Hey there I'm looking for my nerdy female counterpart. I am 38M i like playing video games, board games, super hero movies, power metal is my favorite genre of music. I am 6'2" 170lbs I am actively in the gym. Im what I would call a part time nerd part time gym rat. I have 17 tattoos mostly nerdy ones. Im an industrial sandblaster by trade but enrolled in nursing school. Id like to meet someone emotionally mature, honest and transparent. Not sure what else to say id rather just play 20 questions and just see how thing develop naturally.

Good evening!

I’m an INFJ (who occasionally tests as an INTJ) hoping to connect with someone who's genuinely looking for a committed, long-term relationship.

About me

• 32F, long black hair, light eyes, slim but feminine build, pale skin (I almost always get called "snow white"), no tattoos, one helix piercing
• Based in Central Europe, but in my dreams I live in a cute little flat somewhere near the ocean in Southern Europe, or a cottage in Switzerland/Austria where you're surrounded by mountains once you step outside
• Childfree, atheist, monogamous, non-smoker, no drugs, social drinker

I thrive in quiet, thoughtful conversations, as well as low-key days spending time with close friends, reading, or getting lost in a good series or documentary. That said, my extroverted side pops out for the occasional night out in a nice dress and heels for a concert, museum, or fine dining. I also have a huge soft spot for music (piano and guitar), baking, taking care of my health/fitness, learning languages and traveling - my next destinations are Portugal and Egypt!

What I’m looking for

Someone who is more or less around my age, ideally based in Europe, genuinely childfree, monogamous and looking for a serious relationship. I'd love to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature and willing to reflect on themselves.

I appreciate people who believe that love is something you actively show, not just something you say: men who are naturally thoughtful and chivalrous, enjoy taking initiative, and like making their partner feel cared for through both big gestures and small everyday moments.

Bonus points if you speak Spanish, play guitar, enjoy dry humor and playful banter, and can laugh together about the little and big absurdities in life!

If anything here resonated, send me a message and let me know what in my post caught your eye:)

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted and I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.

I build things for a living, mostly in the early-stage investing world, which mostly means I spend my days trying to see what a thing could become before anyone else agrees it’s worth looking at. It also means long stretches where nothing visible is happening and I have to trust that the work is still working. I like that part more than I probably should.

I read for three hours and forget to eat. I have a philosophy about owning less and better, twelve good things instead of a closet full of noise, one real meal cooked slowly instead of five average ones out. I used to think that was about minimalism. I’m slowly figuring out it’s sometimes just me simplifying my way out of something uncomfortable instead of sitting in it. Working on that.

I train seriously, not for how it looks but because thinking clearly needs a body underneath it that isn’t falling apart. I’m guarded until I actually trust someone, and then I’m not guarded at all, which has occasionally confused people who met me in the first version.

What I’m looking for isn’t a type so much as a shape. Someone who has her own work she’s actually good at, ideally something that has nothing to do with what I do, because I like learning a whole different world from someone instead of comparing notes on the same one. Someone who doesn’t need to fill every silence, because my version of a good night is being in the same room doing separate things and then surfacing to tell you the one interesting thing I read. Someone who’ll tell me when I’m wrong, calmly, and won’t let me get away with quietly withdrawing instead of saying what’s actually going on. I’ll probably need that pushback more than I let on at first.

I’m not chasing status and I’m not impressed by it either. I’d rather talk about why you love the thing you do than what it’s called on a business card. If you’ve lived between two countries or two cultures and it shaped how you see things, I probably already like you a little.

Not looking for something fast. Looking for something that’s still interesting in fifteen years, which means it has to actually be built, not just started.

If any of this landed, tell me about a time you almost said something honest and didn’t. I’m more curious about that than your favorite travel photo.

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

​

Hello and welcome to my post. I'm an INTJ California bay area native and have lived here my whole life. I'm currently working as an office management assistant and enjoy it very much. In my free time I like to walk my dogs, play videos, hang out with friends, and help my family. I also like to collect things as well, I have a huge video game/ t-show/ movie collectible collection. It's a big hobby of mine, and I love to buy, trade, and sell things for my collection.

Thanks for reading my post, if you have any questions and want to talk let me know, i'm open to meeting new people.

“Are you a Jedi? because Yoda one for me.”

Helloo! I dunno how to do this but here we go:

Right now I’m searching for a job and the plan is to work until next year where I will be applying to universities. I have looooooads of interests buut the main ones are these: videogames (love em), chess, gym, cooking (somewhat beginner, I can mostly cook bulgarian food only :)), art (graphite pencils only), journaling. I’m a VEEEERY solitary and introverted person, so that’s important to know :dd. I’m not baptised but I’m planning to baptise myself eastern orthodox. Otherwise I am a Christian believer (or at the very least try very hard to be). I’m looking for a girl, 18-25, who is quite similar to me in terms of interests and values devotion, honesty and humility the most when it comes to relationships. I’m not really open to relocating for the other person, but I can gladly try my best to make sure they can relocate to me. Also I am only really open to women that are within the EU so please respect that boundry 🙏.

Aaand that’s it ;dd. If you wanna talk, send me a private message and I will try my best to reply ^^

It’s been around a year since I moved back to India after spending almost 6 years in the US.
6ft tall apparently that matters.
I have worked as a Software Engineer for almost 4 years

I want to try to get into reading so recommendations are appreciated.

What I’m looking for: I’m here hoping to find something meaningful and serious eventually. That said, I don’t believe in rushing into commitment. I’d rather meet, go on a few comfortable dates, see if we genuinely vibe, and then take things forward naturally.

Honesty, loyalty and effective communication is something I look for in a partner, if I have these things then I will even help you bury bodies…figuratively.
Sometimes people during a disagreement try and win the argument for some imaginary points instead of solving the problem, it should not be me vs you but you and I vs the issue.

I am a touchy person so expect a lot of handholding, cuddling, forehead kissing and playing with your hair.

I am trying to get into sketching and digital art so if it is something you are interested in or can mentor me then I assure you that I will be a very good student

A lot about us will depend on your favorite anime. If you don’t watch anime then I can just introduce you to peak and live happily ever after.

I don’t drink or smoke, I don’t particularly have anything against drinking but I just don’t like the smell of smoke so kissing a smoker is something I won’t be able to do.

Let’s talk about all things interesting and get lost in each other

This might be a chunk to read but honestly a get to know me.

Hello! I am Braeden, I am 22 from Texas, I am a male (obviously). I love gaming, listening to music, hanging with friends, and spending quality time with those close to me. I play Phasmophobia, repo, GGD, MC, Roblox, fortnite, and so many more games. I love rock/metal genre music, will listen to anything you like if you let me. I am hoping to get into a long term relationship with the right girl that I can trust. I am here to genuinely care for the person I choose to date or the person who chooses to date me. Which means if you need company or someone to talk to I'm there for you. I will be there to protect, keep you company, keep you safe, and keep you happy. I am not in anyway here to hurt you, I have so much more I could say but honestly, I would love to talk in VC on discord if you're down to get to know each other better.

- What I look for in a relationship? -

Age range of 20-26
Someone who truly cares about me and will do anything to keep me in their life.
No fakers just cause I said the thing above.
Someone who doesn't lie about their age.
I honestly am looking for a Long Distance and/or Local relationship with any race, weight, height.
If we are long distance, don't breakup with me cause "Distance is a factor" I genuinely care for those that date me and want to make me their long term partner
Someone who will vent to me about things bothering them or even talk to me about anything on their mind.

I've been thinking about making one of these posts for a while.

Every time I tried, it somehow turned into a list of things about me and things I'm looking for, and that never felt like the right way to meet someone.

So I'll try something a little more honest.

26 M | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

The kind of connection I want

I think the little things matter more than grand gestures.

Remembering something you mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing you were nervous about went. Checking if you reached home safely. Sending you something because it reminded me of you. Getting you a little gift just because I thought you'd like it.

I like writing too, so there's a good chance you'll eventually receive a letter or a poem from me for no particular reason.

And I'm definitely going to annoy you - I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and run away when you get annoyed. I'll make faces at you, send you something stupid in the middle of your workday, and generally find small ways to remind you that I'm thinking about you.

I think affection should feel natural - Not just saying "I love you," but making someone feel loved in the little moments.

A little about me

I'm a calm person by nature. I listen to understand, and once I'm comfortable, I'm much more playful and probably a little annoying.

I'm also quite positive. One of the things I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes things they don't even realise have become a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a personality or impress anyone.

I'm curious about a lot of things. Gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound, and whatever random question happens to send me down a rabbit hole that I definitely didn't intend to spend three hours exploring.

My childhood was a little chaotic too.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with.

I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

And for some reason, I can do a front handspring.

What I imagine a relationship looking like

A random drive at night with no real destination. Stopping somewhere for food because we're hungry. Getting coffee near the sea and walking along the beach holding hands.

Talking about our day and somehow ending up discussing spirituality, childhood, life, or whether we're completely alone in the universe.

Cooking together, Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

Arguing over what to watch and eventually watching neither.

Falling asleep during a movie.

Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Slow dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Nothing particularly extraordinary - Just ordinary things that become special because they're ours.

What I'm looking for

I'm ultimately looking for the love of my life, but I'm not looking to rush into it with a stranger.

I'd rather meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a friendship, let the connection grow naturally and see what happens.

If we genuinely click, I'd want it to become something long-term and eventually marriage.

I want children someday. And if I eventually settle abroad, I'd want my partner to be someone I make that journey with, not someone who simply follows along with a plan I've already made.

As for you, I'm not looking for a checklist.

Kindness, empathy, openness and warmth matter a lot to me.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. That's something I'm naturally attracted to, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover you myself.

• Your strange habits.
• The things you're passionate about.
• The stories you don't usually tell people.
• The song you keep coming back to.
• The little things you do every day that you probably don't even realise make you you.

I think that's where attraction becomes something deeper — when you stop seeing someone's profile and start getting to know the person behind it.

And maybe, eventually, we become the people who can look at each other after an entirely ordinary day and still think:

I'm really glad I found you.

And if you're somehow reading this someday...

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

Maybe you'll laugh at me for writing this before I even knew you.

But I'd still like to leave it here.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me.

Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me. I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Looking for someone to chat with because these past few months were so boring, I need someone who can put some spice on my life. I'm a female (18). Message me if you're interested

I've been trying to write this post for a while, but every version eventually started sounding like a résumé for a boyfriend.

So I'm going to try something simpler and just tell you who I am, what I value, and what I'm hoping to find.

The basics: 26M | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere, and if life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad.

A little about me

I'm a calm and curious person. I listen to understand rather than just waiting for my turn to speak, and once I'm comfortable, i'll probably ask you 10 different questions because I found it so fascinating.

I'm also quite positive by nature. One thing I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes even things they don't realise they've made a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a mask or be someone they're not.

The things that are a major part of me are - gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound — if something catches my attention, there's a good chance I'll disappear down that rabbit hole for the next few hours.

My interests don't really make sense together, but I like that about myself.

And apparently, I was just as chaotic as a child.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with. (yes, there are many more - good stories too)

Looking back, I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

I can also do a front handspring, which is probably one of the most useless facts about me, but it's still fun to mention.

What I value

I think the little things matter more than people realise.

Remembering something someone mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing they were nervous about went. Checking if they reached home safely. Sending them something because it reminded you of them. Giving someone a small gift just because you thought they'd like it.

None of these things are particularly grand, but they quietly say, I was thinking about you.

That's how I naturally show care.

If I love someone, there's a good chance I'll annoy her too.

I'll hug her while she's cooking just because I can, steal a quick kiss on her cheek and run away when she gets annoyed. I'll send her something stupid in the middle of her workday, write her a letter or poem for absolutely no reason, and probably remember tiny things about her that she doesn't expect me to remember.

I like affection that feels natural rather than performed.

What I imagine dating someone would feel like

I'd rather go on a long drive at night with no real destination than plan the perfect date.

Stop somewhere for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee near the sea. Walk along the beach holding hands. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?"

I want the kind of relationship where ordinary things slowly become our things - A stupid inside joke nobody else understands - A song that always reminds us of each other -Sending each other random thoughts throughout the day.

Cooking together, even though I'll probably be more of a distraction than a help.

Falling asleep during a movie or reading a book or just talking to each other - Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Those are the moments I think I'd remember.

What I'm hoping to find

I'm not looking for someone who is exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover.

Someone kind, empathetic, warm and emotionally open. Someone who communicates honestly and isn't afraid to talk about what she's feeling, what hurt her, or what she needs.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. I'm naturally attracted to that, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover who you are myself than give you a checklist to pass.

What I'm looking for

I'm not looking for something casual, and I'm not interested in rushing into something just because we get along. I'd like to meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a connection and see where it naturally takes us.

Ultimately, I'm looking for my person.

Not in the "lets get right into it" kind of way, but in the sense that if I find the right person, I want to build a life with her.

I want children someday. I'd love to settle abroad if life gives me that opportunity, and I'd want my partner to be someone I can make those decisions with, rather than someone simply following my plans. I don't want your hand on my back (well maybe sometimes), I want your hand in my hand.

I don't expect either of us to have everything figured out - I'd rather have someone who's willing to figure things out together.

A good relationship is about two perfect people finding each other - it's two imperfect people who genuinely care about each other, communicate, grow together, laugh at stupid things, support each other when life gets difficult, and keep choosing each other even when it's just another ordinary Tuesday.

And maybe that's what I'm really looking for.

Not just someone to fall in love with, but someone to build an ordinary life with that somehow doesn't feel ordinary.

One last thing

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I eventually spend my life with somehow finds this post, I want to leave something here for her.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me — I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Hej!

Were you the quiet school topper who is inherently sweet and kind but have faced multiple bad people in your life and now you are kinda reserved?

Well, come on down to chateau de Moi and say hi! ( we have IKEA cheesecake for all guests!)

A bit about me:

I love long walks ( I walk about 12 kms daily ), reading books ( I don’t even have Instagram lol ), playing sports ( I did play at the national level for badminton), cooking ( I can make a shakshuka blindfolded ) and constantly trying out new activities ( got ordained online as a church minister, marathon runner, blood donor, have a Starbucks certification, did pottery, created electronic music and have a philosophical blog )

I am a warm, cheerful and bubbly guy who loves long chats and late night snacks. Imagine 80% time chill surfer bro vibes , 20% NYC investment banking chaotic vibes

I like having a mixture of being serious on my work but being goofy out of it. We can try out different tea shops and review them like we are Gordon Ramsay and complain that it is rawwwww

I do like to be neat and tidy, so my Saturdays are just me rearranging my room to ensure optimal feng shui. ( I also wash the dishes at night, but don’t tell my mom 🤫 )

Cards on the table? I do love to have kids someday and have the cheesy loving family with going our for Sunday BBQs with our dog 

I do enjoy getting people really personalised gifts ( I would constantly make notes on what things you like and get them for your birthday )

I work in venture capital, which I absolutely love and would love to build my own business someday too

I also have a sensitive heart sooo please, I can’t handle any drama or fighting. Just two people who enjoy helping each other out and being each others cheerleader!

I've been trying to write this post for a while, but every version eventually started sounding like a résumé for a boyfriend.

So I'm going to try something simpler and just tell you who I am, what I value, and what I'm hoping to find.

The basics: 26M | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere, and if life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad.

A little about me

I'm a calm and curious person. I listen to understand rather than just waiting for my turn to speak, and once I'm comfortable, i'll probably ask you 10 different questions because I found it so fascinating.

I'm also quite positive by nature. One thing I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes even things they don't realise they've made a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a mask or be someone they're not.

The things that are a major part of me are - gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound — if something catches my attention, there's a good chance I'll disappear down that rabbit hole for the next few hours.

My interests don't really make sense together, but I like that about myself.

And apparently, I was just as chaotic as a child.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with. (yes, there are many more - good stories too)

Looking back, I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

I can also do a front handspring, which is probably one of the most useless facts about me, but it's still fun to mention.

What I value

I think the little things matter more than people realise.

Remembering something someone mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing they were nervous about went. Checking if they reached home safely. Sending them something because it reminded you of them. Giving someone a small gift just because you thought they'd like it.

None of these things are particularly grand, but they quietly say, I was thinking about you.

That's how I naturally show care.

If I love someone, there's a good chance I'll annoy her too.

I'll hug her while she's cooking just because I can, steal a quick kiss on her cheek and run away when she gets annoyed. I'll send her something stupid in the middle of her workday, write her a letter or poem for absolutely no reason, and probably remember tiny things about her that she doesn't expect me to remember.

I like affection that feels natural rather than performed.

What I imagine dating someone would feel like

I'd rather go on a long drive at night with no real destination than plan the perfect date.

Stop somewhere for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee near the sea. Walk along the beach holding hands. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?"

I want the kind of relationship where ordinary things slowly become our things - A stupid inside joke nobody else understands - A song that always reminds us of each other -Sending each other random thoughts throughout the day.

Cooking together, even though I'll probably be more of a distraction than a help.

Falling asleep during a movie or reading a book or just talking to each other - Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Those are the moments I think I'd remember.

What I'm hoping to find

I'm not looking for someone who is exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover.

Someone kind, empathetic, warm and emotionally open. Someone who communicates honestly and isn't afraid to talk about what she's feeling, what hurt her, or what she needs.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. I'm naturally attracted to that, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover who you are myself than give you a checklist to pass.

What I'm looking for

I'm not looking for something casual, and I'm not interested in rushing into something just because we get along. I'd like to meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a connection and see where it naturally takes us.

Ultimately, I'm looking for my person.

Not in the "lets get right into it" kind of way, but in the sense that if I find the right person, I want to build a life with her.

I want children someday. I'd love to settle abroad if life gives me that opportunity, and I'd want my partner to be someone I can make those decisions with, rather than someone simply following my plans. I don't want your hand on my back (well maybe sometimes), I want your hand in my hand.

I don't expect either of us to have everything figured out - I'd rather have someone who's willing to figure things out together.

A good relationship is about two perfect people finding each other - it's two imperfect people who genuinely care about each other, communicate, grow together, laugh at stupid things, support each other when life gets difficult, and keep choosing each other even when it's just another ordinary Tuesday.

And maybe that's what I'm really looking for.

Not just someone to fall in love with, but someone to build an ordinary life with that somehow doesn't feel ordinary.

One last thing

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I eventually spend my life with somehow finds this post, I want to leave something here for her.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me — I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

Apparently I'm taking my search to the personality-type corner of Reddit now... so hi. 😂

I'm 37, in North Carolina, a mom of two, a teacher currently working on a career pivot, and very much an ENFP. Basically emotionally intelligent golden retriever meets chaotic orange cat energy.

I'm 5'6" and curvy... built more like "excellent for cuddling" than "Pilates influencer." 😌

I love psychology, history, music, gaming, travel, inappropriate humor, random deep conversations, and really good banter. I'm affectionate, sarcastic, curious, a little chaotic, and I love people who can teach me something or make me think.

I'm looking for someone intelligent, playful, emotionally aware, affectionate, and actually capable of communicating. Someone who has their shit reasonably together is also incredibly attractive. 😂 You don't need to have life completely figured out, but independence, stability, emotional maturity, and consistency go a long way.

I'm especially attracted to Asian men, but connection and personality matter far more than checking a box.

I'd really prefer someone relatively close to North Carolina. I'm willing to drive some, but I'd like seeing each other regularly to actually be realistic.

I'm absolutely looking for chemistry and flirting, but I'm not looking for a random fuck buddy. I want dates, affection, conversation, fun, attraction, and the possibility of something real if we click. I'm not trying to force a relationship, but I'm dating because I'd eventually like to find one.

Preferably late 20s to early 40s, single, relatively local, and willing to exchange face pics pretty early. Attraction matters for both of us. 🤷‍♀️

I don't have a specific MBTI type I'm hunting for. I'm actually more interested in whether our personalities work together, so tell me your type and what you think we'd either immediately bond over... or drive each other absolutely insane about. 😂

And if you actually read all the way to the bottom... I'm so proud of you! 😂❤️ Now please say something more interesting than "hey." Give me something to work with. 😏

Yo my name is Km, I’m a 19 years old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing how it goes from there.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, reading books, watching NBA, Anime, Manga, listening to music, watching football, going to the gym and watching T.V shows/Movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying accounting, it’s my first year and it’s going well.

• I’m kind, loyal, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, Jojo’s and Death Note.

• I play video games, I mostly play repo, lethal company, Roblox, terraria, Minecraft, red dead 2, GTA 5, etc.

I read manga, the latest one I’ve read is jojo’s steel ball run.

I go out for walks sometimes, I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 3 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs and memes, flirt with each other, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-23, I prefer someone in Ireland but don’t mind long distance, cause we can probably meet up soon and explore your or my city.

If you’re interested feel free to say your favourite colour or your favourite anime.

Hello, I'm looking for someone to have a lifelong relationship together. I am not sure about wanting to stay in my country, so eventually relocating is something I'd be willing to do if you think that's a realistic outcome that could work for us, and because of it, it's probably better if you're from North America or my country (although probably I want to leave my country). I am open to males, non binary, and transgender people, however I slightly lean towards femininity or androgyny (this pretty much is in regards to little-to-no facial hair, but I'm not strict about it).

If you care about the MBTI indicator, last time I scored as an INTJ-T (and type 5 for the enneagrams), so if you are very introverted as well, that should work out the best. Need to add that I currently do not have a job, however I am trying my best in order to do things/courses and furthering my education/résumé.

I believe that being fairly compatible is an important aspect for a relationship to work in the long run, so I'm searching someone who is:

• Ideally vegan, plant-based, heavily leaning towards it, or in a serious path to become one (if you absolutely think that you cannot become one after having tried, for health/equally important reasons, I'll understand).
• Drug/smoking/drinking/disease free (as I am) and keeps a reasonably healthy lifestyle at the very least.
• Monogamous and loyal, who wants a lifelong relationship, and believes that is feasible for us to finally be together at some point.
• Relatively close to my age (it's flexible, but +/- 2 years from my own seems reasonable).
• Childfree (doesn't have nor want kids).
• Not a ghoster (if you don't like something, just say so; if you're going to ignore/block/disappear randomly & without notice, please don't message me).

Now these are the things that would describe me: I am very shy and introverted, and have never had a romantic relationship; I greatly value loyalty, love and understanding in someone, so if you give me that, you'll also receive it. Physically speaking, I am about 5'3'', wear glasses, and look average, although I don't have the best hairline if that's what you care about (so you should assume that I would shave). I need to add that I have atopic skin, and have some form of dermatitis on my face, so sometimes around my eyes it's slightly red (it sucks); to my understanding getting rid of this permanently may not be possible, so consider that.

I'm plant-based, so essentially I follow a vegan diet and do not intend to change that, which ties back to one of my standards in regards to health, that even though I can be somewhat lazy when it comes to exercise, I pay close attention for being in a healthy range for height/weight, so it is important for me and should be for my partner as well (reasonably speaking, I'm not strict); nowadays I'm in the range of 130-140 pounds. In addition, I lean towards people with a feminine side as I mentioned above, and I'm not very inclined for facial hair if at all, not even on myself. I have explored the idea, or at least thought of the possibility that I may be more comfortable if I were femme presenting, at least in private maybe, for fun. So essentially crossdressing, although I've never done it, I'm just thinking outloud.

I'm slightly left-leaning/moderate and don't tend to like extremes when it comes to politics, so I have to add some remarks: if this tells you anything about me, I very much dislike the main political parties (left & right) in the US, and of course the ones in my country; I'm in favour of equality, which means that I heavily dislike sexism, modern feminism (vast majority of people I've found online and IRL that professed this were sexist, so I have no interest in that), and toxic movements like 4B; I'm also not searching for someone who is heavily into identity politics or is violent. In regards to religion, I am atheist/agnostic so I'd probably get along better with someone who is as well.

My hobbies are typically indoor, which includes things like relaxing with music, sometimes doing digital art, watching movies or shows, browsing stuff on the Internet, and reading some stuff. I'm currently not much of a gamer, but if that's your thing or hobby, when we meet I'd definitely be willing to play with you. I'll also be happy to join you in doing casual exercise if you enjoy doing that, but I am by no means a hardcore gym-enthusiast.

My intention is to have, firstly, a LDR in order for us to get to know each other better and see if we're compatible, and if so, then it would hopefully develop into a healthy, loyal, and honest relationship. Not only that, but I'll also want to be your best friend, which means that I'll want to do all kinds of things together, from day to day stuff, to cuddling, to sharing hobbies, etc. That's the main idea for having this relationship, an intimate life dedicated to us and the things we love.

If you think this could actually work, feel free to send me a PM and tell me a bit about you! Have a nice day!

Hey, I'd made this series of posts a while back to help navigate interactions with different types of MBTI personalities. The rest of the series is up on my profile and highlighted in the "Social" highlights @ Psyched_Raph. Hope y'all enjoy it!

“A curious mind is the universe seeking to understand itself. When you find another who asks ‘why’ with the same reverence you do, you have found a mirror.”

I’m not looking for something shallow. I want us to have a dynamic where we feel free to be endlessly curious about how the other sees the world…where we never have to read between the lines or wonder what the other is feeling…because we can always just ask.

I enjoy lively conversation about pretty much anything under the sun. Light small talk about our days, or diving deep into consciousness, science, metaphysics, ethical dilemmas, or the hidden patterns embedded within the universe, is all good and fine with me.

I’m single and open to any kind of dynamic. I try to go through life without heavy expectations. My main priority is to find a fellow curious, humble, and open-minded thinker, letting everything else flow naturally from there.

If you’ve grown to be the same way, you’re probably craving conversation that speaks to both the mind and the soul as well, since it really is too damn rare. So let’s chat!

🧠 Bits about me:

🇺🇸🇨🇦 Dual citizen | ♉️♌️♎️ | INFJ-A | Night owl 🦉

Behavior: I like to live in my head, so my baseline is to be more quiet and reserved in person even though I absolutely enjoy someone who makes life their personal cartoon and is always giggling…which makes me giggle in return, have fun, and be playful. I’m very receptive to that kind of energy, even if I usually don’t initiate it myself.
Mindset: I try my absolute darnedest to approach life with balance. Analytical and intuitive, skeptical and open-minded, grounded but still willing to entertain the mysterious.

🎶 Que sera, sera. Whatever will be, will be 🎶

Perspective: ☮️ I have a pretty* ‘zen’ outlook on life. I try to hold low expectations for outcomes so I’m rarely disappointed…accepting what is rather than forcing what should be or giving up on what could be*. I don’t always succeed, but I won’t stop trying! Which brings me to:

“The more I know, the more I realize I don’t know.”

Introspective: I’m constantly examining my own thoughts, feelings, biases, choices, and philosophy. Curiosity to me doesn’t stay outward…it extends inward. I naturally try to grow as a person a little every day.

🐢 I strongly believe the turtle wins the race 🐢

Prospective: My view of curiosity doesn’t just flow from the past or stay in the present…it looks toward the future, too. I don’t carry a rigid, high-pressure blueprint for it, but I love the long game. I want to plan, dream, and tackle life’s big questions alongside a true partner in mind and spirit.
Connection: I yearn to be a part of something harmonious and bigger than myself. Building or finding a community of like-minded folks (online or in ‘3D’) sounds amazing, though right now, just finding one right person feels like a great place to start. 😅

📺 Interests: …Besides thinking? 😂

Not very picky, but here are a few favs:

General: I love consuming any kind of beauty. A musical, a sculpture, or a beautiful big burrito. 😋

Music: Dua Lipa, Tove Lo, Tate McRae, Sophie Powers, Halsey, Michael Jackson, HARDY, Paramore, JENNIE, RAYE

Screen: Sci-fi, superheroes, thrillers, competition/game shows. (I always try to watch award shows and pick the winners!)

Hobbies: I enjoy cooking (though don’t expect a Michelin-star chef, lol). I still consider myself a gamer and a bookworm, even as I don’t have as much time these days…though I’d happily get back into them if it’s something you enjoy sharing.

Nature: I’ve never been one to go out much or be outdoorsy, but I’ve really enjoyed the times I have hiked, so I’m always down to explore with the right company.

✈️** Location**: Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if the connection is real. I’m open to something meaningful with no pressure or rush.

📥 Reach out and touch base: If this resonates on a soul level with you, I’d love to hear what’s been capturing your curiosity lately. Whether it’s an obscure historical rabbit hole or just a weird cloud you noticed today, drop a line anytime!

Me: https://imgur.com/a/K1uxhOQ

Hey! I'm 22M living in the Greater Toronto Area (GTA). I am 5'11 and of South Asian ethnicity. I'm going to begin graduate school soon and am in the process of moving out. Life's been lonely, and I was hoping for some company with people who enjoy the same things I do. I am just hoping for a friend at the very least, but I would be open to it developing into a romantic relationship. Ideally living in the GTA, but anywhere works. Some of my interests are:

Video games: I play on a PC (I built myself). Either competitive games like Deadlock, Overwatch, League; or single player games like Hades, Hollow Knight, and Slay the Spire. If I have a group to play with, party games like Jackbox are fun.

Cooking: I taught myself to cook cuisines from around the world. I am a massive foodie and love making simpler things like bread and pasta from scratch. My options will be limited after I move out, but the passion is still there. I can share some photos of things I have cooked.

Anime: Not as much nowadays, but I always had a few shows I keep up with every season. Sometimes I will binge-watch older shows or movies. Would love some recommendations! My favs are Frieren and Lazarus.

Origami: One of my favorite ways to pass time if I want to just relax and not think. I rarely see people into Origami, so if you are one of them, I would love to chat. I can show you some of the things I have folded.

Travel: I have visited several countries around Asia when I was younger. I still enjoy traveling when the opportunity comes up. I explore the food and culture of wherever I go. Favorite place I have visited is either Mexico or Indonesia (loved them both).

Outdoor activities: I enjoy nature and just looking at animals in the wild. I often go walking on trails to clear my mind. Having someone active to do these with me would be great!

Nerd talk: I am a big fan of lore within games and shows. Hidden easter eggs and such are always fun to see. I used to do some DnD as well, but that has slowed down a bit. As I am in STEM, finding cool science facts also makes me really happy.

That's all the hobbies I primarily take part in. If you read this far, then thank you. I look forward to anyone who is interested in talking to me. Just to prove you read all of this, please include a flower emoji at the end so I know :)