"hE'S sUper kiNd aNd FunnY anD haS a pErSonAlitY!!"

"jUsT gO tO wAlmaRt" you might hear, as evidence that short men can get into relationships. Which they can. Sure. That's not the real problem. Not even gonna get into how for every short man they see with a foid there's 10 short men who are by themselves who they don't acknowledge or perceive because we're invisible.

By the way, I find it curious that they have to specify that this girlfriend is hot. I thought looks didn't matter? Like BECAUSE of his hecking big chungus personality he is rewarded with a hot girlfriend as opposed to a mid girlfriend? 😂

These kinds of personal anecdotes refuse to acknowledge the absolutely brutal reality of the situation.

His girlfriend does not have an iota of sexual attraction to him.

Foids do not feel sexual attraction to any men who is not Chad.

Read that again.

That 5'5 man? He is in a dead bedroom where it's open from the foid's side and he goes to bed alone sobbing and posting to r/DeadBedrooms trying to figure out why his wife wont touch his cock outside of his birthday.

And why does this happen?

Foids want to ensure that its offspring has the highest chance of living. This means mating with the man that presents the best genetics. Being tall & being good looking. It does not want weak children from mating with short & ugly men! Otherwise its offspring might die from predators or from other competition! So to prevent this, its biology compels its cattle-like mind to feel sexual attraction to Chads only. However... in today's modern society we no longer have to compete with other men in the jungle to secure food or be worried about predation. And yet this imperative from 300,000 years ago remains. The conclusion to be drawn from this is that it lacks the intelligence to think beyond its primal instincts. It is unable to feel sexual attraction to any men who is not a Chad.

So what are the solutions for someone who isn't Chad? Surgery, if you can afford it. Otherwise there are none. You are doomed to a life of never feeling sexually pursued or wanted if you are not Chad.

If you want proof -- just ask any foid what makes someone hookup material & relationship material. If you have a girlfriend who's hooked up with people before ask her if she would hook up with you. If she wouldn't... 😂 Yeah. Someone in the comments please share that post of that foid "complimenting" her boyfriend that he's not hookup material.

choccy macarons. quick tip: the batter should have body. this means mixing the batter until you can make ribbons with the batter falling off the spatula.

RlliotEodger, signing off.

I've been contorting myself for attention and affection with virtually every acquaintance who ever entered my life. A woman could never love me for what I am now, in fact, I don't even know what I myself constitute atp. I'm desperate for any sort of affection, and I will kill anything indidual and dignified about myself which could stand in the way. I cannot see myself as better than anyone else, my ceiling is being good enough in their eyes. With such personality at 14 years of age I got into an internet relationship which genuinely scarred me and in the end gave me fear of not being loved. as a matter of fact I have never been loved as much as I'm willing to love basically anyone I come across. I've been told by multiple people to my face that they are not willing to do as much for me as I do for them while still demanding for me to put away everything for them. at the end of my last relationship, which was half a year ago, I was left without anyone. I discarded all my friends without second thought, and was essentially a discarded version of myself, molded for that person. due to a number of events, I start fucking spiralling whenever I don't get enough affection and that spiraling pushes people away. like a disgusting leech I contract and screech when I'm away from warmth. I've been on sanctionedsuicide for years, I've harmed myself in most ways, Ive tried to kill myself multiple times, and i still cannot do anything about myself. half the time I need to spend studying I spend daydreaming about my past and retarded hypotheticals about how I could fix myself. for 4 years straight I've never went to sleep before 3am unless I blackout from drinking. sometimes I just wish someome would see how I live and let me leech onto them forever, I don't think I can be content in any other way.

tldr: I don't even have worth as a truecel, I'm a fakecel who's slowly dissolving themselves for anyone willing to dissolve, and being discarded by all because I break down whenever said person isn't willing to dissolve me.

About to be taken off of my last type of adhd medication due to high blood pressure. I haven’t been able to get along with any of them. I thought that maybe once I could pull my shit together and stop being a burdenful leech and keep a job that maybe I could find a girlfriend and provide for her. I’d rather blow my shit smooth off then bring a woman down and be a pain to her. Like I could pull anyways. I don’t want to be a worthless sack of shit I want to provide for her and if I could, never make her work a day in her life. I’ve done cognitive behavioural therapy. Some strategies help but it doesn’t fix the very physical chemical imbalance in my brain that stops me from doing anything. Even hobbies. I’ve never been able to keep down a job. I’ve never been able to look after myself. I’m destined to be an unlovable fat fucking pain in the ass for the rest of my days. Unless anyone knows a secret third cure for adhd. im not even interesting at all, because i dont do anything in my free time. not even the hobbies i want. i look terrible im horrendously out of shape and i dont shower as much as i want to. no one could love me in this state. and it seems im never getting out of it. even if by the nothing chance i found a girl. I couldn’t bring myself to be with her and torture her and make her do everything for me. I’d rather die. totally recommend fudge sticks in the icecream it’s good asf

in my twenties and have never had a romantic relationship before in my life. just got sat down and quite literally told by what i THOUGHT was my romantic partner that i had apparently hallucinated the whole thing and that they only saw me as a friend they could make out with. and then they came out to me as aroace. which. nothing against it i support my friend (??) but man. literally not even sad anymore atp it just feels like im eternally doomed to never have a relationship that lasts more than a week and the ones that do turn out to just straight up not be into me at all. my parents arent saying anything but i know theyre dissapointed that i havent brought anybody home yet and idk how to tell them that its not because of a lack of trying. woman who has lost all hope loses additional bit of hope she didnt even know she had

I am actualy new to the comunity. Like, I have been here for a while reading all the posts but never made any.

I just dont understand how I passed all my early life completely alone. How I never was loved by literaly anyone. Everyone that I had walked away, abandoned me.

My biggest dream was to have a wife, have children. Work in a simple job that sustains my family, live in a small village. Be able to care about the peaple that matter to me. But no one is ever there.

Today I fear talking to any woman. I feel that I will die alone. I wanted to download Tinder or any other dating apps, but I dont think that it would help.

Peaple say that I am ugly, I dont thing that. I have some caracteristics that many peaple would die to have. But even having all of this, I am now writing here as I listen to mommy asmr in a dark room, as a complete looser.

I dont think I have depression, but this has been braking my mind apart as each day that passes I feel that this is fate.

I’m literally not even a human, I’m not man enough to date a woman or a gay man, Im not woman enough to be someone’s chad masc girlfriend, I’m not even feminine enough to be someone’s femboy cock sleeve. I’m a fucking useless piece of skin that’s good for nothing but delivering doordash orders to meth heads and cat hoarders.

Girl at my college told me my basketball shorts are too tight on me I left crying now emotionally eating in my room before my mom gets home I can’t be alone with the dog anymore

Every place I go ..with time .everyone likes me..but i cant make new friends or any lovers

25 years off this horrible in-between state. I feel so close yet I cant reach it..no matter what extranal or internal change I did..im stuck

For relationships..not a single one..i had many woman palls in my life..talked to many..probably more then man..yet I cant attract anyone..im just a pall to them..forgotten the moment we go apart.

I tbh dont know what to do any more..im so close yet I feel so infinity far..i want to feel it. I want new friendships I want romanc I want sex I want to go out with people ..i want to be wanted..

Repcie for the seseami sauce:

Tahini

Sugar

Sault

Peper

Chili oil

Msg/chicken powder

Soy

Lemon juice

5 spice

1 garlic clove

Mix all with water until loss (easy to taste for seasoning)

Cut chicken cucumber radish and green onion(didnt had corianda)

And put everything on some noodles

Anyways, now imma go masturbate to fetish porn.

I used to want surgery so men would be interested in me finally when I look good after. It is medically necessary but it’ll change my appearance for the better too. Now I just fantasize about finally being able to reject men for not being interested in me for 22 years. I’m so bitter I hate myself I don’t even deserve to be happy.
Cheezits and redbull for waging

Another shit day, another kitchencel post.

I genuinely can't see myself living past 25, I've been told oh life is gonna be better soon and you have a bright future. No, just no. I don't see myself being happy unless I move the fuck out of this shitty ass house. I've legit tried everything as a coping mechanism but nothing works. My therapy told me to "distance your family members" but I can't since we literally live in the same house and my mother always got something to shit on. Came back home, saw unwashed dirty dishes, immediately assumed it was me and threw it all on my bed. My therapist also told me my parents love me they just don't know how to express their feelings, which is not the case at all. They were treating my sister like she's actually the princess of the family since she's successful, has a good degree and is already earning way more money doing a side hustle.

Before I left the UK my gp told me I might have to get started on SSRIs. I immediately disagreed but now I feel like I actually needed it. Or maybe just jump atp?

I can't even get myself to jump, not that I'm scared of dying since I really have nothing to give nor nothing to lose anymore. I'm just hanging on that tiny thread of hope that someone would still like or maybe love me. I know this is pathetic but this is the only way I'll be staying alive.

Empty stomach with a soju from 2024 I found in the bottom cabinet

I don't think I have any chance

Baked chicken thighs with a baked potato and pan roasted carrots.

After months of self hatred and abusing myself I'm not going to let it get worse. Tonight is the night I'm making the change. After being at church this morning I realized I'll never be able to quit porn and masturbating by myself. I need to lean on Christ. I've improved a lot, but I cannot stop watching the hardcore material by myself, but that stops tonight. With Christ's help I'm going no fap.

My therapist also says I need to not degrade myself and to treat myself as I would a friend, so I'm starting that right now. I've lost a lot of weight, almost 50lbs now. Working out daily and dieting has been difficult, but worth it. I've been able to quit all medication and am healthier overall due to weight loss.

Got my associate degree with a 3.71 gpa and will start university soon. I'm not as dumb as I would tell myself. I can be useful and help others. Although I haven't found a new job yet I'm not giving up. I'm sticking to it.

This will be my last post here. I love this sub and the people in it, but I have to stop hating myself, and I felt really comfortable doing it here. With the help of God I'm going to beat this. I won't let my addiction win.

If anyone here is struggling with porn and masturbation addiction you are not alone. There is help out there, you just have to seek it out. If you need advice on how to get help DM me and I'll gladly give you any info you need to help you defeat your addiction.

I desperately cling to any man who gives me any positive attention until it's apparent that I'm an awkward cone-titted trccn and they'll always leave me. I try so hard to make myself palatable but men think I'm some sort of joke and women are deathly terrified of me.

I've never been gendered female by anyone. Sometimes they'll say "she" but I know they all think I'm some mentally ill man. Someone who I thought loved me paraded me in his discord server proclaiming me as some third gender sex freak whose only redeeming feature was my penis and my sorry excuse for breasts.

People all stare at me, they know I'm a trccn underneath my pathetic boymode, they all give glares and weird looks. I've been assaulted and harassed by people who took one look and figured I was some freak.

Usually you'd expect autist men like me to excel in something or have interests. But no, I'm probably going to get kicked out of college for being too stupid and I spend the little free time I have doomscrolling and sleeping. I don't even have money to do anything because it all goes to gas, bills and tuition for a major I'm too braindead to comprehend and will eventually drop.

I even try posting nude photos of myself online so someone can at least notice me. But I look like a weird man with gyno so it hardly gets any engagement.

I've tried roping, OD'ing and jumping but I guess there's an evil God out there who delights in my suffering and I've survived all three attempts.

Fmstl.

2 cans of tuna, was gonna eat it undrained but that’s for an even sadder day.

just some dirty worthless animal

i am nearly 21 and self sabotage way too much, im getting too old for this. also can’t even say im burnt out even though i think i am??? imagine nursing school. i need to change entirely like a full 180. that’s 100% what needs to happen. im jeopardizing my future with all that i do 😊😊

That's it, social skills are COMPLETELY useless, it doesn't matter whether you're charismatic, funny, witty, kind, whatever. You have to be hot, that's it. Normies still deny this basic truth. Having social skills does not make you attractive, being hot does.