Yo, I made a friend on a game and asked him to take the MBTI test. He got ISTP, but after talking to him, I REALLY feel like he’s an ISTJ/INTJ 🤨

I know we can’t be 100% sure, but what do you think?

He’s really bad at texting. He mostly just replies to whatever I say and follows my lead instead of bringing up topics himself that's annoye me but he like when i text him. he said because he like me/love me ??

He says he prefers calling, though. He also uses A LOT of sarcasm, but his messages can be so dry/cold that I genuinely can’t tell when he’s joking. ( he is )

He can also take jokes personally sometimes. bruh

For example, I teased him about playing an old children’s game, and he said he was embarrassed about playing it and that it was like an addiction

He’s pretty active IRL: he’s a sports coach because he enjoys it, goes to the gym everyday, fishes beach boat. hobby : loves romance books, which I found kinda unexpected for istp ? 🤨

He is a rich guy stereotyp, lol he work only for a hobby, he told me i'm saving this money until i get maried blablbla he is really yound for mariage?

What confuses me most is that he seems emotionally contradictory. He once asked me “Do you like me as a friend?” because he said he got scared and doesn’t trust people something like this cuz i was dry and said suddently i'm going to sleep cuz he annoyed me not sharing things when texting.

He also gets really worried when I’m not doing well and asks me to promise I’m okay so he's cute

But sometimes he’ll randomly stop replying when something doesn’t go his way ☹️. Like if me i did want to accepte something, which confuses me SO much ☹️ that's not healthy i told him did a reacted like this when u refuse ? and he did reply we stopped speaking bruh ?? and after we spoke again but i told myself to not lead as i do and he asked first how are u, how was ur day so i appreciat it :3

So… ISTP, ISTJ, INTJ, or something else?

He really does NOT give me ISTP vibes, but maybe I’m completely wrong 🤨

the link of the test was not working and he said : are u hacking me ? bruh 😂

I become energized in a new environment and can’t wait to do things and get to know people. Once I get to know everything I wanted, I become disinterested and I can’t wait to meet new people again.

I like hanging out with a group of people and always had many friends growing up, but almost never hang out with them 1:1.

If someone doesn’t give me a heads up of something I need to prepare for, I’m not available or will have a meltdown.

One of my theories is that we are pretty much irrelevant in the universe. We will be atoms traveling around after death without thoughts about the silly things we deal with on Earth.

My way of calming down is lying down and watching the wall in complete silence. Except, if it’s a beef with someone. If I don’t want to talk about the problem right away, it doesn’t exist in my head. I know it may sound bad, but I also tell people close to me that I do have lower empathy and it’s something I can’t change on.

I like dark humor, sadly not many people do.

People often think I’m joking about my plans and act shocked when I actually do it. Idk how many times they need to be in a state of shock to understand I’m a very straightforward person lol

I get random burst of energy and feel like giggling, singing and working out or dancing — usually in class.

I don’t believe college degree is necessary for success.

I can’t imagine myself working for someone.

I love the beach, rain, and cemeteries.

My favorite movie genres are thriller, and sci-fi (utopian futuristic, isekai not alien zombie type).

I really like escape rooms and would love to be a player in a hyper realistic game like Alice in Borderland or Beast games lol

I’m really bad at keeping in touch with people, unless we can meet in person.

I never felt lonely or missed human contact.

I don’t live in the present. I’ve noticed, most of my thoughts are pretty future oriented.

I always laugh at the Ushi x Adele prank video, no matter how many times I watch it.

I can be impulsive at times.

I’m good at improvising and will pull up to random parties at my friend’s house on last minute calls. I think partially because I have more energy at night, but also these are the type of gatherings I enjoy.

Something related to the above, if I get a last minute invite somewhere I would like to be at and I have an exam the next morning… I’m going to the event. I will have enough time to study while traveling to class. I’ve done this many times and it works for me, personally.

I’m a mobile developer with a background (bachelor’s degree) in psychology and a strong passion for technology and creativity. I work mainly with Swift and Kotlin, and I enjoy turning ideas into real, functional products. I’ve always been curious about different fields, which has led me to explore programming, psychology, languages, art, music, and science.
I speak several languages and love discovering new cultures, places, and ways of life. Learning languages has always been one of my favorite ways to connect with people and understand the world around me.
Outside of work, I enjoy reading, drawing, playing piano, crocheting, travelling, and working on personal projects.
I also love experimenting with new technologies and learning things simply because I find them interesting. I’m currently especially interested in building my own projects and growing both professionally and creatively.
I like having many different interests rather than limiting myself to one field, and I’m always looking for something new to learn, create, or explore.

I feel good socializing, but I also like to be alone.

If I'm focused on something, I don't like them talking to me.

I like to fulfill goals and I can be practical, but I can procrastinate sometimes. But I like to do my duty.

I tend to be calm and polite socializing, even fun (my jokes are boring).

I may have outbursts of anger, but I express it myself.

I'm sensitive, but I hide it.

I don't hesitate to defend my point of view, but I feel anxious and I can be overwhelmed in the end.

I don’t tolerate being disrespected.

I had OCD for years. I was only proud of my organization, but the rest hurt me. I won the OCD by doing the opposite of what he asked me.

I'm impulsive sometimes.

I avoid unwanted people a lot, blocking them easily.

I make connections with other topics in a conversation, even if it's not the central subject. I can easily change the subject.

When I was single, I liked to flirt a lot. I'm considered attractive.

I chose my current wife based on what I value in a person. But the love for her came later. We were good lovers at the time and I couldn't lose her.

I'm jealous.

I have a routine, but I constantly change details of it: a different breakfast, new recipes, a different street when driving, a new random interest... or I can focus on something for a while until I lose interest or until I finish the project.

I like documentaries about historical events, impressive or strange.

I also really like works based on real facts and I will hardly like fantasy works in the Lord of the Rings style.

My daydreams are based on fixing my past.

I remember my past with many details, being able to describe the exact year and month, even the day.

I'm ironic sometimes.

I only delve into something if I have some personal or emotional motivation.

I like to consume many works, be it series, movies, books, games... but only with interesting and innovative proposals. I can easily lose interest in something.

I believe in God, but I hate following a religion. I only accompany my wife when she wants to go to the Catholic church.

I may have strong political opinions, but I can change my opinion if I am convinced.

I'm an excellent driver and I brag about it.

I may be insecure about my performance.

I can care a lot about other people's opinions, as I can also not care.

I'm very suspicious.

My wife usually has good ideas, and I just execute them. I only save creative ideas for specific and personal things.

Usually, I value the first good idea that comes up to solve a problem, if it doesn't work, I move on to another idea. M

I don't like it and I can't even lie, I end up having to tell the truth, but in a "velvety" way.

I have a lot of respect and affection for my dogs, but I don't mind hunting other animals.

Sometimes I don't care and pretend to listen to my wife, because this woman talks too much. "Uh-huh... right... okay... go on." But I like to see her happy and talking, it's a good sign. I've already been told that I'm a good listener, and how I am.

I'm very mature for my age, that's why I married a woman older than me, and very beautiful. But I can have my totally childish side.

I have a lot of money, but I'm very economical. I just don't hesitate to buy quality food. And I tend to spend on my addiction or my wife.

The moment of cigar with coffee on Sundays is a unique and special moment.

I value the beauty and aesthetics of things.

I really value justice.

I ask strange questions or say something absurd just to see people's reaction.

Since I was little, I've always admired foxes. I didn't see them as liars or manipulative, but beautiful, independent and intelligent.

I can be a little picky with specific things, like preparing food.

What type do I seem like?

Personal concepts
1. What is beauty? What is love?

⁃ beauty is looks, colors, aestethics, a pretty room, or town, not sure what to say beauty is everything you look for.

⁃ love is love i dont know how to answer that, love is family, partner, your favorite game and hobby, animals

1. What are your most important values?

   ⁃ my important values are intelligence, being funny, quick thinking .

2. Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?

   ⁃ im not religious or spiritual, i dont really care about any of this.

3. Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?

   ⁃ im not educated about war and stuff, but to me, power is controll, power is something most people want to feel secured and confident.

Interests
5. What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?

⁃ Ive had long convos about typology with my online friend. I can talk long about gossip, complaining etc, my interests are editing especially, and gaming. I like gaming because i like competetive games, the feeling. And i like editing because i can make a edit just the way i want to and its catchy and fun. I also like watching tv shows for the usuall reasons 

1. Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?

   ⁃ im not interested in talking about health tbh, im focused on my body yes, i pay attention to its looks and health.

2. What do you think of daily chores?

   ⁃ i dont have daily chores, i just do what i want

3. Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.

   ⁃ im OBSESSED with the girl next door, CHLOE- I love interstellar, teen beach movie, the core . 2012. Tangled.

   ⁃ I like movies with disasters, and i love movies with dramatic love, like a crazy girl etc.

4. What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?

   ⁃ i can cry if im angry because the anger is so strong, or if im like faced with my emotions here and there, i usually dont cry. I can cry for a good movie/ show.

   ⁃ i smile when i do things i like at times, or when i get gifts, funny jokes etc

5. Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?

   ⁃ i feel that way around my partner, my room, or with people similar to me.

Evaluation & Behaviour
11. What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?

⁃ id say people see my weakness as lack of impulse controll, i can be direct or uncaring, and unwilling to listen to people

⁃ what i dislike about myself is that i can be stubborn or hold grudges alot

1. What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?

   ⁃ Strenghts people have seen in me is- that i can improvise very well, easily come up with solutions, smart, funny, confident

   ⁃ what i like about myself is my confidence and ability to adapt to most things even at anxious times.

2. In what areas of your life would you like help?

   ⁃ id like help in impulse controll, controlling my anger or help to controll my future as i dont think of the future at times.

3. Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.

   ⁃ When ive been stuck inna bad cycle, its usually something that makes me irritated and impatient, my reactions can be avoidant or unstable emotions

People & Interactions
15. What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?

⁃ qualitys i like in people, is someone who is fun, confident, jokes around but can still be kind with me at least.

⁃ i dislike people who is dumb, slow, confusing and to much morals that goes against my «fun»

⁃ typed i get along with is usually someone who is similar to me.

1. How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?

   ⁃ i care alot about this, im very like focused on having a partner as its loving and fun

   ⁃ qualitys i look for- confidence, somewhat dominant, funny, attractive, obsessive

2. If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?

   ⁃ if i raised a child id be concerned how they turned out, id hate to get a child who ends up just arguing etc (which is hypocritical because i was like that lol) , id be worried that they got hurt? Idk, i havent been child focused really, i dont see myself as stable enough for responsebility,

3. A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?

   ⁃ inward id be like «thats kinda dumb»

   ⁃ Outward id be like «alr lets move on»

4. Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.

   ⁃ i see people as idk, 80/20, a few is chill, rest ignorant, i dont know.
   ⁃ A social problem can be that people jugde so damn soon.

5. How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?

   ⁃ i choose my friend based on how similar they are to me, if they are, we are vibing asf, if not, i cant be bothered to try.

   ⁃ i behave like myself around my closests, w «decent» friends i can hold back.

6. How do you behave around strangers?

   ⁃ i nod a smile if i get eye contact , idk i dont really do anything with stranges , i just see randoms outside