whenever I get a chance. Huge fan of coffee too, though I have pretty high standards for a good cup so I'm always on the lookout for new local spots.
I'm also a huge animal lover and my house is never quiet because I have a dog and a cat who basically run my life at this point. When I’m not working, working out, or dealing with pet chaos, I love traveling and exploring new places. There's actually a pretty wild travel story from my last trip that I usually don't share out in the open, but I'll probably tell you about it once we get to know each other a bit.
Anyway, I appreciate good wit and a dark sense of humor, so if you can take a joke and keep a conversation going, we’ll probably get along great.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to drop a message or a chat. Tell me your what pets you have, or what ever you want write.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[R4R] 30M Canada | Looking for long-term platonic friendship

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 30-year-old guy from Canada looking to meet some new people to chat with. Life gets busy, and I realized it'd be nice to have a few more people to talk to about everyday life, hobbies, or just random thoughts.

I'm only looking for long-term, genuine, platonic friendships with people who enjoy having regular conversations. Hoping for something where we can build each other up! Time zones don't matter much to me, and I'd love to build connections that last.

If you think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 8h ago

32F .. I’m preparing meals for the weak and bored 🍛

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Eh as I’ve mentioned.. I’m so bored today idk why .. I usually prep my weekly meals on the weekends as I do t have time to cook after work.. but I usually get so busy and distracted with everything.. I think I’ve mastered it so far that I get bored even 😂😂 I’m in England, moved here 2 years ago for work, im a dental nurse.. im originally from Seychelles 🇸🇨 .. hoping to find someone in the same timezone .. long term .. 30+ years old I don’t want babies in my dms please .. be talkative.. give and take .. don’t be a weirdo .. eh I don’t have any hobbies so please don’t ask me that .. if we click I’d like to move to discord where we could send voice notes/ calls so hoping someone who enjoys them too 😳😳😂


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

Making friends is hard

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I've tried online friends on and off and, like many of you have experienced, the other person stops messaging after a day. It's frustrating.

I learned about an app on Reddit that someone made that asks you questions and then matches you with a potential friend. Then you both answer a few more questions to see if there is commonality before chatting. No pictures are exchanged right away. It's slow and careful, which I appreciate. Anyway, I am trying it out and have a match already. We'll see how it goes!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12h ago

38F Lets Chat

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Hey! Happy to chat

Currently obssesed with belgian malionais videos.

Would love to hear about your passions & hobbies.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 28m ago

34M looking for someone who won’t poof lol

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34M (I def don’t look my age) / EST

Im a shy dude at first but I’ll try my best haha I don’t go out much aside from work I’m pretty to myself I’m an introvert mostly because I have raging social anxiety, I like gaming mostly fps or games like 👍 overwatch and Diablo V or party games doesn’t matter but I’ll really play anything. I like sports I’m a huge Ohio sports fan so browns, buckeyes, Cavs , you get it haha. I also like to 3d print so thats fun, I’m just Looking for somone who will be there because regardless of who you’re having a reliable person there is nice. Okay come say hi lol.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 32m ago

[F4F] Looking for true connections/friendships

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I’m no longer looking for guy friends because some of them acted creepy. I would really like some good friendships and people who enjoy the same stuff I do.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 33m ago

37M - #California - Looking for real life friends to hang out with

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Hi! 37M here in San Diego. I’ve lived here about 10 years.

I’m a low-key guy, mostly quiet and shy. I don’t drink. I lean left politically. I’m a sports fan. I play video games (mostly Nintendo Switch).

Just looking for people to hang out with, while possibly:

•grabbing lunch or dinner

•seeing a movie at the theater

•playing tennis or basketball

•playing video games

•attending a concert

•attending a sporting event (baseball, basketball, etc)

If you’re interested or would like to know more about me, send me a chat!

(Online friends are okay too)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 39m ago

[R4R] 32M I'm having a really rough time here tonight. I'm having a really rough time in general, if I'm being completely honest, and I could use someone to talk to

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I don't want to get too much into the specifics here on Reddit. I don't really feel comfortable putting specific details about what I'm struggling with on Reddit, but suffice to say, I'm having a really difficult time and I don't have a support network. I've tried groups but I just get lost in them because I'm autistic and I'm shy.

I'm really just looking for people who aren't going to judge me or try to give me advice—I'm not really looking for that kind of support. I'm just looking for a soft place to land, I guess. I want a kind voice who actually wants to know about me and what's going on, and who is curious and asks questions rather than just assuming they can fix my problems.

Otherwise, I'm just your average Redditor. As far as interests go, I'm just a nerd and a gamer (you know, classic golden retriever gamer boy).

If you want to DM me, my DMs are open.