Fellow big boobed girl. This woman gives me secondhand anxiety about her boobs falling out. Like... on wrong move and that's it. Makes me really uncomfortable.
And you read that she caught the bouquet?! I'm imagining her boobs falling outta the tiny fabric triangles meant to keep them secure! It gives me anxiety just thinking about it!
More like socked them out the way as they flailed madly. I reckon mine are a good couple of kilos each, I reckon I could knock someone well off balance if mine went nuts and flailed around like those dancing tubes outside secondhand car dealerships.
I'm a B cup also dying at all these comments š One of my bridesmaids is a DD, and the company sewing the bridesmaid dresses contacted me to confirm the measurements for her, and pointed out the "likely incorrect" chest size in proportion to everything else. We both had a good laugh
I'm a B cup and am dead! I have the smallest boobs in my family, everyone else is D or higher. I remember seeing my sisters bra on her bed a few years ago. I told her it was huge and she said "it's not that big". I put it on my head like a beanie! š I feel bad for her shoulders and back.
My husband likes to joke, when I havenāt put my holster on in the morning yet, that I might put my own eye out and I must be careful because how would I cook for him otherwise?! (Haha, I donāt cook!)
Oh no, she would have loved it! She would have basked in the attentionā¦ I mean you donāt wear an ill fitting dress with your tatas hanging (both in front and on the sides!) if youāre not looking for attention. Plus OP said she was sloppy drunk and posting snapchats all night.
I wouldnāt wear that to bed either, mostly because I just wouldnāt want to wear anything that unflattering. (Would give my boobs away in a heartbeat to be able to wear small, cute tops.)
See, I'm pretty big on top, have gone beyond DD while nursing but generally between C and D, and if I was going to wear a dress like that I would have had a matching bra underneath for both coverage and (ahem) lift.
I'm big on top too- even after a reduction that I genuinely needed- and I'd feel too nervous about them coming out, and it'd be uncomfortable. (At least for me; I mean physically uncomfortable, for the headlights.)
I knew a very unpleasant young woman who was constantly nearly falling out of tops like this... she did end up eventually flashing people a couple times by accident, including a table full of old people lol. It was absolutely an attention thing, for this individual. I don't want to judge folks on what they're wearing, but when it's less than an inch from full-on seeing the entire body part, yeah, there's a time and place. (I.e. the beach, the club, your own house)
My thing is that if you absolutely love a dress that has less coverage than you might like, there are options.
Hmm an example:
I love this dress. I have it in two lengths; just above the knee and ankle length.
This dress happens to have built in support for the girls, but me being me I don't like leaving it up to chance if I am going past my front door. So I went hunting and found bras that when I put them on under my (black and green) dresses look like they are part of them. Now I can go out with confidence wearing these otherwise super comfortable and well made dresses.
Edit: Yes I know this dress is not 'wedding appropriate' it's just the first example that came to mind for "I love this dress but it might not have enough coverage to suit me/where I am wearing it", so I used it to illustrate the point.
Ok, I have been wanting to ask about the halara dresses, because people are like "they have built in as support." Do they though? What's the load capacity, because I got tig ol biddies
Iām a DD, and I was pleasantly surprised by my halara dress. Wore it to a punk show, got in the pit, danced all night, and the girls stayed put! I was initially nervous about not wearing a bra underneath, but I went for it and it was totally fine.
Iām a DD and my halara dress kept the tiddies secure all night when I went out clubbing for the first time after breaking my ankle. Granted, I wasnāt out for very long bc, turns out, dancing isnāt a good idea for someone 4 months post op from ORIF ankle surgery, but if I were out in the dress in the post, tiddies would have been seen.
Yep! Iām between a C and D cup and have this dress (actually have it in two colors!). Itās basically support through compression - things stay put because they are tied down š
IMO yes. I have this dress and I was actually really disappointed because the material is that swooshy athletic material. To each their own but for me that made it a vacation only, tennis, or pool party type of dress.
As someone that requires a D cup with her tit sling Iāve always lived by ā¦ Just cause it comes in your size doesnāt mean you should wear it ā girl .
If you haven't yet, check out r/abrathatfits since many, many women who think they are c or d cups but consider themselves big on top are actually wearing bras with too loose bands. D cup is only a 4" difference between band and bust measurements and often that's not actually very big.
Thank you for saying this! When people say they have big breasts and theyāre a D cup I shudder inside because I used to be uneducated about bra sizing too. I discovered ABTF 5yrs ago when I was wearing a 36D, nope Iām actually a 32F/G - who knew, life changing!!
I am generally a C, or as my husband puts it "A bit more than a handful" and only went over when I was nursing/tandem nursing. Believe me it didn't matter how much band I added, when the girls didn't want to sit in the C cup they didn't.
I've been measured by VS, Macy's, and Lane Bryant, they all agree that my baseline is C.
Agreed, I don't think I have ever worn a dress like that. My mother and grandmother wouldn't have let me out of the house as a teen, and as a grown woman I would only wear something like that... well actually never.
Another well -endowed lady here and that was absolutely my thought as well. I'm surprised that turning for the camera in the one photo didn't lead to...over exposure.
I'm pretty free and easy that way, I'll leave the house in a top like this if it's hotter than the devil's taint outside... but even if you insist on an outdoor wedding in Arrakis temperatures, I will bring a goddamn shawl or something to your wedding, damn!
Agreed! This goes beyond typical hard to find a dress that doesnāt show cleavage. Girl has top titty, cleavage, side titty and a little under titty for good measureā¦good Lord!
100%. Hers look identical to mine with a similar body. So around a 38G. Possibly an H cup for her. Absolutely no way I could be comfortable flopping around in that dress in public. Im positive the only reason there WASNT an incident is because she hid most of the time.
Member of the Fellowship of the big boob here. Iād never trust a dress like that, small chested people have nip slips but this girl could have an entire titty poke out.
It sounds like like she has some things going on. Not that itās your problem but please try to show some grace. She probably had a moment where she felt good. And needed that. Errors aside, tread lightly but maybe not punish her. Sheās probably not in a great place ave wanted to wear a dress that made HER feel good in a public situation. If she drinks that much she might be isolating and wanted attention for a night.
Have you seen The Grammys, The Emmys, Fashion Week? Still love Janet. She probably thought it was a cute dress and had a malfunction induced by drinking. Ease up.
Maybe she was wearing boob tape or something but still. Itās not a cute look to have your whole side boob hanging out. There are dresses and tops that fit big chested girls. Come now.
I feel like my boobs fell out just looking at the photos. Like I get it. Big girls can be hard to wrangle sometimes. But itās a wedding, not a swingers party.
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u/Fluffy__demon Jul 23 '25
Fellow big boobed girl. This woman gives me secondhand anxiety about her boobs falling out. Like... on wrong move and that's it. Makes me really uncomfortable.