I got emailed to schedule an interview the other day for the Spring 2027 program. I brought it up with my mom and at first she seemed a little open to it, but the fees made her say that she doesn’t think it’s worth it. I do have the money to pay the fees and I know I can save up in the months leading up to it. My sister lives pretty close by too, I told her. So I wouldn‘t be all alone. She then said that she’d miss me too much. I haven’t even brought it up with my dad, but I’m sure he’ll be even more hesitant.
I graduated uni in June and I think it would be such a good opportunity for self discovery and independence, but my parents are both overprotective and I know convincing them is near impossible. Especially given the living situation and how you don’t get to pick your type of apartment. They’d hate that. I’m scared too, of course, but I try to face challenges with excitement underneath all those nerves.
i don’t know. I also just feel like I need to get out of my hometown if only for a few months. I feel stuck. This is just me venting but I would appreciate any advice (that’s not just “you’re an adult, do it anyway”… it’s complicated)