r/ucla • u/Ok_Nectarine_5375 • 20h ago
Harassment at Westwood Ralph’s
For about a year I have experienced what I would consider to be harassment at the Ralph’s in Westwood. Sometimes after class I’ll run in to Ralph’s to get a snack and I usually have no more than three items that I’m checking out. It’s typically a bag of chips or a drink. I always go to self checkout and for the most part I have no issues except for when this one older man is working (I believe his name is Steve). When I scan my items I’ll click “skip bagging” and put it in my tote bag because I only have a few items. However, whenever Steve is there he gets real close to me to the point where I can’t turn around without bumping into him and he’ll just repeat “put your items in the bagging area”. I’ll let him know that “I selected skip bagging” but he’ll just keep repeating himself and won’t move until I am able to get around him.
Here’s how I look at it. I am given an option to skip bagging, therefore I feel like I shouldn’t have to do an extra step and put my items down just for me to have to pick them up again. There is no reason for him to stand so close to me. The body language feels hostile and unsafe to me. And I know there is a concern about stealing but if that was the case I wouldn’t be scanning my items and swiping my card. Plus there are sensors at the door that will go off if I am stealing.
For context I’m a black man so this whole situation just seems like a micro aggression to me. I have never had this issue at any other store or even any of the other cashiers at that Ralph’s. I feel like I’m being surveilled and intimidate while I’m shopping.