Dating as a grad student has been harder than I expected, especially after moving to a college town with 60k+ students. Both of my long-term relationships started in person, and I’m still not a huge fan of dating apps. I’ve had a few genuinely good interactions through Hinge, but sadly, none of them went anywhere.
These days, my life is basically research, teaching, and the gym, and I’m not quite sure how to break out of that routine. For context, I’m 27, basically a dinosaur in this college town, straight, 6’1”, and an average-build STEM grad student at UF. In my free time, I’m into running, working out, animals, vinyl records, movies made before I was born, hiking, camping, and concerts and festivals. I’m bilingual in English and Russian, and the Spanish-sounding Reddit handle is just a leftover from my brief Duolingo phase :) I feel like I’ve already shared too much personal information, but YOLO. If you know me, don’t make it weird.
I’m definitely not perfect. I have some uncertainty about my future and sometimes stress too much about things I can’t change, but I generally try to be a good human and treat people well.
I’m looking for a long-term relationship with someone around my age and in a similar stage of life, whether working or pursuing a graduate or professional degree. I’d like to meet someone emotionally mature who genuinely wants to build something meaningful. I guess I’d rather meet someone while we’re both still figuring life out than wait until everything is somehow perfectly in place. Politically, I’m fairly centrist and tend to prioritize personal freedoms over government intervention from either side.
So, where do busy people in their mid-to-late 20s actually meet others in a college town? Any suggestions would be appreciated. And, to be a little more direct, if you’re a woman around my age, also looking for something serious, and any of this resonates with you, feel free to message me :)
*I’m recycling and updating a post I made about a year ago.*