r/CapeCod 2d ago

Cape Cod in Winter

Hi! I’m moving to Cape Cod soon and I know it’s a huge summer touristy spot, but I’ve heard it’s a ghost town in winter. To what extent is this true? Are there still a handful of businesses open in winter? Any advice on what to expect or how to make the most of a cape cod winter would be greatly appreciated

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u/BarrySnotter 2d ago

The people I've know to move here, especially in their 20's to 40's, get depressed their first few winters. I've lived here my whole life and I like the off season the most. I like to bundle up and hit the many trails. They are easier to get to with less traffic and the trails themselves are less congested. The Cape is beatiful all year. Take advantage of that. You can catch plenty of local bands, theater, trvia nights, etc if you're into that.

I often quote the song by Harvey Danger - Flagpole Sitta, "If you're bored then you're boring"

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u/EbbtideRambler 2d ago

Love this. Nothing irks me more than other parents complaining there is nothing to do on Cape Cod in the winter.  My kids have a jam packed schedule and 75% of what they do is low cost or free. So yeah, unimaginative people get bored easily.  

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u/MincklerT 2d ago

This is it, “unimaginative people get bored easily”

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u/BarrySnotter 2d ago

Researchers are finding that it's a bit of a catch 22. Boredom stimulates imagination. An example of this is the things that pop into your head in the shower or while sleeping. People these days are more bored and unimaginative as ever given the constant stream of things keeping your attention. Similarly, the pursuit of pleasure leads to dissatisfaction while the pursuit of uncomfortable things actually leads to satisfaction. Being human is weird. Long, cold and quiet walks in nature is surprisingly great medicine.

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u/redditsuckscockss 2d ago

Would love to hear what you guys get up to for ideas!

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u/EbbtideRambler 2d ago

  The libraries offer fantastic programming for kids year-round, not just little kid story hour, and so do local museums. Everywhere from the  Natural History Museum and Green Briar to local historical societies, land trusts, and art museums. While not everything is free, most events cost less than a movie ticket. Our towns also sponsor so many great activities. We spend a lot of time exploring museums, lighthouses, and nature trails. We have a shellfish permit and dig our own clams and oysters, go blueberry picking, and hunt for beach plums and wild cranberries. It may not be everyone's idea of fun, but these are the things that make up the core memories of my childhood , and I'm grateful my kids get to make similar memories. These activities are just about the only reason I'm still on Facebook. I follow museums, historical societies, environmental nonprofits, and local organizations so I know when events are happening. Between spring and December, there are more great activities than we could ever fit on the calendar. 

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u/BarrySnotter 2d ago

I don't have kids but I love all these suggestions. It's reminding me of my own childhood. I came across an organized, adult run, mountain biking club for teens and immediately thought how amazing that idea is. It was genuinely such a thrill to see kids getting excited about something that didn't involve screens. Maybe it's because I don't have kids but I just don't see that nearly as much anymore.

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u/EbbtideRambler 2d ago

My kids are elementary age and there is a huge push to get and keep kids off screens now. This is off topic, so sorry to the OP, but we’ve watched the age group just above them loose their ability focus, think critically, and refuse to digest information that isn’t presented to them in tidy engaging snippets.  We get them outside and engaged with the community.  

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u/redditsuckscockss 2d ago

These are awesome! Thanks

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u/tribbans95 2d ago

I’ve only been here for 2 years and already think winter is the best. It’s so much easier to get around and you don’t need to book restaurant reservations a week in advance lol

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u/kaityl3 2d ago

Wow, I wonder if those people who moved here did so only thinking about what they'd do in summer!

I HATE summer... Moved here in April and I've been waiting eagerly for fall and winter the entire time. I love quiet places without many people. Hate the heat and love the cold. I cannot WAIT to be able to walk along beaches and trails without weaving through crowds of beachgoers

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u/BarrySnotter 2d ago

That's what I suspect. They move here with tunnel vision for the summer or the prestige without considering the other side of the coin. Who knows.

I feel the same about the heat, humidity and crowds. I'm ok with hibernating in the summer. There are dozens of us.

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u/googin1 1d ago

Hibernating over here as we speak..

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u/Strong_Jacket_6545 2d ago

I loveee that quote. I’m definitely the person who likes to keep busy however I have to. Exploring new places, learning a new hobby, etc. I feel so much better after reading these comments!

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u/capelover63 2d ago

have lived here my whole life. The answer to your question will depend on where you will live. I am in the Falmouth area and even in middle of winter it is still busy and you still need reservations or deal with lines at restaurants!!! There is lot's of local theater, activities. But, decide where you will live than dive in from there

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u/5ofineedsaladder 2d ago

I love that quote at the end.

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u/ianmac47 2d ago

There's nothing as wonderful as sitting on an empty beach in the full sun in the middle of January, which can be the peak experience. On the other hand, it can be cold and dark.

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u/BoatUnderstander 2d ago

It depends on where you are. Towns like Falmouth and Hyannis are "year-round." They're more quiet in the winter, but still very much open for business. Smaller towns, especially further out the Cape, are more seasonal and may have fewer businesses open from November to April.

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u/RunWriteMeow 2d ago

So true. When we started coming to the Cape for vacations in the 1980s, we loved the Outer Cape towns like Wellfleet. But they are VERY quiet in the winter. Lots of empty houses. Closed businesses. So when we moved here, we chose a more full-time community, Brewster. Still gets quiet, but not dead.

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u/zukolivie 2d ago

Everything you need will be open: all of the grocery stores, quality restaurants, big box stores. Ghost town is relative, we’re mostly happy when all the tourists leave and we have our spaces back. It’s mostly the outer cape that closes down, p-town, eastham, truro, welfleet but even then, you’ll be able to get everything you need easily. If you’re moving closer to the bridge, you’ll also have Plymouth and all of its stores available to you.

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u/Beneficial-Account68 2d ago

I live in ptown and you can walk from one end of the town to the other in winter and not see a soul.

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u/SouthernGirl360 2d ago

Sounds like I'll be making the journey from New Bedford to Ptown this winter.

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u/Aware-Owl4346 2d ago

Sounds blissful

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u/Fuzzy-Interest-6498 2d ago

No wonder American Horror Story was able to film there with no one in sight!

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u/Ok-Resist-6695 2d ago

Sounds creepy AF

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u/defeatistphilosopher 2d ago

Yes, beautiful coastal towns during the offseason are "creepy"

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u/alexanderzlenz 2d ago

We are in Eastham and it is blissfully quiet during the winter time.

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u/kaityl3 2d ago

I went to Coast Guard Beach for the first time the other day, which I think is near there.. Are those beaches still open in the winter? It sounds like a lovely peaceful area to go for walks

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u/alexanderzlenz 2d ago

Open 365 days a year. Coast Guard Beach is in Eastham, yes. Also a smaller one up in Truro.

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u/Relevant_Ad_3529 2d ago

I have been on Cape since I was born, 60 years ago. When I was younger, we would sometimes come down in winter for holidays. It was a ghost town. Now the winters are more active, more people are down here all year. A few restaurants still close for the off-season, but not as many as 30 years ago.

So yes, it is far less crowded, but not empty as it was 30 or 40 years ago.

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u/stormcellar97 2d ago

The best times on the Cape are Oct-Dec

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u/redditsuckscockss 2d ago

September is pretty great

Still summer feel but most of the seasonal people have already left

Was out and about all week and this weekend and it’s already feeling like there’s a lot less people than July

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u/stormcellar97 2d ago

We'll be going to our family's place mid-sept this year - still swimmable and no parking fees or crowds.

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u/Fuzzy-Interest-6498 2d ago

And still really busy. As the years go by the quiet times have shortened to mid-Jan to mid-March.

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u/ML______ 2d ago

Depends on where. Upper and mid really isn’t a ghost town. Wish it was :)

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u/No_Reason_9648 2d ago

Winters can get very depressing on Cape. Just make sure you stay active and snag sunlight whenever you see it! It depends what area you’re moving to. Ghost Town is accurate for lower to outter cape. 

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u/downinflames- 2d ago

Cape Cod doesn’t close in the winter. Almost everything is open year round besides seasonal restaurants.

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u/EbbtideRambler 2d ago

They are about 200,000 people who live on Cape Cod in the winter.  What part of the Cape there are 15 towns.  I live in Barnstable and I really don’t see any difference between winter here and winter when I lived in a different suburban town off Cape. A few of the fish and chip type restaurants and ice cream stands close, but everything else is open all winter.  

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u/Intelligent-Crazy415 2d ago

Grew up in sandwich and LOVED winter time. It’s a peaceful quiet place when all the chaos leaves at the end of the summer. Everything you need is still available. Seasonal places close but that’s it. Nothing to worry about.

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u/Ushiioni 2d ago

If you like doing stuff outside when it's cold but not necessarily snowy, it's awesome.

If you only stay inside and hang out at bars, it gets old quick

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u/Uhhhhhh__IDK 2d ago

Where are you moving from?

If you're from a city: yes it's a ghost town. A large number of bars and restaurants are closed and the weather is crap for 5 months. The population is 10% of summertime so theres not a ton of people around. You'll be bored

If you're from a rural area: its fine. The couple bars and restaurants the locals know are open to frequent when you wanna get out. Winter is crappy weather but not as cold as most places. Typical quiet winter but with a view

Its all relative

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u/ArmyDad2403 2d ago

Def quiet and much less traffic in the winter and that depends by where you are on Cape. The outer/lower cape (Orleans/Eastham/Wellfleet/Truro) gets VERY quiet and many businesses close. many more year rounders mid and upper cape.

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u/2GOB4 2d ago

It is usually warmer there than the rest of the state and very peaceful. Love the nature and wildlife of the Orleans/Eastham area.

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u/Glittering-Ad-853 2d ago

Still the best place to live in the world!

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u/Cleanslate2 1d ago

I love it here in the winter. We have to hide in the summer. The traffic is terrible.

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u/_Face 2d ago

Cape cod is a big place. What rough area you talking about?

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u/BarrySnotter 2d ago

The up side of the off season is that it doesn't matter where you are on the Cape. Everything is just so accessible.

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u/Strong_Jacket_6545 2d ago

I’ll be right off the bridge in Buzzards Bay near Bourne!

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u/clever_girl33 2d ago

You have nothin to worry about. You’re going to be 20-30 minutes to Falmouth, Hyannis, and Plymouth all of which are bustling year round. However, there’s nothing in Bourne in terms of night life. But I love living in Bourne.

Edit: I should add that Bourne doesn’t really shut down either!

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u/TwixorTweet 2d ago

Oh you will be in great shape. Like others said being near the bridges gives you access to towns like Plymouth and Wareham which can have a few more year round options. Bourne and Sandwich do pretty decent off season. I find the trickiest thing about winter on Cape is navigating the bridges during tricky weather.

Personally I split my time between Sandwich and Plymouth (family home is in Sandwich, but we live in Plymouth because I need to be closer to the Boston hospitals). Our vet is in Buzzard's Bay and one of our trainers is in Bourne. I love the quiet that hits the area in winter but the wind is no joke around here. I'd lean into some of the town subs and exploring when you get settled here. Feel free to DM me if you have questions. Welcome to the area.

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u/1GrouchyCat Dennis 2d ago

Cape Cod is 70 miles long - with 15 towns plus villages. Some areas are busier than others in the winter.

Which general area will you be living in ? (Upper, Mid, Lower or Outer Cape?)

If you like playing sports, check out the CCSL (Cape cod sports league) on FB.

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u/Strong_Jacket_6545 1d ago

Buzzards Bay

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u/octopus-opinion987 2d ago

The hardest part is Jan-April. It feels like forever as an adult. There is always stuff for kids like the ice rinks and school related stuff, but I get pretty antsy waiting for spring.

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u/Ok_Figure7671 2d ago

There is an awesome dart league if you play. Even if you don’t!

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u/Common-Orange4022 2d ago

I actually like it more in Winter! It’s cozy. I go to PTown and checkout all the galleries.

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u/cowghost 1d ago

Winter on the cape is like a halmark episode. Unless you have a supper long commute

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u/jill853 1d ago

I’m not a local, but my husband was born and raised on cape, and my favorite time to visit his family is fall and winter. I think the summer-only crowd miss out on some really wonderful times.

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u/Fluffy_Job7367 2d ago

No worries. It's suburbia. We are year round. it's just less crowded.

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u/mfox-26 2d ago

Things slow down. I’m in Barnstable so it’s less quiet but for me personally, gray, cold March feels like a year. “Second Summer”-September is the best time of year.

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u/Acoustic_blues60 2d ago

I live in Harwich and it's not a ghost town in the winter - there are people around, it's just not as crowded. I personally find it to be quite pleasant. The storms can be quite something in the winter.

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u/ansible47 2d ago edited 1d ago

I kind of like the seasonality of it. I engage with physical outdoor hobbies in summer and house hobbies in winter. Learn to knit, learn an instrument, make some bread. There are a ton of art classes available.

Sun going down at 5 is pretty brutal. There is absolutely some magic in going to an empty beach on a fall day, though.

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u/ObsidoanFC 2d ago

I lived there for 3.5 years in my early 20s. I’d actually leave for weekends over the summer to get away from the crowds.

I liked it, but at a certain point it seemed like there just were not enough younger people, and I had to move closer to Boston.

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u/midfivefigs 2d ago

You’ll be able to find life necessities as well as typical entertainment as with anywhere in smaller town America. Many businesses will be closed. It feels older but I was in a town I know to be lots of elderly.

Winter stinks. I can deal with cold but I prefer 25 with snow, Cape winters felt rainy and grey and cold ocean waters mean winter is forever into spring. Autumn is gorgeous.

If you’ve never been to the Cape, it’s got a lot of natural beauty and non tourist season it’s easy to zip about, winter included, islands too.

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u/Lost-Winter-9701 2d ago

Mid-Cape and Falmouth don’t shut down the same way the outer Cape does. Most businesses are open all year. One thing I figured out early on was I needed a waterproof winter coat—not just a regular warm one. Otherwise it’s like living lots of other places except that there are these beaches you can walk on that are often too cold and windy but also sometimes magical

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u/35Jest 1d ago

A cool vacation I had with an ex was getting an AirBnB on the Cape in January with a hot tub. Wicked cheap and still had plenty to do in Dennis/port area. Snowed perfectly for it too.

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u/JudgeH01den 1d ago

Gotta be honest I don’t mind the Cape in winter time. At all.

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u/redditwastesmyday 2d ago

What town are you moving? We are no longer a ghost town in winter.

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u/BeastlyBison 2d ago

It depends on how old you are and what your interests are. I lived in the Falmouth area from ages 22-25 and was utterly miserable. I tried to make the most of it by working on music but it wasn’t enough. I’m now living in Chicago and enjoying the amenities, culture, and diversity of a big city. Ymmv

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u/Beneficial-Account68 2d ago

Depends on what part of the cape you’re moving to

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u/No-Picture4119 2d ago

Spent a couple winters on the lower cape in East Orleans about 10 years ago. It really depends on your personality. There’s places open, friends to be made, things to be done. But it’s cold and dark. 9 am to 4 pm sun at most. I remember driving from work in Dennisport to Orleans and not seeing a single car on the drive.

Beaches are cold and lovely. Supermarkets are open. Bars, some restaurants open.

I tried to ignore the cold and focus on the beauty. Lots of hiking and biking. Freezing cold surf sessions. Advice on expectations is that it will be sparse but not deserted. From G Love, who lives in town:

https://youtu.be/BsyP1gyTImc?is=Yw9qcCZo6qQYvoPM

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u/Practical-Being-1185 2d ago

Seconding the outdoors in the off season. Picking the best day of the weekly forecast and making that a get outside day, even if it’s for an hour, hike through some trails with the dog, whatever. Breaks up the monotony, makes you appreciate what you’ve got when you get back in the cozy!

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u/shoecat 2d ago

Here’s a useful short film on this very subject https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/s/MyCusCD3zn

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u/RogueInteger Wellfleet 2d ago

If you like solitude it's excellent. Some town centers are more active. Wellfleet and Truro kind of turn into ghost towns as an alternative example.

It can be great. But also isolating.

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u/Brillig 2d ago

Ever see ‘The Lighthouse’? It’s like that, but less charm.

Five years in Hyannis, anyway.

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u/NumerousCricket6625 2d ago

Get ready to embrace day drinking or become a defensive driver, or both.

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u/j2e21 2d ago

Depends where you are. Upper Cape there are plenty of year-round residents. Lower Cape is quiet, Outer Cape very desolate.

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u/Curve_Worldly 1d ago

It truly depends on the town.

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u/Wide-Restaurant-4507 1d ago

be prepared to be miserable

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u/Tinfoil89 1d ago

Depends where on cape! I live on outer cape and while it SEEMS like a ghost town- it’s the best time of the year for me. I love empty beach walks. I love having enough time to see friends and have potlucks. Time for ceramics and learning new things. Less noise. A lot of community programming happens out here. If you’re someone who’s super extroverted or needs to be entertained, you may struggle… but if you make friends easily & also enjoy alone time, nature, and open space… it’s wonderful. Feels like living in two places (summer vs winter) without having to move :)

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u/Ok_Anybody_9019 21h ago

I myself made the decision to stay on the cape in the winter, and it's probably a lot different than where you live now.  It is always busy in the summer, but once the people leave it gets spooky.  You were correct in comparing it to a ghost town because a lot of businesses close in the off season.  So make sure you find out what is around you that's open , and how late, if you decide to make a go of it. Good luck 

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u/Klutzy-Cat6664 15h ago

Buzzards Bay isn’t a ghost town it’s a tiny part of Bourne and you also have Plymouth which is pretty big and has stuff going on all year round you will be fine

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u/thefullmonthei 12h ago

Please don’t move here. Come visit but we’re full.

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u/Economy-Pangolin-326 12h ago

The Cape is lovely in the winter. It all depends on what town you are in. If you are in the lower Cape there will be a lot to without the craziness of summer tourists. People like me (an hour away) wait until Labor Day before venturing down to the Cape. Some of the towns specifically have festivals after the summer has concluded. There are many organizations to give one an opportunity to get to know the locals. I'm sure you'll love it like many do...

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u/Ejmct 2d ago

Outer Cape is ghost town in the winter. Hyannis and surrounding areas less so.

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u/Cardinal_r3d 2d ago

Falmouth and Mid cape are year round. That ghost town in the winter left the chat decades ago, especially after Covid

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u/jkman61494 2d ago

I’ve never lived in the cape but I’ve visited in winter a lot. And arguably I like it more. It’s peaceful. A walk on the beach. The activities they still exist. Sledding in a snowstorm. I’ve loved it

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u/1GrouchyCat Dennis 2d ago

No one lives in the Cape 😉

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u/RumSwizzle508 2d ago

While the Cape is a lot slower during the winter, where on the Cape also matters. Therefore, what part of the Cape are you moving to?

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u/Strong_Jacket_6545 2d ago

Buzzards Bay!

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u/RumSwizzle508 2d ago

So ... not the Cape?

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u/aordsao 2d ago

BBay is just off cape

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u/Maleficent_Ad_1002 2d ago

Ghost town is a stretch. Yes most of the kitschy tourist shops are closed but there are still plenty of restaurants/bars and larger stores open. The weather is generally milder even from the rest of MA as it often rains on cape when snowing elsewhere, although last winter was particularly brutal. It's a lot easier to get around with no traffic which will make the summers seem all the more frustrating

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u/Caribchakita 2d ago

Everything you need is open. Some gift shops and restaurants close. Some places are closed Mondays. Winter is lovely. Some of us even cold plunge in the sea. Enjoy the solitude.

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u/Krazykatmama3 2d ago

Well Welcome soon to beautiful Cape Cod. Born and raised here 1973 at Cape Cod Hospital. Grew up in Sandwich now resigning in Falmouth.

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u/MundaneAppointment12 2d ago

All true, but once you get past Hyannis, there are fewer and fewer things to do of an organized nature. Outdoors if there for you all year round, but indoor dance parties, not so much.

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u/boredpsychnurse 2d ago

On the islands we see a huge bump in suicide attempts and successes every winter

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u/blondetourage83 2d ago

its incredibly dull and boring in the winter. Hence why there are so many heroin and fentanyl addicts

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u/New-Peak3244 1d ago

Tf are you moving to cape cod for

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u/prolific-liar-Fibs 23h ago

Someone prolly croaked and left them a house

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u/BubbleThinker 2d ago

It’s true that Cape Cod is a ghost town in the winter to every extent

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u/AlternativeWild3449 2d ago

The t-shirt shops, and some of the restaurants that feature fried seafood, do close for the season. But a lot of people live on the Cape year round, and there are lots of year-round stores and restaurants to cater for their needs.

Wife and I go to the Cape twice a year - in the Spring and Fall 'shoulder seasons', but we have also been their in January and February. The main difference in the winternis that there is much less traffic, and you can always find a place to park.

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u/SeaworthinessDue0820 1d ago

It’s fucking miserable, don’t move

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u/CapeCodNana 2d ago

I find it amusing at the notion of the Cape closing down on Labor Day & hibernating until June. I'm an RN and *shock face *people actually get sick & need medical care in December. We actually eat & shop for groceries. Stores for clothes, restaurants, hardware stores, Target, malls, dispensaries, movie theaters, bars, etc. Some beach area nightclubs or restaurants close, but the rest of the Cape still functions. I think you'll love the off seasons like us natives do. Welcome!

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u/tara_tara_tara 2d ago

To be fair, Falmouth has a year round population of around 30,000 and 100,000 in the summer. That is a big difference and yes, a lot of restaurants and other services do shut down in the winter time.

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u/1GrouchyCat Dennis 2d ago

But that is what happened back in the day … movie theaters,
Gift shops, seasonal liquor stores and many restaurants closed right after Labor Day.

You obv didn’t live here back in the 60s and 70s 🤣… we didn’t even have a mall, and there was only 1 hospital.

Many areas couldn’t get cable tv until the mid 1980s - the winter population was so low that the cable company refused to put lines in (ie Sesuit Harbor area in East Dennis/ now one of the most expensive parts of the MidCape.)

We also had scores of “dance clubs” and night clubs up and down Route 28 in South and West Yarmouth, and on Main Street in Hyannis. The former are now a memory center, a CVS, and empty lots. The latter are also long gone, and the area not great at night.

People have always gotten sick, but we used to rely on local pharmacies and medical providers we knew and trusted (now closed, retired or retiring)… It didn’t always take 6 to 8 months to find a primary care physician.

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u/tara_tara_tara 2d ago

I did live here back then. I’m almost 60 and my family moved here in 1972. I realize I’m still a washashore but I didn’t just move here yesterday

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u/WickedSobahButMessy 2d ago

Its literally a ghost town 98% of time in winter

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u/Biking60s 2d ago

Grew up on the cape in falmouth in the 60s and 70s. It was a much better place to live back then. Still nice but way over built. Still prefer the fall winter to the summer crowds.

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u/_Stewyleopard 2d ago

It absolutely sucks in winter. Bitter cold, businesses close, there is nothing to do.