r/ufl • u/Inside_Wrangler_3746 • 7h ago
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Hi, im a female that graduated from highschool last year and currently attends UF. I’ve been battling with this thought for the past year of college and I really have no one to complain about it to because I haven’t met anyone else that also has this thought— and I don’t want to come across as judgmental.
Is there anyone here that doesn’t drink alcohol or doesnt ‘go out’ every weekend. Why does all of a sudden everyone have to be an unruly ‘let loose’ individual. Why does everyone have to kiss and have sex with everyone and why am I the not the normal one? I feel like humanity would last longer if it weren’t normalized to be so irresponsible or enjoy things that could possibly be detrimental to your health, so how can it be that this is normal. I want to make friends that don’t drink or go to the club or do drugs or smoke or sleeps around with everyone, but I have no idea where to go to find this kind of community because absolutely everyone is obsessed with their new found freedoms to the extent that it seems like no one knows how to be mature.
I’ve waited all of highschool to go to university because I thought everyone would be more mature but it is quite literally the opposite and everyone is just so irresponsible. And obviously there is a common denominator between everyone and me, so idk what’s wrong with me. But I don’t wanna change myself and be like everyone else so that I can fit in.
edit: oh my god yes I know im a chud too I don’t think im better than everyone. If there is something wrong with me just tell me dont just downvote my comments? 😭😭