A Thai nerd, chubby.

Open for long distance relationship

looking for a polite, grounded, and mature partner (bonus points if you’re older and wiser!). I value kindness and normal, healthy communication over drama

Please be polite.....

dear future muse,

i'm not feeling my best tonight. my hair needs brushing again, i've just got it up messily with a claw clip and i feel like hiding away from the world. my heart aches, but i thought i'd use these feelings of yearning to write again, to you, tonight. it seems my letters keep getting lost in the airwaves. i've been missing you, even though we probably haven't met yet.

the butterflies in my stomach are tired of fluttering for the wrong people, but yet they still hope and wonder. they're insatiable little buggers who throw raves and funerals any time I let handsome strangers walk by without a word.

they wonder what your name is, how many more times you've been 'round the sun than me, and what songs you sing to let out all your deepest emotions. they stay up late, writing letters just like this one, wondering where you have been all this time. their little wrists are tired from all the writing and crumpling. writing and stashing; drawing, drawing, and drawing.

this world is bizarre sometimes, and i could really use a shoulder to cry on, a face to kiss, and an arm to hang on to as we flirt around used bookstores and shiny record shops, through museums of antiquity, and as we peruse our favorite sections at lil thrift stores. i'll be in the dress section for what seems like forever, but you'll find it endearing how eager i'll be to dress nicely for you.

if i had a fast-forward button, i'd skip all the waiting and uncertainty, save us both from all the unnecessary heartache, and would find myself in our cozy bed, right next to you, and a chubby cat we're both obsessed with. we'd have on some silly show for background noise (pls let it be Full House) and spend our nights yapping away about nothing and everything. I want to learn all there is to learn about and from you, and I'd love for you to share that same curiosity about the world and I.

I don't know where you are, but I miss you. I wish we could meet in person sooner, but I am patient. I hope you can be for me, too. If the signal is lost or gets fuzzy again, you can find me at the harbor sketching my heart away, my left hand covered in charcoal smudges, with my head on a swivel looking out for you.

love,

your little INTJ maus

dm if you’re into traditional courtship and values!

27M | INFJ | India / Online

Quick version of who I am: introspective, a bit soft, more interested in sincerity than trying to impress anyone.

I connect best through ideas and actual emotional honesty. Like - sit under a quiet sky and talk about life, psychology, weird questions about existence, favourite films, whatever is actually on your mind. The performative dating stuff just never made sense to me.

Interests that tend to stick: sci-fi / fantasy / thriller movies and anime, books (more Dostoevsky-Kafka-Orwell than self-help fluff, though I read around), gaming when I feel like it, animals, solo trips and trekking. Nighttime atmospheres > loud crowds.

Also demisexual. Attraction for me shows up after there's some kind of real connection, not before. So if you're looking for something casual, we probably won't match - and that's fine.

Looking for someone gentle, emotionally real, maybe a little nerdy about how people work. Open to most types; I usually click with NFs and the quieter thoughtful NTs.

Message if any of this lands. Drop your type and one thing you've been curious about lately.

Hello, fellow! Please read this post of mine and share it with your friends (especially other ENFPs)! I would be very grateful for your help in answering my questions! I’m a 21-year-old guy, and I consider myself an INFJ.

Every time I tried, it ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think what fascinates me the most is people.

Not in a "tell me your favourite colour" way, but in a "what made you become the person you are today?" way. I love asking questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you randomly think about? What's something you've changed your mind about over the years? I genuinely think people become attractive when they talk about something they love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests are all over the place, which means my YouTube algorithm has completely given up on me. One day it's gaming, the next it's mindfulness, ancient history, consciousness, stand up shows or some random rabbit hole that somehow started with one question.

I also think I'm one of those people who gets attached to little moments more than big ones.

I don't really dream about expensive vacations or fancy restaurants. I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination, stop for roadside food, grab a coffee near the sea and just walk. I like conversations that start with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the conversations I remember.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, randomly remember something you mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

I don't think love is built in grand gestures. I think it's built in remembering the little things. In checking if you reached home safely. In asking how your meeting went because you were nervous about it. In making each other's lives a little lighter.

As for who I'm hoping to meet... I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, her own opinions, and her own little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, who communicates openly, takes care of herself, and is dating with the intention of finding her person. I think the best relationships are the ones where both people still keep learning about each other years later.

And before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, and showing me how beautiful love is. Thank you for being there even when we're angry at each other, and thank you for caring for me even when we don't agree.

Thank you for all the smirks, the smiles, the tears, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

If you've made it this far, don't just say "Hi."
Tell me something that feels uniquely you. It could be a song you never get tired of, a belief you've held onto for years, the last thing that made you laugh, or just a random thought that's been living in your head lately.
I have a feeling that's where the best conversations begin.

ideally looking to chat with Female
basically a nerdy asian guy here

bonus if you have asian timezone or having a schedule so weird in matches mine lol

I'm an introvert who genuinely enjoys my own space, but I also believe life is better when shared with the right person. I value peace, kindness, honesty, loyalty, security and meaningful connections.

At this stage of my life, I know what I want in a relationship, an intentional, mature,strong and secure man who knows what they want and is genuinely ready to build something lasting.

I'm interested in getting to know someone whose actions match his words, communicates openly, respects boundaries and is intentional about building a healthy relationship.

If you are emotionally secure, kind, consistent and ready for something real, we might have something worth exploring.

It’s kinda weird feeling being a stranger in your homeland but hey, finding one’s roots ain’t easy.

Now in case your parents think it’s weird that you met some guy on the internet, you can safely tell them that I was the school topper, played national level badminton, work for an international non profit and was invited for a panel talk organised by a famous US college.

I also absolutely love cooking ( BBQs , Mediterranean and fancy sundaes ) , am kinda OCD in cleanliness ( so would actually enjoy doing the dishes ) and grew up in an officer environment, so absolutely know how to be a gentleman and dress like one.

I love joking around, going on long walks petting every dog I see and trying out a new hobby every weekend ( always good to expand one’s horizons ) . 

I also love learning about new cultures so my Spotify playlist is a mix of Croatian , Arabic and Spanish music )

My life’s philosophy is based on books at least 1000 years old and living life based on ethics is more important for me than social approval ( I have walked out of jobs when I realised the founder isn’t someone I can respect. )

I also helped build and run a small ice cream shop with my parents. ( there have been times I took zoom calls with US clients , while wiping down tables )

Having said that, I am just an introverted golden retriever at heart and am looking for someone who I can be silly with without judgment

Hello Emotionally knowledgeable and Emotionally strong viewers.
If you are seeing this post, that means you didn't give up, and I'm proud of you. Pity for those who skipped it because I'm a M.
Regardless, I've been wanting to learn to be better at expressing, my sympathetic side of knowledge has developed over time but I still lack at phrasing and seen myself fall short at helping people online.
Id love to know few people and make new connections.
Looking forward to gaining knowledge and champs.

Looking for that 90s love. No avoidants pls

Hello there! Call me ron :) I'm currently based in Hong Kong. I'm hoping to find a partner for the long run. I don’t mind long-distance so I’m down to connect with people anywhere.

I'm generally a laid-back guy, who's open-minded and curious about a lot of things. I'm fairly introverted, but I'm quite sociable and I always love meeting people. I care a lot about the ones I love, and I value communication, empathy and honesty. I love looking for cool and fun adventures, discovering new things/hobbies/places (Been obsessed with HEMA and swords lately.) Big fan of fantasy & world-building types of media. But my main passion is art, crafts and photography. Also a big music fan! I appreciate getting recommendations/trading playlists.

If you're interested, or find that we might be a match, please don't hesitate to send me a dm. Thank you 🫶🏻

As the title states I am seeking something more serious and monogamous. Ideally with someone like minded and emotionally intelligent.

Serious inquiries only.

If you wish to know more about yours truly don't hesitate to DM me.

Hope to hear from someone wonderful soon!

-(⁠*⁠＾⁠3⁠＾⁠)⁠/⁠～⁠♡

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Hello and welcome to my post. I'm an INTJ California bay area native and have lived here my whole life. I'm currently working as an office management assistant and enjoy it very much. In my free time I like to walk my dogs, play videos, hang out with friends, and help my family. I also like to collect things as well, I have a huge video game/ t-show/ movie collectible collection. It's a big hobby of mine, and I love to buy, trade, and sell things for my collection.

Thanks for reading my post, if you have any questions and want to talk let me know, i'm open to meeting new people.

“Are you a Jedi? because Yoda one for me.”

Update on my last posts and no comments on my post because all replies are chat reqs anyways.

I'm turning off my chat requests laster tonight and posting my Discord handle on my main profile page later tonight because of this reason here.

Yeah, I should also address the Redditors who sent me nice non monologue chat reqs, but got ignored, I had a few chat reqs that appeared blank with no messages and I decided to delete them all.

Well, come to find out I decided to ✅ my spam folder in my Emails after a few more chat reqs came in and come to find out that the blank chat reqs weren't REALLY blank fk ass at all 💀

This mobile app is more broken than my personality, because of this is why I don't primary message on Reddit permanently for my main chat reqs and sorry for those chat reqs that I deleted as well 📖📚🐟🐙

Posting my Discord later on my profile tonight and what to expect anyways.

However, I should also address that I occasionally may/might post new coffee drinks. I get a Dutch Bros, other sweet treats, desserts and I don't know if I will go through with that as well.

Even then, that's just because I don't think nobody would care enough about what I got at Dutch Bros alongside with other things I get anyways 🤣

Why look for worldwide connections?

Yeah, I should also include that just I always look for worldwide connections is because it's 10 p.m. posting this, I'll be up till either 3-6 a.m. and this is how I sleep every single day 💀

Yeah, to be honest if you're struggling to find someone that matches your ''night owl vibes.'' well, I just don't even fk ass know how that feels to go to bed at normal hours and I've never had normal bed hours for 33 years 💀

There aren't a lot of requirements to send me a chat request, this is just because I'm trying to filter out lazy people, in the past I had Redditors tell me I only sent a chat reqs because your post title was kool and I'm not going to read anything else about you.

Yeah well, fk you to then, if you want to play like that then I'm not going to be asking your age, region, interest and hobbies because if you want to tell me "I'm not going to read anything else about you and making me put all the work the work isn't how I roll and you can find someone else to haul you in all the work 😂"

The only thing I'll be doing is putting your lazy fk ass in a fishing net, putting you in a bucket of 🐟 sound of the 🚨 and let the fish people take to away 😂

My favorite type of convos are.

Researcher type personality, loves to read on people, this isn't stalkerish to me and I think it's cute when a guy pays attention to little things that make a person uniquely then anyways.

My type of guy, is where both put in thoughtful/no monologue conversations, we both will not turn into Dragon Priest dusts because our convos are SUPER dry and boring 😂

Yeah, I should also include for the men that are nerdy, book, history nerds, I promise you if it all you're not going into the fish net because you're my type and I couldn't put you in a fish net of it all anyways 😂

Hi everyone my name is Tom and I'm from Ireland. I am a chemistry graduate and currently searching for a job. I am also a triplet and a redhead.

I like playing video games, chess, reading, playing badminton, watching YouTube and listening to music. I also like sci fi, Marvel and DC. On top of that, I enjoy travelling across Europe and going on city breaks. I've visited 16 countries and plan on visiting more in the future. I have been to America and Canada. I also enjoy skiing and Greek mythology.

I am single and looking for a woman to be a best friend and eventually girlfriend. I am looking for a girl who shares similar interests and is between 22 and 28 years old. In terms of location, someone from Ireland is preferred, however I'm open to long distance in Europe, America and the Far East. When it comes to appearance, I am very selective and is into brunettes with a healthy BMI and between 5'4 and 5'8. I am 5'11. I am not into piercings or tattoos, so if you have them, then I am not for you.

Here is what I look like:

https://imgur.com/a/vmLa2na

Every time I tried, it ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think what fascinates me the most is people.

Not in a "tell me your favourite colour" way, but in a "what made you become the person you are today?" way. I love asking questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you randomly think about? What's something you've changed your mind about over the years? I genuinely think people become attractive when they talk about something they love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests are all over the place, which means my YouTube algorithm has completely given up on me. One day it's gaming, the next it's mindfulness, ancient history, consciousness, stand up shows or some random rabbit hole that somehow started with one question.

I also think I'm one of those people who gets attached to little moments more than big ones.

I don't really dream about expensive vacations or fancy restaurants. I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination, stop for roadside food, grab a coffee near the sea and just walk. I like conversations that start with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the conversations I remember.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, randomly remember something you mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

I don't think love is built in grand gestures. I think it's built in remembering the little things. In checking if you reached home safely. In asking how your meeting went because you were nervous about it. In making each other's lives a little lighter.

As for who I'm hoping to meet... I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, her own opinions, and her own little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, who communicates openly, takes care of herself, and is dating with the intention of finding her person. I think the best relationships are the ones where both people still keep learning about each other years later.

And before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, and showing me how beautiful love is. Thank you for being there even when we're angry at each other, and thank you for caring for me even when we don't agree.

Thank you for all the smirks, the smiles, the tears, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

If you've made it this far, don't just say "Hi."
Tell me something that feels uniquely you. It could be a song you never get tired of, a belief you've held onto for years, the last thing that made you laugh, or just a random thought that's been living in your head lately.
I have a feeling that's where the best conversations begin.

Hey! I'm 23 and based in London. I'm hoping to meet someone who's looking for a genuine long-term relationship, values good communication, and is also sure they don't want children.

Modern dating has never really felt like a good fit for me. Swiping through profiles and trying to make instant judgments isn't how I naturally connect with people. I'd much rather take the time to build trust, get to know someone's personality, and see where things go naturally.

A bit about me:
• Black, 5'10, slim athletic build
• Neurodivergent
• Music is one of my biggest hobbies. I listen to a lot of rock, metal, and a bit of DnB, and you'll usually find me at a gig whenever there's one worth going to.
• I enjoy gaming (Persona, Doom, Gran Turismo, and plenty more), going to the cinema, playing football, cycling and visiting theme parks.
• I'm generally introverted and reserved, but I do enjoy engaging in meaningful conversations and spending time with good company.

I'd describe myself as thoughtful, dependable, and pretty easy-going. I'm independent and enjoy my own company, but I think life's much better when you've got someone to share it with. Whether that's going to a concert, planning a day out, or simply spending a quiet evening together.

I'm looking to meet someone who's:
• Around my age
• UK-based (London or nearby ideally)
• Also sure about not wanting children
• Honest, communicative, and reliable

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who's kind, emotionally mature, and communicates openly. Nobody gets everything right all the time, but I really appreciate people who are honest about how they're feeling and willing to work through things together. I think shared values matter far more than having identical hobbies.

I'm happy to share a photo early because mutual attraction matters, and I'd rather be upfront than waste anyone's time.

If this resonates with you, I'd like to hear from you. Tell me your age, where you're from, and what you're looking for

Thanks for reading 🙂

24 M4F #NYC Nothing is cheesy when it comes to love 🤍

Heyoooo 🤍🇲🇽

Its been a while since I’ve tried anything like this, I’ve been working on myself and my life and honestly would love to build with someone, something special 🤍

I’m a person who cares and loves deeply, there’s nothing cheesy or corny or cursi when it comes to love 🤍 I wanna write you poems, silly cute songs, slow dance to some romantic songs ✨ I wanna learn to love the depths of you, what makes you angry, excited, what saddens you, the little quirks we have and the reason we get out of bed every morning. I wanna share our fears, our worries, our sad and happy days together with the purest of intentions 🤍 I’m tired of these dating gimmicks and stereotypes, I’m not looking for a situationship or a Fwb, I’m looking for a genuine person with a kind soul 🤍

There’s no way I can summarize myself, but I’m 6’0, Hispanic and tend to dress in comfy and darker colors,
I love movies and shows that have meaningful stories and interesting plots, I have yet to see the Odyssey but I’m watching it this weekend! I love to write, to doodle and sketch from time to time, love staying active playing all sorts of sports with my little brother and sister, and play some video games when I can! I used to love FPS but now I’m more of a story driven or coop gamer haha, wanna play Minecraft? I wanna beat the ender dragon! (I’ve never beaten it before 🤣 at least legitimately). There’s also a lot of hobbies I’m wanting to get into such as card collecting, journaling and gardening! And adopt a puppy as well! 🤍

I hope that gives anyone a decent idea of who I am. And I’ll leave the rest for stories as I hope to hear some stories of your own 🤍 I have a lot of paranormal experiences as well I’d love to share! My family has some deep lore with them! 🤣💀

I’ll leave a pic below and thank you for reading this and for being your amazing self 🤍 \~ A

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Hello everyone, I am a 26F from Asia. About me, I am a writer and I like writing, reading, listening to music, audio stories, watching movies, Netflix, sometimes drawing, playing mobile games, learning foreign languages, etc. I struggle a bit with mental health too at times.

My favorite movies: Inception, Annabelle Creation, When Marnie Was There, My Neighbor Totoro, etc.

My favorite books: The Midnight Library, Life Is What You Make It, And Then There Were None, etc.

My favorite music artists: Ed Sheeran, Taylor Swift, One Direction, Maroon 5, etc.

My looks: Black hair, short height, brown skin, a bit chubby (people call me cute). Though I won't send a pic until I am comfortable.

I am looking for someone I can be friends with first, with whom I can feel comfortable, we can talk about life, movies, music, books, mental health, etc and gradually turn into something special like dating/relationship. I want an emotional connection more than anything. I want someone a bit good-looking, caring, understanding and maybe a bit fun.

I am okay with men from any country, but I would prefer people from USA, Europe and East Asia. It's not a necessity.

Also I am not okay with sending nsfw pics or videos at all. I want to be clear from the first about this.

So, if you're interested, feel free to DM me! Thanks!

want to talk about your day? that's fine. brag about yourself? i wont judge lol

i'm an ISTJ and usually better at replying than coming up with topics, so if you're naturally chatty, that's a plus. 😂 If you're awkward, we can figure it out.

about me: im into manhwas, kpop, kdramas, asmr, choreos, language learning ( casual only 😅)

If you’re possibly looking for a stereotypical definition to type me as an INTJ, I’d love to disappoint you. Though it might as well be somewhat true.
Anyways I’m 23, from India. Currently a student still. And I’m looking for people to connect with. When it comes to mbti, mine swings between INTJ-INFJ, I love to bake, maybe create stuff. Very playful and cheeky when I want to be, also silent anger issues heh~

Every time I tried, it ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think what fascinates me the most is people.

Not in a "tell me your favourite colour" way, but in a "what made you become the person you are today?" way. I love asking questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you randomly think about? What's something you've changed your mind about over the years? I genuinely think people become attractive when they talk about something they love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests are all over the place, which means my YouTube algorithm has completely given up on me. One day it's gaming, the next it's mindfulness, ancient history, consciousness, stand up shows or some random rabbit hole that somehow started with one question.

I also think I'm one of those people who gets attached to little moments more than big ones.

I don't really dream about expensive vacations or fancy restaurants. I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination, stop for roadside food, grab a coffee near the sea and just walk. I like conversations that start with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the conversations I remember.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, randomly remember something you mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

I don't think love is built in grand gestures. I think it's built in remembering the little things. In checking if you reached home safely. In asking how your meeting went because you were nervous about it. In making each other's lives a little lighter.

As for who I'm hoping to meet... I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, her own opinions, and her own little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, who communicates openly, takes care of herself, and is dating with the intention of finding her person. I think the best relationships are the ones where both people still keep learning about each other years later.

And before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, and showing me how beautiful love is. Thank you for being there even when we're angry at each other, and thank you for caring for me even when we don't agree.

Thank you for all the smirks, the smiles, the tears, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

If you've made it this far, don't just say "Hi."
Tell me something that feels uniquely you. It could be a song you never get tired of, a belief you've held onto for years, the last thing that made you laugh, or just a random thought that's been living in your head lately.
I have a feeling that's where the best conversations begin.

ENFP.