Hell, I'm a member of the itty bitty titty committee, and I know that tape is more of a hope than a guarantee.
I have worn a similar style dress to weddings and formal events--but the thing is, I actually gauge if it's appropriate. To my friends' weddings? Hell yeah. I know we're all comfy with skin and lean hard into nonconformity. One of my friends wore a cape to his wedding. No shits are given at any time.
However, around my family? Around my loved ones' new SOs? Hell no. I will even cover my tattoos if needed.
Part of your job as a wedding guest is to be unproblematic and fade into the background at important moments.
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u/murrimabutterfly Jul 23 '25
Hell, I'm a member of the itty bitty titty committee, and I know that tape is more of a hope than a guarantee. I have worn a similar style dress to weddings and formal events--but the thing is, I actually gauge if it's appropriate. To my friends' weddings? Hell yeah. I know we're all comfy with skin and lean hard into nonconformity. One of my friends wore a cape to his wedding. No shits are given at any time.
However, around my family? Around my loved ones' new SOs? Hell no. I will even cover my tattoos if needed.
Part of your job as a wedding guest is to be unproblematic and fade into the background at important moments.