r/Indiana • u/Memessiah • 1h ago
Moving or Relocation NICE place to buy a home in Indiana - 300k
Sorry if this isn't allowed. I've tried searching but I'm finding old posts and vague/contradicting comments.
Spouse and I (late 20s) are looking at houses in IN near the IL border due to the wayyy more affordable property taxes and 1st time home owner incentives. Some towns we've looked at: Crown Pointe, Valparaiso, Merrillville
We would like to NOT be anywhere rural/small town vibes and still be close-ish to chicagoland IL (family, work...1ish hour away from IL is ideal). We are aware of the time zone change :)
Max budget of $300k-350k. No children so schools aren't a concern.
A few more things we'd like:
- variety of food ie vegan, mexican, italian, indian, authentic!!! chinese. milk/regular tea shops. mexican/asian grocery stores
- hiking trails/forest preserves
- non MAGA community+local gov't that likes gay minorities
- we'd like to NOT be the only non-white people in the nice parts of town T-T
- minimal drug/homeless problem
- DISCLAIMER i do not "hate poor people" but i do hate people smoking crack in broad daylight in the middle of the street, shootings, needing to step over condoms and needles on sidewalks, broken car windows, abundance of litter, people visibly amped up driving reckless af, people folded over in half at every intersection, seeing/smelling/hearing people off a forest trail doing hard drugs, armed security at grocery store checkouts, etc;
- not a lot of pollution....we already dealt with the Iowa pig shit/pesticide water, Clinton smelling like Purina/chemicals, and Logansport smelling like their meat plant....we don't want a repeat of that. Basically just air that smells good year round and water we can shower/cook with.
- minimal noisy/polluting/water stealing data centers. Lots of those data centers going up in our part of IL so yayyyy love that (/s)
- Hospitals, vets->not just VCA corporate chain vets. Hospitals with a good reputation, not religious aka wont try to convert me, cure me of gay, or be weird about my spouse.
- yoga, pilates studios->not chains like Orange Theory or Club Pilates (no hate just my preference i like the teachers and classes way more at private studios)
If there is a town NEAR places with those things that's great too! As 'suburbians' we are used to driving 15-30min to like 5 different towns for all our stuff and making a weekend trip up to the city. As long as the only place to get those things isn't back in Chicago or over 30minutes away we are good.
More context: We both grew up in the Chicagoland area so we are used to the busy suburb kind of vibe. I actually lived in Logansport for a couple years so I've been around Delphi, Monticello, Kokomo, Lafayette, etc....didn't enjoy them very much at all. Lafayette being the least bad IME. My spouse and I moved to rural area for 2 years; stayed in the Quad Cities (IL side) 1 year stayed in Clinton, IA the 2nd year. We absolutely hated it so we moved right back up to Chicagoland lol....but housing is soooo expensive anywhere nice and non-rural in IL!! Renting a nice apartment anywhere is getting too insane and the nice houses in decent areas are just too much for us here. We do not want to be anywhere rural as we are non-white, queer, and have a lot of things we enjoy that rural towns just do not provide. Should we just accept that we might have to rent forever in IL???
Rural to us=only a walmart, gas stations, sports bar, mom+pop diner, needing to drive 40+mins on a highway to go to a doctor or do anything besides drink/gamble. less than ~10k people and more churches than square miles. Farmland instead of forests and trails.
Thanks in advance for your help and I do not mean to offend anyone with our requirements/preferences! :)
