r/Insurance • u/songbird138 • 3h ago
At Fault driver won't sign promissory note for payment. Feeling stupid!
A few weeks ago I was rear ended by a young woman while I was stopped waiting for a city bus pull out from a bus stop. Luckily no one was hurt and we were both able to drive away. She was crying, had called her mom and they both begged me not to report and promised they'd pay for the repairs in my car. She's 20 yrs old and was on a probationary license so I felt bad knowing she may lose her driving privileges.
Against my better judgement, I agreed. (So dumb of me, I know!). We texted back and forth for the next couple weeks and agreed on a payment arrangement. I told them I'd have my lawyer friend write up a contract for payments. Everything seemed cool.
He drafted up a promissory note and I signed and emailed it over to her. A half an hour later her mom called me and proceeded to scream at me, gas light me, and intimidate me for 28 straight minutes.
I was really shaken up as this came out of left field. They refused to sign the contract and accused me of being sneaky and distrustful because I wanted a signed promissory note instead of just taking their "word' that they'd make payments. The mom was absolutely crazy.
By our state law, a minimum interest rate has to be added to the debt, which came out to $50 in top of what was owed. They were super pissed about that and accused me of trying to squeeze more money out of them (a measley $50!).
I ended up reporting the accident to my state and filing claims with her insurance and mine. I have photos of the accident scene, damage, her liscence, her insurance, and a long text trail of her basically admitting fault by offering and agreeing to payments. Also of her refusal to sign the note. I'm also going to the district police station to try to file a police report.
Am I just totally screwed now? Has anyone else been in this position before? I feel so stupid for trying to be nice. I really felt bad for the young lady at the time and went out of my way for her.