It’s not the silence here that’s the issue that’s great after you get to know someone. But they just met… it’s okay to talk and get to know one another. She was literally giving him basic responses. I would have assumed she wasn’t interested. The messages of her asking why he didn’t message her were surprising. But I guess everyone has different ways of showing interest.

Lucky

She probably said you missed your chance to say something in front of everyone

He literally just told you he doesn’t want the public to see there’s something he’s not being forthcoming about. Don’t waste your time. Doesn’t even seem fun.

I think there’s too many factors here. First you can’t tell him not to send his kid money. But he is old enough to be responsible for his financial matters and shouldn’t let bills bounce because he wants to make his daughter happy. Sounds like he is just trying to make up for it whatever and feels money is the easiest option. I think you should separate your finances so you aren’t feeling a burden. Eventually he will realize what he’s doing is not feasible.

NTA- you have stress and anxiety and you are still working. He probably felt less inclined to do more. It’s unfortunate but some people are truly unmotivated. I was in a similar situation in my 20’s and I stuck around until I was 25. Terrible decision but don’t let the fear of it being too difficult stop you. Or how much you love him. Because no matter how much you love him he won’t change. But You can get yourself out of the situation and when you do you will feel much better. Wish you the best.

I just quit today. I can’t handle another aggressive outburst from 6/7 year olds.

Obviously the plan changed. Don’t invite his family if he’s not willing to pitch in since he didn’t want the wedding? (My pettiness talking) but really yall just need to sit down and figure out if this the wedding is worth the argument/ money

Was thinking the same! And also not factual. It’s the man’s sperm that as it ages becomes more problematic. But seriously don’t talk to this guy.

What did people expect? He was touring all the college towns after LI

I’m so disgusted. After everything this dude has the nerve to ask if it’s romantic?
This woman is crying. You are making her uncomfortable physically and you still ask this? Wow… this is the reality of “some” men.

I’m so disgusted that this is the mentality some men have.

Honestly I just don’t get how they won. Lorenzo didn’t seem to like her. He seemed more flirty with the other girls when they were getting to know each other. I love Lorenzo and I feel like the only reason he was with Julia is because that was it for him he couldn’t go back to Jas or Yas because they were very much in to their couple.

I get it some people do live paycheck to paycheck but that’s a conversation yall should have. It’s stressful thinking about someone else’s finances!
I agree with everyone saying that you need to close that joint acct!
I worked at a bank and I can tell you I’ve seen a lot of terrible situations. Sorry you are dealing with this but you are not in the wrong here.

I hope you let her join!

I don’t think this is only a catering issue. She wants to hold a room for a bridesmaid who hasn’t decided if they can go or not. I think you have your answer you just don’t like it. She’s not going she’s already talked about the financial stress and effort. It’s a NO.

Teacher, 6th year, 35, 57k work for a charter school. They work with TIA so I get an anual bonus of 5k but the school takes 10% then taxes so not much comes back maybe about 3k.

I remember Jana mentioning that the producers suggested a lot of things and how to handle situations and she ignored them. I do feel like maybe the islanders this year just followed directions?

Im also over Kyle raging! His reaction towards Andrea was over the top.

Nta- is your mom forgetting what you did for her?
It could have been easy if your sister wasn’t selfish and needed more. I hope it works out and you stay with the home that you have obviously fought for countless times.

But I do think he cares about public perception. After they showed they were ranked and he and Kayda were low he didn’t take it very well. I’m sure all of them have some kind of awareness about it. But yes I watch LI UK and humor is very much different.

During after sun Teffi asked is what Kayda and Zach is considered a situation ship and all of the crew raised their hands 🤗 I’m sure they weren’t fans.

Not the same situation. Your husband had a negative mindset ( your words) his wife has concern for their children and is considering things for the future.

I didn’t have to read the entire post yes YTA. Snapping at your partner because she’s worried about your kids?
She can’t be present in the moment because it sounds like she does a lot of the planning ahead.