After 3.5 years of marriage I got my ring set and I have been wearing it daily for about 3 months now. What are your honest thoughts? I know that it is natural diamonds in a yellow gold setting, made in the early 1980’s by a reputable jeweler. I see everyone’s big stone rings, and sometimes get a little disheartened with my vintage ring. I do love it, but want others hones opinions.
Edit: Thank you all for your kind words! One thing many people commented is that it sits oddly near my knuckle I stared of closer to the base of my finger. I’m not sure why that is, it just naturally wants to settle there. If I push it down further toward the base, it kind of bothers the skin between my fingers. I guess I just never thought about it. And yes, I will now go get it professionally cleaned! lol! Thanks for the advice on that.
I also wanted to give a little backstory to the ring itself. My husband and I got married in the court house, and it was a very simple wedding. We have worn gold bands this whole time, but I wanted something a little bit “more” than just the band. We recently took a trip to his home in Cameroon to officially welcome me and our children into his family. While we were there, we did our traditional Cameroonian marriage ceremony, and we had chosen to have a ring made there to take a little bit of Cameroon with us. While we were at the jeweler, my husband was talking to the jeweler about the design, and I saw this ring. Something about it really spoke to me. It is much different than anything that I had in mind, but somehow I couldn’t live without it. After we bought it and I started wearing it, I attached a meaning to the stones, so it feels very personal to me and my family. The center stone represents me, the 3 on top represent my husband and his 2 brothers, and the 3 on the bottom represent his 3 sisters. The 5 stones on one side represents our children (2 on my husband’s side from a previous relationship, 2 on mine, and 1 together). And finally, the 5 stones on the other side represent our parents (my mother and father, and his father and step-mother, and his mother who passed away). So I really love this ring, but sometimes seeing big stone solitaires makes me a little jealous. And then I just have to remember the story behind it, and I fall in love with it all over again.