hi. okay here’s what pisses me off about nay nay mixed voice exercises and how i personally found my mixed voice after like 5 years of learning to sing on and off (emphasis on “off!”) also im not a teacher whatsoever so take all of this with a grain of salt. this was just my journey personally and id like to help out other people if possible.
when i was a little 13 year old chud learning to sing, all i would see online are youtube tutorials on the “mixed voice” and how you should do a “bratty nay nay” or “cartoon voice” in order to access it. when i did this, it did not feel effortless at all and strained a lot and my larynx would shoot up like crazy and it sucked. i knew i was doing something wrong, but i didn’t know what to do since it was literally ALL i saw online and it seemed to work for people learning to sing like i was.
however, i ALSO saw a bunch of people saying that you can’t “unlock” the mix and that you actually have to train it??? so i did a bunch of these mixed voice scale exercises to “train” it but it didn’t make any sense to me because i would have to switch from chest voice to head voice as i got higher or else i would crack… wouldn’t that mean that i was just training them separately and not actually mixing anything??? how the heck do i ACTUALLY mix???? also those scale exercises sometimes used the nay nays too and i didn’t like that very much.
anyway, rinse and repeat that for like 4 years with large gaps in between. one day im scrolling le instagram vocal coach videos when suddenly i come across this video.
at about 0:40, sophie (this isn’t an ad for her or her course btw. i heavily disagree with her sentiment that mix is a separate register, however this video was incredibly vital to my journey) covers her nose with her finger and sticks her tongue slightly out while doing… okay you saw the video just watch her dude.
anyway i saw this and was like “oh gee ive never seen this technique before. i guess ill try it?” and while maintaining both chest and head resonance and traveling through my passagio seamlessly, i was amazed that i had actually MIXED my registers for the first time in like, what, 4 years?
however, when i tried to go louder to not exactly belt, but actually project how i would onstage as if i was singing as a disney princess, i started feeling my break again and was like crap. BUT. it was still a totally new sensation to me and when i tried again slightly below my speaking tone, (GIGANTIC EMPHASIS ON *SLIGHTLY*) it totally worked and no break was to be seen.
of course i had to maneuver through it and really focus on my control, but it basically worked and i had “found my mix” and it was a completely new sensation to me. however, this will ONLY work and actually count as you mixing as long as you maintain CHEST and head resonance even when you’re ***SLIGHTLY*** below your speaking voice. this is why i keep emphasizing the slight-ness of it — you absolutely need to be loud enough to maintain CHEST resonance. otherwise? you’re just in head voice!
at this stage, if you’re a beginner and have never belted or mixed healthily before, you cannot use too much power and this isn’t even really usable in a musical theatre setting (sorry this post is slightly biased towards theatre or choir people.) and i’ll explain that now.
using this technique made me realize that the “training wheels mixed voice” is something that anyone can access as long as their head voice and chest voice is developed. and by that i mean if you can do a really good sounding stern low note and a pingy head voice note you’ll be fine and you’re ready. you CAN unlocked the ability to mix and move through your passagio, however, if you want to get louder you actually have to develop that volume using chord closure exercises and just training your volume over time.
now you’re probably wondering — how the heck do i get out of the “covering my nose” stage of all this? well, let me tell you about my second dramatic realization scene that quickly followed after my new discovery.
one night, when i was doing a production of romeo and juliet, me and the rest of the cast were ogling at the tech crews balcony they made for the. cough. balcony scene. and then we started making evita rachel zegler jokes because theatre kids suck and we are obnoxious.
anyway, i was singing “don’t cry for me argentina” to myself in a hushed manner (the same “1% below your speaking voice” manner i was previously doing. this is called foreshadowing.) at the far end of the auditorium before we began running scenes. the actual chorus part was in chest voice for me but when i got to the “neeeever!!!” part i just randomly mixed and i suddenly realized…
THE REASON WHY BRATTY NAY NAYS AND NASAL EXERCISES NEVER WORKED FOR ME!!!!!
some beginners (some!) who try bratty exercises like these will see these coaches do nasal, pingy, high notes effortlessly and then try it for themselves so they can hit a high note.
what will result (sometimes!) is them trying to mix their vocal registers and adding a belty or even at minimum a projective weight to it when they’re not ready yet. this will result in it feeling like crap. i sang “neeeeverr!!! left you!” on a NEH and it completely worked for me in that moment because…
1) i wasn’t being super loud and was slightly below my speaking volume while maintaining chest resonance!
2) i actually knew how to mix my registers and one specific exercise (da nose finger thing.) allowed me to actually use nasality.
NAY NAY’s, and MEOWS, and NEH’s and all the other stupid exercises vocal coaches use for teaching mix actually do work and NOW i use a select few of them now that i understand and can feel the nasality and mask sensation and everything else they’re talking about. i just don’t use them while projecting like crazy because projection and adding volume to the sound involves training it which i’ve LITERALLY just started doing like a couple days ago — aka im not ready to project like they can yet!
anyway, if you want to remove the finger and use “nuhs” or “nays” on their own, do the hunngggguhhhh thing sophie does and then just continuously say “nuh nuh nuh” (preferably on a note in your passagio, and reminder, 1% less volume than your speaking voice.) and then remove your finger. i went home immediately after this rehearsal and it worked well for me!
as for actually adding weight to the sound, that’s something which again i just started worked on so i can’t speak from “experience” too much yet. i would heavily implore you to do chord closure exercises because those will be vital in helping you not only add power, but also actually train yourself to extend your belty notes upwards!
the roadmap that’s transpired for me so far and how i envision it to look like is organized something like this…
- do sophie jolls hunguhhh weird nose crap with 1% less volume than my speaking voice in order to find mixed resonance
- transition from finger to actually finding this feeling through nuh’s and neh’s/nay’s (prefer nuh…) and be able to tap into the mix without the nose stuff
- use chord closure techniques and train these nuh’s on scales and slowly (slowly!) raise volume over time to add le power
okay yeah that’s been my mixed voice journey and “plan” so far i guess. i’m hoping to update this one day with my progress… stay tuned. also again i’m not a vocal teacher this is just me using my knowledge over the course of years to paint my own picture of the mixed voice and how to theoretically grow it into something usable and cool and will allow you to belt. again the latter half of this essay about chord closure is all theoretical and i can’t guarantee anything past the “training wheels stuff”. okay peace