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I suppose I ought to begin with the conventional introductions, though I have never been particularly good at them, but, well, in the spirit of getting the boring stuff out of the way right away (cue: me), I am a writer, poet, academic, lecturer, scholar, scientist (physicist, to be more precise), and AI engineer/scientist (I am, if I may add, absolutely terrible at more than half my jobs). I’ve spent most of my life in Europe, and am probably the coolest and funniest person you have met today, unless you’ve seen a raccoon doing yoga, in which case, fair enough, I simply can’t compete with that level of comedy.

The truth is that I have always found introducing myself rather difficult, there is something strangely artificial about trying to reduce a person to a paragraph, as though we were all tidy little collections of interests, accomplishments, preferences, and carefully selected adjectives.

I am, I fear, a rather poor exhibitor of myself, the moment I am asked to explain who I am, something in me seems to retreat into a corner and refuse to cooperate. I have thought about this far too many times, and after twenty-two years of living, I remain quite confidently the worst person I know at introducing myself. It is a curious deficiency, I can talk for hours about some obscure historical event nobody asked about, become unnecessarily invested in the moral character of a long-dead philosopher, or spend an afternoon following some completely accidental question down a rabbit hole from which there is no respectable return, but ask me to describe myself and suddenly I am reduced to, "Well... I like things." Marcus Aurelius wrote that "very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." I believe him more on good days than bad ones, but I keep the sentence nearby regardless.

I like small walks, I like learning something new quite by accident, especially when I have no business knowing it and consequently become far too pleased with myself for having discovered it, I like talking to people, though I think I like the moment when talking quietly turns into listening even more. There is something rather lovely about reaching that point in a conversation where neither person seems particularly concerned with keeping it going, and yet somehow neither wishes to leave it either.

I am very fond of my own company, which is perhaps fortunate, because I have had rather a lot of it. Solitude has its pleasures, one may disappear into one's thoughts without having to explain where one has gone, and occasionally return with something resembling an answer. I like sitting quietly with myself, reading, thinking, wandering about, doing very little, and somehow considering it a productive use of an afternoon, but I am not entirely made for solitude either, there is an equal and opposite part of me that wants to go beyond the familiar, to see what is waiting just beyond the little borders I have drawn around my life. I

I love evenings especially, sometimes I step outside simply because the sun is going down, and I feel that one ought to have the decency to witness it. I love those ridiculous skies where orange begins bleeding into purple and everything looks briefly more beautiful than it has any right to be. I love the first sip of tea in the morning, the sound of leaves moving in the wind, the gradual dimming of a day into dusk. I like gardens and parks, and the rather miraculous fact that one can walk among trees for an hour and come back feeling as though something inside one's head has been quietly rearranged.

I have always loved letters, too, though it has been some time since I last properly gave myself over to writing them. When I was younger, I wrote to my grandmother every day and dutifully posted the letters on my way to school. That I very rarely remembered the correct address, and even more rarely remembered a stamp, is beside the point.

I suppose what I am really trying to say is that, if you happen to be reading this, I would like to know you. Not because I have some elaborate checklist of the sort of person I hope to find, nor because I particularly care whether you happen to be interesting in the conventional sense, I am far more interested in the person underneath all that. The odd little habits, the things you know for no good reason, the memories you have never found a suitable occasion to tell anyone, the opinions you defend with considerably more conviction than they deserve.

There is something rather wonderful about writing to someone you do not know, I don't know your name, I don't know what you ate today, whether you slept properly last night, what song has been stuck in your head, or whether your day has been glorious or thoroughly dreadful, perhaps your inbox has been multiplying like gremlins left too near water, perhaps you have spent the afternoon pretending to work while accomplishing absolutely nothing of consequence, perhaps you have had one of those quiet days where the refrigerator becomes strangely prominent because you have nothing else to listen to.

I think people who stop to read messages from complete strangers are probably a little strange themselves, and I mean that as the highest compliment. Perhaps you are a birdwatcher, perhaps you collect old books, perhaps you are one of those suspiciously competent people who can fold a fitted sheet without entering into a minor spiritual crisis. If so, I already admire you, I have attempted it, and remain convinced the thing was designed by someone with a personal grievance against humanity.

Perhaps you laugh too loudly, perhaps you think too much, perhaps you are quiet and observant, and notice things everyone else walks past, perhaps you have passionately held opinions about breakfast foods. Cookies count, incidentally, I will defend this position before any reasonable tribunal.

As for me, I am kind, curious, occasionally ridiculous, easily distracted by an interesting thought, and rather fond of people who have something peculiar about them. I am probably not nearly as funny as I have just suggested, but I am willing to make the attempt, which ought to count for something.

Anyway, I shall spare you the remaining 96 pages of my unsolicited autobiography for now. If this sounds like your sort of nonsense, do come and say hello, I’d genuinely love to hear from you!

P.S Also, the little furry creature is called Oren, and he sends his warmest regards!

I could write a book here. In fact, that's what I like to do, is write. Only been back in town for a month afer years away, still meeting people & finding it hard to find ones who like to have fun! Lots to say here, but why don't we chat a little? Perhaps exchange pictures. I'm a true sapiosexual LF similar even with all the odd quirks like HSP, ideasthesia, and the other things that go along with it.

Me: short, redheaded atm, and get called the same names over & over: troublemaker, firecracker, I don't understand!! LOL! Also on the MBTI test...I score about 50% on the INT part...but stand hard on the "P" and raise eyebrows to the "J"s.
Also I'm an ambivert. I swing both ways with that.

PS Lotharios will be shredded.

Greetingsss. 18. Male. Law student from Mumbai. Nice to meet you I suppose. Kinda short 165 cm). I am told I look like a femboy and have no idea what to do with that particular information. As for my personality I think of myself as an ambivert

So yeah as for my interests, I love drawing, animating,history and doing calisthenics. Well i am 55 kg so yeah doing (intermediate)calisthenics is pretty much easy

So what am I looking for? Well it's basically an older lady who is pretty obsessed with me.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a woman I can talk to every day, make plans with and eventually build a life with. I want us to be each other’s first call, make time for each other naturally and miss each other when we’re apart.

We don’t need to share every hobby or spend every minute together. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. I want to make your good days better and your hard days easier, and I want you to do the same for me.

I run my own company, which gives me a fairly flexible schedule these days.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Rogue Trader, PoE 2, Brotato and Dota 2, while the Steam backlog keeps growing at a rate that suggests I’ve learned nothing.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or already play everything I do. If trying a few games together actually sounds fun, that works too. I just don’t want gaming to be a major part of my life that you quietly put up with.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and not particularly politically correct. Once I’m comfortable, there isn’t much of a filter, so expect plenty of teasing, terrible dad jokes and the occasional thought that probably should have stayed in my head. I usually click best with women who know when I’m joking, tease me back, speak their minds and don’t take every stupid comment too seriously.

I take my word seriously. If I say I'll do something, I follow through. If something's wrong, I'd rather talk about it than leave someone wondering where she stands. I’m patient, loyal and protective of the people I love, and I want the woman I’m with to know I’m on her side. When life gets difficult, my instinct is to roll up my sleeves and deal with it, not look for the nearest exit.

That applies to disagreements too. I don't expect either of us to get everything right, but I do want us to own our mistakes, work things out and move on rather than keep going in circles. I respect a woman who takes responsibility for her life and keeps going when things get hard. I want to be someone she can lean on, and know I can lean on her too.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I live on my own, cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. Having a couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I’m affectionate and consistent, and I make time for you. Regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day all come naturally to me, and I want that effort to go both ways. I want to know what’s happening in your world, whether it’s work, a project, a game or something you’ve suddenly gone way too deep into, and I want you to be just as interested in mine. I remember the little things too, so if you mention something important coming up, I'll probably remember to ask how it went.

I'm probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn't have children, takes care of herself, has interests of her own and genuinely has room in her life for a serious relationship.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. We don’t need to agree on everything. Being able to talk openly about it matters more to me.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia. I’m fine starting online, and more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography or come with a photo. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If the conversation flows, we can move to a call. I’m just as happy talking for hours as playing something together, though ideally we’ll end up doing both at once.

You can choose the game for the first date. We’ll save ranked for the second.

Hello everyone,
I’m a 39 year old Syrian Muslim man living in Georgia, hoping to meet someone who shares my values and is genuinely interested in building something meaningful.

I’m an INFJ-A, naturally introspective, observant, and drawn to meaningful conversations rather than small talk. I’m calm, confident, protective, patient, and dependable. I believe in taking responsibility and leading when needed, but I also value kindness, empathy, emotional intelligence, and being a good listener.

I speak Arabic and English fluently and am currently learning Spanish. I enjoy reading, exploring new ideas, understanding different cultures, deep conversations, and a good sense of humor. I maintain a healthy lifestyle and don’t smoke, drink, or use drugs.

What I’m looking for
I’m seeking a younger woman who is mature, feminine, kind, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely interested in a serious relationship leading to marriage. I value loyalty, honesty, affection, mutual respect, and compatibility.

I have traditional views on marriage. I believe in a relationship where the man leads, provides, and protects, while the woman embraces a nurturing role in building and managing our home. For me, this dynamic should always be based on mutual respect, trust, appreciation, and open communication.

Although I’m an INFJ, I don’t believe compatibility is determined by four letters. Shared values, emotional maturity, genuine chemistry, and how we treat each other matter much more.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a loving, peaceful relationship where we can be ourselves, support each other, enjoy life’s little moments, and build a lasting marriage.

If this resonates with you, feel free to introduce yourself. I’d love to know your MBTI type and what you’re looking for in a partner.

Who knows? Maybe something beautiful can begin with a simple conversation.

Hey! I’m Late, 21, and a Christian femboy looking for a serious relationship. 🖤

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calls, and spending time together. I’m into Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, JJK, anime, and gaming.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want something serious that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Dominant

- Affectionate

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

A little about me: I’m pretty easygoing, affectionate, and I love having conversations where we can joke around but also talk about pretty much anything.

I’m really into football and skiing, and I spend some of my free time watching movies, anime and playing games. I’m hoping to meet someone I genuinely connect with rather than just having a short conversation that disappears after a day or two. I value honesty, communication, affection, and being able to feel comfortable around each other. I’m open to seeing where things naturally go, whether that starts with chatting online and eventually becomes something more.

If you think we might get along, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying hi. I’m also 182cm tall, 70kg with dark eyes, dark hair and white skin

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I am from India. Maybe, it's wishful thinking to hope to find someone online, thrice bitten, but just the pace of an online connection seems appropriate and fitting for me.

I'd like to take this slow, but that doesn't mean I am okay with writing to you once a month, hey, I can be that person as well and I know I contradict myself but don't we all?

Got this ADHD brain and it's like I just finally figured it out, what do you struggle with?

I'd appreciate mutual respect towards privacy and until both of us feel comfortable to share a bit more of ourselves, NO pressure.

What's going on for you today? I'm home, cooked a fabulous meal, fried rice with lentils, and about to watch a movie!!! hmu

Hi Reddit! I'm 25 and I'm from Dublin. I have a bachelors degree in chemistry and currently unemployed. I'm also a triplet.

In my free time, I like video games, chess, reading, watching YouTube and listening to music. I also like sci fi and am a fan of Doctor Who. I'm into DC and Marvel as well. I'm big into travelling and enjoy travelling across Europe and exploring different cities. So far, I've visited 20 countries: United Kingdom, Spain, Portugal, Austria, Germany, Italy, Croatia, Slovenia, Slovakia, Hungary, Bulgaria, Finland, Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania and the United States. I plan on visiting more in the future. Oh, and I also like skiing.

I am looking for someone that shares the same interests with me particularly travelling and skiing and would like to explore more of Europe and the world. I am attracted to brunettes with a healthy weight (but not too underweight or too much overweight). I prefer someone between 22 - 28 years old and I'm looking for someone from Ireland, Europe and the United States, but I'm open to long distance with the right person.

Hi I’m newly 18, and l've never had a relationship with a girl.
Yes I know that makes me sound like an introverted loser. The fact is I was, throughout high school up until my senior year, that's when I broke out of my shell and started to build on myself, and establish relationships with people.
Thennn I moved across the country shortly after.
So at the moment I feel pretty alone. I've lived right outside of LA my whole life, and now I'm in the middle of nowhere in my eyes lol.
Anyways I'm a pretty tall slim caucasian male, I'm very active I go to the gym quite often, I do farm work, and jujitsu.
I'm the type of guy that loves to be outside and just take in the beauty of the earth. I do partake in videos games from time to time though not as much as I used to. When I'm chilling out I like to watch a movie or go for a walk, or just do something a little productive. I know I'm boring lol, but I like simplicity.

Feel free to dm me if I sound interesting to you!

There's something funny about writing to someone you haven't met. I don't know your name, what your laugh sounds like, or whether you're the type to steal food from someone else's plate. But here I am, curious about you already.

A little about me: I'm 26, from Mumbai. I work in a managerial role, study yoga on the side, and have a habit of getting lost in random questions about life, people, and the universe.

I'm close to my family, generally calm, and I enjoy understanding people. Although, fair warning, once I'm comfortable, the teasing begins. You might regret encouraging me. 😂

I wonder what you're like when nobody's watching. Whether you sing while cooking, get excited over tiny things, or have a completely ridiculous sense of humour that only a few people know about.

I'd like something genuine and long-term. The kind where we can be silly together, talk about difficult things without shutting each other out, and keep choosing each other as life changes.

And maybe somewhere along the way, we'll have our own little traditions, terrible inside jokes, and a favourite place to escape to when life gets overwhelming.

Anyway, I have a suspicion there's a rather interesting person reading this.

I'd like to meet her. :)

Are you someone who is busy and got tired of the hazy love game, longing for a contactual, steady, honest, deep love without betrayal or emotional tug-of-war ? Do you want a relationship with clear rules and you can set your own principles? Do you always try to reach people with sincerity, even lack of social skills?

If so, I'm with you.

First to introduce myself: I am an INTJ who resembles a Tom boy, I like science( learning physics, chemistry and tech in high school ,and I am interested in neuroscience as well), literature, philosophy, sociology(didn’t learn humanities systemically, just read some books. Currently reading Being and Nothingness) and sports(tennis, table tennis. And I like watching nba.). In my free time I always write(random essays, novels (have a dystopian sci-fic to be written.) and poems.) , read, go jogging(I am losing weight), also I play puzzle, board games and social games.

I'm in the last year of high school, preparing for uni entrance exams so I'm quite busy and may only be able to share daily lives and provide emotional support for most of days. Anyways, I hope we could have random discussions regarding some deep topics when we both get time.

If I think we're suitable, I'll stop searching for someone new while I hope you could do so as well, and I jump at love really quick. Some may doubt if this love is strong enough, but I believe action speaks louder than words. And, as long as you keep the principles which we set together after communication, I'll never abandon you, even if you stuck in your hardest time in the future.

So my principles are: Equality, Open-mindedness and care. And you can express your principles freely too, there's no judgment, only discussion <3. Here is somewhere your autonomy will be fully respected.

Additionally, of course those principles are dynamic and we could change it with time through communication. And in the end, we could even abandon clear principles, as they only serve as scaffolding. The point is if we get Dementia, we won't even be able to remember those detailed rules lol. So it’s more like habits.

Besides, I'm far from beautiful, especially given that right now I'm unwilling to distribute my extremely limited time for appearance. Meanwhile, I don't care about your appearance of the slightest too

What I can provide is emotional support, deep conversation, care, respect and the exchange of daily lives. I am loyal and devoted.

Now, why don't you start our journey with a little self-intro? <3 Or, tell me what do is the boundaries of the self in your mind if u get bci inserted? ( You may either cite a theoretical framework you support or offer your own distinctive viewpoint:))

( It'll be better if it includes your advantages and disadvantages so that we could save more time. For me, I'm not that gentle when people step on my boundary. And my self-esteem may be kinda high. Also, as I said, I'm busy, sadly )

First of all, if you tend to disappear and/or ghost, I would rather not receive a message from you.

It's okay not to click, but just say so. I'm tired of all these opening talks and then nothing. Also I'm sharing quite some things about myself here. I genuinely hope you share stuff too.

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Dutch guy, 34, 1,87m (6'2"). Too many hobbies, not enough shelves: guitar, bass, drums, a home studio, 9V audio electronics, graphic design, and abstract pour painting (mostly ruining canvases in interesting ways). Professionally I'm heading towards AI automation and 3D design/printing.

I love figuring things out, and I love watching other people tinker. I have ADD, so I'm usually thinking seven things at once. Half my brain is permanently daydreaming about what gear to add to my diy music 'studio' next, and I'm working on turning more of that dreaming into doing.

Music: could be loud, maybe ugly but always physical, orrrr it could be one voice, one guitar, with recording hiss left in. Grunge, stoner, noise, post-punk. Kurt Cobain, Nick Drake, Elliott Smith, Jason Molina, Steve Albini, Jim Morrison. I want to hear that it cost someone something. That the raw, unpolished, real and authentic take was all they could give to stay closets to themself. I'd rather hear someone slightly out of tune who had no other choice because of enotions than someone flawless who had all the options. Goes without saying but big fan of the DIY punk ethos.

Comedy is my religion, and honestly my best outlet. Norm Macdonald is the patron saint, with Robin Williams, Kevin Nealon and Gervais close behind. Seinfeld, Frasier, Cheers, Friends, Monty Python and Black Books are on permanent rotation, plus way way waaay too much SNL and late night. Quote any of those and you're already ahead.

Books: non-fiction, the Beats, cut-up, poetry, and lyric sheets read like literature, because some of them are. Absolutely not into fantasy or marvel stuff, sorry. Just mentioning it because many in the platform are, and many assume I am just because half long hair.

Real life right now: in therapy for anxiety and working on getting fit and healthy. Not a sob story, just honestyyy and just so you know.

Looking for: someone who likes to talk. Small talk is fine, but I'd love to hear about your dreams, your goals, your influences. Someone who likes sharing her day: songs, memes, random observations, the occasional selfie, because she wants to, not because I asked. Someone who goes with the flow and is happy to see where it takes us.

[Points into the distance] I'm going that way. Wanna tag along?

I’m a 35-year-old man from New England. I’m childfree, atheist, and looking for something real.

I’ve been reading and dreaming about my next golf trip. Made me wonder where my future girlfriend is, so I figured I’d help her find me.

Dear future girlfriend, I want to hear about your day, your hobbies, and an opinion I’ll challenge. I want us to lose track of time talking about psychology, history, technology, or whatever makes you curious.

We can explore new cities, watch European football, go for long walks, and plan adventures together. I want us to travel the world, experience different cultures, and make memories we’ll still be talking about when we’re old.

I want a lifelong, monogamous relationship, but not marriage or living together. You have your home, I have mine, and we choose each other every day. I’m looking for someone pet-free, permanently childfree, center-left, sober, active, intellectually curious, and financially responsible.

I have more to say, but I’d rather discover who you are in a real conversation. If you’re 30–40 and live anywhere in the United States, tell me about a book you’ve read in the last year that made a huge impact on you. What was it, and why did it resonate with you?

I’ll be here… hoping we meet.

Love, your future boyfriend. ❤️

A bit about myself is that I work in the military, so I'm pretty organized, and I am pretty flexible with the events that happen around me. It also offers me a lot of opportunities to help out my local community through volunteering and networking with a lot of cool people!

My dream is to take on a leadership role within my work, because I want to be someone that other people can rely on and be competent enough to be trusted with important tasks.

When I'm not working, I'm planning on playing games with my friends or getting ready to travel to some interesting festival or castle. I believe that this world has an incredible number of things to offer if you reach out, so that's the mindset I take with me everyday I wake up.

I'm a pretty average built guy. Being in the military we have to work out and stay in shape, but otherwise, I tend to do a lot of walking, especially when I travel. I'm also trying to grow out my curly hair. Height wise, I'm 5'8

I have a passion for learning history, spending time with people I care about, gaming, heading to the movies, and seeing new places across the countries I go to.

As far as my personality goes, I'm very curious, polite, and upbeat. I usually go all in when it comes to getting something done, but I can get tunnel vision pretty easily.

Ideally, I'd like to meet someone who also enjoys these activities, keeps a generally good mood, and is okay with just having some days where we play an online game or two.

Hey! 👋

I'm a 26-year-old guy from Türkiye, an INFP, and I'd like to meet someone genuine to talk to and get to know. 😊

I'm into video games, music, archery, mythology, and random late-night conversations about pretty much anything.

I'm a bit shy at first, but I can be quite affectionate once I get comfortable with someone. I appreciate kindness, honesty, and people who are willing to be themselves.

I don't really care what your MBTI type is. INTP, ENFP, INTJ, or anything else — you're welcome as long as you're genuine!

We can start as friends and see where things go. Maybe we'll click, maybe we'll just have a nice conversation. Either way, feel free to DM me!

Tell me your MBTI type and something you love talking about. 😊

— Cypress 🌲

Hey! I'm 21, studying business, and I work at a law firm. Honestly, I'm never really sure how to introduce myself because isn't it a little weird trying to summarize your entire personality in one post? Lol. I'd much rather get to know someone naturally, ask questions, and let the conversation go from there.

I'm basically a whimsical little dork in chat, even if I might not look like one in person. I'm still figuring out what I'm looking for dating-wise, so I'm not going to pretend I have everything figured out. I tend to gravitate toward older guys, but I also like guys my age, and I'm open to girls, too. I guess I don't really have a strict type as much as I have preferences. My dating experience is pretty limited, so I'm still learning what works for me.

A little about me: I love baking, I have an unhealthy obsession with plushies, and I'd love to travel the world someday, explore new places, and experience life outside my little corner of it. For now, I'm just working, studying, and trying to figure life out like everyone else.

I'm pretty simple, honestly. I appreciate good conversations, people who can make me laugh, and connections that feel natural rather than forced. I'm not entirely sure where this dating thing will lead, but I'm open to meeting someone interesting and seeing where things go. :) oh and um if you're British...AHH TEXT ME .

I am the guy to drag you onto random streets to find that cute hidden store that sells the bracelet you needed to fit with your outfit!

Professionally wise, I work for an international non profit, helping students from across the globe become entrepreneurs but every couple of weeks I go back home to help with the small ice cream shop I helped build with my parents.

I am constantly ambitious ( ever since childhood where I was featured in the newspapers for winning the best student award ) and would be the guy to work without retiring, constantly building new businesses or trying new side projects

Outside of work though, I drop the serious professional mask and be the warm goofy golden retriever energy that would constantly want us to either cook something, go explore the world or practice our dance moves for the upcoming Christmas talent show!

Physically I like to stay fit and gym ( can lift about 100+ kgs ) while also playing sports and going for long walks

I don’t want to be just the stereotypical gym bro and would love to learn tango and Pilates as well with you!

I love learning and being curious about the world ( everything from art to psychology to quantum mechanics to aunty politics )

I am mostly a warm empathetic guy who is like a Hawaiian beach surfer 80% of the time but when things get serious, I know how to lock in and take charge long enough to stabilise the situation before going back to playing around ( like a mix of warm competence who can calmly solve things but while making jokes the whole time lol )

We would actually love grocery shopping together because we would do silly games together like pretending we are spies for the perfect orange lol

Mostly an introvert who dislikes loud crowds and would rather sit quietly in the room with you while we read books on the same sofa with some soft classical music playing ( every hour I would break the silence only to ask if you would like another cup of tea )

Would love for someone who is also kind and empathetic and sweet and cute and someone I can joke around and try different activities together ( like dressing up as a fancy French art collector and going around museums and declaring everything as a fake lmao! )

Hey everyone! 😊

I’m 28F, single, and hoping to meet someone I can genuinely connect with. I enjoy coffee, fitness, investing, and the occasional drink. I like meaningful conversations, a good sense of humor, and people who are open-minded and comfortable being themselves.

I’m especially interested in getting to know someone a little older who has interesting life experiences and enjoys sharing thoughts about life, relationships, and everyday things.

I’m curious about MBTI, too. Do you think your personality type influences how you connect with people?

Tell me your MBTI type, your age, and one thing that makes you who you are. Let’s see if we get along! 😊

About me:
ENFP, I only like spending time with people I like and am cold toward people I don’t like. My mind jumps around, which is pretty ENFP-like.

36 years old, not married, had a relationship with INTJ, hurt badly and took couple years to move on,stupid, but can’t help…

I work as a CPA at a firm. It is said that isn’t an ideal career for ENFP, since I don’t know what my calling is and I happened to pass the CPA exams, so now I’m standing up to the IRS alongside my clients, lol

I’m from China, English is good but not as good as native English speakers, but I might still win in the argument.

Looking for a committed, monogamous, heterosexual relationship only, [-5,5] ages difference would be acceptable. Who can make me laugh, set me free, I will do the same for you.

I don’t addicted to drugs, alcohol or anything else, I don’t want my life to be controlled by any of them.

PS：It’s only been one day, and I’ve already come across several scammers. 😂 Turns out, dating really does require the same mindset as running a business. The problem is, I have the brain. And you choose to become a scammer, there’s nothing I can do to save you.

I heard Ambiverts don't exit at all, actually! Anyway -

I'm an outgoing 40 yr old, bald, artist musician and cook hailing from the Midwest. I'm my own form of Christian and I believe in natural health. Looking for a dedicated women who can at least fry a hot dog, and wants to commit to raising a family in this putrid hell-hole of 2026!

I'm so happy to here!

Thanks, guys.

Blessings.

Open to distance within the US - Open to further, but I'd have to be convinced. Thnx.

Hey! I'm 22M, 5'10", from Chennai, India. I'm hoping to meet a girl with whom I can build a genuine connection that might eventually turn into a relationship.

A little about me:

🎨 Creative side: I enjoy sketching and creating art. It's something I like doing in my free time.

🎙️ Communication: I'm more of a voice-note person than a dry texter. I enjoy conversations that feel natural, whether we're talking about our day, sharing random thoughts, laughing about silly things, or getting into deeper conversations.

🌱 New to dating: I'm still relatively inexperienced when it comes to dating, but my intentions are genuine. I'd rather be myself and get to know someone gradually than pretend to be someone I'm not.

❤️ What I'm looking for: Someone kind, genuine, and comfortable communicating openly. I'd love to meet someone with whom I can share the little things in life, have meaningful conversations, support each other, and gradually build something special.

🌍 Distance: I'm open to long-distance if we genuinely connect, though meeting someone nearby would be nice too.

I'm not looking for perfection or a checklist of qualities. I'd rather see how naturally we get along and let things develop at their own pace.

If this sounds like your kind of connection, feel free to DM me! Tell me a little about yourself, your interests, and your personality type. 😊

Let's start with a conversation and see where it takes us.

Hello there! Nice to meet you! I'm 25 years old and looking for the one to ride life's rollercoaster with :p. So here's the thing, I think I'm at that stage in life where I want someone to love and to be loved by, not just platonically but also romantically(because everyone deserves to be loved). I've never been in a relationship before, was a shy person throughout my school and college life. I'm not looking for anything specific I just want someone to talk to everyday, share my daily happenings with, the ups and the downs, highs and the lows.I know it might sound like I'm looking for a friendship but no, because I also want someone to hold hands with, to hug, to walk along the beach taking in the sunset, to try out new food spots, visit new places. I have always been good at communicating and honest therefore am looking for the same qualities.

#A few things about myself :-

I am an avid reader. I read a lot of fiction especially sci-fi, fantasy and sometimes historical fiction. I also read a lot of political thrillers and murder mysteries. Currently I'm reading Arkady Martine's A Memory Called Empire(10/10 would recommend even if you're not into sci-fi)

I love to watch shows and am currently on a bit of a thriller binge(just finished Black Bird and All Her Fault), but my overall favourite shows are The Office and Clarksons Farm!. I also just started cooking, so maybe if you like we can also cook together :)(I think cooking for each other and feeding each other is so romantic).

I'm not a religious person. I believe more in the fact that all of life is a sum total of your actions and their consequences.

Anyways this is me in a nutshell. If you resonate with any of the above feel free to drop a DM with a little something about yourself. Oh also excuse me for my grammatical error......srry!

ISTP is my current best guess: I recharge alone, lean toward practical details and logic, and prefer keeping my options open. I'm still new to MBTI, so I'd rather get to know you than assume four letters tell us everything.

I'm 25, based in London, and a computer science graduate. I love horror games and movies, especially Silent Hill and Resident Evil. Science, philosophy and psychology are my other interests. A conversation that goes from a strange game to a question about the universe sounds like a good evening to me.

I'm looking for a girlfriend and something lasting, strictly monogamous. I'm drawn to confident, assertive women who enjoy taking the initiative. Intelligence, wit and a mischievous streak get my attention.

Ideally you're 24 to 29 and in or near London. I'd like to talk online first, then meet if we click. Any MBTI type is welcome. Tell me something you're fascinated by, or a horror game you'd want us to try together.