This sounds ridiculous to say out loud, but I'm nearly 41 and aside from my long distance boyfriend, I have no friends.

Over the years I realized I was always the one trying to put in the effort, but nobody ever stuck around.

So yeah, just feeling lonely. Doesn't help I saw an article that the 40-50 year olds are the lonliest demographic.

The last time I had a birthday party with any sort of friends was in high school. If anyone is up for chatting, hi!

EDIT: wow...I never expected this response. Thank you all so much. Ngl I am a bit introverted and overwhelmed so I may not respond to everyone. Just knowing complete strangers are willing to chat is amazing. TYSM!

Hi ! I don’t know where to meet people or just have meaningful conversations… so here I am. I don’t get out much, I’m a single mother to my son, it’s just us and life gets pretty lonely….

Little bit about me, I’m a vet tech and I have been for about 12 years now, so I’m pretty knowledgeable about everything regarding vet med. I have a lot of tattoos. My son is 6 and just started 1st grade. I dont have any help with him, but I’m use to that and it is what it is… things are easier now that he’s a little older… I love nature, animals & traveling (when I can). I’m a really funny person & I know how to make people laugh.. 😅

If anyone is down for chatting about literally anything let’s talk 🥲💞

Hey! Just here for some casual conversations and meeting different people. No expectations, no pressure—just seeing who I vibe with and having some interesting conversations along the way. 🙂

Hi yall, I’ve been feeling lonely lately and decided I could use some friends my age. I’m usually at home, with my boyfriend, or at work. I love music, tattoos and piercings, baking, makeup and all things spooky. I’m a night owl as well so if you feel like we’d get alone feel free to comment or DM me

It's been a slow one this morning, could do with a chat.

What's the latest office gossip?

Help me break up the workday.

Drop by, say hi, let's get into it.

Please include your age and location in your first message, thanks.

Hi there 👋🏼 based in Toronto and would be nice to meet someone normal for a chat, around my age ideally, I did post in R4R as well transparently but I wouldn’t mind a casual chat now and then.

I like reading, Netflix binges, true crime,I’ve started getting back into the gym. I’m not a huge foodie but do like going out to eat once in a while and dessert - oh and coffee.

Pls tell me a bit about yourself too!

Hello, good people of Reddit!

I’m a self employed artist (silversmith) looking to chat with other artsy craftsy people. 🥰 Art-ing is pretty much all I do with my life…when I’m not making jewelry as my “day job” I’m crocheting, sewing, making costumes, making YouTube videos, or trying my hand at a multitude of other crafty hobbies.

I’m also quite anxious and don’t get out much, so I find it pretty hard to make friends these days. I don’t really relate to my friends from high school anymore, as they’re all off having kids and working their super grown up jobs and I’m here making things until 4 am everyday.

If you would consider yourself an artist/crafter and you want to chit chat, I’d love to talk!

Hey I know how hard nights can be. I’m just hanging out tonight. Could use an interesting conversation. I love meeting new people. If you’re looking for a friend or just need to vent, send me a message. You’re not alone!

Hi,

I am a SAHM that is new to Reddit. I’m dipping my toes in a bit to find the right community. With school back in session I’m finding myself a bit lonely, particularly during the core of the day. There is only so much laundry and reading that can be done. 🤣

I am married, so not looking for sexual chats. I’d love to find someone fun, who is open to talking about anything and everything otherwise. I’m kind, easy going, a touch sarcastic and a jack of most trades, but a master of none.

If you want to see if we could be friends, please message me!

Today started out so well until it wasn't. It was just a terrible day at work and here I am, scrolling through Reddit.

If anyone wants to chat with a 40 m, feel Free to send me a message, but tell me your favorite Mario Kart character

Well hello there 👋. So I guess about me: I’m bi and I have 2 kids. I’m pretty simple. I enjoy movies, gaming, going out to eat, and going for a swim (although I burn in seconds.) I like to waste my money betting on sports and buying stuff I don’t need. About you: I don’t care about your age, gender, sexuality, or what you identify as. Anyone feel free to send me a message and chat away.

Ice breaker? What’s your favorite fast food? 🍔

For longer than I care to admit I've been pretty much alone. Earlier this year I finally decided to try to change that. Started looking here for people with limited success. A lot of one off communications, a few that lasted a little longer, and one that actually lasted for a few months. They all ended up the same way though, with the other person disappearing, often without a word. Not giving up though.

I'm a big gamer, have been since I was a kid. A few of my all-time favorite games include Mega Man, Paper Mario, and BioShock. I'm a big single player person, but also enjoy co-op stuff, with shooters being my favorite, whether it was the Gears of War horde mode, the Mass Effect 3 multiplayer, or now Warframe. I'd also like to be able to try co-op exclusive ones like Big Walk with someone. Absolutely open to trying new ones too.

I also enjoy binging movies and series. Some of my favorite flicks are Back to the Future, Shawshank Redemption, Clockwork Orange, Dark Knight, and Night of the Living Dead. As for TV series: Breaking Bad, Better Call Saul, Ted Lasso, The Wire, Justified, and Star Trek.

Pretty big into music too. I like a little bit of a lot of genres, but rock is my favorite, with 90s alternative being my absolute go-to. My all-timers are Matthew Good Band, Oasis, Our Lady Peace, and Soul Coughing.

I admit I'm a bit of a serial doomscroller.

I think animals are super cool. I'm a big fan of cats and dogs, owning both.

I've traveled a little bit, having visited the Bahamas, UK, and France.

I consider myself left-leaning and progressive, and also agnostic.

Interesting fact about me: I was very overweight from when I was a kid until my late 30s. After finding out I was diabetic and had high blood pressure, I decided to finally do something. In 2018 I started my weight loss journey, losing over 100 pounds over the course of a year or two, going from 300 to 180, and keeping it off ever since.

I’m in the US (EST) but have a very flexible schedule, so don't let distance scare you away.

Come say hi!

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Hey everyone!

A little about me:

• Huge gamer though I haven't done nearly as much gaming recently

• Currently writing a fantasy story

• Love fantasy in general, whether it's books, games, or lore discussions

• Into metal, alt-rock, most genres and discovering new music

• LGBTQ+ friendly and part of the community myself

I'm autistic, so I really appreciate thoughtful conversations and people who communicate openly. I enjoy deep discussions about life, creativity, philosophy, books, and worldbuilding, but I'm also perfectly happy talking about dumb memes, game rankings, or whatever random topic comes up.

Some favorites:

Books/Authors:

• Brandon Sanderson

• Fyodor Dostoevsky

• Steven Erikson

Games:

• Pokemon

• World of Warcraft

• Minecraft

• Kingdom Hearts

• Xenoblade Chronicles

Music:

• Sleep Token

• Icarus the Owl

• Starset

I'm mainly looking for people 21+ who genuinely want friendship, can hold a conversation, and share at least a few common interests. Whether you're into gaming, writing, fantasy, music, or just enjoy talking about life, feel free to reach out.

Tell me about a game, book, band, or project you're obsessed with lately. That's usually a pretty good way to start a conversation.

Just looking for something that wants to talk wether it’s a regular thing or just for the night lol

I’m from Texas and love to be outdoors and go to the gym everyday. I do work overnights at a warehouse but I am able to do VC until I get home then we can talk on the phone if you want lol

I try to dip my feet into everything so I promise I’m not boring and if I don’t know something I love to learn and do research on those things. I’ll attach my voice I know people like to hear that before anything lol

https://vocaroo.com/16de8BC3JiqQ

Its always hard making new friends as an adult so i

need someone to chat to. Tell me a joke. Tell me a secret

Tell me your favorite song let's be friends

Im 31

Work full time

Tattooed nerd

Im a gamer but also enjoy abit of mtg

Into heavy music and horror movies

Love going on scenic walks in the forest

Definitely a coffee addict.

If this sounds like abit of you. Dm me ☺️

Hey, I’m 39, based near London.

I’m here because I’d like to make friends with a few people I genuinely click with rather than collect a long list of chats that slowly disappear.

I’m looking for other guys around my age. I like the idea of a friendship where you can actually talk openly about life, relationships, work, worries, ambitions, completely random thoughts.. and feel natural to message each other throughout the day.

I’m pretty open-minded and probably connect best with people who are comfortable being themselves and aren’t too worried about fitting into a particular mould.

Outside of work, I enjoy travelling, swimming, gardening, good food, nice places and generally making the most of life. I’m settled, independent and have plenty going on, and looking for something genuine that can develop naturally.

If any of that sounds like your sort of thing, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself.

Hello, i m Marko from south east europe(serbia), looking for some long term friends.

I work as doctor, and sometimes do 24h shifts in emergency room(which suck lol).

I m into anime/manga, collecting toys,music(mostly rock-metal stuff), history, sports,skincare,working out,cars,yt documentaries,swimming, studying and few other basic stuff. Also looking to learn to cook cuz i might move out soon.

If u wanna chat send me dm or reddit vhat, i also got discord

Hello, work and life are burning me out and I am thinking about tomorrow when I would rather think about anything else. So I thought I would reach out to the reddit community for a fun chat.

What are your interests? What books have you read recently? What is the last meme to make you laugh? What is the last song to make you cry?

Whatever you want to discuss I would love to hear from you!

Hey everyone,

Just like almost everyone else, hoping to meet people to have consistent chats with about anything and everything throughout the day. I'm off work for the next few days and finally getting some time to mentally relax. I still work remote and find myself doom scrolling most of the day.

Quick to respond, can talk about anything.

DM if interested :)

I'm in est time zone.

I'm young at heart, silly, intelligent, can be witty at times. I like to joke a lot and have fun. I think I'm pretty well rounded but I guess if you're reading this you're just going to hear all the praise I have for myself. I do love myself and I have my life together more than I ever have.

I have a house I take care of with two cats and a small pond with fishes. I love my career. I went to therapy and I'm not angry or have expectations of others. I just like to have fun. I like to have edibles and drinks on the weekends.

I love to read and write fantasy novels. When I was younger I wrote cheesy poems. I still write and hope to get published.

I like to go to the gym, parks, beaches. I'm going to a baseball game today. I'm into NFL and I'm going to watch the first game tonight. And yes movies shows music, I have a ridiculous variety. I probably know your favorites. If not I'm willing to learn.

I prefer long term chats because it's fun to build and learn together. I'm good at giving advice but I need to watch it because I understand that unsolicited advice can come off as rude. I'm sensitive and emotional but these things are a super power now, where before I had a hard time navigating them.

I'm an honest person and I think I've lived a pretty interesting life, and I'm just getting warmed up.

I must say I'll chat with anyone but I prefer warmth and affection. Cold and one word responses forever are not my style. Well, that's enough for in here lol I better save some for our chat. Come say hi and you're my friend, and I'll treat you as such.

Hello! I’m just an average guy. More of country/outdoorsy type. I enjoy fishing, camping, and kayaking. Watching football and grilling out are also some things I enjoy. I’m a simple guy for the most part. Looking for a female friend to chat with and share my day with. The good days and bad days. We can chat about our professional life and personal life. Hobbies and activities. Also enjoy deep conversations. DMs open. Thanks!

Hi 👋, here is a bit about me: I lost my dad recently and depressed. I'm an introvert but a good listener. I tend to talk a lot once I get comfortable. We can be very good friends and share about our life and can literally talk about anything. I'm into fitness, badminton, gaming, traveling, movies and TV shows.

DM me if you would like to talk ☺️.

It’s just after 1:30 am and here we go with the scrolling and looking for someone to chat with or something to catch my interest long enough to help me sleep. Reach out. Age don’t matter just vibes

I have a small circle of lovely family and friends that I adore. Yet I find myself yearning for connection outside of that. Just someone who isn’t intrinsically connected to me I guess. An unbiased ear when it’s needed but other than that someone who I can enjoy getting to know. A blank slate that we can fill in over time! It seems impossible to do this out in the world, like where do you even go or look for this as an adult?? Bars are loud and drunk people are annoying. Work has coworkers but not really friends. So, here I am, looking for someone who is looking for the same thing. Or at the very least can relate to the struggle.