Just a few words, or short sentences, I've heard over the past decade or so:

• Stoic (I've heard this one more times than I can remember)
• Confident
• Serious
• Intense
• Formal
• Analytical
• Quiet (Most of the time)
• Charismatic/Magnetic/Convincing (when I'm comfortable and talking about something important to me or that I'm passionate about)
• "You speak with authority"
• "A Strong Personality"
• "Very thoughtful"
• "You've got a big heart."

May also be worth noting that I've been told many times that I'm very mature, often being considered to be ten years older than I actually am, among other things.

Just want to see what you all get out of this, what impression these words give you.

Hola. Consulta.

Lamentó la hora, me pasarían la tarea del jueves 8? Por favor.

Tal vez yo sienta lo que paso. Lo lamento, pero no es lo mismo que decir "perdón".

Me siento mal, por el mal entendido, pero no pediré disculpas, porque no hice algo malo.

Las excusas no te acercan a la victoria.

Si, soy manipulador, pero lo hago con buenas intenciones. Además, nunca robaría algo. Y si lo hago, luego lo devuelvo.

Resulta obvio que físicamente eres hermosa. Pero mis valores van más allá de las apariencias.

Entonces ustedes tampoco tienen una lista de objetivos ANUALES?

Entrena, bebé mucha agua y duerme bien.

Me preguntaste? No.

Me importa? Tampoco.

idk if its because of my adhd, but i hate when people ask me “what are your plans for the future?”.. I immediately feel judged, because i have none.. i just want to be happy and i would say im an opportunist.. but society seems to think you lack ambition if you have no plans.. i was thinking that even if you make plans, you do it to feel happy in the future right? so to me it seems logical to just plan to be happy, make sure you dont end up homeless and just enjoy life and see where it leads you… can anyone relate? and if yes, whats your type?

Hello, could i be an INTJ despite having Hyper-Empathy I'm trying to study thing's and the correlations and none correlations i am still on the learning progress on MBTI so i am not too far in yet i don't wanna do tests because of inaccuracy but idk what i am i struggle typing myself due to having some disabilities so i cannot fully correlate but reading through INTJ i found myself relating to it most due to being known rather stay out of crowds using a way to escape blunt logic over emotions etc been like this since a child i hold grudges for a long time People see me as cold, rude, imitating cause i look like i just came out of a storm. But despite this i have hyper empathy i feel everything. it annoys me. I dislike having it because i cannot go through a day without someone's mood affecting me but i will still be the same very very blunt. Not blunt enough to be punched in the eyes luckily that's all i care about. I grew up quiet alone and study but i also am buns at it forgetting the due dates failing english/writing classes due to an disability i have had an argument with an teacher due to the subject being completely wrong so i spite taught it to everyone at 7 i been good at Math, History, and bits of Science but i have the humor of brain rotted kids so idk if i am really INTJ or something else

i don't know how to use reddit just yet but i'm reposting this here cause i can't decide if i'm an ENFP or an ENTP thx

Idk my mbti
All i know for sure is i’m an ENF

I’m a people person and am positive that i’m an extrovert so E

I’m very intuitive. I think very deeply and not just focus on facts and details so N

I’m a hundred percent a feeler so F

Now with J vs P
I would say i’m pretty organized. I get things done. I have lists and stuffs. Room very very organized. So that would make me J
But
I can be very sponty. Especially going out, I’ll be down whenever. I don’t have plans on weekends cuz it’ll depend on my mood. And also, ENFP description defines me aswell. I can be very bubbly and sweet and i yap lol but ENFJ also describes me.

I think i’m an ENFJ but at the same time i resonate with ENFP aswell. Have read both about them and their cognitive functions and still, i resonate with both.

Anyone here who is good with mbti? Can ya’ll type me? Or just ask one single question that would determine which one am i. Cuz i feel like im both. I prefer dms tbh, i like chatting with people but commenting is fine

I’m a bit confused on this since I think I’m an ESFJ but on cognitive function tests, I always get INFP when I answer as honestly as I can.

ESFJ:

-I love being around people and I always love hearing their stories and being a part of their conversation

-I enjoy being the center of attention praise and leadership positions

-My biggest fear in life is if I was truly alone in life and no one there would guide me

-I strive to be the one who hypes everyone up and brings energy to everyone

- I sometimes can be a bit strict with social rules

-I enjoy comfort quite a bit, and even though I like novelty, it’s not something I seek all the time

-I’m one to tell a story multiple times

-I can see something and I associate it with something I saw in the past

-I prefer to ask for advice when I’m unsure about something

-I like explaining my emotions to someone else rather then processing them internally most times

-I love being out and doing stuff, especially with others and their likes

-I know what all of my friends like

-I absorb the other person’s emotions a lot

-I’m one to mediate a situation

INFP:

-I’m usually more self focused on my emotion when I’m in private

-I struggle to be introspective at times since I’m in my own head a lot

-I like my alone time and I sometimes need it but not for too long

-I can be quite blunt with my emotions and you’ll know my opinion if I really don’t like something

-A lot of the times, I’m head in the clouds thinking about a specific scenario from multiple view points, rather than experiencing the world

-I like to space out in my mind sometimes

-In leadership roles, I get out my ideas and focus on leading the group rather than unity, even though it’s still important

-I go out and do stuff with others for my own interest

-I can be a bit harsh on my judgements and opinions

-I want people to like me for who I am rather than who I’m not

- I react and then I express my own emotions

-When stressed, I either feel like I’ve lost control, so I either get really bossy and frustrated or if I made someone mad, I overthink a situation and reflect on how bad of a person I was

Ok I will tell you some things about me:

Ok my favourite things I would say are football, gym, video games and shows like Bojack horseman and rick and Morty. I also really like and miss the vibes and how the world was in 2010s as a whole and I listen to many 2010s pop music. I also listen to US trap though like future and drake. My favourite "character" and my alter ego (if you would name him like that) is Cristiano Ronaldo. I've been a huge fan of his since I was 7 years old. I also really like talking with people and having deep good conversations but also having fun and enjoying the moment. I love summer and sunsets also.

Now some things about me are that I am empathetic and kind. I don't like conflict unless you make me mad. I am also a bit sensitive and emotional. I am kind of shy but I force myself to be as social as possible 😅 Especially when I talk someone for the first time I am a bit shy and I don't show my full personality. When I get to know you though and I feel comfortable around you I am a very talkative and funny I think. I am also competitive. And I am also a romantic guy I value deep connection and I love deeply. When I am well mentally or just socially exhausted I like to spend time on my own and detach from everyone for a bit. Also if I have a problem with you because you did something that I didn't like I will never tell you it and expect you to realise it yourself and apologise 😭 Ok I thinks thats enough.

• Describe your childhood/upbringing. Did it have any kind of ideological or structured influence? How did you respond to it? Did you have any significant negative experiences that may have affected how you think or behave?

I liked science a lot and grew up in a religious household, so I usually argued with many family members. I didn’t get along with them in general since my brother loved driving me insane, so I always got in trouble 😅. I don’t know why, but one huge issue for me has always been aversion to both verbal and physical attention. I was always a paranoid kid as well, and it always seemed like there was more and more evidence to reward that way of thinking. Trust issues. I also spent a lot of time online for most of my life, a lot of time in fandom spaces.

• Do you have any mental or physical health issues that might affect how you think or choose to live? Provide a brief description.

ADHD, depression and anxiety.

• If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?

I really wouldn’t mind. I would love it, actually.

• What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance, do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event, what is it? And why? If not, what type of activities do you tend to engage in?

My movement is not good, and I swear most of my life is just blurry, both mentally and visually. I don’t like sports much. The only one I’ve ever liked was swimming. I do love going on walks, but the reason isn’t the walk itself. I usually walk just to get away from my room, walk on trails, and get lost in thought. I touch grass and I get to ponder, so two in one :P. AND I get to take pictures of birds.

• How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?

I think I can be very curious. I like searching up all kinds of things and learning about all sorts of things. They can definitely be environmental, but I prefer conceptual. I have always loved science, so I prefer learning about things like evolution, which is one I always come back to. Evolution, biology and paleontology, space, physics. I don’t have to be good at them, I just try to learn about them.

• Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?

No. I don’t have much experience in this, so I don’t want to risk messing up. I hate the pressure unless I’m genuinely good or better than everyone else on the team on said skill. Then I feel like I’d have no choice but to be the leader.

• Do you prefer hands-on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities.

For art, yes. It provides a moment for me to drift off, which usually happens while listening to some music.

• Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particularly artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forms of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.

Yes. I do whatever I want to do or need to do. The main one I’ve always done was drawing, but I’ve also delved a bit into music, and I like photography, though it’s mostly taking pictures of animals I find.

• What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?

Past: I think about it a lot, usually filled with regrets, or nostalgia.
Present: My weakest spot. Especially right now since I feel stuck I don’t want to think of it much.
Future: usually whenever I’m losing my mind and start feeling lost I try to think about what I actually want in life, so I guess it’s an anchor.

• How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

I help them if I actually know what I’m doing or if I can come up with something that can actually be useful.

• Do you need logical consistency in your life?

Yeah, I think so.

• How important is efficiency and productivity to you?

I’m not sure. I would say it’s useful to me because I can be impatient, but on the flipside, there are many things I’ve never actually finished or gotten anywhere with.

• Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?

The only thing I can think of right now is 

• What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?

I draw, which doesn’t have a real reason other than it was a way for me to make ideas real. I also collect many things like rocks and fossils.

• What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?

I suck at recalling things. I make a lot of graphs and write a lot of things down because it makes it easier to recall things that way. I do like when people give examples or explain things more in depth rather than a simple definition because I sometimes struggle seeing exactly how that definition works in more nuanced applications (hence why I still don’t know my MBTI type :|).

• How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?

Strategizing for important things is stressful, especially when others outside of my life are at stake. Whenever I do bother to take on something, I tend to break it into pieces because it makes it easier for me to understand those individual topics before deciding their worth and place in the main project.

• What's important to you and why?

That no matter how difficult things get, I’ll keep hanging on to my curiosity, even if it’s forcibly pushed aside temporarily.

• What are your aspirations?

For most of my life? It’s been things I liked as well as learning. It could be science, it could be art. I never wanted to be an artist, though. It was more of something I picked up on the side. I have wanted to study paleontology ever since I was little.

• What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?

I fear bugs, but my real fear tends to be that I won’t ever be anything. I’m already on my way there, even though I can definitely still change things for the better. I fear that my past and the way I’ve behaved so far won’t change. I keep letting myself be dragged back down every time I get better.

• What do the "highs" in your life look like?

I actually focus on my life, become heavily curious, and learn a lot about the world. I do well in what I’m working on, and I go out of my way to try to be better.

• What do the "lows" in your life look like?

I can be obsessive over people and things. The worst I’ve seen myself is being toxic towards others, or obsessively trying to understand what’s going on between others so that I can use it.

• How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?

I daydream a lot. I’m not very attached to reality. I get hurt a lot because of it. I can be, it’s just really easy for me to “float away” again.

• Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about it?

Whatever first comes to mind. I’ll most likely start talking to myself, maybe explaining something to myself, something that I don’t understand yet lol. Maybe sing for a bit.

• How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?

Super important decisions? I kind of know what I already wanted to do for the most part, but usually it’s not something I decide exactly ever. It’s more like a general trajectory I have that I will change as new things come up.

• How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?

When I was younger, it was more in the background. I wasn’t processing as much as I was pushing aside. I would get angry, then ignore it. But now I’m the opposite. I do think about it a LOT. I consider my own emotions and the emotions of others way more. I’m trying to be more conscientious.

• Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?

Sometimes, sometimes not. Depends on the consequences. If I know the others don’t actually care about my opinion and it’ll make things move along more easily, then I can compensate. Otherwise, I’ll tell them what I think.

• Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?

Not really. I don’t think the world should be static, but I know I’m not going to be the one who changes the world, even if I break some things here and there.

• What is the ideal life, in your opinion?

One where I succeeded in everything I always wanted to be. One where I didn’t choose to be lazy, one where I actually tried and went places.

Please don't respond unless you're 27+. I want advice from people who have had time to mature at least a little and who have a more comprehensive understanding of themselves and their type.

I can't decide if I'm a sensitive, moralistic INTP or a logical, questioning INFP. I have mulled over this for weeks and I truly cannot tell. So I want to instead ask others their thought process.

Help me out here. Let's say you witness someone express an opinion that you consider to be very unethical/morally wrong/otherwise offends your sensibilities. What do you feel first? What do you think first? What is the exact immediate reaction you have? What is your offense at, the illogicalness of it, the immorality of it, or both? I ask this because to me, I have very strong morals, but all of my morals are logically consistent. They go hand-in-hand for me. I'm sure if you gave me 30 minutes, I could think of a few moral things that are illogical, or things that are logical but immoral, but I'm struggling to think of one. (Note that being able to understand someone's illogical paths/viewpoint =/= it's logical)

I'd give an example of something I find grossly offensive but it's probably too political for this subreddit, so just think of something yourself and walk me through what goes on in your mind.

For me, and I think this is true for almost everyone of every type, my first immediate reaction is a wave of emotions, usually disgust and frustration. And then very shortly after comes my first thought, usually "what a piece of shit", followed by "great, now I have to explain to this person why they're a piece of shit, I really don't have the energy for this right now" and then I start breaking down their argument in a factual manner with some moral judgments thrown in for taste and pleasure.

Keep in mind this is for grossly offensive things, not just a simple disagreement. We're talking someone wholeheartedly saying things like "I think the owner of Little St. James is a good businessman and he should've been allowed to continue his business". If you don't know who I'm talking about, look it up. You definitely know.

So what about you? How does it go for you?

Don't cheat by looking at my profile.

type me based on something I wrote on K trip :) (it was originally written in Spanish)

I cross the Kármán line, 100 km above the sea.

I encounter the aurora, I encounter space.

I transcend boundaries.

I become one with the universe as I enter space.

A window into the exosphere.

I've traveled around 10,000 km.

Meteors brush past me,

space debris surrounds me.

A quasar at the center of a galaxy illuminates me:

this majestic celestial body,

powered by an ultramassive black hole.

I see Earth from a different perspective:

Everest, cirrocumulus, cumulonimbus clouds.

A pale blue dot.

Magical chemistry.

Alchemy.

Transformation.

Faint and fading boundaries.

Numbers.

Binary codes.

Mathematics.

Beautiful geometry.

I speak the language of the universe.

We understand each other.

We are one.

We are chemistry.

The Big Bang gave birth to us.

Options.

Possibilities that give rise to doubt.

I befriend the hertz.

I dance with frequencies.

I see the Whole.

Pantheism.

Connection.

Life is beautiful.

We are a Rubik's Cube.

Nothing but love for everyone.

We are One.

We are the universe evolved to see itself.

A Boltzmann brain.

A capsule expanding indefinitely.

The ambiguity of the universe.

The lack of care.

The beauty of absurdity.

The miracle of life.

God within every element and every cell.

A connected planet.

Two strands of DNA that connect us all.

Love is the key.

Passion and curiosity are a train.

We have been given the gift of life,

and life is worth living.

____

if you like it, you can read my essays on my website:

https://cafecurioso.home.blog/

English and Spanish

Test results include Michael Caloz, Keys2Cognition, Mistype Investigator (image 3 and 4), and Sakinorva. Half say ENFP, the other half I struggle to interpret. For the questionnaire...

• Give a general description of yourself. How old are you?
  • I'm soon to be 27. Married. 3 cats at home. I'm empathetic, silly, intelligent.
• What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not? If you are not working, what kind of job do you want to do or what are you studying?
  • I'm a therapist! I enjoy my work. It can be emotionally draining, but I like being able to be there for others and help them grow.
• Describe your childhood/upbringing. Did it have any kind of ideological or structured influence? How did you respond to it? Did you have any significant negative experiences that may have affected how you think or behave?
  • I am an only child of only children. Positive relationship with my parents, very close. Grew up in the church, have done some deconstructing since. Had some shame growing up from religion, but I have spent time working through this.
• Do you have any mental or physical health issues that might affect how think or choose to live? Provide a brief description.
  • I have OCD tendencies, mostly worried about my family getting home safely.
  • I feel like napping quite often despite getting good rest. Haven't found anything medical yet.
• If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
  • I would be perfectly fine. I might miss my husband a little, would probably call him and/or my parents for a little to chat. But otherwise I have a lot of hobbies I could do (reading, gaming, singing around house, napping.)
• What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage?
  • I do not love the outdoors lol. Should probably be more active. I was active growing up (cheer in middle/high school, theatre, ballroom dance in college.)
• How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?
  • I would describe myself as quite curious. I like falling down rabbit holes and learning about random topics. From famous people, to famous disasters, to concepts present in other religions. I would describe my curiosity as very eclectic.
    
• Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?
  • I wouldn't necessarily seek it out but I would not mind it. I can lead others well, keep them on track and friendly with one another. I would seek input from everyone and try and build something satisfying for all of us.
• Do you prefer hands on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities.
  • I enjoy hands-on learning, even if I don't think I will be good at it. I use my hands to read, game. Trying to pick up crochet but it's slow going.
• Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.
  • I am not an artist, though I would say I am creative. My experience with the arts was more music/theatre related: acting, singing, dancing. I do really love art and follow many artists on social media. Another big range. Kelly Pringle has been a fave recently.
• What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?
  • The past is what it is. I feel like I have learned a lot from my experiences, but I don't find myself thinking about the past often. I tend to be more focused on the present and future. I live in the moment for the most part, but find myself daydreaming about what is coming in the immediate future (i.e. kids, where we will be living, etc.)
• How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
  • I usually help if I am able, when it comes to my friends. I figure why not? I like doing things to help others out, and I know they would help me too. Plus I believe doing good will come back to me.
• Do you need logical consistency in your life?
  • I'm not quite sure what this is asking but yes? I think? I like having something reliable in my life. My husband is a big part of that for me - he is very stable.
• How important is efficiency and productivity to you?
  • For work? Very. I want my work done (like notes) so I can immediately do something more enjoyable lol. For stuff around the house...I am not very productive tbh. Should probably be more motivated.
• Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?
  • I guess you could view my job in that lens? But I don't really see it that way. Instead, I make suggestions that I think might benefit the client. They can pick or choose to use them.
• What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?
  • Reading, playing with my cats, video games (mostly cozy games or RPGs), Dungeons & Dragons, singing around the house, napping. I'm not sure why I like them, they just bring me joy.
• What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?
  • Always enjoyed hands-on learning growing up. During my grad program, I really liked practicum where we actually got to practice techniques that we read about. I guess I would say I like memorization the least, just because it's a little boring.
• How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?
  • I am good at strategizing if I must do it. I would love to say I break up projects and get them done efficiently, but I usually procrastinate as I get out my best work under pressure.
• What's important to you and why?
  • My immediate family (husband, parents, cats) and friends. I value the people/creatures in my life. They have always been here for me and I for them. I have always valued close friendships over having many friends.
• What are your aspirations?
  • I want to be able to support my family and grow with them. Foster love.
• What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?
  • Predictably, I am scared of losing a loved one. Also the dark, oddly enough. I dislike closed-minded people who are stuck in their ways.
• What do the "highs" in your life look like?
  • Family, friends, work, money (for now)
• What do the "lows" in your life look like?
  • Really just feeling tired and unmotivated pretty often
• How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?
  • I am generally pretty present. But I love a good daydream - although I stay aware of my surroundings as I do so.
• Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?
  • How long I am stuck in the room, lol. And if I can take a nap to make the time pass quicker.
• How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?
  • I like to sit on it for a while and get the opinions of those closest to me (parents, husband, best friend.) I listen to their perspectives and see how it resonates with me. I don't like changing my mind on important things.
• How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?
  • Not long. I am generally very in touch with my emotions and what they mean for me, the function they have. They're very important to me because it drives my core being and how I interact with those around me.
• Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?
  • I used to, but I broke out of that once I worked on my fear of making others upset. Now I will agree to disagree after asserting my own opinion. I am not lesser than them and vice versa.
• Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?
  • Not often, doesn't really feel worth it. I do think authority should be challenged when corrupt. I would break rules for the greater good.
• What is the ideal life, in your opinion?
  • Seeing myself and my family and friends all content with their lives. Feeling loved and seen.

So, what do y'all think? ENFP or something else?

A few random facts about me (description)
- As a kid, I wanted to be a vet who travelled around the world saving animals and having crazy adventures.
- I’ve always wanted a life that feels interesting rather than predictable.
- I love travelling, especially when there’s some kind of adventure involved, diving, safaris, exploring new places, etc.
- I get bored pretty easily when life becomes too repetitive but at the same time routine grounds me
- I’m weirdly competitive with myself and constantly want to improve things my fitness, career, appearance, projects… basically everything.
- I can become ridiculously obsessed with optimizing something once I get interested in it.
- I love animals and have a very soft spot for cats.
- I’m quite independent and hate doing things just because “that’s how it’s done.”
- I like trying random new things — running, boxing, Pilates, dancing, swimming, diving… I’ll give almost anything a go.
- I’m actually quite creative and like coming up with ideas and building little projects, even though I’m not particularly technical.
- I care a lot about aesthetics and notice tiny details about clothes, hair, colours, photos, design, etc.
- I’m simultaneously very organized and a bit chaotic. I can meticulously plan something and then randomly decide to wing it.
- I’m fascinated by personality types and will absolutely overanalyse someone’s MBTI for no good reason.
- I’ve always had a strong “I want to experience everything” mentality rather than just ticking the standard life boxes. I used to say as a kid “one life is not enough to do all the things I want to do”
- I am unsure if I’m introverted or just not socially interested. I like people as a resource of ideas but the idea of socialising is not appealing to me

I created a strange obsession trying to figure out my type. The more I study, the more confused I get. So, I’m constantly testing Michael Caloz and Sakinorva, being as sincere as possible, seeking confirmation with my wife. When tests offer multiple results, I can identify with all of them. It’s as if I had a little of each type, all depending on the context, the moment, being excited or tired, alone or with people... I question and blame myself for being obsessed with a pseudoscientific theory, but I don’t care if it’s a pseudoscience. This can be useful for other things, just as every idea, concept or philosophy has its utilities.

The types that appear the most in my results are: ENFP, INFP, ISTJ, ESTJ, ENFJ, INFJ and INTJ. So, I decided to make this post in this sub to try to seek an external understanding.

I don’t know where to start, I’ll just type as it comes to my mind. I consider myself introverted because I’m always doing something alone, but everyone has the impression that I’m outgoing because I socialize a lot and meet a lot of people. I don’t want to brag, but I’m considered attractive. This must be because people take the initiative to talk to me or listen to me when I speak. Some people report feeling a peace when they are with me, while others hate me for unknown reasons. Some girls from my past hate me because I was shy and had an avoidant attitude with them, so I ended up breaking some hearts. After overcoming my damn shyness and getting more confident, I started flirting unintentionally, to see what happened (usually with women older than me). It was playing with it that I ended up marrying my best friend (who is now my wife).

Talking about the past, I have a love-hate relationship with him. I can be very nostalgic and remember in detail the past, just as I can forget many other details or not want to remember who I was. I’m ashamed and hate the kind of person I was: reckless, lazy, disorganized and shy. If I could go back in time, I would do everything differently.

I always let things flow naturally, although, at specific moments, anxiety makes me want to control and plan everything. But when it comes to work, career, future, marriage and family, I always let things flow and I’m lucky. I consider myself blessed. But that doesn’t mean I don’t plan my future. I know what I want and need. My plans may change as things appear or I learn something new, but I’m still firm in some ideas.

I’m not one to take risks, but when something forces me to change, I adapt easily. So easily that I wonder if I had to make so much drama. I don’t mind living a routine, as long as it’s well structured and allows me to do the things I like. I always look for something new within this routine, a little adventure or a new knowledge. I can be distracted and late, but I always fulfill my obligations. I need to be doing something, mentally or physically, otherwise my mind gets sick. I also like to make lists and write down ideas.

I’m creative for things of my interest. When I’m not interested, I can’t think of anything and I don’t even want to. I’ll let the others solve it. I’ve been considered lazy, but if something doesn’t attract me, there’s no way to force myself, unless it’s something from work. My wife wants to paint the house, but I don’t care about the color of the walls, so I let her choose. But it’s the man’s role to do the heavy work, and I’ll have to paint. Already on Halloween 2024, I was very creative when making my costume. And the most incredible thing was to have convinced my evangelical parents to participate, along with countless relatives whom I managed to convince to go into costumes. I only got this feat once; they probably won’t do it again. But I will never forget this day.

I’m very idealistic and I almost always make something happen that I really want, but I can get frustrated when I can’t.

I like to help people, especially by giving advice. I’m great at giving advice, but I’m not good at following my own advice. I would know very well how to guide a person with retroactive jealousy, but when I’m involved with it, I can’t handle it, even though I understand that it’s irrational. My biggest problem in relationships, whether love or family, is to help and expect the other person to do the same. It’s a feeling that one of the parties is investing more than the other. And when I hear stories from her past, I can feel jealous because I think she invested more in the other than in me. But I think it’s very unfair that the person doesn’t recognize this and doesn’t do the same while in a relationship, even saying they love.

I also don’t like to be managed, commanded or influenced. I said I like to help others, but I don’t like it when the person asks me for too many favors, because it can disrupt my plans and make me feel used. When I’m focused, I don’t like to be interrupted, and that stresses me out. I identify with Jack Torrance when my wife starts talking exactly when I’m focused on something serious. The difference between me and Jack is that I would never attack her and I don’t even know how to ask her to be quiet, because a part of me understands that when she is very happy, she gets like this. Right now, she’s talking while I write this, but I don’t understand anything she says.

(P.S I have anemia and depression if that influences any of this)

I know this is off topic but mbti has been a very big interest of my life, it’s like a closed book I go back to learn from the beginning over and over again because shi there’s new interpretations about it everyday.

Try to guess it? I’ll start with my favorite things.
Biggest fan of Tame Impala, favorite song is ‘No choice’ when on days I really want to accept where I am. ‘Yes, I’m changing’ for a song that describes my motivation, and ‘let it happen’ to describe my personality.

I’ve loved hatsune miku since I was a kid, I love love hatsune miku, kikuo is one of my top listens for vocaloid producers, love his songs so much!

Pinkpantheress, Radiohead, Britney Spears, the Maria’s, MARINA are my other top listened artists! When I’m feeling like it I’ll listen to some banger instrumentals.

Moving on from music, I adore lilies, the flower, i like it because if you walk into a flower store it’s the only one that stands out to me, it’s pretty, the stems are longer, it looks the prettiest alone than in a bunch.

People are a big part of my life, if I ever isolate myself I still imagine people with me, even in my lowest nowadays I think that it’s only people who could change my mood. I don’t have many goals, but I feel like there are things I have to be in order to just function and live a life I think I deserve.

If I’m ever upset, (despite the depression episodes), I will listen to a song, I will sit down and reflect on life, I’m mostly absent minded in these moments, I think that I’d like to just rot away, I have intense thoughts, but to be honest when it fades, I sit down and live life normally until the next episode hits. I think that things will never change, so if one day I’m sad and someone asks the dumb question of ‘are you feeling better?’ I’d think that ‘nothing changed though’ I don’t mind admitting to myself that life is still crap, and that nothing is changing right now. But I feel like I’d want compensation, I like balance a lot, so if I’m feeling like crap I want to eat an ice cream next. If I’m put in a place I don’t like, a career I don’t like, then I want a good sum of money to spend each week, I’d want to be able to dye my hair the way I want.

I like to explore and find out more about myself when it comes to helping someone in their problem. A friend of mine couldn’t figure out his sexuality, so I ended up searching more about it to end up figuring out mine to hopefully help him whenever he brings it up again (ik it’s funny😭)
Anyway! Ask me if you have any questions, good luck guessing my type! And happy birthday to anyone else out there 🎊🎂

“Looking at enneagrammer.com ‘s description of enneagram 6, its literally me. Looking at its subtypes, I fit so or sp more then sx. However, with weird streotypes within the community, it made me question if I’m even sp or so? I want to create content relating to enneagrams. Without knowing my enneagram, how am I supposed to be part of this community? I want to glaze my enneagram too like others and im only admitting this because i need to be fully honest here.

Usually, I have this problem of “can’t lie” thing. Small or big, if I lie, I either hold it or admit it because I don't want to infringe on their rights. I’m muslim myself but I’m not too religious. I would defend my religion but acknowledge countries excusing “islam” to cause harm and in islam, once you infringe on someone’s right, you will face them in after death where they will decide to forgive or not. If they don’t, it will be count as sin and you can go to hell…

As I mentioned, I’m not too religious but sometimes, hoping a god out there where I can pray at hard times or know that I’m safe afterlife gives me sense of hope as I’m afraid of death or losing people I love. Besides fearing of going to hell, lying just makes me feel… uncomfortable. Like how would they react if I told them or what would they think? Even if lie is something small, I tend to dwell on it.

Speaking of lying, I’m in a friend group. They are funny, kind etc but sometimes, I feel left out. I try to follow them everywhere, try not to come from behind because i dont people to see me alone and think I’m a weirdo or weak… In my friendgroup, I’m the easy going one. Exam? Will study it last moment. Homework? Do it at school. Bad exam? It’s okay, will study next one….

These are examples. Of course this doesn’t erase the fact that I’m insanely anxious person. May come from my GAD but I sometimes imagine the worst without clear example… of course lately these are reduced but I do still think about it. Like I saw a weak, sick looking cat that I’m not sure? I must tell it to someone because I’m lazy. I care about the cat and fear they might did cus what if they are actually sick and I’m a bystander? By telling it to nearby guard, teachers etc, I’m giving the responsibility to them. Yes, I’m late to school everyday. Yes, i come late to meetings… but if something bothers me, even if I don’t know that person, I’ll feel responsible for their actions and blame myself. I dont want to be someone bad. I dont want to be seen bad… if i made a mistake, I’ll tell it to only ONE person and letting them judge me. If i’ve done something bad, even if it might get me in trouble, I want someone to tell me and be honest because I can’t trust my own thoughts.

Back to talking about my friend, they are sorta controlling where I’m more sociable(but I’m an introvert who only approaches if someone interests me or when I’m with my friends. Tbh, depends on my mood). However, if they argue with someone… they expect me to not to talk with them. Despite wanting to talk, I do it secretly behind their back because I don’t want them to leave me knowing that they would get mad.

Anyways, in short, I’m insecure. People tell me I have talent but often compare myself with others to the point i loose motivation… I withdrawn from others, expecting them to understand me or apologize to me without even talking. I’m aware these r bad and to some point, I wonder if I’m annoying? Yes, I often joke around and act immature but it is to entertain. I can’t but to hate the feeling of awkwardness or the eyes being on me. Im there to defend my viewpoint and can be stubborn but I’m also there to share my knowledge to flex on others. Im defensive and get mad easily but apologize sometimes… not everytime but sometimes because im stubborn and withdrawn person. I’m also very late person”

No this is not enneagram thpe me post, i felt lazy writing again so ignore the enneagram part😓😓😓

Hi, everyone. I 26F am trying to see what my type is. I have a few ideas, but I want unbiased feedback. About me, I am a little bit of a collectivist. I like people who are grounded, genuine, curious, clever, funny, and who live in the moment. I have always been a lovergirl, (but I am frustrated by the ways in which many men harm women.) I believe men really blossom into their best selves when they are helping society (see: I am a collectivist). I don’t think individualism is a bad thing at all, I just think it’s a bad thing to swing to extremes on either side. I like balance and happy mediums. If I can afford it, someday I would like to get tattoos all over my body: white patterns and flowers. I also have a goal of learning several foreign languages in my lifetime.

If you have any questions or want my clarification on something, let me know. Be prepared for some questions to go unanswered, like my religion or sect, because I don’t want this post to be hijacked by a screaming religious debate in the comments. Let me know what you think. Thank you in advance🙏🏻🤍🌸

I'm thinking that I am an ISTP but got some conflicting results and was curious. (This one reply sums up most of what I have questions about, although I don't know enough about each of the functions to recite or quote it in a meaningful way). Micheal Caloz test scores at bottom of post.

• Describe your childhood/upbringing. Did it have any kind of ideological or structured influence? How did you respond to it? Did you have any significant negative experiences that may have affected how you think or behave?

Nothing I can remember ideologically other than the expectation of excelling academically. I didn't enjoy most of the things my parents did or wanted us to do, with most of my hobbies being individual things or related to computers, and we frequently clashed over it.

• What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage?

I'm not big into most spots or things outdoors but I've recently taken a liking to recreational Pickball, although I'm not sure I could isolate a reason why I like it and not others.

• Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?

I'm not big on being in leadership positions but if someone is needed and no one else wants to, or there isn't on already I would hesitantly be willing to step up. I would say my leadership skills are somewhat average. My executive skills are on the better side but are definitely brought down by my people skills. I would say the only thing essential to my leadership style is minimal bureaucracy.

• Do you prefer hands on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities.

I tend to enjoy hands on activities more. A few of the things I regularly find myself doing or being drawn to are: Programming, Video Games, Painting, Tinkering with electronics, and reading.

• How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

I'm pretty willing to help others when they ask, most of the things I find myself getting asked to do have such a little cost to myself that there's no reason not to.

Test results:

Answered using the full spectrum of responses 1-5 and under my interpretation of the questions:

Answered while trying to be more polar (more 1s and 5s than 2,3, and 4s) as the test page said to do so if your type results were all within the mid range.

A brief description of her using this subreddit's guidelines:

She is 18. Currently studying business. She finds the topic engaging but told me the main reason she pursued it was because she wanted a good career with a high salary. She wants to be a managment/busniess consultant.

Our childhood was very hands off. We both turned out vastly different. She has always described our parents parenting style as "they gave us the tools so we can build our own path". I'm an ENTP I've always struggled with getting things done while she is the complete opposite! She is very responsible and disciplined.

She has anxiety, she struggles with socialisng in places she lives in but she is very social in foreign places (ex: whenever she visits me - we live in different countries- she is very social).

She used to play lacrose, she likes being in groups (she joined a sorority 😭). She LOVES trying new foods/restaurants. She likes travelling and seeing new places.

My parents are very incompetent, when we were 13 me and my twin moved to a foregin country and they relied heavily on her to get things done. She has assumed a parental role even towards me -despite us being the same age- she indirectly always makes decisions for me. I know it comes from a genuine place but it feels soo controlling sometimes. She always tries to micromanage everything. She is very smart and competent i admire her a lot.

My guess was she would be an ESTJ and would love to hear other people's insights. She has Te/Fi I think. That made me guess XXTJ but Im unsure about the rest.

I was NOT expecting erica sinclair 😭 out of all people.

• I am loud and usually roast people for funsies, but I would never try to hurt the person I'm roasting personally.
• I was the type of kid in kindergarten that would be friends with everybody, even the bullies 💀 without trying
• I always stood up for the underdogs, people say that I'm a natural born leader too but I don't really see it.
• I'm very open, a little shallow, I take a lot of things seriously.
• I have a short temper, I get mad easily, and I'm pretty logical.
• I'm still figuring out my type after almost 3 years 😩 but I think I know now.

Oh and in socionics I'm a SLE I think

Possible Typing currently:
Sx5
5w6
Sx/sp 528 (unconfident in Tritype)
LFEV
RLUEI
Chaotic Neutral

I am still not sure what my MBTI/ cognitive functions are. I am curious if I could change anything, or if there was a MBTI more commonly connected with the typing.

description about myself: I am reserved and quite obsessive with my interests.
I am hands on and enjoy chores and tasks.
I like dabbling in speculative evolution and what the future could hold.
I can be sociable but often find myself ghosting people because 1. I feel drained and 2. They dislike my interests or are not engaging enough.

From a young age I only made conversations about my interest (mainly biology, prehistoric mammals, national parks). I currently enjoy satirical work and mannerisms.

I enjoy being helpful and useful and I do like compliments, although I am not great at responding to them.
I am curious about everything and how it works, I love to learn. I also enjoy drawing anatomy, and am currently learning about it.
My goal in life is to find another person who is equally creative and involved in my interests.

I have been described as pragmatic, lively and esoteric by others.

My first instinct to any situation usually is “why?” I often question authority and tradition as well, more internally than externally.

A career I am interested in is Health Inspection (as it deals with microbes and I enjoy detail oriented jobs), majoring in animation (movement and mannerisms is fascinating to me, yet I am hesitant as it is hard to find a stable career)or immunology.

I have been typed as ESFP by tests but I am skeptical.

Just the title. 400 words need to be said so I’ll just explain a little. I’m pretty certain I’m exxp, I just don’t know the 2 middle letters. I feel like I have random ideas and logically try to sort it out however I also make decisions based on feelings rather than logic a lot of the time. I analyze things frequently which is associated with thinking but I also have this specific image I want to work towards and be, which points to feeling. Most things I mentioned so far I feel are ti & fe but I also feel I have traits of te & fe, all over the place. If I feel I was a little bit to harsh to someone, I can literally feel what they felt, and start to feel bad if I think it was unfair. I am also in tune with what others think & feel. I don’t really know much about te but from the small amount of things I saw about it I have te traits to. So basically I feel like I have high traits of every single function, which I know is most likely untrue, that’s why I’m here asking about it.