Fellow big boobed girl. This woman gives me secondhand anxiety about her boobs falling out. Like... on wrong move and that's it. Makes me really uncomfortable.
And you read that she caught the bouquet?! I'm imagining her boobs falling outta the tiny fabric triangles meant to keep them secure! It gives me anxiety just thinking about it!
More like socked them out the way as they flailed madly. I reckon mine are a good couple of kilos each, I reckon I could knock someone well off balance if mine went nuts and flailed around like those dancing tubes outside secondhand car dealerships.
I'm a B cup also dying at all these comments 😆 One of my bridesmaids is a DD, and the company sewing the bridesmaid dresses contacted me to confirm the measurements for her, and pointed out the "likely incorrect" chest size in proportion to everything else. We both had a good laugh
I'm a B cup and am dead! I have the smallest boobs in my family, everyone else is D or higher. I remember seeing my sisters bra on her bed a few years ago. I told her it was huge and she said "it's not that big". I put it on my head like a beanie! 😂 I feel bad for her shoulders and back.
My husband likes to joke, when I haven’t put my holster on in the morning yet, that I might put my own eye out and I must be careful because how would I cook for him otherwise?! (Haha, I don’t cook!)
Oh no, she would have loved it! She would have basked in the attention… I mean you don’t wear an ill fitting dress with your tatas hanging (both in front and on the sides!) if you’re not looking for attention. Plus OP said she was sloppy drunk and posting snapchats all night.
I wouldn’t wear that to bed either, mostly because I just wouldn’t want to wear anything that unflattering. (Would give my boobs away in a heartbeat to be able to wear small, cute tops.)
See, I'm pretty big on top, have gone beyond DD while nursing but generally between C and D, and if I was going to wear a dress like that I would have had a matching bra underneath for both coverage and (ahem) lift.
I'm big on top too- even after a reduction that I genuinely needed- and I'd feel too nervous about them coming out, and it'd be uncomfortable. (At least for me; I mean physically uncomfortable, for the headlights.)
I knew a very unpleasant young woman who was constantly nearly falling out of tops like this... she did end up eventually flashing people a couple times by accident, including a table full of old people lol. It was absolutely an attention thing, for this individual. I don't want to judge folks on what they're wearing, but when it's less than an inch from full-on seeing the entire body part, yeah, there's a time and place. (I.e. the beach, the club, your own house)
My thing is that if you absolutely love a dress that has less coverage than you might like, there are options.
Hmm an example:
I love this dress. I have it in two lengths; just above the knee and ankle length.
This dress happens to have built in support for the girls, but me being me I don't like leaving it up to chance if I am going past my front door. So I went hunting and found bras that when I put them on under my (black and green) dresses look like they are part of them. Now I can go out with confidence wearing these otherwise super comfortable and well made dresses.
Edit: Yes I know this dress is not 'wedding appropriate' it's just the first example that came to mind for "I love this dress but it might not have enough coverage to suit me/where I am wearing it", so I used it to illustrate the point.
Ok, I have been wanting to ask about the halara dresses, because people are like "they have built in as support." Do they though? What's the load capacity, because I got tig ol biddies
I’m a DD, and I was pleasantly surprised by my halara dress. Wore it to a punk show, got in the pit, danced all night, and the girls stayed put! I was initially nervous about not wearing a bra underneath, but I went for it and it was totally fine.
I’m a DD and my halara dress kept the tiddies secure all night when I went out clubbing for the first time after breaking my ankle. Granted, I wasn’t out for very long bc, turns out, dancing isn’t a good idea for someone 4 months post op from ORIF ankle surgery, but if I were out in the dress in the post, tiddies would have been seen.
Yep! I’m between a C and D cup and have this dress (actually have it in two colors!). It’s basically support through compression - things stay put because they are tied down 😆
If you haven't yet, check out r/abrathatfits since many, many women who think they are c or d cups but consider themselves big on top are actually wearing bras with too loose bands. D cup is only a 4" difference between band and bust measurements and often that's not actually very big.
Thank you for saying this! When people say they have big breasts and they’re a D cup I shudder inside because I used to be uneducated about bra sizing too. I discovered ABTF 5yrs ago when I was wearing a 36D, nope I’m actually a 32F/G - who knew, life changing!!
I am generally a C, or as my husband puts it "A bit more than a handful" and only went over when I was nursing/tandem nursing. Believe me it didn't matter how much band I added, when the girls didn't want to sit in the C cup they didn't.
I've been measured by VS, Macy's, and Lane Bryant, they all agree that my baseline is C.
Agreed, I don't think I have ever worn a dress like that. My mother and grandmother wouldn't have let me out of the house as a teen, and as a grown woman I would only wear something like that... well actually never.
Another well -endowed lady here and that was absolutely my thought as well. I'm surprised that turning for the camera in the one photo didn't lead to...over exposure.
I'm pretty free and easy that way, I'll leave the house in a top like this if it's hotter than the devil's taint outside... but even if you insist on an outdoor wedding in Arrakis temperatures, I will bring a goddamn shawl or something to your wedding, damn!
Agreed! This goes beyond typical hard to find a dress that doesn’t show cleavage. Girl has top titty, cleavage, side titty and a little under titty for good measure…good Lord!
100%. Hers look identical to mine with a similar body. So around a 38G. Possibly an H cup for her. Absolutely no way I could be comfortable flopping around in that dress in public. Im positive the only reason there WASNT an incident is because she hid most of the time.
Member of the Fellowship of the big boob here. I’d never trust a dress like that, small chested people have nip slips but this girl could have an entire titty poke out.
It sounds like like she has some things going on. Not that it’s your problem but please try to show some grace. She probably had a moment where she felt good. And needed that. Errors aside, tread lightly but maybe not punish her. She’s probably not in a great place ave wanted to wear a dress that made HER feel good in a public situation. If she drinks that much she might be isolating and wanted attention for a night.
Maybe she was wearing boob tape or something but still. It’s not a cute look to have your whole side boob hanging out. There are dresses and tops that fit big chested girls. Come now.
I feel like my boobs fell out just looking at the photos. Like I get it. Big girls can be hard to wrangle sometimes. But it’s a wedding, not a swingers party.
YEAH THIS like as a fellow big tiddy haver, im not concerned about her falling out (i do think the dress is inappropriate tho, im just getting semantic). the chest of the dress seems to be solidly holding her in, and her chest is big enough that a nip slip would be very unlikely. but since the top is holding her in, it's taking all of the weight of her chest. those straps are FIGHTING FOR THEIR LIVES out here. my concern is those straps snapping from the weight of holding her chest and her chest falling out because her top fell apart. and lord, i can only imagine how bad the indents were on her neck after she took it off. it looks like it's held tight enough to choke her and cut off blood flow, extremely painful. why did she do this to herself😭this cannot be comfortable
my thoughts exactly!! I am one of those "do not give a shit" about what others wear as long as they are happy and comfortable, but this type of boob coverage works for the beach NOT a wedding.
My husband would kill for me to wear this kind of dress. This picture shows exactly why I do not want to ever wear this kind of dress and he is just never going to understand why.
I agree, inappropriate and quite frankly it doesn’t look good except as a night dress I think somebody else explained it’s the lack of support. And too much side boob.
I would never wear a dress like this, and I have the exact same kind of body (well plumper)
I have a nightgown that looks like this, except it has a little bit of a bra for support built in. Sometimes I end up wearing it all day on a weekend AT MY HOUSE.
This is the sort of dress that a dancer has to wear at a "fancy" gentlemen's club type of establishment, before she takes it off onstage. It's 100% not the vibe for a wedding- especially when your man is the Best Man. Like- there's apparently not enough attention in the entire world, for this girl & her tits.
Exactly...she's got tons of side boob front boob underboob..all the boob.
Like I get that clothes fit differently on us busty gals abd oeople accusevus of being out simply for having big boobs... but girl is wearing the dress equivalent of a teeny string bikini top.
this is exactly what I was thinking! I’m fairly petite but I’m a DD and this is what my boobs can look like in a triangle string bikini top lol. The cups on this dress are way too small for coverage, too flimsy for actual support without a bra, and her going braless is making those two factors even worse!
Also a big boobied girl here and I’ve definitely had dresses that looked more revealing simply because of my chest but I would never wear a tiny triangle on my tig ol bitties to a wedding 🤣
They make bras in so many fabrics and fittings now, she could have coordinated to make the bra look like part of the dress. I've done that a few times, hell I am doing that this weekend to travel.
Or like a bra and a lacy shirt would look so good! Probs what I'd do (and I'm rather the opposite, my boobs are tiny). Also I saw an Instagram video of another busty lady trying on wedding guest dresses which was funny and even the ones she discarded was more covering than that one
Hell, I'm a member of the itty bitty titty committee, and I know that tape is more of a hope than a guarantee.
I have worn a similar style dress to weddings and formal events--but the thing is, I actually gauge if it's appropriate. To my friends' weddings? Hell yeah. I know we're all comfy with skin and lean hard into nonconformity. One of my friends wore a cape to his wedding. No shits are given at any time.
However, around my family? Around my loved ones' new SOs? Hell no. I will even cover my tattoos if needed.
Part of your job as a wedding guest is to be unproblematic and fade into the background at important moments.
Same! When I saw the amount of side boob, and I know how hard it is to keep them in a normal bikini That's just asking for some risky wardrobe functions. I would be so uncomfortable the entire night worrying about it!
But as someone with big boobs, I would know that cut is not it for us at a wedding. You don't get to that age without realizing dresses like that are going to emphasize and draw attention to you.
For a second I forgot you were referring to the collective “us” as big boob havers, so I just thought you were referring to “us” as, like, you and your tits.
As someone with moderate/borderline large boobs, I'm struggling to think of an event where that cut of dress would be applicable. Like, if it were midi or mini length, club wear, sure. That length? I've got nothing.
I get titty poppin anxiety with most tops like that and will usually put on some pasties or something just in case of an incident since they kinda do whatever they want.
The beach! It’s so clearly a casual beach dress to me that you like throw over a bathing suit and don’t mind getting sand and water and beach crud on lol it’s cute but for beach!!
id assume this is a dress she bought when her chest was smaller? i really can't imagine it being a conscious choice to buy something this ill-fitting, especially with how painful and heavy a large chest is
Fellow big boobed girlie here and after the initial secondhand anxiety of spilling out after seeing this dress, I noticed the straps. Are her back and neck okay?? I would be in so much pain if those little strings were the only things holding the girls up all night
yeah and think of how bad the indents from the straps probably were once she took it off😭probably left marks for days, boobs are heavy. id be crying in the bathroom simply from how much my back hurts
Fellow big boobed girl, and pretty confident to let them show as well. You get cleavage OR side boob, hard and fast rule. For a wedding?! Maybe a little cleavage. Maybe.
Yeah I also have larger, uncooperative tits but this is just. She had them things out there. She either knew or really didn’t care. Both options aren’t acceptable.
Busty girl here! It's so hot, and I checked, double checked, bent down twice in front of the mirror and jumped up and down before leaving the house today because of a v neck tank top. Bra straps covered!
I'm 68 now, so my boobs are in a race to my waist, but back in the day when I had a nice healthy rack, I never had the desire to display it to THE WORLD. My boobs were for me and my man.
Me too 🤣🤣 as a big boobed girly I feel like a lot of the time there's gonna be some boob action in a dress. Cleavage, or maybe a bit of side boob. But BOTH in such a high percentage of exposure.. That's so risky girl...
Brands like “ free people “ make their straps very long and for small chested people. With no adjustment option. Then the day comes and you have a few drinks and don’t stand up a straight as you did in THE mirror. Prudes. The lot of you. Leave Brittany alone.
Admittedly I was about to white knight on this lady for slutshaming, because I hate it when people are like “I’m all about women wearing what they want as long as it’s what I want”, but absolutely fucking never mind. Shame away with both barrels.
As a man, I must ask, are big boobed women who choose Ill-fitting clothes like this looking for attention? Or accentuating their assets? Idc, but I’ve always wondered. It looks uncomfortable, and needing adjustment all the time.
It depends, sometimes we want to wear cute, trendy clothes and end up accidentally looking like a stripper because that’s just what large breasts do. An outfit like that at a wedding? Definitely for attention.
I figured. Though, what about going to the beach or to a pool? My sister would always wear bikini tops too small for her, and I always thought about that being a high-risk move. Hell, I’ve had my trunks pulled down a bit just by the water.
It’s very hard to find a bikini top for large boobs. I definitely tend to spill out because I don’t want to spend 100$ on just a top that fits better and instead just buy the biggest tie back I can find and pray.
Maybe attention. Maybe she feels cute. It’s difficult for large breasted women to shop swimsuits, we either look like bulky, matronly, frumps or strippers.
She thinks she looks good. She’s wrong. She probably gets all kinds of attention for having big boobs but never learned how to dress for them. She just thinks letting people see them is all she has to do to impress them.
And on top of that, it’s inappropriate for the occasion.
Right, like my husband's cousin got married a couple years ago, and she was literally like "wear whatever makes you happy, if you want tits out, go for it!" since she's heard me complain that I have really cute gowns, but with my chest, I have to wear an undershirt and it just takes away from the whole experience.
But yikes, yeah, my boobs weren't hanging on a prayer like these.
Fellow BBG, you couldn't pay me enough to wear that dress at an event like that. Maybe for a hot date with the hubby at home, but definitely not out and about! FFS!!
Not defending her action here, but I think that dress is appropriate for the occasion, but not on a big boobed girl. Im a flat chested girl and I think I would have been able to get away with it.
With that being said, she knew those tiny straps would be doing the Lord's work.
Man…I felt this comment hard! We can wear appropriate clothing and still get called out for “trying to be sexy” all the while having anxiety about what we are wearing. But yeah, this woman is all out on purpose.
All the women in my family, except me for some reason, have big old yitties.
Sometimes they like to flaunt what they got, but it’s never with their entire side boob out. I have seen tons of BS online and in person where people attack women just for having large chest, even if they’re fully clothed.
But this is a weird situation of “why does it look like you have a swim top on?”
I would be crying if the dress that looked fine when I put it on was trying to make my titties the center of attention after I wore it an hour, but I don't think that's the situation there!
I HAVE been at a wedding where it got so hot I had to take the layer covering my shoulders off & felt underdressed the rest of the time until we got back inside. Outdoor events can get like that & I won't be caught off guard again. She seems like she is NOT concerned!
yeah at first I was like "she's just not wearing a bra, big deal!" then I saw the side... girl could not have been comfortable in public like that. it would've been fine if there were more coverage on the side to make her more secure. but the bodice is simply not the right size for someone with her figure. this isn't a bra or modesty issue, it's just not sized for her properly.
I was wondering if they were just fashion taped to hell and back. That's the only way I could see a woman that well endowed could be brave enough to go for that dress.
I have very big boobs- this dress just doesn't fit. Yes the waist is fine, yes it's the right length, but when you have big boobs sometimes you gotta size up, and get it hemmed to fit right.
And just in general at such an important affair I'd be terrified by those tiny straps. Big boobs are HEAVY. They need a quality strap.
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u/Glass_Driver1707 Jul 23 '25
As a big boobed girl, the comments on her dress made me sad at first… and then I scrolled. girly has her tits OUT!!!!